9 signs he wants you in his future that will make you love him even more

signs he wants you in his future

signs he wants you in his future or signs he wants to marry you are very simple but complicated if you don’t have patience.

 

If you are truly into a man, all you will be hoping for is for him to say one day,” will you marry me” and

with that kind of feeling, you can’t wait to be his Mrs. lol

But at times you discover that it is only you that feels that way while he feels different things complete

but doesn’t worry from today, you are not alone in this, we will share what we know with you.

Here, I will give you some points that show that he feels the same way about you.

And also a future with you.

SIGNS HE WANTS YOU IN HIS FUTURE

signs he wants you in his future
  1. INTRODUCTION: A man who is in love with you and wants to spend his life with you will not be

scared or ashamed to introduce you in public as his woman but not his friend to his close friends.

this act is a simple and direct sign he wants to marry you someday.

 

2. HE PRAISES YOU: A man who knows what he wants will never stop praising you in the secret and

in the open making you feel like the only woman in the world. Once you occupy his thought, no

other woman matters to him. If tempted because of dressing, he just ends up transforming you

to his taste.

3. YOUR OPINION COUNTS: It is obvious that only a few men listen to the opinion of a woman not to

talk of asking for their opinion. So if your man tells you about anything important and therefore

end up asking you for your own opinion, don’t misuse the opportunity because it shows that he

values you and he wants a future with you.

 

So this is an opportunity you don’t want to miss for anything in the world. See also: SIGNS THAT YOU ARE GETTING DUMPED

 

4. HIS PLANS: Men can be so secretive especially when it comes to their future plans. They think that

if they tell a woman about their plans that a woman will stick with them even if she didn’t want to

but because of the secret he shared about his life plans. So if a man includes you in his plans and

also opens up to you in other to plan it together, he is planning a future with you.

 

 

5. HE ASK YOU ABOUT YOUR PLANS: Not all men know that there is value in asking or trying to support their woman’s dreams. A man who wants a future with you will go the extra mile just to see a

smile on your face because he knows that if it works out for you, it will also be in his own favor.

Because you two are one.

 

6. HE VALUES YOUR COMPANY: when a man gives you his time even without doing anything but

you two just stay together maybe playing any kind of game or be chatting with each other constantly without him being bored.

If he finds you interesting. It means he can spend his life with you without getting bored.

 

7. RECOGNITION: When a man loves you and wants to spend his life with you, he recognizes you

even in your absence and in his future plans. Example building of a house, number of children he

wants from you, etc.

 

8. ATTACHMENT: Once a man gets so attached to his family, your friends, your loved ones, etc.

it is a sign that he wants you but also wants to be accepted by your loved ones.

Meaning he is trying to be part of the family.

 

9. NO HIDDEN SECRET: For a man to open up his secrets to you, it means he can trust you, and a

man who trusts you mean that he believes in you, and it can only take a man who wants a

future with you, to trust and believe in you.

 

CLEAN SIGNS HE WANTS A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU

Okay after all been said in knowing the signs he wants a future with you, many ladies still miss out on such opportunities of marrying a great guy because they thought that he or all men are the same.

 

Especially if all the guys you have dated in the past came as gentlemen but turn out to be the opposite of what you pictured in your heart about the relationship already. so here are some signs…

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  1. A man who comes to you for something serious, will not beat you around the bush.
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2. He won’t fake his life.

 

3. He won’t pretend to be happy while things are not cool between you both just to make you happy.

 

4. A man who loves you will like to tell you the truth no matter how you react to it, he is ready to accept it as faith.

 

 5. He tells you almost all about his passion.

 

6. He is not over secretive.. Not because he truth you so much but because he doesn’t want to start his relationship with secrets and lies.

 

7. He is not doing fine boy instead he rises up as a man to hustle to ensure that he takes care of your needs in any small way he can.

Casual Dating Vs Serious Dating

8. He does not act as if he cares instead he shows that he cares a lot about you

 

9. He comes as a friend before initiating a relationship.

 

Note: that friendship was like saying school assessment… lol

10. He tries making you one of his priorities over other things.

 

11. He is not ashamed of you.

 

12. He stands by you.

 

13. A man who comes to date you will just fight for you but not with you. but a man who is serious with you will fight not just for you but will fight with you.

 

14. He appreciates you almost at all times.

 

What do you think about your man? do you see any signs he wants to marry you? Or has he said to you”please let me marry you? Can you share…

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10 SIGNS HE LOVES YOU MORE DEEPLY THAN YOU EVER KNOW

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 SIGNS HE LOVES YOU SO DEEPLY

He loves me so much, he checks up on me at all times, he is a nice guy, etc the question is, does he believe in you? How does he behave when you are with a male colleague? What about his friends?? When he believes in you, that’s a sign he loves you. What do I mean?

