The two (2) negative effect why talking with your hands is a necessity

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why you should adapt to talking with your hands

Talking with your hands should be in our heart thereby making it to becoming a part of us before we start planting of hopes in people’s heart.

Talking with your hands in this aspect means, talking then putting it into action. We are in a generation where we talk more than we can do.

Why should we start talking with our hands 8 GUIDE FOR THE YEAR 2020

  • PROMISES: promise is like unseen arrival, promise gives hope and once we make it, we have given hope and relief to someone.

Promise we say is an affirmation of intent, large and small which mark a wide number of interpersonal activities from marriage to specific behavior toward another person to the completion of tasks at home or at work. This requires us to declare a conscious aims.

At times we talk more than we can do, we make promises, some which are bigger than us and some which are not even necessary to make.

To the extent that people don’t know when we mean the word we say, we walk around telling people how we will render help to them, we make them believe us, they start praising us and praying for us, and we gladly say amen to it with a smile on our faces.

Few weeks, few months, a year no respond from you, they don’t know what to think any longer, their faith chatters, all hopes gone, they don’t know what to believe anymore, they start doubting anything called promises, they miss their destiny helpers, because they couldn’t believe anyone anymore and with that they expect nothing good from the person, except empty promises as usual. NEVER TOO LATE

Why? It is because they are used to people lying to them and making empty promises without fulfilling them and with this kind of encounter, they miss out in their appointed time unknown to them.

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I will get the work done. Now, these above are our conscious objectives but people have so many out-of-knowing thoughts or feelings, we may not know of our unconscious outcome about a stated commitment.

we are happy walking around still doing more promise and fail and killing people’s destiny indirectly because of false hope which causes delay in destiny, backwardness, no going forward no going backward.

Most times we make promises without having an avenue on how to fulfill those promises. We make promise to get rid of something or someone at a particular point in time.

We also make promises to get what we want. Have we ever thought about these promises we do make without fulfilling them, either make us or mar us in the public?

Mr. Rueben Amano who is a socialist once told me “if only we know the covenant we make in the name of promises, we will find it difficult to make one”. 80% of families isolate every day because of unfulfilling promises and about 60% of relationship (courtship) breaks out of bad promises.

Most times we make promises without minding the hope we have given to someone. No matter how little the promise is, it is pertinent we fulfill it.

A lot of young ladies endanger their lives because of promise words the heard from one guy like that who promised them that he was different from the rest.

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Worst part of it is that many ladies knows well that this word are just words which 70% of men who uses it, are not serious with the statement but still, they will still allow a man to take advantage of them through this words by promising  them heaven and earth. Just to have what they want.

The question I do ask is “why do we take promises for granted? 24 Fact about love everyone should know

  • DREAMS: A dream in this aspect is like a business plan, which something we put it down in a book for processing without even knowing how long it’s going to take to achieve it in real life.

Dreams are dreams and they remain in the dream world until we make it manifest.

At times when having this dreams, we walk around telling people like our friends, families etc. what we are planning on doing without actually doing it.

One month, two months, six months, a year plus we are still walking around without taking any step. We talk without during it. We don’t have to walk around telling people our dreams/visions all we have to do is to start from somewhere “no matter how the beginning is small”, the later shall be greater.

When we have this kind of understanding and mind set, anything is possible and the move we take is what announce us not the talking.

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See moment as a Nigerian envengelis turned her Bridal Shower ceremony into a revival program in Nasarawa State

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A young female evangelist identified as pastor Faith in Nasarawa state had kept a lot of Netizens talking following what happened at her bridal shower.

 Pastor Faith Friends gathered together to celebrate and catch fun with the bride-to-be but it was however turned to a prayer crusade. 1669276230732

 Immediately pst. Faith stepped in for her speech, she turned her bridal shower party into a revival ground.

 In a video currently going around social media, she was seen heavily praying, laying hands on the congregation, and speaking in tongues. The videos however got different reactions to it.

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She made me proud, old woman danced with joy as her daughter graduates with first class degree after 7 years of studies

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An excited old woman has been captured as she dance happily about her daughter’s graduation from school. In a video shared online, the old mother expresses her joy after seeing her daughter graduate from school.

The old woman danced with a lot of energy and excitement gave her daughter a big hug as she wore her graduation cap and Congratulated her for passing through another face of life. Screenshot 20230119 182048

 

On seeing the video, Netizens has been left emotional and they appreciate the young lady for making her mother proud.

 See Netizens Reaction to The video

@Monica the queen said: “Long live mama.”

@zashi zaharah said: “Oh my God I’m still crying. Be blessed mothers.”.

@mary ttt reacted: “I don’t know why I’m crying inside in my heart. Someone kiss my comment so that I can come back. So lovely.”

@Kim Garden commented: “I am so happy for you.” @user8352416728067 said: “Congrats but I couldn’t stop crying.”

@frieda175 commented: “I miss you mum I wish your stil alive. I don’t know why I’m crying.”

@yennumirita said: “Mommy I’m going to make you proud. You have been my biggest supporter ever.” Man makes first-class degree

 

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3 reasons you should seek for attention

attention

why you should seek for attention in your dealing

One thing about attention is that, we can’t get close to someone nor please someone or a group of persons if we don’t

have their attention.

