10 POSITIVE GREAT WAYS TO GET ATTENTION FROM HER

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 Few steps to help you get attention from her

Get attention: When we approach someone either one on one, on a phone call, or social media, there is only one thing they do first,

And that is looking at you from your head to your feet before responding yes? Hi.

Then the next one is on phone call, when you call and you talk like a man not a boy they will then ask

you, are you on any social media?

Now that’s the question.

She is not asking because she wants to add you up, No, instead, she is asking because she wants to go

through your profile.

Now, that’s where these 10 tips come in to help you get more insight on how to get attention that you need.

To get attention from her, follow these steps:

  1. Don’t start a conversation with the word XUP, hwfa, hey etc if you are not familiar with the

person. Start with at least Hi, Hello, Hello dear, Hello there etc.

  1. When she responds, don’t now use xup, sup, hwfa in the conversation until you know the kind of lady she is.

Instead, continue with “how are you today? How was your day? Etc.

But if you want to flirt with her a little and make her smile even when you don’t know if she did

smile, but I tell you, she did smile. You go with “how is your beautiful self-doing?

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  1. Don’t use grammars that you can’t spell correctly. We all know when a typical error occurs and

when someone makes mistake and no one is above mistake nor perfect but don’t make 70% of

your spellings to be wrongly spelled.

  1. Work on yourself. Physical appearance matters.

Don’t mind the saying that physical appearance doesn’t matter in a relationship because it does.

“No one will be okay with someone who talk in native shirt on a trouser”

  1. Change your ways of thinking.

Example;

They are people who like going to social media to post anything that troubles them. They

market their problems, misunderstanding they had with someone, the conflict they encounter

they market all their private life on social media.

You need to know that it is social media, not your diary because other people are seeing it.

It is only a kid not a mature person that does that.

  1. Try creating a friendship with her first by getting to know her, more and more every day gradually

before you proceed.

N/B when you guys become good friends, she will be free with you likewise you.

  1. Don’t start a conversation 24/7 once she comes online because it will look like you were waiting

for her to log in and that is desperation and trust me, you will end up looking desperate.

Give her a chance at least once to be the one to initiate a conversation with you. Maybe an

Hi to you before you jump in and take over.

  1. Give her a chance to miss you a little that is when she will discover herself, how she feels in your

absent from there knowing where to place you in her life.

  1. Be true to her. No matter how terrible it is.

A woman who is for you will fight with you if only you are fighting it. She is ready to fight alongside with you.

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My Blood My Hater 4

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MY BLOOD MY HATER (EPISODE 4)

 

Light fade

ACT iv

Scene 1

In an enormous sitting room, a man by name IKPA 62 is seen

sitting on the settee While his bodyguards

stand right behind him.

The Villagers are seen chanting and

laughing. Rita’s father IDIONG 60, comes out

smiling and waving his hands to everyone.

IDIONG: My in-laws you are all welcome to my house today.

Villagerman: Yes o. And we are so grateful to you for allowing us

to come into

your house without ill-treating us

(laughs) you know how badly some people have been treating us.

IKPA:

my people I greet you all, I deeply believe that some of you have

been informed of what today is all

about. (everyone laughs) yes yes, I know but let me duly bring it

to light why we have chosen to gather

here today with all of this.

I am here to marry Idiong’s beautiful

daughter Rita.

Please Idiong can you call her out?

IDIONG:

Rita ima mi. Your husband is here to see you o.

(Rita comes out. In front of her, seven women are seen dancing,

singing and clapping their hands and

behind her four women are also seen doing precisely what the

women in the front are doing as they all

match into the sitting room)

 

Light fade

Scene2

under a big Idara tree. A girl by name ITORO 17, is seen moving

about the tree. Paul comes towards her

with a wheelbarrow filled with yam.

Itoro:

Paul, come here. why are you treating me like this, why do you

treat me like a trash, why?

Paul: (frown his face) Itoro look, are you okay?

Why you stopping me from going to where I am sent, if you think

I have anything to tell you, you’re wrong.

