Sometimes times marrying the wrong wife can be very frustrating especially if she is an arrogant, disrespectful, and understanding woman. No matter what you do to make the marriage successful she also renders your plans useless, In such situations, the only way out is to go for a divorce and gain your freedom we @ Relationship Network do not support divorce but when a marriage becomes a frustrating one the only way out is to go for a divorce being in a frustrating marriage with an understanding wife is a big risk as its place treats to one’s life and freedom.
Getting a divorce from a troublesome woman can be very difficult especially if you don’t know the right steps
How to tell your wife you want a divorce
in getting a divorce from your wife you don’t really need to open your mouth and ask her for it your attitude and action will help you do that the following are some ways you can use to let your wife know you want a divorce,
1. Be prepared for anger :
If you want a divorce from your wife one of the ways of doing it, Is to be always prepared for anger, Any little mistake she makes, you should shout, yell at her or not even eat her food for weeks. This will make her feel you are no longer happy with her, If you continue with such actions for a long period of time she will understand that you are faded up of the marriage and what you need is a divorce, She can even file for a divorce when she gets tired of you to, or you can do it your self once you see she is also fade up of your actions
2. Maintain Boundaries :
Another way of indirectly telling your wife you need a divorce is to start maintaining boundaries, for example, if you are not the kind of person that keeps late night you should start by keeping late night, and when she asks the reason you can aggressively throw a reason, the fastest way of maintaining boundaries that will send a fast signal to your wife that you need a divorce is to decide not to sleep in a marital room and start sleeping in the boys quarters or on the couch in the sitting room this action alone will send a fast signal to your wife that you need a divorce she might file for it or let you do it your self-control
3. Plan What to Say :
If you are showing your wife a certain attitude that indirectly speaks that you need a divorce, One of the things that you need to be very conscious of is to always plan what to say whenever she throws an argument against your recent behavior always find a silly excuse you can use to defend your self, or when she calls a family meeting to compliant of your attitude to try as much as possible to find a fault in her and use it as your defense once she is tired of you she will get your message clearly that what you want is a divorce she can file for it or let you do the job your self
4. Not showing gratitude :
Another fast way of telling your wife you need a divorce is not showing gratitude no matter what she tries to do just to make you happy try never to appreciate her this will make her furious with you and might want to do something crazy from there you can find a silly excuse against her and shoot your shot
5. Making silly mistakes :
Another way of sending a divorce signal to your wife is by constantly making silly mistakes that will agitate and make her angry
some silly mistakes that you can put on are
i. intentionally burn her favorite cloth when ironing
ii. intentionally take her car out when you know she needs the card for an urgent assignment
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iii. Intentionally changes the TV channels when she is watching her favorite movie e.t.c. . .
As silly as this might sound it will make her very angry and if she is not a patient wife she might retaliate with some silly action that you can use against her
The fastest way of telling your wife you want a divorce
1. Pretend as if you are having an external affair :
This is the fastest way of telling your wife you want a divorce. Because women also get agitated whenever they find out that their husbands are having an extramarital affair, once they noticed such the first thing that comes to their mind is to file for a divorce because they can’t stand the presence of another woman In their marriage so if you have tried the other steps we have mentioned above, and you see that your wife isn’t moved to ask for a divorce then you can try this one it works like magic.
But before trying all these steps to get your wife divorced make sure you must have consulted a marriage counselor to see how you can fix your marriage, After consulting a counselor and the issue still remains a threat to your life, freedom, and happiness then you can go ahead with the above-mentioned step and get your wife divorce
Conclusion
Divorce isn’t a good thing and we @ Relationship Network are not supporting the act of divorce but when a marriage reaches a situation where it becomes a threat to one’s life, freedom, or happiness we think the only way out is a divorce that why we have presented you with some steps in sending a fast signal to your wife when you need to divorce the above-mentioned steps and guide are not meant for men alone women too can use such steps as well in getting a divorce from their troublesome husband.
Finally, before signing your mind to go for divorce make sure you have run a proper test on how your actions will affect your life, that of your spouse, children, and your family at large if it negatives percent is higher than the positive we will advise you seat down with your spouse and iron the issue on ground amicable. Remember marriage is not always a bed of roses it comes with its ups and downs and whatever situation we find ourselves in we should always try to make peace.
Remember the quote by, the late prophet TB Joshua which says ” Let love lead
