We have dated for 9 years 34-year-old lady says as she pays her bride price, says Fiancé can’t afford it

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A 34-year-old woman has finally wedded her Fiancé of nine years after she has paid her bride price on his behalf.

The New bride identified as Zuku revealed she’s a graduate with three qualifications, and her parents have vowed to increase her Bride price and collect a lot of money from her husband.d27b9135ce90bb56 1

She also stated that she knew her husband could not afford the bride price, so she decided to help him with it since she earns more than him.

According to Zuku, she said that her Fiancé initially objected to the idea but eventually gave in and accepted the help. The bride, while sharing their story on News24, said

“We dated for almost nine years before tying the knot. I’m from a Xhosa background, and my parents have always made it clear that they’re going to request a hefty amount of lobola because I’m an engineer with three qualifications and one of them being from an internationally acclaimed university. So, I always knew lobola would be a thing and basically had no choice.

 

“My husband didn’t support the idea and declined my offer, but it just made so much sense. His family would be paying so much for the wedding ceremonies and gifting my family.

 

“I also earned more than him and was in a position to come up with the lobola money. At the time, he felt emasculated but in hindsight; it made more financial sense for both of us and the life we were about to build together.” She said.

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4 Interesting Reason Why You Need to Build Friendship before Relationship

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FRIENDSHIP AND RELATIONSHIP

 

Friendship and relationship are two different things. The things that are not working during mutual attachment can not work during a relationship. that is why it is necessary to start any relationship with anyone with friendship then taking it to the next level.

Most times when I tell friends and family that I value friendship most times more than intimate, there is a question I usually receive that is;

Does friendship matter before the relationship? Can’t I get into a relationship first before becoming the person’s friend?

Well, you can still start a relationship before friendship. the fact is that most of them do end in tears because you will go and see the kind of lifestyle you never expected and that occurs because you knew nothing about him and his ways of life. 

But note this, a man or a lady who isn’t qualified to be your friend can’t be your wife or your husband. The enemy you know is better than the friend you don’t know. 

Friendship has a lot and a huge role to play in your relationship. 

 

Now let’s see the advantages 

CLOSE FRIENDSHIP VS RELATIONSHIP

WHY YOU NEED TO BUILD FRIENDSHIP BEFORE RELATIONSHIP

• Friendship brings freedom: there are something’s you can’t do with your lover or in the presence of someone you call your lover, but you can say it or do it in front of your best friend. 

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• Secrets Shared: You can’t hide everything from your friend, but you can hide almost if not everything from your lover.

• You will get to know the real person. The atmosphere for fakeness is less than in a relationship.

• You will know his likes. One of the things that are just necessary for a relationship is “compatibility” No matter what you do nor try if you and your partner are not compatible, then there is no forever hope for the relationship nor marriage.

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THEREFORE WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU CAN BE COMPATIBLE WITH

  1. Daily activities; If he is a 23hours working kind of man and one hour for you and the family, if you are the opposite, which means you don’t like such busy guys, but you prefer a man that spends most of his time doing things with his family then you are not compatible.

2. The way he/she treats family: it is very easy for one to fake to be very caring and loving during a relationship, but hard to fake during friendship and marriage. that’s why you will easily hear people saying “he was not like this when I married him”, “If I knew you were this wicked, I couldn’t have married you, woman” etc.

Now in things like this, if you want to find out, you will discover that most of them just started from a date to a relationship, then marriage.

More than half (1/2%) percent of women, that are in a relationship today, can do the undo just to keep their man, and no matter how you fake the relationship/marriage, it won’t last.

Note: “When you use fakeness to keep a relationship, you will use fakeness to maintain it”. Apst. Jordan Akada.

IS FROM FRIENDSHIP INTO RELATIONSHIP IMPORTANT

Yes, from friendship into relationship is very important as it is going to help you and your partner to grow together in love, understanding, and unity.

