6 positive signs she is into you

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Understanding the Signs she is into you

signs she is into you: It is true that most men do not understand nor notice when a lady is indirectly making a move on them.

No matter how the hand writing is written boldly on the wall, they still don’t get it. with a question mark without understanding the signs she is into you

N/B It is not only men that always develop a chemistry for a lady first.

Most times, ladies do. For a lady not to ask you out, ask for your contact, your name etc first doesn’t

mean that ladies don’t have feelings except a man woo them before the chemistry starts developing.

At times it is because she doesn’t want to be seen as a slut, because in some part of the world, if a lady

ask a guy out or let me say initiate the love affair’s discussion, she will be seen as a cheap prostitute and

with that kind of mentality from most guys, ladies in that part of the world can not initiate nor open up

directly to a man she loves. But instead, she will be sitting and waiting for the day he will make a move

on her and most times, such waiting is in vain.

In this aspect, you can’t blame any of the party because is not their fault because the two parties are in

Love.

But when the man has no knowledge of how the other party feels too, he feels reluctant and without

courage, he can’t initiate the move in which the other party is waiting patiently for.

In this article, you will get to know some common signs you should look out for.. signs she is into you,

  1. ATTENTION: It is not easy to have a lady’s full attention. When I say full attention, I mean

 

undivided attention if she is not into you especially when you two are sitting out.

 

Note: a lady who is just your friend will always react either by smiling, arranging herself etc

 

when another man from the other table is admiring her from his seat. At times without you

 

noticing, she will look for a little act to perform just to send a signal to the other man that there

 

is no attachment between you two than just friends.

 

  1. CHEERFUL: she is always happy being around you, she laughs at every silly jokes that proceed

 

from your mouth be it entertaining or not as long as it is from you. At work, if you are sad or

 

dull, she will be available trying all she could just to make you smile she doesn’t mind doing silly

 

things just for a smile on your face.

 

  1. STARRING: this is the most common part of being into someone that you must always observe

 

but that doesn’t mean that everyone that stares at you is into you lols.

 

Let me explain this. There is how someone stares at you and by you starring back at him/her the

 

reaction on the person’s face changes. It may be a smiling reaction, an angry reaction, a shy reaction,

eyeing reaction etc.

Now this is my point.

“look out for those reactions” and know how and when to arrange your game and step up.

N/B but if is an angry reaction, my brother that’s not love whispering oh that is danger which means

disappear. Take my advice and thank me later. lols

most times, the heart and the eye speaks the same language especially when it comes to reactions.

So learn how to read someone’s face to help you identified a fake smile and the real smile because

both have something attached to it.

  1. PHONE CALLS: most ladies prefer texting to calling. But if she starts calling you like every day

 

morning, afternoon and night not for anything important or business but just to check on you,

 

my brother, you don’t still need a physician or a counselor to examine you then finding out that

 

those are signs she is into you full time.

 

And if you call her, she picks it up immediately. Don’t blame her nor call such desperation.

 

It is the power of love and she can’t help it because all she needs is those three words from you.

 

I LOVE YOU. Which if you don’t look out, it may be too late when you now decide to say it.

 

  1. DOMESTIC: She comes around just to help you with some chores around the house, cook for

 

You, your laundries and at times sits to have some fun, jokes with you.

 

Note: she doesn’t come around to help you because she is jobless nor is she a chef but she

 

comes around so that you could see her and notice her.

 

All she needs Is your attention.

 

  1. DISCUSSION: Once a lady uses a man as the sub heading of their discussion, know that it is

 

either she is in love with you which you are safe OR she dislikes you which is unsafe.

 

She discusses about you with her friends anytime the winds of love blow and for you to know if

 

you are safe, check the reaction of her friends around you. If it is positive know that she speaks

 

good about you to them more often but if their reactions are annoying, know that she speaks

 

nothing good about you anymore. And no reaction at all means that the love is dying.  And if you

 

don’t safe it on time by showing her that you are into her too then am afraid if you will be able

 

to get her full attention any more.

