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17 of what to say to a girl

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Knowing what to say to a girl

 

What to say to a girl at times is like a war to most guys.

Some of us are in love while some of us have people we admire.

 

But at times, it seen we don’t love nor value them because we don’t know the words to use, where and when to use them.

 

We think that we are not romantic and with that, most of us sit down and watch romantic movies just to learn how to be romantic.

 

That’s not bad but for how long?

 

You don’t need a thousand words before you can sweep her off her feet.

 

All you need is just the perfect words to do the magic for you.

 

Example of what you can say to a girl are:

why you should use romantic words

  1. I’m not perfect but you are the only woman that makes my life feel perfect.

 

  1. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.

 

  1. A smile of a man is love and strength, and you are my love and my strength.

 

  1. No matter how far you are, you are still going to be in my heart.

 

  1. Those who think that true love doesn’t exit, they haven’t seen us together. We are record breakers.

 

  1. You make my life colorful.

 

  1. True love is when the heart feels quicker than the mind thinks.

 

  1. I will always be there for you, anytime, anywhere.

 

  1. Have I ever told you how beautiful you look today?

 

  1. I love you more as each moment passes us by.

 

  1. All I ever wanted was someone like you. And thank God I found you.

 

  1. My love for you is like water, falling countless.

 

  1. Can I ask you for something? Can I love again in our next life because I can’t get enough of you.

 

  1. My life is complete because I have you in it.

 

  1. You are one of the achievement in my life I will forever be proud that I made.

 

  1. I will give up the world just to have u because without you, life is incomplete.

 

  1. If loving you was a crime, I wouldn’t mind being send to jail.

 

Just to prove how much I love you.

what to say to a girl….. with this few lines, it can get you started.

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10 POSITIVE GREAT WAYS TO GET ATTENTION FROM HER

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 Few steps to help you get attention from her

Get attention: When we approach someone either one on one, on a phone call, or social media, there is only one thing they do first,

And that is looking at you from your head to your feet before responding yes? Hi.

Then the next one is on phone call, when you call and you talk like a man not a boy they will then ask

you, are you on any social media?

Now that’s the question.

She is not asking because she wants to add you up, No, instead, she is asking because she wants to go

through your profile.

Now, that’s where these 10 tips come in to help you get more insight on how to get attention that you need.

To get attention from her, follow these steps:

  1. Don’t start a conversation with the word XUP, hwfa, hey etc if you are not familiar with the

person. Start with at least Hi, Hello, Hello dear, Hello there etc.

  1. When she responds, don’t now use xup, sup, hwfa in the conversation until you know the kind of lady she is.

Instead, continue with “how are you today? How was your day? Etc.

But if you want to flirt with her a little and make her smile even when you don’t know if she did

smile, but I tell you, she did smile. You go with “how is your beautiful self-doing?

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  1. Don’t use grammars that you can’t spell correctly. We all know when a typical error occurs and

when someone makes mistake and no one is above mistake nor perfect but don’t make 70% of

your spellings to be wrongly spelled.

  1. Work on yourself. Physical appearance matters.

Don’t mind the saying that physical appearance doesn’t matter in a relationship because it does.

“No one will be okay with someone who talk in native shirt on a trouser”

  1. Change your ways of thinking.

Example;

They are people who like going to social media to post anything that troubles them. They

market their problems, misunderstanding they had with someone, the conflict they encounter

they market all their private life on social media.

You need to know that it is social media, not your diary because other people are seeing it.

It is only a kid not a mature person that does that.

  1. Try creating a friendship with her first by getting to know her, more and more every day gradually

before you proceed.

N/B when you guys become good friends, she will be free with you likewise you.

  1. Don’t start a conversation 24/7 once she comes online because it will look like you were waiting

for her to log in and that is desperation and trust me, you will end up looking desperate.

Give her a chance at least once to be the one to initiate a conversation with you. Maybe an

Hi to you before you jump in and take over.

  1. Give her a chance to miss you a little that is when she will discover herself, how she feels in your

absent from there knowing where to place you in her life.

  1. Be true to her. No matter how terrible it is.

A woman who is for you will fight with you if only you are fighting it. She is ready to fight alongside with you.

You can also read:

Knowing what to say to her

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE WORD LET’S BE FRIENDS

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DATING SOMONE AND BEING INLOVE

How I Felt Inlove With My Facebook Friend

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when love happens 2

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 When love happens 2

WHEN LOVE HAPPENS 1

Chapter 2 of when love happens

(after they all agreed to the challenge rules and later departed to

their homes.

Mike wasn’t himself anymore so he started thinking and making

plan on who to flirt with for the two months’ challenge)

Two days passed, he still didn’t make a choice of the lady he

wants to use as bet yet.

On the third day, he went out jogging then beside the

Amusement park, he saw some group of individuals doing cookies

promo.

As a business man, he walked up to them to required about the

business on reaching there he discover that they were just paid to

promote the business which means that the actual owner

wasn’t there with them.

So he called one of the promoter which was a lady. (and the

conversation went like this)

Mike: hello there (he smile at her)

F Promoter: hello sir.

Mike: (flirting) you look beautiful on that T shirt.

F Promoter: Thank you, you are not looking bad either.

Mike: what are you guys promoting?

F Promoter: products from a bakery store.