It will also help you both to understand that being a grown up does not mean that you are above fun in the home like example pillow fighting,playing of cards, games etc.

many of these can only occur if there is friendship between you two in the relationship.

DO THE BEST RELATIONSHIPS START AS FRIENDSHIPS

From my research, I will say yes to this, and what is your own view? Love is not always constant, it can always fate away, and if no understanding, the relationship dies. Now understanding Can only occur if friendship was already on the ground. 

Friendship keeps your relationship/marriage lively. Lively in this aspect means fun and entertaining. So if you want to have a good and happy relationship, start with friends so that you can deal with and sort out what is necessary before you step into the relationship.

WHO IS MORE IMPORTANT FRIENDS OR LOVER

Lovers can always come and go but friendship stands a taste of time. 

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HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRONGER

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  1. Share things.
  2. Share quality time doing what you two like best.
  3. Go on a date at least once every month. It helps to bring back memories.
  4. Cook together.
  5. Be who you are.
  6. Listen
  7. Ask for a suggestion from your partner.
  8. Give room for conversation.
  9. Learn to forgive for no one is above mistakes.
  10. Work as a team.
  11. Be honest etc.
  12. Have funs

friendship and relationship is very important in marriage.

Now i ask, friendship and relationship, which one do you prefer to exist first?

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“You are lucky”: Lady shows video of her mother in law who brought them foodstuff from the village.

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“You are lucky”: Lady shows video of her mother in law who brought them foodstuff from the village.

A very lovely video seen via TikTok shows moment a lady shows off her good-looking and kind-hearted mother-in-law.

In the video, she made known that the mum came from the village to visit them, and while coming she brought some food stuff alongside.

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How can someone be these sweet pls 😩😩just like her son 🥰

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She gave her a warm hug.

so lovely…

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She is all I have Young Man says as he Lies On a dirty Gutter For His Pregnant Wife To walk on top of him

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A story which is currently trending online has captured the moment as a young man layed down inside the Gutter, to allow her Pregnant wife to pass because they were no bridge.

Emmy Ezeafojulu Egbeigwe Nnobi, a Facebook user who share the story Wrote in his words he said;

Love In Harvard

A man lay down for his pregnant wife to pass because her pregnancy could not allow her jump the gutter. How do u see it

LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING

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As this story got on social media, social media users took out time to share their reactions to the story.

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Come and collect yours, See lovely moment as Nollywood Actress Tonto Dikeh donates 100 bags of rice to widows as Christmas gifts

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Popular Nollywood actress Tonton Dike has once again shown excess love for humanity as she took the brave step of putting smiles on the faces of 10,000 less privileged.

The deputy governorship candidate for River State has kick-started her yearly 10,000 smiles for Christmas charity work as she donated hundred bags of rice, money, and more to the widows and elderly.Screenshot 20221223 164625

Sharing her humanitarian deeds on social media she attached a photo from the donation and attached it with a caption in her words she said;

@officialtontodikehfoundation is Glad to announce that we have kicked off our 10,000 SMILES FOR CHRISTMAS charity work….

We kick started with Rivers State, Rumuokuta, Obiakpor LGA, where we distributed hundreds of bags of rice and including money to support the widows and out smile on their faces…..”

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You are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen Nigerian Skit make Sir balo says as he is set to Wed his Fiancée

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Popular Nigerian comedian and skit maker Obotuke Timothy, better known as Sir Balo has caused a huge sensation on social media as he shared a lovely video of himself and his Fiancée anticipating their wedding which will soon take place.

Sir Balo shared a video of him and his beautiful angel posing for the camera as he took his time to describe her as the most beautiful woman he had ever seen on earth.Screenshot 20221129 200019

Sharing their loved-up video, he prayed for their love to last forever, adding that he would do anything to ensure it does. Sharing the video on his Instagram page, Sir Balo wrote:

 

YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN I HAVE EVER SEEN. THE STARS AND THE MOON MEAN NOTHING AS LONG AS YOU WALK THE EARTH.

