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A Video which is currently going viral on social media has shown the moment as a Ghanaian lady gift her boyfriend a plot of land for his birthday.

 

In the video, the young woman’s took her boyfriend to the plot of land she bought for him.

 

She took him to the location of the land and the land already had a gate protecting it from intruders. A ribbon was placed on the gate and she asked him to open it to see his plot of land.

 

A video making the rounds online shows when they unveiled the land documents which had been wrapped in a gift box.

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As the video got on social media, social media users rushed to the Comment section to hail the lady.

 

See social media users reaction to the video

beautybyyenby; This is the second time she is doing this for him

b_omargh; It’s nice though I wish it was not staged for relevance but someday someone will do the real one 😂😂😂

snrarrow; Where we pass

lilianamakye; Aww God of Dee Beee😂😂😂😂

beautybyyenby; This is the second time she is doing this for him

b_omargh; It’s nice though I wish it was not staged for relevance but someday someone will do the real one 😂😂😂

snrarrow; Where we pass

lilianamakye; Aww God of Dee Beee😂😂😂

 

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What Men Want In A Woman

Most times we women complain of how a man hurt us, how he cheated on us, how he doesn’t love us, etc. Without also thinking before this mess in this relationship what lead to this, what role did I play that result in this, etc? These questions will help you to locate the doting point. Just like we women have what we want in a man likewise men but then the question is Do you know what men want in a woman?

That is where the problem always comes from. many people go into a relationship blind instead of using that time to learn and get to know each other, they end up enjoying it without observing. Every human has one or two things they want in life and it will be nice if they find it with their partner than someone else outside.

Before I start to mention what men want in a woman let me ask this question, When last did you sit your man down and have a heart-to-heart talk that revolve around only the two of you and your relationship? You can answer the question within you.

No matter how much a man loves you and cherish you, it can’t be forever if you don’t possess what he is looking for or if you lose what made him feel at home with you and that is why you need to read this “what men want in a woman”.

What Men want in a woman

1 A Home: When I say home, I do not mean you building a house for him instead I am talking about the atmosphere when he is around you. Home consist of a lot of things and some of them are:
1 Peace
2 Respect
3 Fun

4 Support: Every support does not have to be about finance. figure it out by having a communication with your man to know what he is doing with his life.

5 Inspiration: Learn how to inspire your man even with a spoken word.

6 Independent women etc

You may be wondering why I listed all these into one, truth is that when a man experiences all these with you, that is him finding his home.

What do guys look for in a woman they want to marry

There are a lot of things that guys look for in a girl for marriage, and there are;

1 Potential: Having potential does not mean that you are becoming the head of the family instead it means that you have what it takes to assist a man in running a home by standing by his side. There is a saying
“Behind every successful man, there is a woman”.

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Every young man that wants to get married needs that in a woman. So instead of making yourself a liability, you must work on your worth. It makes you an independent woman.

2 Warm Personality: No matter how cold you are to other people being so cold to a man that is in your life is a big turn-off. No man wants a woman who is not fun to be with. No matter how you want to keep yourself, you must learn how to do small sweet things that can make your man smile from ear to ear like a kid.

3 Be Accommodating: If you are in a relationship and the man has not even married you into his family yet and you start being bossy especially against his family, that is you telling him “Sir if you marry me, you will be making a big mistake of your life”

4 A Listener: Just like you want your man to listen to your suggestions, your needs, etc same do men. Every man wants a woman that they can pour their heart to without being scared of hearing it outside.

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  What To Do If A Girl Doesn’t Like You

While there are exceptions to every rule, the most commonly observed behavioral tendencies in women are this: If a girl doesn’t like you, she won’t go out of her way to do nice things for you. Doing something for a woman who doesn’t like you will have little to no effect on your relationship (or lack thereof).

For example, My lodge mate was once dating a girl who did everything she could to make him feel good about himself. She got his favorite food when we went out and brought it to him at work; took care of his dog whenever he traveled out of town; made sure he was comfortable with anything she wore or did before going out in public; etc.

This guy was completely oblivious to what the girl was doing and never realized nor appreciate that she did like him. He thought everything was going great between them and as long as he knows, the girl can’t leave him anytime soon, despite her occasional displays of physical affection being nothing compared to how she acted around other guys (like being cold when she is around other guys). 

However, when he asked about some new clothes his ex-girlfriend gave him I heard her say “I wouldn’t wear those pants” or “that shirt looks awful on you”. She just didn’t like the guy, she wanted to make sure he had clothes he liked and that was love.

But today, the guy lost the girl to another guy.