Come, didn’t your dad give you the message I gave to him.

ITORO:

Paul I want you. I have already told my dad that if I do not get

married to you, I will surely die. Do you want me to die?

Paul: You must be crazy.

(chuckles) you prostitute, after sleeping around with all the men

in this land, you think you could use

your devilish pretty face to poison my heart so as to accept the

proposal(laughs), if your dad knows what

is right for him, he should better marry you out to one of these

old men. Idiot, okay come, do you know

where slut like you are found? they are fo….

ITORO: (slaps him twice)

how dare you commoner?

How dare you say such dreadful thing about me? Look at you, do

you know who you are, do you know

whom your mother is, (chuckles) stupid you, each time you

passed by your mommy’s house without

going in to see her. I feel for you, each time you look at Uforo

and smiled lovely at her, I take pity on

you because you don’t know how related you two are.

Paul: (stops and turns his face to her, he moves closer to her)

What did you say? (he’s short of words by what Itoro told him)

Itoro: (laughs at him) Look at you.

You son of a liability prostitute. She taught me how to prostitute,

she took me to your father Eben and I laid with him just the same

way she had laid with him to produce a nonentity who does not

know anything about himself.my brother you are a meat. I lost

my womb because of her.(tears flow down) she showed me the

path to hell. And I dare say I am not the only girl in this, so many

girls in this land are destroyed, some dead because of her. She is

using us to earn a living by all…

Paul: (grabs her by the neck in anger) who is she?

Tell me who she is otherwise I’ll kill you right here.

Itoro: (struggling to breathe) Her n-a me is.

Her n a m(stammering)

Paul: Yes speak. Tell me who the devil you refer to as mother.

Speak am listening.

Itoro: She is Idara, Uforo’s aunt.

Paul:(shocks) What?

Itoro :

Lemme go, you are hurting me. Paul let me go.

Paul:

(drops her down. He moves backward, staggering, and finally falls

down and sits on the ground. Tears encompass his eye. He puts

his hands on his head, looking pale and crazy)

Why me?

Of all the women in this land, how could she be the one, why?

Itoro:

(stands up and moves closer to him. She bends down next to him

and keeps her hands on his knees)

my parents died when I was six, I never knew what to do as at

then to earn a living. I was very hungry, I ran to my uncle’s

house for food and shelter but he rejected me, he called me all

sorts of terrible names.. I left him crying, everyone who saw me

ran away from me..(tears flow down her ) I went to my aunty

who was at then your father’s wife. She spat on me and told me

to get lost. (looks into his eyes) what then was I supposed to do.

No one I knew saved my life rather they all rejected me. One

night I was crying when your mom saw me and picked me up.

She took care of me until I turned thirteen.(smiles) she started

sending me out with men.

At first I thought I was doing the right

thing not knowing she was using me to earn a living without the

knowledge of her husband, sir Itoro.

I have slept with your father

for more than six good times and he has been favoring me with

beautiful things. He catered so much for me, I thought I was

right.. I have aborted so many times and the last one almost took

my life, but God saved me.

Right now as am talking to you, my

womb is damaged.your mom promised to give me to you because

of that.(looks at him pitifully) I have regretted everything, right

now I don’t know what to do.. Paul I am very sorry. I am so sorry

Paul :

(holds her together and cuddles her)

Itoro it’s okay.

I should be the one to say sorry to you. I had always hated you

each time I saw you. so how come about she being my biological

mother?.

Itoro:

According to her, her father is an herbalist. So she ran away from

him to start up a new life here. She couldn’t make it since there

was certainly no one in this land to help her. So one day, she

came to your father for food and he gave it to her and told her to

come which she did go back. When she got there, your dad was

eating and he asked her to join him,she did without

hesitating(she smiles at him)

Paul:

(smiles back at her)

Am still listening.

Itoro:

After eating, he took her home and raped her. She said, she

groaned and shouted but no one came..that’s all.

