How to love your partner: 5 Surprising positive Ways
How to love your partner
Everyone deserves to experience love at least once in their lives but at times it just seems as if they don’t know how to go about that feeling, thereby making them feel like there is something wrong with them. the truth is that nothing is wrong with you, you have to know how to love your partner.
Yeah, you want to experience love in your life, then you need to learn how to love your partner because love is reciprocal, you can’t expect to own what you have forever if you can’t even reciprocate.
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But then how do you reciprocate that love that your partner is showing to you? Very simple but it is very hard if you don’t, first of all, but these few things in place. And that is where this article comes in.
In this article, I have gathered the few things that will help put things in place before you lose that love of yours.
But then who is your partner? what does your spouse like and dislike? These are few things you will need to know because they will help you when you are learning how to love your partner.
How To Love Your Partner in 5 ways
1 Love Yourself: Loving your partner is you loving yourself. That guy or lady became part of you since the day you made him or her your partner. So the same thing you know that if someone does to you that you will not like, them don’t do it to your partner and the things that you know that are great and good if it comes to you, then do same towards your partner.
That love you are looking to experience one day is also another person’s dream to experience it with you, so why not try giving love out and then see love coming to you without having to struggle for it.
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The truth is that you cannot give what you don’t have, so you have to ensure that you, first of all, try finding love within yourself. try and love the things you have, the things you do, and the way you are, etc.
When you start accepting who you are, then you will be able to love someone else without looking for faults or using their weak point against them.
2 Acceptance: After loving yourself, it is also important for you to know that no one is perfect on this earth so you should accept them for who they are or you let them go.
Don’t look for a perfect man or woman because there is no such thing as a perfect somebody, there will always be a human mistake, learn to accept your spouse, and their flames.
Accepting your partner will trigger him or her to try with all his power to be the best partner you can ever ask for.
3 Appreciation: You want to know how to love your partner? then appreciate them. No one is allergic to appreciation. Appreciation is another way of telling your partner that you are seeing all he or she is doing and what he is trying to do. which means that you are glad for all of it.
Get a gift for your partner be it big or small, appreciate her for the great breakfast you took before leaving for office, Appreciate him for all his effort just to please you, and also for holding the family together.
These are things you shouldn’t take for granted. The gift does not have to cost you a fortune, but it will mean something to your partner. These are memories.
4 Text and Call: Waiting for your partner to always be the one to call or text first before you reply is not a way of how to love your partner, therefore, if you are ready to love, then you need to start reading love stories, love text message and also start giving a listening ear to your heart.
Listening to your heart will guide you on what message to compose to your partner whenever you want to her or him. ensure that whatever text you send is from the heart. Yeah, from the heart.
Love is beautiful when it is real and not fake, so faking to love your partner or faking to have the feelings, will only take away what you have one day in the future or right there.
A text message does not have to belong like an exam paper, it can be just those 3 letter words, or even 2 or more, etc.
Text her or him when he is at work, reminding him how much you love him, put a smile on his face from time to time. but don’t overdo so that he won’t lose his job.
Don’t call or text in tune that will seem like you are feeling insecure because such text or checking on, do not land well at the end of the day.
5 In the room: You love your partner right? but because you don’t know how to show it that is why you are reading to know how to love your partner, okay this is it.
If you are a woman reading this, then I am talking to you, yes you, make sure that it is not only your husband that does all the work in the room at all times. I guess you understand what I mean by that.
Show him that signs that you love him and also want him just as much as he wants you.
There is nothing that gives a man happier than knowing that his wife wants him or that his wife is jealous of him standing with another woman.
This helps in making the feelings mutual between you both. so don’t feel shy, is your husband, he is yours, and you are his, you were given license to take ownership of him so then what are you waiting for?
Some days, try taking over and be the alpha and let him follow you while you lead.
There are so many ways on how to love your partner, but it is important that follow these few steps first then when you stand your ground, you can then proceed to the next advanced ways.
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