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10 signs you’re falling in love with someone

March 10, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

signs you’re falling in love

Do you know that most people do fall in love with someone while they are still just friends without even knowing? It is their fault that they don’t know? Of course is not, the only issue is that signs you’re falling in love was just hanging around but they never read it.

falling in love is something that we can’t control. most times, it just happens with this, sometimes, we just can’t explain.

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Note this: Falling in love is not a bad thing, perhaps, it is a beautiful thing, but who you are falling for, is what matters the most. so when you falling for someone, ensure that it’s the person your heart says you should love.

But before we look at the signs you’re falling in love, let’s, first of all, look at what falling in love means.

Falling in love: This is the process whereby someone starts developing emotional feelings for someone either knowingly or unknowingly to the person.

Now we know what it means, let’s see the signs you’re falling in love;

1 You smile at the person regularly: One thing you can hide from your friends or colleague is when you develop feelings for someone. No matter how you want to hide it and pretend that you are not falling for the person, you can’t hide it from others.

And one of the things that expose you to your friends is your smile. When you are falling in love with someone, you will see yourself smiling at the person anytime you have eye contact with each other.

Love has a kind of wind that blows to you that you can’t resist.

2 You defend the person at all times: Have you ever stood up against your friends just for a lady or a man before? then you are in love/crushing on the person.

Someone who is in love with you or who is secretly crushing on you will not be able to sit and watch someone or people bullying you without rising for you.

3 The person fills your thought: When you are falling for someone, there is a possibility that you will not be able to think straight all because you keep hearing his voice on your ear, whenever you want to close your eye, you keep seeing her or him.

Stop asking yourself what is going on with you, because you are falling in love with the person.

4 You enjoy his chats/calls: Sometimes ago, you two used to chat for maybe 20 minutes only, but now, you can chat with the person even from morning to night, you are not tired nor feel like chatting with someone else. That’s love.

5 Low Appetite: Have you felt like being with someone on the phone, or face to face is better than getting into the kitchen to get something to eat? Is not laziness, is the love magic that is working.

You are in love with the person in a way that you don’t want to miss any chance of having a chat with him or her. so you can skip food just to be with the person.

6 Joy Overflow: Love brings peace, joy, and happiness into everyone’s life. having someone that loves you just as you love them, is something that even money cannot give you that.

7 Your Heartbeats faster: People’s hearts do not beat fast by just seeing or talking with someone except they are in shock. but when you feel your heart beating as if it going to fall off, just know that you are medically okay.

It is just your heart desiring for something so serious.

8 You become motivated: one of the signs you’re falling in love is that when this takes place in your heart, you will see yourself being ready to put any idea into action without wasting time.

You just feel like a big responsibility has been added to you that you have to ensure that you become productive.

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9 Seeing him becomes your priority: It is said “where your heart is, that’s where your treasure is”. You can’t say you love someone if they are not also your priority, that’s which you just can’t stay a day without seeing him or her and then still feel comfortable.

10 He has a big space in your heart: You can’t give someone a bigger space in your life just like that except you are in falling in love with the person.

No matter how much you love your friends, they can never fill all the space in your heart. but when one person among your friends, start occupying those space more than other friends of yours, you start seeing yourself feeling even more comfortable with just his or her company,

then it is one of the signs you’re falling in love with that your friend.

So if you ever had any of those feelings, just know that you are feeling in love with someone.

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6 signs of emotionally unavailable in a person you need to know

March 8, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

signs of emotionally unavailable in a person

It is one sweet thing for you to be in love with someone and the person in return is in love with you too. but it hurts when you are the only one in love with the person yet the person is completely emotionally unavailable with you.

For someone to be emotionally unavailable, it means that the person is not completely in love with someone. because someone can only be available for you if they are in love with you.

Someone who is emotionally unavailable in a relationship is someone who is not ready to share his or her feelings with you, and no matter how much you love the person, she can’t love you in return except she starts opening up to you.

after all these, how do you know nor detect when someone is emotionally unavailable with you:

The truth is that, there is always a sign and down here are few signs:

1 You are invisible: Someone who is in love with you will always notice you, your presence, your dressing, etc.

When you are invisible to someone, you cannot be appreciated no matter what you do for them or to please them, and you don’t have to blame them because it is not their fault.

The only thing is that they are not emotionally available for you. that’s their heart is far from you.

2 They don’t play as a team: relationship or marriage includes two persons, and that means that the two persons have to perform as a team if they really want to succeed.

But when your partner does not care about your own ideas or contribution to anything done in the house, it means that he or she is emotionally unavailable in that relationship.

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3 Full of excuses: You are tired of everything, day excuses over one thing or the other day by day. It is not their fault, they just don’t know how to open up and tell you things the way there are.

So to avoid breaking your heart, they decided to be using excuses to cover up just so you won’t suspect anything.

4 Distance: Being physically distant from your partner is different from being emotionally distant from him or her.

Although they are some persons that do not welcome long distance in a relationship but emotionally unavailable is different from sight unavailability.