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On the flip side, if a woman likes you (and is not simply just being nice) doing something for you will often have a far greater positive effect than it would with anyone else. For example, ever wonder why she’s always flirt with you but never that guy over there? It’s because she likes you.

This is the rule that will help you determine whether or not a woman dislikes you. If she is nice to you, there is no problem; if she is not nice to you, then they’re most definitely IS a problem. There can be little room for error with this method since it relates directly to her desire (or lack thereof) of being with you romantically.

Selection Standard

Just like men have an instinctual understanding of what they find attractive in women (both physically and behaviorally), so too do women innately understand what they are attracted to in guys (physical appearance aside). While there may be some variance based on age, race, religion, etc.,

A Girl doesn’t like you. Reasons are:

1. You make her feel as if she is on a diet.

2. She thinks that you are boring and predictable, and she wonders why she can’t seem to love you the way she does her slippers or her computer or the ocean, or her pet rock.

3. You have no ambition, and all your life plans involve staying at home watching movies on your couch with her (and not the good kind—the lame kind).

4. Even though you love each other deeply, nearly every conversation turns into an argument because of petty bickering over who did what wrong in previous arguments/discussions/coitus sessions that may have occurred years

5 You are trying to change her. Do you love her? good, but you have to learn to accept her and she will adjust alongside you, but never try to change who is completing because that will be telling her to fake her identity.

6 You are a work alcoholic: Making money is good because it will you and your family to have a good financially but when doing this, remember the emotional aspect. No matter how you work, you have to ensure that you still have time for your woman. 

Don’t be too busy that you hardly have time for her or else before you realized it, you have already used your hands to spoil your relationship because you were never available when you needed her most.

7 Your sense of dressing. If you can’t dress well, having a lady that likes guys that can dress well is not a good idea except you are ready to adjust as fast as. 

8 Your temper. Nothing is wrong with being jealous and possessive but don’t overdo it. Sometimes you need to put yourself in check. Women like men that shows this jealousy because it shows that they love them and they are not ready to share but then if you are can’t control sometimes, it shows that you are feeling insecure and insecurity most times is caused by lack of trust, and without trust, a relationship cannot stand a test of time.

9 You are too clinging to her. Clinging to a woman too much can look like you are desperate. even if she doesn’t complain, her friends will do and that is you create a bad image, and no woman like a bad with bad image. No matter how much you love her, ensure that you give her some times to meet up with her friends. Give her a space sometimes and get your own life in others at this period.

10 You are so cold. No matter how cooperative you are, never make your woman feel bored around you because this will only that you are no fun. Try and be free and open when your woman is with you because she is part of you. make her feel like without you on her side, life is bored.  

# what to do if she doesn’t like you: 

If you observed all that is listed above or if you have noticed that there are changes in the ways you used to behave around you or your friends, the first thing you have to do is to check yourself if you have wrong her in any way or if you are at fault. but if you can’t find anything from your side, you don’t have to give up, all you have to do is to try and have a heart-to-heart talk with her.

No man will be so patient and willing to have a heart talk with a lady and she won’t open up, of course, she will open up that is only if she notices that you are serious. this means that you will take whatever she says into consideration.

2 After having a heart to heart talk with her, ensure that you try and fix whatever you think you can fix, but if you are not sure of how to go about it, tell her that “you are ready to adjust you just need her to stand by you and help you with direction on how to fix it.”

3 Ensure that you adjust not just because you want to please her but because you also think and know that change is necessary if you love her. This is called “Sacrifice”.

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What is sacrifice in a relationship?

Sacrifice in a relationship is the process whereby a partner gives up something example a hobby just for the sake of his or her partner. If you are a fan of Hollywood movies and your partner is a fan of Bollywood, most times you have no choice but to keep him or her company by watching it alongside the person. This is you doing what you think and know that it will make your partner at that particular time.

This may sound little but it is very lovely and heartwarming. 

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Fun Things To Do By Yourself At Home

Have you ever think of what fun things to do by yourself when you are bored? Well, I guess you have. Most times we just don’t want to be seen as a burden to someone or people and that leaves us all by ourselves. 

The good news is that there are a lot of fun things to do by yourself when bored than you can ever imagine all you have to do is to check which one will work for you and also for how long you can keep up with it.

If you are bored and want to do something but don’t know what, here are some fun things to do by yourself.