I PRAY FOR OUR LOVE TO LAST FOREVER, AND I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR IT. I LOVE YOU LIKE I HAVE NEVER LOVED BEFORE. LOVE DON MAKE URHOBO MAN SPEAK ENGLISH . #PEACEOFMIND22.”

 

As he post the video on social media, social media users took out time to congratulate him.

See Social media user’s reaction to his video

iamkingdinero2: “Congratulations Baba , I sha know say no be only me Dey think Wetin I Dey think ❤️❤️.”

leeeymarrh: “Everybody just Dey marry .. God what is going on with me shey my better half no Dey still world ehnn.”

richy_billy_02: “‘After all the big big yansh wow congrats .”

dullahyaro: “80% of People wey they like big yansh no dey always end up with a partner wey get yansh, congrats to them.”

alhajiprince07: “Congratulations to him……but why him no go marry person way get Yash .”

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“I No Wan Hear Say Una Get Belle” Netizens reacted as Nollywood Actor Yul Edochie was spotted playing with girls in Church

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Nollywood actress, Juliet Ndudi, has got social media users talking after sharing a video of herself and her colleague Yul Edochie

In the video she shared, the actress Juliet was seen with some other women who appear to be her friends giddily talking about how surprised they were to see Yul’s presence in the church. Screenshot 20221207 104143

 

While sharing the video, in her words she said;

“See who I ran into in church today. Abeg oo, make una see. Odogwu dey go church oo😂😂😂.”

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As she shared the video got online, many social media users has expressed concern on the video and some suggested that Yul might be considering taking her as his third wife.

 

See social media user’s reaction to the video

@matilda3571 said, “God loves people like him my dear 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.”

 

@herobaby827 said, “E go give u bella oooo run oooo😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰.”

 

@user57567555826374 said, “why ei no go church even Lucifer di go church , church na for all man na the na heart and love for God na he matter.”

 

@jekwuhanselchukwu said, “una Don begin as una dey begin.. Hmmmmmm third and fourth wife’s loading.”

 

@jumong410 said, “another wife loading, hmmm, please be careful execpt you want to become a third wife.”

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No wonder she can’t keep her marriage Nigerians lambaste on Korra Obidi for tw£rking in front of her Police escorts

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Popular US-based Nigerian dancer and singer, Korra Obidi, who recently visited Nigeria to pay her family a visit, has been lambasted on by her fans and followers following a video she recently shared on her social media handle.

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Taking to her Instagram page, Korra shared a video of herself stepping out with a police officer, for safety purposes, In the video she shared, Korra could be seen with a policeman as she rested her hand on his shoulder and gave him a mild dance moves while the officer watched confusedly

In another clip, Korra was shown in her compound with a female officer, twerking up a storm for the camera while the officer watched.

The videos have angered several social media users who have raised heavy criticism on her and Nigerians online opined that Korra’s conduct with the officers was unprofessional.

Reacting to her actions, an Instagram user shared their though on her actions

See Instagram user’s Reaction to Korra video

  @empress_d_jay wrote, “No dey use our police abeg . Nigerian government sha . When u dey abroad I no see any police for ur video oo”.

@greatseanrec, “You guys are just making Nigeria look so bad. Do you still need a security guard in your bedroom.”

@anniechigozie, “Oya ohhh because you’re in Nigeria you carry police 😢😢😢be spoiling our name oh mama june”.

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Young Lady rejoice as she use her Christmas hair to Sweeps the floor and walks around the streets with it

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A video which is currently going viral on social media, has captured the moment as a young Lady showoff’s her Christmas hair which has gone Netizens talking about it.

 

In the video, the lady was seen cat-walking in the middle of the road while showing her 96inch Dread as it sweeps the floor.Screenshot 20221130 121446

 

According to thought, the hair might be her Christmas hair. As she posted this on social media, Netizens gather in their mass to share their reaction to the video see social media users reaction to the video.