Paul:

Why do I feel like she is lying..why do I perceive that there’s

something she isn’t telling you.

Itoro:

The right thing to do is to go home and ask your papa.. Figure it

out from him, I believe he will tell you everything.(stands up) I

have got to say goodbye to you now(helps him up) can we be

friends?

Paul:

(pretending to be fine as he laughs)

Will it hurt you to know that I don’t like you.

Itoro:

(hits him on the chest and smiles )

You are so irksome I swear. You didn’t use to like me, but I used

to and am still liking you irrespective of how much you hate me.

I am so done pretending like I don’t like you… (moves closer to

him) I know you like me so much.

Paul:

What and how do you mean?

Itoro:

(smiles at him)

I saw the look on your face when you cuddled me. I felt really

good and sweet when I was in your arms.. You see that( smiles

and hits him)

Paul:

(laughs at her)

Women with their imaginations. Don’t be deceived I actually

hugged you because that precisely was the only thing I could do

at that particular moment so as to calm you down. And mind you

am fully aware of how Weak you girls can be. Try working on your

weaknesses. lets go home.

Light fade

Scene

Uforo is seen washing her clothes and spreading them on a very

long rope and all of a sudden she hears her aunt and uncle

shouting and quarreling at each other.

Idara:

I am so happy I slept with him, look at you if not that you

dropped out from school by now we would have been the first

people in this community to go the Abuja.

Look at lazy man, look at yourself, just look at you fool. Do you kno…..

Itoro:

(slaps the wife with his back hand)

Woman, I will kill you in this house, I never knew I got married to

a prostitute like you. A woman who has been luring young girls

into prostituting for money in orde..

Idara:

(cuts in)

for the two of us to eat, live happily in this house.. Do you know

how many girls I have used for money ritual in order for us to still

be alive ehh. Because of what you did every day my father keeps

demanding for the blood of young girls..do you…

Itoro:

(grabs her by the neck)

I did what I did because of you. so woman you will die now..

(Uforo comes and holds him )

Uforo:

Uncle leave aunt alone, what is wrong with you. Uncle let aunt

be,do you want to kill her(she shouts) somebody help! Some

body please help!(runs outside) some body please help me, my

uncle wants to kill my aunt

please come in and help them.please.

Passerby1:

You mean Itoro wants to eliminate his wife from this globe?

Uforo:

Yes sir..

Passerby2

Ette U.U why are you still here go in and help them.

( To their surprise, about entering the house, Itoro is seen running

towards them and behind him is his wife chasing him with

pestle.having seen his wife coming, they all started to run to

different places to hide.)

Idara:

Where is that killer that calls himself my husband.. Where is he?

(to Uforo)

Where is your foolish uncle?

Uforo:

(she slightly panics)

Aunt..hmm aunt.

Could you please drop the pestle. Please

(some young men comes in carrying Mkponnam who is lying

there breathless. )

Youngman1

(wailing )

Eka ufan mmi o..

Idara:

(on seeing her son, drops the pestle and rushes to him)

What happened to my son?

(calls his name but no response)

Is my son dead?

My son is dead, what  happened to my son o?

( Itoro rushes to his son as people gather watching them)

Itoro: Mkponnam! (taps him) mkponnam!

Please I know you are joking, waky waky(tears encompass his

eyes).

Do you still remember I told you that I will surely take you to

Abuja..wake up (he yells at him) why are you not responding?

Who did this to my son? (to one of the Young men standing by him)

Who did this to my son?

 

To be continued……..

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My Blood My hater

My Blood My Hater Episode 2

MY BLOOD MY HATER EPISODE 3

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3 reasons you should seek for attention

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why you should seek for attention in your dealing

One thing about attention is that, we can’t get close to someone nor please someone or a group of persons if we don’t

have their attention.

That’s why, even when trying to make an announcement we start

by saying

“CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION/AUDIENCE PLEASE”?

“ONE HOUSE PLEASE”? etc.

When I hear people saying

“I DON’T NEED ANYONE’S ATTENTION NOR SEEKING FOR

SOMEONE ATTENTION BEFORE I CAN MAKE IT”.