Mike: tell me about it

F Promoter: Okay. We have cakes/cupcakes, pizza, shawama,

cookies etc.

We give you 20% discount on pizza, shawama, cakes that you

order from the store this season and 5% discounts on cookies.

Mike: that’s a great deal. I would like to try it out but first, give

me the address or contact details.

F Promoter: (smiles) I can give you my contact number for now.

Then when we get to know each other, I can then give you the

address. For security purposes.

Mike: (smiles at her) okay no problem. But I was actually asking

for the store address or contact details.

F Promoter: oh I’m sorry, I thought you were asking of my own

personal contact and address.

I’m sorry please.

Mike: it’s okay I understand. It happened all the time.

(after giving him the address of the store, he departed. On

reaching home that evening, he told

his friends about the incident that occur and also about the plan

of making a deal with the store.)

Around 8am on the next day, he decided to visit the store, so he

dressed up and left.

When he reached the store he sat down and a waiter walked up

to him with a menu after checking the menu, he decided to make

an order so as to sit and observe the movements in bakery.

Few minutes later a waiter came out when he looked, it was a

beautiful lady walking up to set the order on his table then he

said Hi, but before he could make another statement, the lady

already left to attend to another customer.

But he kept starring at the lady until he was done eating. He then

walked up to the counter to pay his bill using credit card.

While the payment was still in process,

Mike: Hi I’m Michael Sharks but you can call Mike. And may I

know who the beautiful lady behind the counter is?

Kristina: (smiles) I’m Kristina

Mike: so Kristina, do you work here full-time?

Kristina: actually am the owner of the bakery.

Mike: that’s nice, a career lady right? The beautiful woman that

owns this beautiful store.

Kristina:  yes that’s me Mr. Mike the co-founder of M3 groups of

companies.

Mike: wait a minute, so you know me?

Kristina: who doesn’t know you in this country. I’m a great fan of

yours, I started my bakery

store a year ago after reading some marketing articles on your

website.

Mike: wait, you knew who I was from the very start and you also

happen to be my fan, then

why didn’t you save me the stress of starting a conversation?

Kristina: so is it a taboo to initiate a conversation with your fan

even if the person is not up to

your class?

Mike: oh no, don’t get me wrong. Just that, I don’t remember the

last time I start a

conversation with a lady.

Kristina: I see, I’m sorry that I don’t behave like other ladies.

(the chat continued for about 10 minutes)

Mike: It was nice meeting you. Can I get your personal contact if

you don’t mind?

Kristina: seriously? My personal contact? Are you trying to flirt

with me right now?

Mike: hahaha of course not. You know, I might even run some

review on your business to bring

more costumers for you. You can never tell.

Kristina: (smiles) okay. This is my card.

Mike: thanks. I will call you at night.

(he left the bakery to the office)

Moses: hwfa man, you are late.

Mike: yea, sorry man. I went to that bakery store today.

Miracle: so? How did it go? Did they agree to advertise with our

company?

Mike: I didn’t even remember about that. But I saw something.

Miracle: what did you see that caused you to forget the deal you

went there for goodness sake?

Moses: Is only a lady that can cause this confusion.

Miracle: ah (he laughed) my man, was it truly a lady matter?

Mike: well yea but, is not really that. If you see this lady, the way

she talked.

There was something about her that I’ve never seen before on all

these ladies.

But don’t worry guys, the deal is off but the bet is on. I got this…

 

(To Be continued on when love happens 3…)

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WHEN LOVE HAPPENS 4

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Chapter 4 WHEN LOVE HAPPENS

Krish: hahahha girl you wish…

Kristina: what?? Michael sharks is your brother? like biological brother?

Krish: are you playing with us right now?

Sarah: no I’m not.

Kristina: but since when? You guys are not even bearing the same name.

How come he is your brother or is he your village brother?

Sarah: see, you girls only know my first and last name which is Sarah S. Anderson

Krish: So?

Sarah: the “S” in my name stands for Sharks. Which is Sarah Sharks Anderson.

Kristina: shut…… up!!! Are you serious?

Kristina and Krish: (wow) we are sorry. We didn’t …….

Sarah: (cuts in) It’s okay girls… people like calling him that even in my present and perhaps, you

girls never knew he was my brother.

Kristina: wow so what more secret have you kept from us?

Sarah: hahahahahha.

At the end of the discussion.

Sarah: so please can you befriend my brother for now at least let’s see if having a decent

female friend beside him will change him?

Kristina: will change him? How will having a female friend change him?

Sarah: Mike mindset is that every lady that comes closer to him is coming for his money so

he doesn’t believe in friendship with an opposite sex.

Krish: so you mean that my sister will not make any money from this project to avoid wrong

impression?

Kristina: come!!! Were you trying to use me and make money?

Krish: lols not like that na. at least you need an upkeep.

Sarah: name your price I will pay you.. but please don’t make him fall in love with you thus

He will try flirting with you, keep it in a friendship level to avoid anyone getting hurt.

What do you say?

Kristina: okay I will give you a respond by tomorrow after dinner with your brother.

Krish: yes!!! I knew you will do it… game on..

Kristina: hey lady….. I didn’t say I will. I said till tomorrow.

(they all laughed)

Before 8pm, Mike was always in Kristina living room waiting for

her to get set for them to go for

dinner. Kristina then came out she was on red short gown with silver accessories.