1. Play a challenging game like chess or Rubix cube

2. Listen to music and dance around the house

3. Go for a bike ride, explore your neighborhood or just go for a walk

4. Write in your journal about your day and what you felt

5. Collect Things on the Grandparents’ Farm

6. Make a list of heroes

7. Watch a movie

8. Read a book

9. Play a video game

10. Clean your room

1. Play a challenging game like chess or Rubix cube

The world of chess is being revolutionized by the introduction of AI. Computers have been able to beat the best of human players for some time now, but now some programs can teach you how to play chess better than any human could. They can even help you improve your strategies and become more competitive against other chess players.

Chess is one of the most challenging games in history, so it can help you by diverting your attention to winning the game. That’s to say, chess needs attention and focuses to play and by you putting all your focus and attention to win the game, it will help to forget your boredom and your environment. 

2. Listen to music and dance around the house

Dancing is a great way to exercise, relieve stress, and have fun! It’s easy for anyone to dance to music. You can even break out your favorite moves with your kids. 

One of the best ways to make yourself happy is to listen to music. Choose the one you like and put it on, then close your eyes and let the (song) take control for a while. Dance around like you used to when you were younger and see that genuine happiness coming back into your life.

3. Go for a bike ride, explore your neighborhood or just go for a walk

Exercise is good for your health and your mood. It boosts the production of endorphins and serotonin to give you a natural high and make you feel like you can take on anything. but then how can this help you?

This can help you in a lot of ways and one of them is that your loneliness will disappear faster than staying in one place in the house.

The second is that you will feel lively and that is the beauty and purpose of having fun.

4. Write in your journal about your day and what you felt

Today I woke up, got dressed in my jammies, and looked out my window. It was raining heavily and no matter how small my home is, I still felt lonely, I started moving around the house and at the end of it, I saw myself in the kitchen how I got there, I just can’t explain, but then I decided to make myself breakfast but appetite was very far from me at that stage I didn’t have a choice than to put the breakfast down and then off to my bed again. 

A few minutes later I felt like speaking with someone so I went through my contact list called one of my friends but in the end, I still didn’t feel comfortable because I couldn’t tell what I was feeling. So I told my jotter from my bedside and decided to write my schedule for the day down. 

when I started, I ended up seeing myself opening up to my jotter. Within two minutes, one page of my jotter was full and then the second page started, I was so relieved.

After writing on my jotter, I discover that I was feeling much better like I just pour my heart into someone. The loneliness I was feeling was gone and the weight was lifted. that was how I knew that in the process of not being able to talk to anyone, that your jotter is your best friend in which you can trust.

Therefore, writing in your journal is one of the best and fastest ways to healing your heart and boredom. 

5. Collect Things on the Grandparents’ Farm

Getting busy is one of the best ways that you can help yourself from boredom. You don’t have to overwork yourself, all you have to do is to find things that will boost your spirit at that moment. so go on with what you know that will keep you occupied.

6. Make a list of heroes

In one way or the other, we have people that we like and look up to as our models, people or someone that motivates us a lot to be better than who we were yesterday and you need to make a list of them. 

How can this help you at this time?

When we are bored or feeling down, we are vulnerable and this time is dangerous and also the perfect time to think straight about our lives. Making this list will help you to be doing your research on what is missing in your life and also in what you can do to help you stand up and be like your idol. 

7. Watch a movie

There are movies that you can watch when you are bored and there are they once you shouldn’t watch at that particular time so ensure that you understand your emotions at that moment before selecting a movie to watch.

If you are feeling emotionally down, avoid romantic movies at this period, and go for a comedy movie, a movie that will make you laugh and not a movie that will make you be questioning yourself if you are that bad that you are all along again.

8. Read a book

Apart from watching movies and using my journal, one of the things I do a lot is to read a book. I am not a fan of hardcopy books but I am a fan of softcopy books especially stories. 

this is one of the methods I use when I feel like being on my own. I enjoy reading romantic stories and with that, I get to attach to light Reader a lot.

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Read a movie that you know will help your brain to be stable. Most times, a motivational book may not help lift you but can break you, but a romantic love story can help you by giving you another focus for the day instead of your boredom. Perhaps who doesn’t like a happy ending story?

9. Play a video game

Most times playing a video game is just like going to the gym. It keeps you occupied and happy with a new focus. No one plays a video game intending to be defeated but to win, so playing video games keeps your mind occupy and your brain busy that it has given no room for boredom to set in.

10. Clean your room

Being idle is one of the things that do make people feel bored while staying busy helps you to be active. Getting yourself busy will help. There is fun in cleaning your room when you are bored but the only problem is that you will use longer time than you intended using and that’s where the fun comes in. 

While arranging your clothes, you will be testing as many as to see how it is on you, how the clothes, shoes, hat, etc complement your beauty. with this, there will be no room for boringness. 