Spicing up your home or relationship will help bring back the emotions that were once there, that’s if it is not long gone.

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5 Not Ready To Commit: Someone who is not emotionally available to you, will never commit to you even if you shower them with gifts except there is another motive behind it.

But note this, no matter what the motive might be, and they decided to use that to fake the commitment, just wait and see that it won’t last because the person will start cheating on you with someone that he or she is in love with.

What are the causes of emotionally unavailability

Most times this does not happen because we want it to happen, but it just happens.

It can be caused by fear, yeah, someone who has been hurt before by someone will be very careful to commit again to another person to avoid being hurt again.

And in the result of that, becomes unavailable.

A business mindset is another main reason why some career men and women do not like to commit because for them to commit, it means that they will have to drop somethings.

And that kind of change? they are not ready, with this, they ensure they don’t put their hearts into the relationship thereby causing them to be emotionally unavailable in someone they are with.

8 signs with the meaning of dating and being in love

November 20, 2023October 21, 2023 by Joy Ekpouko

MEANING OF DATING AND BEING IN LOVE

The meaning of dating and being in love is what many young people do confuse themselves with.

Dating someone does not mean that you are being in love with the person. You can still choose to date someone for financial assistance, family promises, or to feel among your peer group.

Some date because they want to be popular.

Those are all dating.

when you know the meaning of dating and understand the difference between dating and being in love then it will be so easy for you to understand when your heart is triggered for love but not for want.

Meaning of dating: dating is the process of getting to know a specific person and also creating an attachment with the person.

Dating is the time and space in which you established with the hope of finding something special in a person in other to create commitment.

But if you still don’t know where you belong because you are confused, then check the signs below.

BEING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE: Means having a strong feeling of deep affection for somebody.

It may be at first sight or along the long process, of sharing something serious. With the picture of the future together,

Note this meaning of dating

MEANING OF DATING: It’s the process of trying to create an intimacy with someone (trial and error).

It means that dating may not be something serious, but it can be just a relationship without the picture of having a future together, but just a moment together.

SIGNS OF KNOWING IF YOU ARE BEING IN LOVE includes;

happy multiethnic couple embracing on snowy road — Photo by jasmin chew on Pexels.com

You are attracted to the person: You can’t love someone you are not attracted to no matter how much you try. So attraction is the first magic of being in love.
You love almost everything about the person: most times people happen to be in love even without knowing it from the very start therefore at times, it takes them months, years, etc before they discover.

He or she is not the only nice person around you, but he or she is the only one that is perfect around you.

You are jealous when you see him/her having fun with the opposite sex. You feel like it supposes to be you and not the other person.

The truth is that no matter how you want to run away from it or denied that you are not being in love with the person,

You see yourself thinking of the person even when you don’t want to, but you can’t help it.
You smile or freak anytime you see the person or just hearing the person’s name or voice: Yeah, this one is the most common symptom of being in love.

Have you ever had a crush on your boss or colleague before? If you have, you will get to understand how frustrating that can ever be. freaking in front of him or her especially when he is talking or smiling with people, and you staying from afar to imagine the smile etc. haha

When you crush or you are in love with someone, you end up seeing yourself smiling at the person even when the person has not even noticed you just yet.

When you miss him/her even with the person or a minute after departing from each other may be on phone, chat, face to face hanging out, etc: You just want to be with her or him at all times, you just can’t take him off your head. That’s all because you are in love with the person most than you can tell.

SIGNS THAT YOU ARE DATING SOMEONE BUT YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON includes;

Although dating someone from the start before being in love with the person can still work but it will take a lot of work either from your end or from your partners end, to establish the love.

loving ethnic girlfriend hugging boyfriend while standing together on sunny day — Photo by William Fortunato on Pexels.com

So these are the few points that can easily tell you if you are in love with someone or if someone is in love with you.

No missing/phone calls: If you can stay a whole day or week without missing him/her because he or she hasn’t crossed your mind for a minute. It doesn’t even look like the person exists in your life.
Excuses: you turn down his/her request of hanging out together by giving some unnecessary excuses all time. If you love someone that you are dating, excuses will not be necessary because even you want to hang out with him or her as much as he wants to also.
Just a friend: You present him to your friends as “is just my friend” especially in the person’s absence.

Being ashamed to tell your friends about your partner, simply mean that you are not sure or proud to have him or her in your life, therefore to avoid your friends from talking or laughing at you, you decided to introduce him to them as just a friend of yours.

Irritation: almost everything your partner does irritate you. When you are in love with someone, you will love if not everything about them but at least 60, 70% of everything about them. Therefore give no room to irritation.
Disturbance: you ignore his /her calls sometimes because you see it as a disturbance/distraction. Calls at times means that the person cares and also thinks about you which means you crossed someone heart at a certain point in time.
Absence of jealousy: you are not jealous even if you see him/her with someone else.
Breakup: always looking for faults to use as a reason for a breakup.
Feelings: you see yourself being attracted to someone else, you start developing feelings for that person while you are still dating another person.

N/B love makes you to do the unthinkable most time. It can make you cry, smiles etc.

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