Mike: wow!!! You look extraordinary on red.

Kristina:(smiles) thank you.

Mike: may we? (he pointed to the car packed in the entries.)

Kristina: yea sure.

(on reaching there)

Kristina: wow this place is beautiful

Mike: yea it is. Is this your first time here?

Kristina: yes

Mike: you don’t mean it…

Kristina: I mean it…. I’ve always wanted coming here with my sis.

Mike: that means I choose the right place for this dinner.

Kristina: (smile) I guess.

Waiter: welcome sir.

Mike: how are you?

Waiter: fine sir.

Mike: is our table ready?

Waiter: yes sir.. please follow me.

(while they were eating)

Mike: do you like the food?

Kristina: I love it..

Mike: smile. I’m glad you do. So tell me about yourself?

Kristina: nothing much about me. I’m just a simple Akwa Ibom lady from the family of three.

Two girls one boy, my brother just had admission into NIT

Mike: that’s nice what about your sister?

Kristina: her name is krish we live together.

Mike: “krish”, “Kristina”

Kristina: lols actually her name is Christabel we are identical twins. Too much India movies she

felt in love with the name krish.

Mike: that’s cool. Like I’m in love with you now?

Kristina: hahahaha.

Mike: I’m serious, I like you.

Kristina: mike, liking someone is normal.

Mike: hahahaha abi. So what do you want me to do now?

Kristina: we can just be friends you know? At least get to know each other.

Mike: two adults being just friends? Is that even possible?

Kristina: you may never know unless you try experimenting it.

Mike: hmmm okay. If you say.

Kristina: what’s your own story the one that media doesn’t know.

Mike: hahaha well, we are just two. I and my sister, her name is Sarah, she is great you will like

her when you meet her.

Kristina: yea she is great.

Mike: have you met her before?

Kristina: oh no, but I can’t wait.

Mike: okay.

Kristina: is getting late we should start going.

(they both stood up and walked to the car)

Kristina: did you pay those guys?

Mike: yea It was booked so I paid online.

(he took her home and then departed to his house)

On reaching home, he saw his friends already seated in the front stage waiting for his arrival.

When he saw he started laughing.

Mike: come guy una no get una houses again? (don’t you guys have houses again)

Moses: shut up this one na house?

Miracle and Mike: laughed…

Miracle: tell us did it go well?

Mike: we….. (pause as his phone started ringing) shhhh stop talking she is calling.

(he picked the call)

Kristina: hello

Mike: hello beautiful

Kristina: I just wanted to say thanks for the dinner I enjoyed it.

Mike: I’m glad you did. So can we do it again sometime?

Kristina: okay sure. Are you home now?

Mike: yea I’m home. Just missing you.

Kristina: smiles Okay take care of yourself Goodnight dear.

Mike: okay sweet dreams love.

He ended the call.

I told you guys, I run this town, game on…  abi two months? just prepare the 10% and

keep for me.

Miracle and Moses looked at each other but said nothing.

Krish: wow that guy is really ready to twist your brain girl. Please be smart.

Kristina: see who is giving someone advice.

They all laughed.

Sarah: I know he is my brother but Krish is right this time please be careful he is good.

Kristina: okay I will.

(Kristina and Mike kept updating their friends about the progress of their friendship but things

started changing on the fourth week, they started being secretive no more update to their

friends, no more conference calls, no more putting of phone on speaker while calling one

another.)

On the second week of the second month, Mike got sick and was hospitalize. When Kristina

heard it she decided to visit.

Kristina: good afternoon nurse

Nurse: yes…..

Kristina: looking for Mr. Michael sharks.

Nurse: and you are?

Kristina: Family

Nurse: okay room 14 VIP quarters.

Kristina: thank you.

On reaching there, Mike was awake and his friends were with him.

Kristina: hi

Moses and Miracle: hi

Mike: babe

Kristina: how is your health?

Mike: I’m getting better.

Moses: cough

Mike: oh guys this my dearie friend. And babe these are my friends, Miracle and Moses. We

growth up together.

Kristina: wow is great to finally meet you guys.

Moses: same here.

Miracle: we’ve heard a lot about you.

Kristina: when will you be discharge?

Mike: today

Kristina: today? But you don’t still look good.

Moses: he insisted on going

Kristina: insist? Why?

Mike: babe soon the media will full this hospital and I can’t stand them.

Moses: but who will take care of you at home this one your sis is sick too?

Kristina: your sister is sick? Wow

Miracle: maybe we will get a maid for him.

Kristina: no need for maid…. I will take care of him

Mike: looked at Moses and Miracle and smiled…. Babe are you sure you want to do this?

Kristina: I guess… or don’t you want me around?

Mike: of course I want you. Just that…

Kristina: then stop talking.

Mike: okay thanks babe. I love you.

Kristina: smiles.. I know.

That evening, Mike was discharge. Kristina moved in with him just for the treatment period.

Few days later,

Miracle: my man.

Mike: welcome guys.

Moses: how’s your health?

Mike: I’m good man. Thanks for coming around….

Moses: anytime man. Perhaps what can you do without us.

Mike: hahahahaha mad man.

Miracle: your babe is really taking care of you oh.

Moses: I swear. See how a sick man shine.

Mike: hahaha well she is a good lady am telling you.

Miracle: but my man, you try oh.