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Tips On How To Be A Good Mother

Being a good mother is not just about being the one who gives birth to a child; it is actually doing things right that matters most. These tips on how to be a good mother will help you in many ways that you may not imagine.

–How to be a good mother

-Be there for them when they need your advice, love, and support

No matter how much or little you earn as a single mother, make sure that you provide everything that your baby needs. It is important to shape their future so give them all the love by spending time with them and providing them with happy moments filled with joy. You can also teach them tips on how to be a parent someday if you want to without the pressure of making sure you have a partner to do it.

By doing this, you are not only training them emotionally and otherwise, instead, you are also showing them good examples of how to be a good mother when they grow up to have their own family.

-Give them tips on how to be an independent individual

A good mother is someone who teaches their children tips on how to become responsible human beings. Independence means doing things for yourself and not expecting other people to carry you all the way. You should encourage your children on how to be good people by encouraging them on how to take care of themselves and make sure that they are spending time doing something productive so that they can grow up healthy.

-To be there for them during bad times and not just during good ones

Being close with your kids even during hard times will mean a lot when they realize how to be a good person as well as tips on how to be a parent someday. You can share tips on how to be a good parent with them by providing a shoulder, and spending your time with them even when they are not really in the mood for company and need some time alone.

–Tell them tips on how to be a successful person

A great mother is someone who has lots of tips on how to be a successful individual so that they can pass this down to their children. Let your kids know tips on how to become rich and famous as early as now so they will have their plans set straight when they eventually grow up. This will also give you more tips on how to be happy so do not forget.

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What this point is, teach them in time and also help them to discover their talents in time. This can be done by ensuring that you are watching them discover their passion on anything with that, you will be able to help them using their passion and talent starting at a young age.

-Teach them tips on how to handle money wisely by giving an allowance

Giving them tips on how to be successful early in life, by giving tips on how to handle money wisely is something that will help them in the future. Gather all your tips on how to be rich and see if you can save some tips for your children instead of spending each penny that you earn. You can guide them through on how to invest or on how to spend wisely so that they will not have to be poor when they grow up because they have no insight on how to make some savings.

-Teach them tips on how to take care of themselves and their belongings

When we say ‘your belongings’, it does not just mean the things that belong solely only to yourself but also referring to how to look after others too.

-Give them tips and instructions for safe internet use and what’s inappropriate contents

The best way to help your children is on how to avoid certain types of information online, by teaching them how to check first before clicking. Give them tips on how to protect themselves and telling them what kinds of content is probably not suitable for their age group, which will definitely benefit them in the long run. Tips on how to protect one’s identity online are very important especially with all the cyberbullies lurking around so make sure that you take time out every day just for this purpose. It can be one of the very important tips on how to be a great parent as it will help prevent depression and various other problems in the future.

-Always be there for them even if you are tired or stressed out

There are no other ways on how to be a good parent if you are not around when your kids need your help to handle stress. Stress can change people’s attitudes so make sure that they know how to relax by setting tips on how to ease stress aside for them. It does not have to be expensive items, just simple things like tips on how to go about staying healthy with little exercise here and tips on how to eat right most of the time. Letting them witness how to relieve stress now will probably set their calm behavior when they grow up.

-Set a good example by teaching them how to be a good person

We know that life is not always positive and to our favor at all times but for your children’s sake, try to set the best life on how to relax as you can. Do not let them see you get angry and yell or even worse, hit someone. Children learn how to act from observing their surroundings so if there is no one around who knows how to stop anger, then they should stay away from violent people. Be the role model for them.

-Teach them how not to take being happy for granted

This is one tip that most people don’t know that is necessary if you want to know how to be a good mother.

The tips on how to love your life, tips on how to be a good spouse, tips on how to have a safe and protected s*x when they are of age for that, and tips on finding ways not to cheat in whatever you do in life, etc. are all tips that you can teach them. Let them know you appreciate their presence by telling them how to take care of one’s family. It is also important that they know tips about preventing different STDs so do make sure that it does not slip off the tip!

-Teach them tips and tricks for looking after themselves through manners and dressing well

If there is nothing wrong with their health nor with taking care of themselves, then maybe what needs improvement is the grooming tips.

An indecent dressing will not bring shame to her or him, but instead, it will bring shame to you in a way that even if you are a good mother, people will not address you that way because if you are truly a good mother, it comes have shown on your child.

Therefore, ensure that you teach them how to dress in time and also the right manner of approach in life. this will help them and also protect their image in and out.

There are a lot of other ways how to be a good mother but these are the top 11 ways on how to be a good mother to your children.

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