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WHEN LOVE HAPPENS 1

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WHEN LOVE HAPPENS chapter 1

when love happens is one of my original play.

There lived three friends Mike, Moses and Miracle (M3).

Mike was tall, chocolate skin and muscular, Moses was cute but

short, Miracle was fair, tall and slim.

These three have been friends since childhood that everybody

who knew them started calling them M3.

M3 were so closed that they never wanted to separate from one

another even their parent never tried to separate them.

M3 have been together until university level.

In the university, Mike studied computer science, Moses

marketing while Miracle studied Law.

At the end of their study year, Mike was able to obtain a master

degree scholarship to study in India best Institution of

Technologies.

Miracle was called to bar immediately he completed his education

and Moses went into digital marketing businesses.

Few years later, Mike was through with his Masters and decided

to come back to the country.

Even when his parent asked him to stay over there and start a life

maybe go for doctoring, he said No.

On reaching the country, he now decided to bring up a business

idea during his sit out with his friends. Which they all agreed to it.

A month later, Mike being good in his field, decided to build a site

with the niche m3gist and later shared

responsibilities between his friends.

Moses was in charge of the marketing, advertisement, promotions

etc.

Miracle was in charge of the latest trending in national and

international news and Mike was in charge of the maintenance

and also programming tutor.

A year later, their m3gist website started gaining popularity they

then went further and rented a building to use as a company.

With this, they started helping people running local businesses in

their city by registering their businesses, products with m3gist for

advert.

Mike, Moses, Miracle founders of m3gist marketing group of

companies was recognized all over the world.

Mike being the brain behind m3gist, tall and handsome guy, he

could get any lady he decides with that, he believed that there is

nothing like love without money.

His friends tired talking him out of his flirting life style but it was

in vain.

One day they were having lunch in a restaurant when a lady

walked up to their table and said “Hello handsome” when they

looked up Mike discover that she was referring to him so he

looked at his friends and later turned around and smile at the

lady and said, “Hello beautiful”.

Am Sandra she said and I’m Mike. So, Mr. Mike do you mind we

speaking on phone?

Then handed over her card to Mike before Mike could respond.

Then he said sure who with his right senses wouldn’t call a

beautiful damsel like you. They both smile and held hands for a

minute then left.

(Immediately she left)

Mike discovered that his friends were starring at him with surprising eyes, he then laughed and said what?

Am I the one that went for that one or she came to me? Guys see

that’s life, when you are tall, cute and rich, love is very simple to get.

Miracle: (to mike) you better be careful because being cute and

rich does not prevent disease when it comes knocking.

(they all laughed and started eating their launch)

Miracle was really disturbed by his friend’s life style he then

decided to discuss it with Moses so that they can make a plan on

how to make him stop.

(That evening, they went to Mike’s apartment while chatting and

watching India love movies, an idea came into Moses head and he

spoke out)

Mike, have you ever stick with one lady up to a month before?

Moses asked.

On hearing the question, Mike laughed, Of course not… why

should I be wasting my time

while there are other ladies out there waiting for their own share

of this (he touched his body).

Miracle and Moses decided to use his statement to their own

advantage knowing very well that Mike doesn’t like losing to

anyone when it comes to challenges.

So they said Mike if you date a particular lady for at least two

months, we will give you 10% of our share of the company.

But he laughed then stir at them and said you are kidding? Then

he discovered that they were not smiling so he said, you guys are

not kidding?

We are serious but it’s okay, we already knew you can’t do it.

(he was mute for some minutes)

He said, but two months is too much now….

Miracle: So do you agree or you are backing out?

Mike: No I agree, perhaps 10% from you both will go a long way.

But I got to choose the lady I want. Do you guys agree with me?

Miracle and Moses: (both agreed) you are the boss.

 

CHAPTER TWO OF WHEN LOVE HAPPENS

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