Mike: for wetin? (for what)

Miracle: keeping her till now, guy what is the secret, you don fall in love so? (have you fallen in love).

( Kristina coming out from the kitchen overheard their discussion. She waited at the lobby to

hear more)

Moses: See question oh guy, what else will keep this kind of guy that doesn’t believe that love

still exist without money in this bondage till now if not our 10% of the company shares.

Mike: guy wetin dey do you? (what’s wrong with you) don’t allow my babe to hear you oh.

I……

(before Mike could finish talking, Kristina left, she went to the room and packed her stuff. On

reaching the living room)

Moses and Miracle: hi Kristina

Kristina: hello guys, (she turned to Mike) something came up at the bakery that require my

immediate attention. So I will have to run.

Mike: okay…… but what’s with the box?

Kristina: which of the box?

Mike: your box

Kristina: oh yea the box. I need to stop by the house and pick new set of clothes.

Mike: are you okay?

Kristina: yea I’m fine.

Mike: okay babe. Call me once you reach. I………

(she left immediately before Mike could complete his word) love you.

Moses: is everything okay with you guys?

Mike: yea everything is okay…. I guess.

Miracle: Moses, you were right oh, our man is in love.

Mike: smiles…. shut up…….

Three days later, Kristina, krish and Sarah were at the bakery

Sarah: girl I’ve never seen you like this, is everything okay between you and my brother?

Kristina: yea, yea, everything is fine.

Krish: come on Kristina, tell us what the problem is. If is Mike, then I will get him beat up for

you. You know na

Kristina: smiles thanks dear, but he did nothing to me. Just that I just don’t know what to

believe any more after what I heard from them.

Krish: what did they say and who are the them?

Kristina: M3 of course. Do you know that this guy used me in winning a 10% share of the

company bet he had with his friends.

Krish: oh Lord shivah

Sarah: come krish, must you be saying that all time. The earlier you realized that you are not

an Indian, the better.

Kristina and krish: laughed

Krish: but that guy wicked.

Sarah: wicked? What makes him different from us? Were also playing a game don’t ever forget that.

Krish: well, that’s true but still, he played with my sis emotions.

Sarah: krish don’t be sentimental. You know very well that your sister doesn’t love anyone

except her bakery.

Krish: hmm Sarah are you that dump? When your brother got sick and you turned your back on

him, my sister had to move in with him, just to take care of him what more do you want to see

before you notice the changes in front of you that she loves your brother.

Sarah: hmm she loves my brother? What love is that if she can’t even admit it in front of us.

I don’t think……

Kristina: (cut in) can you girls please stop. I know the plan wasn’t to fall for him, but what did

you expect me to do. After moving in with him, I notice so many things about him, I felt at

home, safe and loved.. no man has ever treated me the way your brother did. I can’t believe

he was twisting my brain. How could I be so stupid to believe in love again.

Sarah: again?

Krish: well, Sarah everyone has a story.

Sarah: hmmm so let me get it straight… do you still love my brother?

Kristina: I love him

Sarah: but he played you? What will you do about that?

Kristina: we are not innocent either remember, I wish all his words were true. I can’t believe I

fell for that. My heart just deceive me..

Sarah: then if you love him that much, don’t back out.

Kristina: how? He doesn’t even love.

Sarah: I guess he does.

Kristina: how do you know that?

(someone from the table behind Kristina responded) because I told her.

When she looked it was Mike sitting behind them with his friends.

She stood up immediately and wipe her tears.

Kristina: what are you doing here and for how long have you sat there?

Mike: I came to take you home… and for how long have stayed there, well long enough that

krish couldn’t join again in the discussion because I begged her not to.

Kristina: take me home as what?

Mike: I love you

Kristina: you love me? Is there a new bet on ground and you need me to win again?

Mike: come on Kristina, I will be a fool not to love you.

Kristina: then what about the bet?

Mike: I was hurt, I didn’t know what to do any more but when I met you, you were different. I

could have called off the bet since if only I knew that you were real.

I only realized it when my Sister told me about the plan you girls had.

Kristina: “plan”?” your sister”( she turned to Sarah and said) start talking.

Sarah: well you stopped updating us about the progress of your friendship with him, you

changed, you were no more doing conference call. So I decided to find out by going to stay

with him during that weekend.

Krish: eheheh you told us you were going to visit your family not your brother.

Sarah: yea, but Mike is my family too.

Kristina: please keep talking Sarah…

Sarah: when I reached there, I also discover that my brother changed too. He couldn’t stop

talking about you. I couldn’t endure my brother getting hurt again so I told him everything.

Kristina: everything huh?

Mike: yea she told me everything, how you don’t believe in love also and how they planted you

in my life as a friend. But it was too late because I was already in love with you.

Sarah: I knew you were in love with my brother even when you didn’t want to admit so from

seeing the changes from the both side, we decided to change the game.

Mike: I wasn’t sick, it was just part of the plan. Come on Kristina, if you didn’t love me, you

couldn’t have come to look after a grow up guy like me.

Moses: so the doctor, the drugs, the reaction on your face?

Mike: well, that’s our family doctor, the drugs were just vitamins and as for the reactions, they

were real.

I’m allergic to cheese but to make it look real, I had to take it then I called my doctor to be

stand by.

See, I’ve not been this serious in my life for a long time, believe me babe. I love you and I’m

sorry I played you.