Love generates trust and trust generates belief and therefore belief brings forth understanding.

The best gift a man can give to you as his woman is to love you from his heart. Because when he does, insecurity and negativity give way for faithfulness and understanding to set in.

Quote me anywhere, “No home can stand a test of time if there is no belief and understanding.

One of the signs he loves you is that he believes in you and that  does not only have to do with romance kind of belief only but also

1. Your dreams.  A man who loves you and also wants you in his future will always have an interest in your dreams too and not just that, he will also try to generate a positive vibe to motivate you never to give up.

2.  He believes in your abilities:  A man who loves you will not try to use your weak point against you knowingly to him. Because he knows what you can do, what you can’t do, and what you will never do no matter what pressure it comes with. And that generates trust.

3.  He believes in the future: there are only a few men that can ask you about your plans for the future therefore if you happen to have such a man as a friend or fiance then hold him tight enough because it is also one of the many signs he loves you and cares not only about you of now, but then, you of tomorrow.

4.  He will be excited about your achievements: it is only a few men that feel this way when their women achieve something big.

Men always feel like since they are the head of the family, that they suppose to earn more than the wife nor anyone in the family, not the other way round.

But when it happens in the opposite direction of what they expected, then inferiority complex steps in and plays with their heads, and if care is not taken, they give in, then start using their own hands and jealousy to spoil their homes.

But a man who believes in you even when he’s jealous of you will comfortably invest his time to assist you on your project or profession Because He will always see your success as his success too.

When your wife succeeds, that’s you succeeding. Don’t let the mindset of ” If she earns more than me she won’t respect me again this and that. Because it will spoil your home for you.

They are still many ladies out there who still love and respect their husbands even when she knows very well that she contributes 60-70% of whatever the family needs.

Don’t use what Mr. Paul told you about his woman success behavior turn around and ruin your home. It is your home, your family, not Mr. Paul’s family.

So never compare your woman and you as a woman never compare your man to your friend’s husband or your EX. He is your ex because he wasn’t good enough to be in your present life so let him/her remain in the ex-world.

All home/women can’t be the same. Celebrate your woman’s accomplishment as well as she celebrates yours. You can’t harvest what you never investing no matter how she pretends one day she will be tired of it. So appreciate what you have don’t wait until you lose it.

5. A man who believes in you will not doubt your faithfulness: yea things happen which makes it hard for people to easily trust, but I want to ask ” why did you even marry her or him when you knew that you have a trust issue”?

Nothing hurts, like you trying all your possible best to be faithful to your partner yet he or she is still not helping matters due to trust issues.

A home without trust, do not function well, not because you don’t want it to work but because every effort you or your partner makes or puts seems like a waste of time, and effort and time are precious.

So value what you have and try not to scatter your home because you can’t trust someone.

It isn’t a must that you should trust your partner completely, but at least try because apart from saving your home, it will also help you in many ways like;

1. No high blood pressure

2. Peaceful siesta (a peaceful siesta is a nag that you take in the afternoon without thinking of how many ladies your man has touched or collected contacts from today.

3. Your kid’s health. one thing we ladies need to know is that the more you doubt your man and be fighting every day, hurts your kid’s health, emotion, spiritual life, Academy, social life, etc.  

Your kids should be one of your priorities when dealing with issues.

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6. He Gives You Attention: nothing interests us ladies like our men giving us attention even without asking.  Attention doesn’t mean him not doing anything in a day except sitting down at home to give a chat with you.

But attention in the area of him asking about your day, health, work, plans, your worries, your stupid jokes, your gossip even when he is not interested in your girls to talk.

7. He Gives You a breathing space:  there is a difference between insecurity and showing that you want someone.

You can still show that you want your partner without giving them the impression that you are feeling insecure.

If your man still lets you have some moment to yourself to sit with friends, communicate with other people even with the opposite sex without checking on you every minute to know if you are laughing with other guys.

It simply means that he believes you thereby trusting you that no matter who you chat with or sit with, you only belong to him and that he is not sharing you with any other man.

And that’s a sign he loves you.

8.  He Speaks For You:  anything or anyone that you believe in is worth protecting. So don’t be so blind that you don’t decode that he loves you even if he receives a slap or gets bullied because of you.

9. He smiles at you: so smile can be fake but when someone frequently smiles at you, you can always detect when he is showing affection.

There are so many other signs he loves you. But for now, know these first signs he loves you before the intimacy aspect which is coming very soon.

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How To Spice Up Your Marriage In 20 Outstanding Ways

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Tips To Spice Up Your Marriage

  It is one thing to fall in love it is another to fall out of love not because you want that to happen but because the species in the marriage is long gone thereby leaving you and your spouse the chard which cannot and does not have what it takes to help in keeping your home.

Having a wonderful wedding, with VIP’s friends is not the conclusion that your marriage will be wonderful but doing a few things to spice up your marriage after the wedding night can help to sustain your home even when you don’t know the effect of it.