 

And if after all these signs she is into you that she is showing,  and you still don’t realize in and on time that she is in

 

love with you, my brother before you will later realize it, it may be too late. And that maybe

 

when she is already in the arms of another man.

 

There is a saying that goes this way:

 

“You may never know what you have until you lose it” but I will say:

 

“you may never know how much you love and needs a person until you see her in the arms of another man” delay is dangerous.

 

Do you still have the question mark, “Are these signs she is into you” make a move today.

 

 

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6 DIRECT DANGEROUS SIGNS YOU’RE ABOUT TO GET DUMPED

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Hurt Signs you’re about to get dumped

Dumping someone for someone else has become so rampant that most youth use it as fun without knowing the implication of it nor the effect it carries especially if you were not aware of the signs you’re about to get dumped

But it is obvious that breakups do not just happen or come out of nowhere but it’s from that small changes that occur in the relationship or marriage.

So in this article, I have gather some flags you should look out for in your relationship or marriage.

Signs you’re about to get dumped are as follows:

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  1. PHONE CALLS BECOMES BORING
  1. LESS COMMUNICATION
  1. YOU DISGUST HIM/HER
  1. LOST OF INTEREST
  1. LESS ATTENTION
  1. SPACE AND TIME
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  1. PHONE CALLS BECOMES BORING
  1. LESS COMMUNICATION
  1. YOU DISGUST HIM/HER
  1. LOST OF INTEREST
  1. LESS ATTENTION
  1. SPACE AND TIME
  • PHONE CALLS BECOMES BORING: Phone calls start becoming less frequent, he/she can stay a

day or two without calling you and still feel well okay without you.

He doesn’t even mind if you call him or not. “For example, if you normally talk twice a day, and

all of a sudden, it’s just a text or nothing at all… well, look out, that could be a sign of danger.”

  • LESS COMMUNICATION: Perhaps we all know that communication act the highest role in every

healthy relationship. You want to know why?

It is because is the key factor in any relationship. It is during communication that tables get

shaken.

You cannot stop what needs to be stopped nor silent what needs to be silent without having a communication.

that’s why during prayers, we are actually communicating with God.

So without communication in a relationship, that relationship is doom.

N/B nothing good can come out of a relationship that does not involved communication.

  • YOU DISGUST HIM OR HER: He speaks, criticizes you on every small issues that occur.

It is true that is not everything your partner nor you do that is that great to your standards and with that, there will always be a debate from time to time.

But when everything you do annoys your partner, everything you do is wrong in his eyes, like

the way you laugh, the way you speak, the way you associate yourself with his family or maybe

your friends or his own friends, just know that it is heading nowhere.

Don’t let anyone change you from your positive nature because one day, he will still leave you

for a partner who knows how to associate with his family and friends.

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  • LOST OF INTEREST: You feel your partner start to pull away little by little from whatever you two used to have interest on.

Maybe you two used to visit the park together every Church evening, going out with friends, same hobbies etc.

But all of a sudden, your partner stopped, he started giving excuses every now and there even

when the excuse is not valid, he frequently tries avoiding any discussion that has to do with the

way forward of the relationship. And if you’re no longer hanging out, you no longer share the

same hobby as before, maybe your partner is too busy with his phone more than what you two

shared then the writing “DANGER” is on the wall.

  • YOUR PARTNER IS LESS INVOLVED IN YOUR LIFE: “Once your partner starts becoming less

concerned about your day at work, how you are faring, how you are holding up etc just know

that you don’t exist in his life anymore”

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  • Once your partner starts becoming less

concerned about your day at work, how you are faring, how you are holding up etc just know

that you don’t exist in his life anymore”

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  • LESS ATTENTION: If your presence means nothing to your partner it means you are no longer

his priority, and with that, the attention will start to reduce your body language means nothing,

even while sharing the same bed, he minds his Conner by facing a different direction from u or

pretends to have kept before you just to avoid you showing you red light to mind your business.

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  • SPACE AND TIME: If your partner asks for space, don’t stop her nor him because the romance, the fragrance of that relationship is dying.

so looking out for signs you’re about to get dumped is very important  because it helps you to be stronger and able to move on when it finally happens.

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