Kristina: smiles you took cheese just to get my full attention… I’m sorry that you had to go

through that just to make me realized who much I needed you.

Mike: then marry me, I promise to be faithful.

Kristina: hahahaha I know…

Mike: hmmm you know? Sarah told you about my past?

Kristina: hmmm I guess..

Everyone started laughing…..

Mike: then will you marry me or will you like to confirm from Sarah first?

Kristina: hahahaha of course I will marry you.

Mike: Thanks sis I hold you one big time.

Sarah: anything for family.

Moses moved closer to Krish

Moses: are you single…….

Krish: smile.. yea.

Moses: can I ask you out?

Krish: as a date?

Moses: yea if you don’t mind

Krish: I don’t mind…

Everyone started shouting………. As celebration started…

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6 life partner qualities everyone should have

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6 most essential Life partner qualities you need

Your choice of life partner qualities matters a lot..

It is obvious that women were born with four sight and that’s a

good start but apart from this four sight, what have you done to

improve yourself? What is it you want in life and what are your

plans towards that?

What we do and how we do it determines were we are and where we are going.

A friend once posted her boyfriend photo almost everywhere on

social media but few weeks later, she

took down those photos and updated a status saying;

“To hell with those who think I cannot do without them”

When I inbox her to know what brought about such status, she

told me that she had a fight with her

boyfriend which result in breaking up. That is not the kind of man

that she wants in her life.

I now asked her what is your kind of life partner qualities you are looking?

She said;  Do you want to marry or date a Filipino? then start here

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After she told me all this, I now discover that if we expect this

from men, it means they even expect more than this from us.

You know why?

It is because we were the ones born with four sight.

Which means we have responsibilities too, apart from raising children.

A man need a woman who respects him. No man will like to

marry a woman who doesn’t know what it means to respect     someone.

And mind you, you can never respect a man if you don’t respect     your parent.

The character of a child can be trace to his/her root.

A child who is the same age with her parents will also carry that

life style outside no matter how long she pretends, she will one day unveil.

Even a man needs a woman who will love him not because of what he is capable of during

for her at the particular moment but a woman who will love him unconditional without

second thought which is doubt.

Love has the power to twist someone’s mind even without him knowing.

Which means that even a womanizer has a soft spot which just needs that right lady to get to it.

Even men deserve gifts from their ladies. The same way we expect from them. that’s why having a life partner qualities is important.

Example: you asked him for some cash to go shopping and he gave it to you without

complaints you now went to the mail, you end up spending to the last dime of the cash he gave you. You return home smiling because you got the latest stuff in town, you start show cases it to him and he sits looking at you.

Telling you am glad you are happy and you smile and say thank God I have you. I love you.

And you think that’s it?

Do you think of what he could have said if only you got maybe a tie, key holder, a shirt,

stockings etc from the same money he gave you as a gift to him while you were busy shopping for yourself? It looks simple but it has its own rewards.

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Men like women who make use of their four sight. You told him about your dreams, what and where you want to be in the next three years. But have you ever care to know about his own dreams if he has any at all or not?

What is his stand and his plans towards this dream of his?

Have you tried being a source of encouragement to him or do you look down on his own dreams while your own is the only important one.

If you have not, then that is self-centered. Men don’t like self-centered women

Learn to show him that you care a lot about where he is going.

A man who loves his family will never accept a woman who doesn’t respect especially his Mother because if you don’t respect and love even your own family, you can never be a good mother no matter how hard you try.

A woman who can save: is it not a bad thing to spend but it is good when you know that there is time for everything.

you can’t expect your man to have a saving when you are busy spending.

He has friends which he can likewise sit out with for drinks but instead, he is busy trying to put things together while you, in the other hand you are not helping, my dear, he will soon get tired of you. You know why? It is because you are feeding him with the impression that if he gets poor, you will break up with him.

Most ladies love to put down on their diary the quality of men they want and most times they stay like forever without getting such men they wanted.

Is it because such men don’t exist? No, it is because they don’t have the qualities they are looking for in a man. You can’t give what you don’t have.

Let the you, speak for you, work on yourself and not your diary, let the life partner qualities you are looking for be first of all be seen in you.

N/B you can only attract what and who looks like you.  30 Relationship advice for men and 20 relationship advice for women

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8 reasons: romantic words are important

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ways romantic words can influence your home

Being romantic plus using romantic words has been one of the

relationship issues that is being very contentious from both

religious fanatics and people of the secular world.

Romance however has being embraced by the secular world more

than the people of church circle.

Most Christians are of the opinion that being romantic is

synonymous to being worldly  which means that being romantic

or using romantic words is not biblical. Can that be true?

Romance is one of the basic ingredients that spurs or lubricates a

love relationship well  and is expected of every partner in such

relationship.

As a principle it is necessary to learn and adapt to romantic

lifestyles for emotional stability in love relationships.

People in Other forms of relationship need not get romantic to

keep it stable.

The truth is, romance is a spice that has kept a lot of marriages

from breaking. Any marriage that is not romantic is at the verge

of breaking or better still is 80% fail and divorce is eminent

unless an immediate action is taken on time on the positive

direction.

Once your partner starts behaving as your roommate just know

that something is wrong, that something that was there has

disappeared. Try finding out what that is and you both get it fix

immediately.