I totally disagree with that.

Why do I disagree? It is because even in business field, we need

people, customers to patronized us in

other for us to sell.

why do we pray?

Some says:

All you need is God to excel. Yea that’s right and is the fact but that’s still an attention.

We go to God in pray sometimes in our closed doors because we want to communicate with God alone

without distraction.

We talk to God and he gives responds to our prayers,

Why? Because he has given attention to our prayers.

Our request can only be approved if we have an audience.

Example

wpbeginner.com

wpbeginner.com is a site that gives step by step guides on how to create site, plugins etc.

They started with 1 visitor, 100 visitors to 1000s of visitors.

In the process of building up the site, they

were also looking for audience and with this, they were able to

drive traffic to their site which helped

them now to stand out worldwide.

Now this site started with 1 and later generated 1000s because

they later have people attentions by

showing people what they can offer.

They set their minds to get something done and strike deep which later took them to the kind of

audience they want.

What are we saying here?

We need each other to stand out. Don’t say I don’t need anyone in my life before I can make it because

we all do need and even God passes through someone to bless and change our lives for good.

NEVER TOO LATE We post pictures on social media expecting likes and comments from where?

Is it not from people? Even at times, we do have a particular person at mind which we want to capture his/her attention through the post.

Knowing very well that the person will see it maybe through news feed or by tagging the person.

Let’s change our mindset so that we can explore.

Thanks for reading. Please do come back.

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MY BLOOD MY HATER EPISODE 3

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     MY BLOOD MY HATER

 

(A tall guy by name MKPONNAM 22 comes out from the kitchen)

MKPONNAM: (slaps Uforo and the water falls from her head) How

dare you talk when my mom is

talking?

Are you mad, is it because your foolish father sent you to school

and as such you think you should talk to

people however you like. Is that it. I wonder where you will go

now that your father is gone.

UFORO: (tears roll down her cheeks) What did I do to you now?

Why have you slapped me for what I didn’t do? Why?

ITORO: Go and fetch the water… Leave them alone Uforo.

UFORO: (cries deeply as she carries the gallon away) Daddy! Daddy mmi o!

Why did you choose to leave me so soon?

What were you thinking when you left me? Mommy, how about you?

Are you happy that I am going through all this? Imoh (she smiles) can you still recollect how much I told

you that I hate uncle’s family.

I knew they were never good people (tears roll down her cheeks) he has sold all the lands and has made

himself the landlord of papa’s houses. Papa I know you are seeing me, why not take me with you, why

not save me from this injustice world… I long to be with you people, am not joking, I hate the people am

seeing around me and my spirit does the same thing.

(she bombs into Paul, who wasn’t looking too)

Oh, am sorry.

PAUL: It’s okay. (looks up) Your face looks familiar can you please remind me of where that was, cause I

know we have met.

UFORO: It’s me Uforo.

PAUL: Yes yes yes, Uforo, the girl who drained me with her drink.

UFORO: Senior, it was a mistake, I didn’t me…….

PAUL: It’s okay. Am so sorry for what I did. And am so sorry for your loss too… So how have you been

and how is your sister Umoh right?

UfORO: Imoh.. She died at the hospital.

She couldn’t make it.

PAUL:

Oh my God, what a pathetic story. I am so sorry. So where are you headed?

UFORO:

To the stream to get some water.

PAUL: Would you mind if I accompany you to the stream.

UFORO: (she smiles) senior thank you…

PAUL:

My name is Paul Ekarika Eben. I do believe you know my father. Common let’s keep walking, it’s late

already. (they continue moving)

Do you know how to swim?

UFORO: No senior, how about you?

PAUL: Yea I do, but it is actually hmm… Am wordless.

UFORO: (smiles at him) apparently you have not swim before.

PAUL: Says who?

Okay, to be honest I hate going closer to water. My spirit hates water eh.

UFORO: (laughs at him)

Has anyone ever told you that you look very scary?

