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“Training me through school doesn’t mean I will marry you” — Lady tells partner

April 21, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A young Nigerian Lady has explained why she won’t settle with her partner even after sponsoring her in school.

The lady revealed in a video making rounds on the internet that her boyfriend should not expect marriage as a compensation for seeing her through school .

She noted that she faced a lot of humiliation in the hands of her partner’s family who only viewed her as a leech.

Her statement, however didn’t sit well with alot of people, and netizens have flooded the comment section to express their displeasure.

One Ahaflifestyle said: “your reasons are valid but you for no collect the sch fees nah since you don see the type of family him get.chop and clean mouth no dey work again oo.”

Alexpaulnedu said: “But they didn’t have the agreement that training in school will lead to marriage na … So Darlington next time, get a lawyer and have a written agreement. And please node train who no like you. Thanks…. Also, please did your mom say you can’t marry who has no parents because I know things like that is a thing for some parents.”

SmoothtalkerLamba wrote: “Lesson learnt, men be wise… do it as charity and not having anything else in mind. We have women who see your efforts and help as their rights! Thanks.”

My Four Children Belongs To My Father In Law – Lady reveals shocking secret

March 30, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

An anonymous woman has shared the significant information she had been holding from her spouse for years.

She claims that her marriage to her husband of eight years has produced four children. Regrettably, because they are all the children of her father-in-law.

Her husband’s children are not biologically his.

She claimed that after getting married, her spouse had urgently desired kids but couldn’t reproduce.

Knowing this, she had a covert premarital affair with her father-in-law, giving birth to their four children.

She wrote:

“I have been with my husband for 8 years. We have 4 children but none of them are his. They are for his father, my father-in-law. My husband really wanted children but his father knew he couldn’t reproduce so he put me in on the deal not to disappoint the son. His father passed away 2 weeks ago & now the secret is weighing so heavily on me. Should i reveal it or not?”

“I met him with another woman,now he is angry that I didn’t fight for him” Lady recounts

March 15, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A 25-year-old Nigerian woman has spoken up about how she provided for her boyfriend,only for him to repay her by first cheating on her and humiliating her.

The lady by name Nancy stated that they dated for four years before he was involved in an accident that landed him in the hospital for ten months in 2021.

During that time, she took care of him and quit her job to work as an office assistant closer to the hospital. He was able to walk again after eight months, and luckily for her, there was a lucrative job offer that she took.

Unfortunately, it had an impact on their relationship, and she was no longer as available as she had been owing to the nature of her present employment.

Nancy stated that when she went to see him one fateful day to give him medication, she observed another lady in his residence but did not cause quarrel or question her.

She departed with no problems, but the next day, much to her surprise, he came to her house and yelled at her for not fighting for him.

She wrote:

“I’ve been dating this guy for 4yrs (or so I thought), he got to an accident 2021 & was hospitalised for 10months till he can be treated at home. I left my job and took an Office Assistant job near the hospital so I could be near him since both his parents are dead and his sister is married.

“It took him 8 months to be able to walk on his own, so fast forward, I got a high paying job & I took it coz I have a life to live also and I’ve got siblings and bills so I wasn’t around much after being a caregiver for over a year and thank God he’s able to do stuffs himself. 2days ago was his refill for medication so I went to deliver it before going home, got there, knocked but the door was locked which is normal, went through the kitchen door and it wasn’t, got in he has a visitor so I waited till they are done.

“This lady came out in my shorts/shirt and screamed upon seeing me, he came out, shocked, I hand over the medication and left. To my surprise, he showed up yesterday by 6am during our morning devotion (I stay in a 3bedroom flat with 4 other girls), embarrassed me in front of people that knows nothing about my private life shouting that I should have said something, beat the girl or him, destroy thing if I really loved him, that girls that their guys usually causes trouble. I’m a step from doing something really bad to him and I’m tryna be calm but I think I’m loosing my mind.”