That’s why, even when trying to make an announcement we start

by saying

“CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION/AUDIENCE PLEASE”?

“ONE HOUSE PLEASE”? etc.

When I hear people saying

“I DON’T NEED ANYONE’S ATTENTION NOR SEEKING FOR

SOMEONE ATTENTION BEFORE I CAN MAKE IT”.

I totally disagree with that.

Why do I disagree? It is because even in business field, we need

people, customers to patronized us in

other for us to sell.

why do we pray?

Some says:

All you need is God to excel. Yea that’s right and is the fact but that’s still an attention.

We go to God in pray sometimes in our closed doors because we want to communicate with God alone

without distraction.

We talk to God and he gives responds to our prayers,

Why? Because he has given attention to our prayers.

Our request can only be approved if we have an audience.

Example

wpbeginner.com

wpbeginner.com is a site that gives step by step guides on how to create site, plugins etc.

They started with 1 visitor, 100 visitors to 1000s of visitors.

In the process of building up the site, they

were also looking for audience and with this, they were able to

drive traffic to their site which helped

them now to stand out worldwide.

Now this site started with 1 and later generated 1000s because

they later have people attentions by

showing people what they can offer.

They set their minds to get something done and strike deep which later took them to the kind of

audience they want.

What are we saying here?

We need each other to stand out. Don’t say I don’t need anyone in my life before I can make it because

we all do need and even God passes through someone to bless and change our lives for good.

NEVER TOO LATE We post pictures on social media expecting likes and comments from where?

Is it not from people? Even at times, we do have a particular person at mind which we want to capture his/her attention through the post.

Knowing very well that the person will see it maybe through news feed or by tagging the person.

Let’s change our mindset so that we can explore.

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Nigerian girl who left home to hustle as site laborer gets N500k, her mum cries.

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Nigerian girl who left home to hustle as site laborer gets N500k, her mum cries.

A girl identified as Jennifer went viral because of how hardworking she is.

According to the news, she left home to work as a laborer because of how hard things are for her family.

She didn’t mind what people would say before going for the job.

Interestingly, a woman saw her and blessed her with N10k after which her video went viral and nigerians supported her with N500k.

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“Where do you get the money from” Reaction trails as Mother reject Car Gift her Yahoo son gift to her as she Celebrate her birthday

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A video which is currently going viral online has trails a lot of reactions from Netizens as a mother rejected the car gift her son presented to her.

In the now-viral video, the mother and her son were captured in a local environment which is likely to be their family house, and when her son presented the car gift she Burst into tears which first look like tears of joy until she rejected the gift and told her son that she is not interested in owning a car.Screenshot 20230120 131325

According to the woman, she stated that her son is only a student and has no good business or job to warrant such an asset she also broke into tears and added that her son might have Join Yahoo and she might be the next target.

 

Her Son begged her to receive the car but she insisted that she doesn’t need it and she will burn it down if he doesn’t take it from her sight.

On seeing the video, Netizens admire her courage and asked others to followed her footsteps.

 

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HOW TO MAKE 2020 YOUR BEST YEAR EVER

how to make 2020 your best year

How To Make 2020 Your Best Year

To make Year 2020 your best year, as human, we plan our lives, we put down our

to do and not to do, we’ve plan to get married before 27 as a lady

and 28,30 as a guy.

I have a friend who is good in what he does… he has be working for someone for long now, but this year, he came up with an idea to start his own business, so he came to me, i advised him in a way i could… but few months later when i asked him about how far he has gone, His responds dis-stabilized me.

I quote “Joy, I don’t think i can do it,  I don’t want to try and fail… So maybe till ending of the year or next year i will do it. Discouragement, doubt, fear set in and that’s life for you.

Now, we plan to get some things done by setting an exact time and

period we want to achieve that thing.

But most times, it doesn’t work out the way we planted it nor the

period we set for it.

It is not as if we don’t deserve anything good but most times, its

cause by the way we plan and the way we handle it.

Today is 29th February in the year 2020 and i know that we all had plans for

2020, but let me remind you, we are entering the third month in

the year 2020.

what was your plan for January 2020? what was your plan for

February 2020? have you execute any of that?

Now this is the month of March, what is your plan like? what do

you want to achieve this March?

will you still allow March to finish without a prove that shows what

you did in the month of March?

have you ever try turning around and smile at what you have

accomplished no matter how little it is?

If no, i challenge you today, take a pen and a jotter or diary, pen

down all you wish you can achieve this month of march or this

year 2020 if you can, write down the estimation of what and what

you need, to set something straight this year.

first steps to take before anything else:

  1. Start by believing in yourself, doubts will come but you got to stand your ground and believe in yourself
  2. Think positive, you can believe in yourself but due to the some circumstance surrounding you, negativity thinking stands coming up through your mind example 1, if Mr A tried it but it didn’t work out, it means i too can’t do it. 2, look at where i am, my parent are very poor, i can’t even go to a good school, i will just look for a trade and learn well, can anything good come out of Nazareth? COME AND SEE!!!
** steps through the year 2020 (2020 my year)

1) sit down and think about your life, what it lacks and check if it

needs improvement.