Even if it demands going out for a romantic dinner at new

locations.

THINGS THAT DESTROY A MARRIAGE

Many homes and marriages today are destroyed  not because the

partners were not made for each other or that their background is

the worst?

But many are destroyed and ruined today because of the negative

changes that evolved in the process of adjusting to the effect of

their new chapter in life called marriage.

These are as followed:

  1. Sudden Changes in Lifestyle
  2. Dressing and appearance
  3. Circle of friends
  4. Avoiding responsibilities
  5. Lack of mutual Respect
  6. Self Comparison with others
  7. Lack of frequent communication

Sudden Changes in Lifestyle: When the changes in your

lifestyle such as the way you live, talk, your sense of courtesy

and reasoning is nothing to write home about, you freak him/her

out any time you open your mouth to speak.

When you’re no more careful of your choice of words towards

your spouse, which are mostly provocative. You react and

capitalize on every single mistake that occurs in the house, from

your spouse, kids, or maids etc. And most time s/he may choose

to keep mute or dress up and step out for a walk.

Please note by this action you are indirectly driving your partner

out of your home, and your life.

Dressing and Appearance: You are married, so what else is it

you want more than a responsible life which is mostly reflective in

your choice of dressing? No you already have a man/woman so

don’t let your external dress code be provocative, inviting and

explosive rather dress smart and sharp, while paying attention to

the styles that matches your body physique and colors that

matches your complexion.

For the ladies, its not once you are married, you  join the Married

Women Dressing Committee (MWDC) to start dressing to cover

from your head to your feet, while he is still young and fresh.

Do you want to hear the truth?

“He is seeing you as an elderly woman, not a young lady he

married and that’s the truth.” dress in a way that he will start

composing  his own romantic words mend looking at you, without

looking through a love text message app to compose

You are losing value and you need to work on it fast before he

starts looking outside.

your dressing has a lot to do with the romance in your married. so learn to dress to romance your husband.

advantage is that, it will help him to look back home because his wife can dress.

Circle of Friends: it is not good to be a married woman/man and

still keep people who knows nothing about building a home as

your friends and expect to have a happy home. That’s an irony

What advise can they offer when you are troubled in your

relationship with your spouse?

They will not tell you to go back to your spouse and sort things

out rather they will be more comfortable having you sit out with

them even if its 11pm.

So I ask” is that the kind of friends married people or soon to be

couple should keep?

Please keep friends that are responsibly married to their spouse.

Avoiding Responsibilities: You cooked for him anytime you

visited him/ you bought gifts and card, phone alerts every now

and then during your courtship but after wedding, you got a

house help, you became madam/Sir,

you no longer cook his meal, wash his clothes/ no more special

gifts and alerts for your spouse. The bed room you and your

spouse sleeps on is done by the house help.

Everything done in the house is done by the house maid including

taking care of your spouse stomach etc.

should I advise you?

One day, the house help will also take care of your spouse’s

needs in the bed.

So make yourself available for your spouse’s need at home. Don’t

work around with the title Married man/woman without doing

your duty as a married person at home.

Women like anything alerts be it credit or airtime alerts, so

continue doing what you started and even do more

Lack of Respect: One thing you need to know is that women

needs all the attention that they can get and men need all the

respect they can get in their relationships

When you and your spouse starts acting the opposite. If he says

yes, you say No, you don’t do anything s/he says nor listen to

him/her for once, you are simply washing off the savour in your

marriage relationship.

Please there is a great need for mutual respect, if your

relationship must work.

Like commonly said “action speaks louder than words” ladies

should allow their husbands to be the head of the home and their

opinion respected despite their financial status. Respect should be

seen the more in your actions towards each other.

Comparison: If you want a happy and romantic home, never

compare your spouse nor your home with your neighbor’s or your

friend’s spouse/home openly nor secretly.

N/B another person’s home will always remain another person’s

home and your home is your home. Try and set your home well

both with prayers and make it work.

Men hates comparison while some ladies may tolerate it some

may not as their male counterparts.

Are we communicating?

Lack of Communication:  Do you know that once you and your

spouse stops expressing your thought/feelings to one another

maybe through romantic words, play etc

that’s how your home starts getting scattered?

When you two knows nothing about each other, that’s how you

become a stranger to each other in your home.

Communication and prayer Is the key every home should not

misplace no matter the situation.

To have a good relationship with your spouse, you need

communication in order to get to know and understand each

other properly.

No home nor relationship survives without communication,

especially long distance relationship.

There must always be a means of communication that connects

you two together.

Work on yourself, don’t bring in a third party into every small

issue that occur in your home.

N/B There is no home that doesn’t have nor face challenges.

How you handle it is what really matters.

THINGS EVERY MARRIAGE NEEDS apart from romantic words are:

PRAYER

COMMUNICATION

FRIENDSHIP

ROMANCE

LOVE EXPRESSION

FUN

RESPECT

ORDERLINESS

DISCIPLINE

HOME PRIVACY

ABSENCE OF THIRD PARTY

ABSENCE OF UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS

ABSENCE OF COMPARISON

GOOD DRESSING SENSE

COORDINATION

ABSENCE OF TOO MUCH FRIENDS

UNDERSTANDING

TRUST

NO RESTRICTION OF SECRETS FROM EACH OTHER

BACKUP BOTH IN PUBLIC OR YOUR SPOUSE

THINGS TO AVOID

LIES

ABUSES

CLUBING EXCEPT WITH YOUR SPOUSE

IRRITATING LIFE STYLE

REDUCE YOUR DRINKING HABIT

TRYING TO ALWAYS HAVE THE FINAL SAY

BEING BOSSY

HARSH

DISCRIMINATION BE IT PUBLICLY OR PRIVATELY

LAZINESS

IRRESPONSIBLE

BAD COACHING

so learn to use romantic words with your spouse and spice up the romance in your home.