PAUL: (surprises) No. How?

UFORO: (looks at his eyes)

Your pupils are milky and scary. Maybe that’s probably why your spirit doesn’t seem comfortable each

time you draw closer to water. In order for you not to be taken into the stream by the mermaid, your

spirit develops this dirty fake hatred for it. (looks at him and chuckles)

PAUL:

You are very pretty whenever you smile

I actually doubted your friend when she told me about you. So tell me, how are you feeling now?

UFORO: better than before. There is the stream, senior can you please help take the water.

PAUL:

Uforo please do not send me this one, I can do any other thing for you but not taking water from the

stream…

Uforo:

Senior please (she kneels down jokingly) senior please.

Paul:

what the heaven are you doing (holds her up) okay I will, please stand up before I too go on my knees

for you…

Uforo:

You see, you can be so gentle when you want to.

Paul: (goggles at her) Hmm.

I can’t believe that just came from you…

Uforo: yea, certainly. It came from me.

Paul:

It’s getting gloomy already. Let’s start going home.

Uforo:

Alright. Thank you so much.

Paul:

You are welcomed.

 

Light fade

Scene II

 

at school Paul and Rita are seen studying together at the library, Paul looks quite disturbed, he finds

it difficult to assimilate. Uforo comes in smiling at them.

Paul: (to Rita)

Are you okay with the life you’re living?

Rita:

Senior I don’t get you…

Paul:

There is this girl my father wants me to marry. I don’t like her, not in the least…

Uforo:

Have you talked with your father about your feelings towards her?

Paul

(buries his head in his palms)

Uforo, you think I haven’t tried, I have. I have spoken with the girl’s father and guess what the idiotic old

fool told me to my face…

Uforo:

No no no Paul, I won’t have you insult a man who is old enough to father you. Try to get rid of such habit,

it does not befit you at all.

Paul:

Am sorry I called him names but I am so crazy at the man. I just don’t know why my father and the

damsel’s father keeps insisting that I take the girl to the altar before going into higher institution. Ufo

look at me very well, am I not old enough to make decisions for myself. Do I look like a tissue that can be

used and dumped anyhow?

Rita:

Paul, stop complaining, stop it. Just relax, relax. I think the best thing for you to do is make enquiries

about the lady.

Paul:

(looks angry)

For what?

Tell me Rita for what?

I don’t like that girl. She is narky, nasty, irritating and extremely horrible to be with.

Uforo:

Hmm. My brother life isn’t easy. I actually came to tell you guys that I have secured a job.

Rita:

(looks at her amazingly)

Are you serious?

Oh my God, darling am so happy for you (hugs her)

Uforo:

Thanks dear. Without you guys on my side it wouldn’t have been easy for me. (she looks at Paul who isn’t

showing any signs) Paul, aren’t you happy for me?

Paul:

My dear am sorry, I just don’t know what is wrong with me. So tell me where precisely did you find the

job and what kind of job is it?

Uforo:

good questions.

The job is situated here.

Rita:

I don’t grab, can you be more specific. Where precisely?

Uforo:

Here in school.

At the school canteen. She has finally agreed to employ me and guess what?

Paul:

how much is your salary?

Rita:

I don’t know why I can’t guess. So don’t keep asking me to guess.

Uforo:

five thousand naira monthly.is it okay?

paul:

It’s something closed to being cool. Make sure you start saving for your own good.

Uforo:

Thank you. she has given me a free room very closed to the canteen and finally, I have got a second plan

to execute…

Paul:

(hisses her)

Why a second plan when you are already making it.

Rita:

Yea Ufo, Paul is right.

Why do you need a second plan when you have just landed yourself a new job?

Uforo:

 

(chuckles)

life isn’t the way you guys think, I can’t just work there, I need to do something else so as to see myself

through school. I don’t want to end up here, after my secondary sessions, I would make sure I get jamb

form immediately. My brother, I want to make my parents and my lovely sister proud of me wherever they are…

Paul: (looks at her compassionately).

okay, what is it you really want to do?