There are so many ways to spice up your marriage but we will go with a few of them for now.

Therefore, How to Do You Spice Up Your Marriage/relationship
Let’s start first with the lady’s aspect but go into the men’s aspect.

1.  Learn How To S*duce Your Husband: being shy in this aspect won’t help you therefore, the earlier you suppressed that shyness, the better for you and your home.

He is your husband so wanting him is not a sin, is a kind of ingredient which is necessary for you to build your marriage.
Make your husband know that you want him just as he wants you. Don’t make him always be the one to make the first move at all times.

Things that can help you s*duce your husband

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1. Wear a s*ductive nightgown that he can’t resist

2. Fresh up by taking your evening bath so has to smell well.

3. Get yourself a nice body perfume.

4. If you are at home with just him, dress in a way that is calling and not using a wrapper around your chest, and be walking around the house like someone without a destination.

5. Use nice and clean under clothing, it is a turn-on. Don’t go and use one kind of outdated undies that will only remind your partner of your financial status.

2. Check upon him: he went to work from 7 a.m till 8:30 pm, no call, no text nothing… No that’s not it, if he is busy, then drop him a short love or a short missing you text message to remind him that someone special is missing him and is waiting patiently to meet him at home after work.

This magic works, try it and see. It is a sign that you love and also want him also.

3. Learn how to cook: a woman who controls a man’s stomach has the power to control his heart. Learning how to cook just because your husband is a nice move. It will be taboo if you are not good in the kitchen and also not good in the bedroom. 

4.  Surprise him with his favorite: knowing your spouse’s likes and dislikes is a big plus to helping the love to grow. But how??

For example, if your husband’s favorite food is a salad, find a day, prepare a salad for him when returning from work, put enough in his plate, serve him if you can even feed him with the first spoon, then do it but ensure that he knows that the night or that period was special and the meal was for him.

Am telling you, the way he will be smiling both in and out can be the same you saw on your wedding night.

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5. Dressing: dress nice that your man can not take his eyes off you even in public. Dress to remind your man that you still have the package and you are still very active. With that, he won’t look outside even if he had the intention to.

As a man:

1.  Be R*mantic: Ladies don’t dress because they just feel like Dressing, they dress because they want to look good for themselves and also for you as their spouse.

Therefore how can you be r*mantic??


There are many ways to be r*mantic but then I will just go with a few.

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1. Your dress sense: don’t make her be the only one trying to look good for you every time try and also reciprocate.
You may not have many clothes but learn how to combine the few you have. Is an additional mark on your physical appearance. If you dress and your partner doesn’t look at you twice, then change that dress because it doesn’t carry the charm of captivation.

2. Phone calls: there is a way you can check on your woman and it doesn’t sound or look like you are feeling insecure.
Call her, text her with little messages reminding her how much you love her. how you value her, how special she is, how lucky you are to have her in your life, and lastly, for now, let her know her worth and position in your life.

Don’t only call her when you are looking for something at home and you want to confirm from her where to find it.

And also don’t only call her when you want her to get something for you or for the house when she is coming back to the house. Try and be r*mantic at least once and see the charm working in your home.

3. Call Her Sweet names: If you love your woman, a name shouldn’t be a problem because you will not be looking for a name to call her since she means everything to you.

Don’t call your woman a name and attach your child’s name to her example, Mummy Samuel, mummy Junior, Mummy P, etc… Call her sweet names that will always make her smile anytime she hears them from you.

Example: My precious, treasure, my queen, baby, Imaima(my love), Akemmi (My own), Darling, sweetheart, my lady, etc.

2. Complement Her: appreciating what you have is a way of showing that you admire her, make her smile in a way that no matter what other men say to her as a compliment will not sound new to her ear why??? Because her darling husband compliments her at all times not only in the b*droom.

3. Dinner Date: yes you are already married. And so what? Take her out frequently, to bring back memories, have fun, chat r*mantically, drop office work for this period and concentrate with her only.

4. Spend Time Together: Spending time together helps in building the bond between you and your partner making it easy for you both to connect both intimately or otherwise.

5. Do Something New Together: spending time with your spouse is one thing and knowing what to do while spending time with him/her is another, therefore make some plans before that faithful day since you are the master planner of the day so create a nice event for the day, if you can’t recall, Jot them down to help you remember every plan you had for the day.

You can cook her favorite if you know it and also know how to cook Which is necessary to know your woman’s favorite.

But if you don’t know how to cook,  well I guess you just found yourself one of the new things you can do together at this time, creating first-time cooking memories in that kitchen is something you can’t forget in a lifetime, etc.

Spice up your marriage so that divorce can be far from your dwelling.

Also, note that the steps given here on how to spice up your marriage can also be used to spice up your relationship.

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