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13Happy Tips for a successful relationship You Must Know

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1. What Does  Relationship Mean:

What Does Relationship really mean: People have different meanings and different understandings of relationships based on their views. However, a relationship generally, is a process where two people come together to connect and communicate with each other, to share their rights, and responsibilities.

An intimate relationship includes love, intimacy, commitment, companionship, Understanding, closeness, etc.

2. Tips for a successful relationship

The following tips below may be able to help you improve your relationship. (Tips for a successful relationship)

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• Communication: In a relationship, a connection is a gate but communication is the key to that gate. You need the key (communication) to have access to the gate (connection).
waiting for your partner to try to guess what is going on with you is like waiting for rainfall in a dry season.

• Meekness: Many people are just so temperamental to the extent of putting their relationship at risk. If you have anything to say, do it with coordination, think before you act not act before you think.

• Attention– Giving each other attention, a listening ear is one of the ways to bridge the gap not busy defending ourselves, trying to make our point valid at all times instead of creating room for other opinions to count.
Create an awareness that shows that you gave him/her your attention before you make your point. Using a minute to think before you respond may be of good help.

• Speak positively: the manner and approach in which you speak about your partner and your relationship has the power to sustain and the power to scatter your relationship. So speak wisely if you value your relationship.

• Learn to say I’m sorry: most people in their nature find it very difficult to use the word I’m sorry not because they are cocky but because they don’t know the value of the word.
If your attempt to set something right turns out the opposite of what you expected, try fixing it immediately don’t wait until it’s out of your control.

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• Togetherness: make your relationship a priority and make time for each other. Togetherness helps in generating a stronger bond between you and your partner and it helps to straighten the mind and also set it in the right direction.

• Appreciation: It is said “you don’t know what you have until you lose it” so appreciate your partner at all times, his/her effort should not be ignored nor go to waste. Show that you are proud to have them in your life.

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• Make plans: Nothing wipes a woman off her feet like involving her in your plans be it plans for the future or a day plan. It shows her where she belongs in your heart even without her confronting you to know her place in your life.

Set goals for your relationship and plan for your future together. This shows that you are taking your spouse and your relationship seriously.

• Be supportive: criticism is the gateway to failure. Being supportive doesn’t not only shows you care, it also shows that you wish them well.

• Prayers: Prayer is the key to everything, you can’t do it on your own so you need God to step in for you.

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• Arguments: accept that arguments will come, but the way you handle it when it occurs matters. Contempt is the strongest predictor of divorce, which is an action whereby your partner feels ‘put down by you, whether it is by the tone of your voice or whatsoever.

In arguments, whatever we say can bring a home together and harm the relationship which most times results in divorce.

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• Learn to compromise: compromising in a relationship shouldn’t come as a surprise to you at any time especially if it has to do with your family and is with a positive vibe.

In a relationship two imperfect people adjusting to fit into each other’s life then compromises are needed to make it work.

—– tips for a successful relationship
• Be sexually Active: being sexually active to your partner is a sign that you want them too, be passionate, affectionate in your way of doing things (a random warm hugging and a short passionate kiss is something)
It’s true that individually, we all have different sex drives and to sustain a happy sex life and a healthy home, it requires negotiation and agreement.

A physical disconnection between two partners is a red light that indicates danger in the relationship.

How to keep your relationship strong and healthy:

Having a successful relationship is one thing and maintaining it is another thing, and for you to maintain it, you got to put in all that you got.

You can maintain it by trying to be aware of whatever is happening around your partner in and out and also within your relationship.

Never assume to know everything because as we grow every day, we realize things that we never knew, then amendment takes place. Likewise, people changing.

Stay curious, it is really important to stay up to date about your partner and your relationship. Friendship is the basic key for staying up to date.
So create good friendships in your relationship as possible as you can.

Signs Of A  Dying Relationship:

Every relationship has the power to survive and the power not to, is left for the couple to play their part well.
Lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of togetherness, lack of intimacy, lack of respect and submission, Always at the neck of each other 24/7 (No agreement) Lack of appreciation, Doubt, etc.

How to solve your relationship problems:

Before you can solve any problem in life, you will have to, first of all, identify what the problem is.
After identifying the problem, if you don’t know the way forward especially if is that complicated that you can’t sort it out with your partner because of one thing or the other, seeking help from a counselor can be a good step to problem-solving.

Putting your knees down in prayers can be your starting point. Remember, communication is the key tips for a successful relationship.

Therefore, if you are ready for a serious relationship, then what tips for a successful relationship are you using? If none then you have to follow these tips for a successful relationship.

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17 Ways of how to make the world a better place for sure

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How to make the world a better place

Before thinking of how to make the world a better place, first of all say to yourself “I want to be part of that change”

You can not change the world, nor even have an idea on how to make the world a better place if you don’t first of all work on yourself and understanding of life.

