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8 reasons: romantic words are important

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ways romantic words can influence your home

Being romantic plus using romantic words has been one of the

relationship issues that is being very contentious from both

religious fanatics and people of the secular world.

Romance however has being embraced by the secular world more

than the people of church circle.

Most Christians are of the opinion that being romantic is

synonymous to being worldly  which means that being romantic

or using romantic words is not biblical. Can that be true?

Romance is one of the basic ingredients that spurs or lubricates a

love relationship well  and is expected of every partner in such

relationship.

As a principle it is necessary to learn and adapt to romantic

lifestyles for emotional stability in love relationships.

People in Other forms of relationship need not get romantic to

keep it stable.

The truth is, romance is a spice that has kept a lot of marriages

from breaking. Any marriage that is not romantic is at the verge

of breaking or better still is 80% fail and divorce is eminent

unless an immediate action is taken on time on the positive

direction.

Once your partner starts behaving as your roommate just know

that something is wrong, that something that was there has

disappeared. Try finding out what that is and you both get it fix

immediately.

Even if it demands going out for a romantic dinner at new

locations.

THINGS THAT DESTROY A MARRIAGE

Many homes and marriages today are destroyed  not because the

partners were not made for each other or that their background is

the worst?

But many are destroyed and ruined today because of the negative

changes that evolved in the process of adjusting to the effect of

their new chapter in life called marriage.

These are as followed:

  1. Sudden Changes in Lifestyle
  2. Dressing and appearance
  3. Circle of friends
  4. Avoiding responsibilities
  5. Lack of mutual Respect
  6. Self Comparison with others
  7. Lack of frequent communication

Sudden Changes in Lifestyle: When the changes in your

lifestyle such as the way you live, talk, your sense of courtesy

and reasoning is nothing to write home about, you freak him/her

out any time you open your mouth to speak.

When you’re no more careful of your choice of words towards

your spouse, which are mostly provocative. You react and

capitalize on every single mistake that occurs in the house, from

your spouse, kids, or maids etc. And most time s/he may choose

to keep mute or dress up and step out for a walk.

Please note by this action you are indirectly driving your partner

out of your home, and your life.

Dressing and Appearance: You are married, so what else is it

you want more than a responsible life which is mostly reflective in

your choice of dressing? No you already have a man/woman so

don’t let your external dress code be provocative, inviting and

explosive rather dress smart and sharp, while paying attention to

the styles that matches your body physique and colors that

matches your complexion.

For the ladies, its not once you are married, you  join the Married

Women Dressing Committee (MWDC) to start dressing to cover

from your head to your feet, while he is still young and fresh.

Do you want to hear the truth?

“He is seeing you as an elderly woman, not a young lady he

married and that’s the truth.” dress in a way that he will start

composing  his own romantic words mend looking at you, without

looking through a love text message app to compose

You are losing value and you need to work on it fast before he

starts looking outside.

your dressing has a lot to do with the romance in your married. so learn to dress to romance your husband.

advantage is that, it will help him to look back home because his wife can dress.

Circle of Friends: it is not good to be a married woman/man and

still keep people who knows nothing about building a home as

your friends and expect to have a happy home. That’s an irony

What advise can they offer when you are troubled in your

relationship with your spouse?

They will not tell you to go back to your spouse and sort things

out rather they will be more comfortable having you sit out with

them even if its 11pm.

So I ask” is that the kind of friends married people or soon to be

couple should keep?

Please keep friends that are responsibly married to their spouse.

Avoiding Responsibilities: You cooked for him anytime you

visited him/ you bought gifts and card, phone alerts every now

and then during your courtship but after wedding, you got a

house help, you became madam/Sir,

you no longer cook his meal, wash his clothes/ no more special

gifts and alerts for your spouse. The bed room you and your

spouse sleeps on is done by the house help.

Everything done in the house is done by the house maid including

taking care of your spouse stomach etc.

should I advise you?

One day, the house help will also take care of your spouse’s

needs in the bed.

So make yourself available for your spouse’s need at home. Don’t

work around with the title Married man/woman without doing

your duty as a married person at home.

Women like anything alerts be it credit or airtime alerts, so

continue doing what you started and even do more

Lack of Respect: One thing you need to know is that women

needs all the attention that they can get and men need all the

respect they can get in their relationships

When you and your spouse starts acting the opposite. If he says

yes, you say No, you don’t do anything s/he says nor listen to

him/her for once, you are simply washing off the savour in your

marriage relationship.

Please there is a great need for mutual respect, if your

relationship must work.

Like commonly said “action speaks louder than words” ladies

should allow their husbands to be the head of the home and their

opinion respected despite their financial status. Respect should be

seen the more in your actions towards each other.

Comparison: If you want a happy and romantic home, never

compare your spouse nor your home with your neighbor’s or your

friend’s spouse/home openly nor secretly.

N/B another person’s home will always remain another person’s

home and your home is your home. Try and set your home well

both with prayers and make it work.

Men hates comparison while some ladies may tolerate it some

may not as their male counterparts.

Are we communicating?

Lack of Communication:  Do you know that once you and your

spouse stops expressing your thought/feelings to one another

maybe through romantic words, play etc

that’s how your home starts getting scattered?

When you two knows nothing about each other, that’s how you

become a stranger to each other in your home.

Communication and prayer Is the key every home should not

misplace no matter the situation.

To have a good relationship with your spouse, you need

communication in order to get to know and understand each

other properly.

No home nor relationship survives without communication,

especially long distance relationship.

There must always be a means of communication that connects

you two together.

Work on yourself, don’t bring in a third party into every small

issue that occur in your home.

N/B There is no home that doesn’t have nor face challenges.

How you handle it is what really matters.

THINGS EVERY MARRIAGE NEEDS apart from romantic words are:

PRAYER

COMMUNICATION

FRIENDSHIP

ROMANCE

LOVE EXPRESSION

FUN

RESPECT

ORDERLINESS

DISCIPLINE

HOME PRIVACY

ABSENCE OF THIRD PARTY

ABSENCE OF UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS

ABSENCE OF COMPARISON

GOOD DRESSING SENSE

COORDINATION

ABSENCE OF TOO MUCH FRIENDS

UNDERSTANDING

TRUST

NO RESTRICTION OF SECRETS FROM EACH OTHER

BACKUP BOTH IN PUBLIC OR YOUR SPOUSE

THINGS TO AVOID

LIES

ABUSES

CLUBING EXCEPT WITH YOUR SPOUSE

IRRITATING LIFE STYLE

REDUCE YOUR DRINKING HABIT

TRYING TO ALWAYS HAVE THE FINAL SAY

BEING BOSSY

HARSH

DISCRIMINATION BE IT PUBLICLY OR PRIVATELY

LAZINESS

IRRESPONSIBLE

BAD COACHING

so learn to use romantic words with your spouse and spice up the romance in your home.

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