2) Pray about it.

3) Have a target

4) Make plan, get a jotter and a pen to pen down what and what you think or that comes into your mind concerning your future, it is called” business plan”.

5) keep to your plan and execute it, it is one thing to pen down 10 ideas yet you are not doing anything towards executing one out of 10. Try working toward your goal with your discovery.

6) If you can not do it on your own, get someone to help you by

putting down your business plan in a book for you.

N/B why do you need a business plan?

A business plan comes with the mission, vision and estimation of

what the discovery is all about and the involvement of it.

7) start savings and do some research on the field that you are

planning on going into.

8) Don’t be discourage on the present situation look what the

future holds for you. etc

N/B savings have no age limitations, you can start saving at

anytime.

The worst thing that can happen to a human being is waiting and

putting hope on another human.

Try working on yourself and leave others to God to win it for

you.

make 2020 a year you can never forget positively.

Happy New Month….

How to make 2020 your best year may not have been made possible due to the pandemic but not withstanding, implement it in 2020 and see the result.

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He sacrifice everything for me young man says as he gifts his father a brand new Lexus SUV Car

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A video which is currently going viral on social media has featured the moment as a young Nigerian man put smile on the face of his father as he buys a new car for him.

the young man gifted his father a brand Lexus SUV and took to his TikTok handle to show off the lovely moment as he presented the car to his dad who gave him a handshake in return. man buy car dad.jpg

Another part of the video showed the moment as his Dad steps out of the driver’s seat stylishly. When the young man was Sharing this online, he attached the video with a caption in his words he wrote;

captioned the post with a congratulatory note;

”Congratulations from me to my dad. Forever grateful”

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Congratulations, Woman welcomes Twins after 20 years of childlessness (Photos)

A Nigerian beautiful Nigerian woman Identified as Nilam Amara Agbai has taken to her social media handle to appreciate God as she welcomed a set of twins after 20yrs of childlessness.

While sharing the good news Online, a family member of Nilam took to her Facebook account to appreciate God for the fruit of the womb on behalf of her sisters. 07697e47 6cec 4c99 8297 b328e13d8329

While Celebrating her sister’s win, the family member attached the latest mom and her child photos and attached them with a caption in her words she wrote;

All I can say is THERE IS GOD (CHUKWUDI) After 20 years… God is the Greatest. Auntie m Nliam Amara Agabai. My dancing shoes are ready

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THE WORLD TURNS AROUND

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THE WORLD TURNS AROUND

One thing that people do not know nor remember is that the world does not stay in one place but instead the world turns around.
Just as the world turns around, so is life. The person you see today may not be the same when you see him/her the next day.
The things you have and value so much today, was once someone’s fairly used.

Many people do silly things today because of inferiority complexion, but that’s how life suppose to be, turn by turn. But instead of waiting for our time, we now move further to achieve it sharply no matter the cost.

WHY DOES THIS ACT OCCUR?

1.Inferiority Complex: This most times take place when we see our junior colleague or our mate using things that we can’t afford due to our financial limitation, then we start feel less of ourselves and questioning our capacity.

2. No Peace: Once inferiority complex sets in, you are likely to have no peace of mind and without peace, you will be driven by jealousy and ideas both good and evil ides.

3. Comparison: As human, wanting to feel among is in our nature and it turns around to become a lifestyle of many if not more than half of human. When comparison set in, you will try to do anything to stand your ground and prove a point.

4. Circle Of Friends: The friends we keep most times determine where we are going in life. There is what we called influence, your friends can influence you to do what you yourself will never in your life time sit down and plan to do for your life.
But with friends, you can possibly do it before even thinking twice.
“So it is either you change your friend or your friend will change you. Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are.” Apst. Jordan Akada

  • Let me tell you a little story about friend.
    At college, I met a guy, this guy was a computer science student, according to his colleagues, he was damm good in what he does pertaining to his education. But after second year in the university his third year he changed both dressing and hair style etc.

Then I discover that he was making friends with people who were nothing like him academically, he tried his best to convert them into good student but instead, they turned around and converted him.

What do I mean here:
What I mean is that, they hardly attend lectures, but always available during exams and submission of assignment. They were non student, he tried his best according to him but instead, they turned around and converted him.

One day I met him around my lodge, we exchange pleasantries then I asked him his sudden change but he told me that he is trying to get into them so that he can change them and be bringing them to classes. All I told him was “be Careful”.

Few months later, he totally changed, no more lectures, he comes to exam hall late, his CGP came down from 4. 57 to 3.02.
Now that brilliant guy changed.

Your friends have a lot of role to play in your life that’s why you need to choose them wisely.
“Choose your friends don’t let your friends choose you” Mama Emem Jordan .
don’t let your current life or status brings you down, you are heading somewhere.

The power is on the inside of you. make use of it don’t let anyone run your life for you. hard times only comes to strengthen us and also to awaken us to sit up and review our lives…. but don’t allow lost to take over you…. just be patience and believe that the world turns around and one day, it will to your favor.

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