Although it is not bad to feel like changing the world but it is when all you do is just to sit down and think instead of taking a step in making the world a better place.

there are so many ways of how to make the world a better place and few of them are listed below;

  1. Have a passion: you can not be happy doing things you don’t passion on. so if you have a passion or develop a passion on something, you will be moved to make next available step which is listed as point 2.

2. Get a skill: once you discover what you have passion on, make a move by going further to learn that skill, it will help in making you who you want to be.

after you’ve got a skill or something doing,

3. Teach someone: one of the best thing you can ever do in your community or environment is to train someone on what you know how to do best because how to make the world a better place is your target.

therefore training someone will not only make you a boss but it will also be pictured as one of the positive step in making the world a better place.

4. Assist people: Assistance does not only have to do with money, you can still assist someone by getting few things that you can handle done for them.

5. Treat everyone the same: You can’t make the world a better place if you treat people like trash, yeah trash all because they are in lower class in life.

your class in life, does not determine your future, the first can always become the last and the last becomes the first. so don’t treat people in the way that if they treat you, you will not be happy.

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6. Be friendly: are you wondering how this helps or fall among how to make the world a better place? The truth is that it has a bigger role to place in our daily lives most times unknown to us.

Being friendly with people will help you put a smile on a sadly woman’s face thereby helping them to live longer.

7. Focus on the positive side: what you think at times, has the power to make you or to destroy you. positive thinking will always give you a reason to live but a negative thought will always show you your weak point.

And once your weak is all that you see, you will be destabilized and the dream of making the world a better place is dead. so have a positive thinking no matter your current stage in life.

life is step by step.

8. Practice love: you not praticing that love you read about in a religion gathering, then you are helping the world.

so if you want to know how to make the world a better place, you got to start practicing that love first of all with your family, neighbors, community, then the world.

Note this: you can not offer what you don’t have, yeah, you can only give what you have and if you don’t have love in your heart or home, you can’t love someone else outside there.

9. Don’t always try being the boss at all times: You can’t make the world a better place if you are always the only one shining.

10. Give someone a ride: generosity is the keyword, The weather is hot or rain is falling, you drove and passed your neighbor on the road not even minding if the rain or sun is hitting him or her but you are thinking of how to make the world a better place and you think that’s it?

No, you can’t make the world a better place in that format. learn how to assist people in any way you can.

11. Do volunteering work: Join in volunteering work in your community, help teach the younger ones the difference between the good and the bad.

There are people out there who are looking up to you, therefore your actions has the power to change them or to corrupt them.

12. Donation: Now let me ask.

Can someone who is hungry and jobless, leaves his house to his or her religious gathering having faith that a member will give him or her money to get food and eat with the kids???

People go through a lot without having what it takes to say it out, but if we are to be caring about the people around us, we will know who needs an assistance from us at some certain point.

We really have to stop preaching love and start practicing, if we can’t, then we stop preaching it because;

Love is God and God is love, you can’t claim to be serving God or to know God when you don’t practice love with your fellow beings which you are seeing every day.

Therefore why don’t we start showing love and giving people hope to improve their lives showing them that we can still this world a better place? If you are with me, then Let’s make the world a better place.

Donate what you can be it clothes, food, money, etc. it will go a long way changing someone’s life.

13. Spend with wisdom: most times, the money we have can have a big negative influence on us until it finishes before we can come back to our senses.

so spending wisely and also knowing where to spend the money will not only help you to still have some left, but it will be seen as an achievement.

when i have and i give it out to someone who needs assistance, it doesn’t make me proud but it makes me happy knowing that I’ve been able to help someone in one way or the other.

14. Be serious: In whatever you do in life, if you are serious in it, there will always a positive result one day no matter how long.

15. Appreciation: You can encourage someone by first of all appreciating the little they have done. The secret behind this is that it motivates people to do more than they did before.

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16. Change your mindset: If you are a kind of person that when you give a little, you sit down and expect something in return or waiting for the person to be worshipping you when you walk, then you shouldn’t be thinking of how to make the world a better place.

With such mindeset, you can’t make the world a better place.

17. Your circle of freinds: make friends with people who thinks the same way has you who wants to strike to be better not people who are not ready for any positive change.

There how to make the world a better place is right in your hands, start from somewhere then others will learn from you.

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“See love ooo”: Man swims inside ocean to prove love for his woman.

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A man and his lover has stirred lovely reactions online as they shared video of the time they spent together.

In the video spotted on tiktok, the man was in the ocean as he brought out a placard which is written “I love you”.

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He didn’t lie wen he said he will swim the Ocean just to say I LOVE YOU❤️😭 #blacklove #loveisabeautifulthing #spreadinglove #thebainomugishas

♬ original sound – Mr & Mrs. Bainomuhisha

Reacting to this, many have forwarded love related comments as they wish both of them a lasting relationship.

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“My heart is heavy”: Lady in tears as lover marries another woman

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A lady identified as salma to to her twitter handle to shared how she is feeling after her man got married to amother woman.

In the post, the lady shared screenshots of their conversation.

The man made known that he love her and will divorce the newly wedded wife in few month.

He made known that it wasn’t his fault as he blames his relatives for his action.

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Reacting to this, many have consoled her as some advice her on what to do.

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