Relationship can be very tricky. First of all you started dating this guy, everything was rosy and sweet, he calls you everyday, takes good care of you, buys you gifts.
Everything was just so great until suddenly he stops, the phone calls drops, it takes him forever to reply your text.
You have complained and they promised you that nothing is wrong, you have tried to wave it off but you just couldn’t.
Well most times it’s usually because they suddenly got busy with work, or maybe something came up at home that they are trying to take care of.
Whatever the case may be, if he is loosing interest, there are obvious signs that you should look out for.
1: YOU SO MUCH FEEL IT IN YOUR GUT
There is a strong unease about something. This is not typical of you, yet you feel insecure and unsure of yourself. You wonder why he would do that.
It’s a solid indication he’s losing interest if you’re pondering, analyzing, and asking your friends’ opinions about his actions.
When a man really likes you and still interested in you, you would see it, If you have to ask yourself that question, the likelihood of him still liking you is low.
2: YOU ARE ALWAYS THE ONE INITIATING EVERYTHING
let’s face it, at first he was always the one calling you up, planning dates , but suddenly it feels like you would have to complain before they do.
You always the one calling, it takes them forever to reply your text or even pick up your calls, and when they do, they always have excuses to back it up and never feel sorry about it.
I mean what does it matter? If You want to leave, leave!
This is a clear sign that he is no longer interested in you. When a man really loves you, you won’t have to ask for things such as calls and dates, it Will never take them forever to reply you, calling you? Fixing up dates? Everything comes effortlessly .
3: HIS BODY LANGUAGE CHANGES
Someone who likes you will show it all over, from their gaze to the angle of their feet.
Around a lady he likes, a guy behaves differently. He looks at her intently, leans closer, and positions his body so that it is squarely in front of her; tense energy may cause him to become a little shifty. If he stops performing these things and instead moves his body away from you, stops staring at you, is tight around you, or stops sitting close to you, it suggests he no longer cares about you.
Him not flirting with you is a further indication. He merely treats you somewhat similarly to everyone else.
If you have noticed any of these signs, i would advice you call them up and have a talk with them, if after having this conversation and you still didn’t see any change, then you know it’s time to let go and focus on yourself and your life.
Love shouldn’t be chased, it shouldn’t be hard, it shouldn’t be painful. If you cry more than you are happy in your relationship, you are obviously dating the wrong person.
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