Uforo:

(looks at them pitifully)

I had a dream last night and in that dream it was raining heavily. My aunt came out and told me to go

and fetch water unlike the real her, she doesn’t like rain water at all. So in that dream I got outside to

fetch the water I saw my father in white, he was drained with blood instead of the falling rain, he was

trying to tell me something but couldn’t, it actually seemed like his throat was closing up and blood was

gushing from his mouth. (tears rush down her eyes) He was seriously crying and looking at me

pityingly. (wipes her tears with her left palm) I went inside the rain, tried touching him but couldn’t. And

all of a sudden my sister in white tapped my shoulder and when I turned towards her direction, I saw

her, she was so beautiful, much more beautiful than when she was alive, she smiled at me and vice

versa. She sat me down in the rain and told me she has never left my side. She said so many nice things

about me. It was so real that I thought I was dead. She told me to start selling and that I will definitely

derive pleasure from it and it will surely help me, she put out her hand and handed me some money. I

was about counting the money when I was woken up by the voice of my aunt.

(she smiles) can you imagine, on my way coming to school I met a middle age woman who looked so

much like my mother, she gave me twenty thousand naira. After which, she told me sorry and that she

believed in me and my abilities, she left. I was so surprised and wordless. I still do not know what she

meant by she believed in me and what I can do.

Paul:

My dear, your deceased parents and your sister love you so much, and what they couldn’t achieve

because of death you will certainly achieve all of it. I think I have ten thousand naira in this my school

bag, my uncle in the city gave it to me to get a new school material set. But I was thinking of giving you

the money seriously. Immediately the money got into my hands, your name began ringing in my head,

you guys may not believe me but am dead serious.

Rita:

That’s by the way, we aren’t doubting you. (to Uforo) My dear, I don’t know what to say at all, but I want

you to know that we are always here for you. I also want to support you with five thousand naira (brings

out the money and hands it over to her)

Uforo

Thank you so very much, you two.

Thank you for standing by me regardless of my dreadful plight. thanks to you two for your contributions,

I really do appreciate it with a tender heart (laughs) so, Rita, where did you get this money?

Paul:

Yes, Rita, tell us and do not lie, who gave you this money?

Rita:

(tears flow down from her eyes as she stands up and moves forward backing Paul and Uforo) Am

married off to an old man with six wives and ten daughters who are older than I am.

Uforo:

(looks at her shockingly. she walks up to her)

What do you mean?

 

Rita:

You should know. My father has been collecting money from this right from when my mother gave birth

to me, and I never knew. I won’t be able to further my education anymore. He wants me to give him a

male child (to Uforo) life is not fair, life is killing me (she cries and goes down to her knees) Uforo I feel

like killing myself. The money I gave to you was my savings, I have saved that money for my new school

material set.

 

Paul:

(holds her up and cuddles her)

Rita dear, it’s okay. Am sure everything will be fine ok.

 

Uforo:

Oh my God, am so sorry dear. Don’t worry God will visit you.

 

Rita:

He has even given twelve pieces of land to my father already. And tomorrow he will come and get me

(she cries out loud)

Paul&Uforo:

(in unison)

Tomorrow?

Paul:

Why tomorrow?

They should give you some times to make your own decision. (he stands up) I hate this world, (to Uforo)

You see, have you seen how crazy and stupid some people can be simply because of money (he laughs)

Oh God, rescue us, we are another Daniel’s in the dens of the lion.

 

Rita:

Hmm. I have to go home now.

Uforo:

Oh no, do not leave me behind, have you all of a sudden forgotten that we go home together. How is it

doing you.

Paul:

Leave her, na she wan go cook for her visitors

(they all laugh together)

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17 of what to say to a girl

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Knowing what to say to a girl

 

What to say to a girl at times is like a war to most guys.

Some of us are in love while some of us have people we admire.

 

But at times, it seen we don’t love nor value them because we don’t know the words to use, where and when to use them.

 

We think that we are not romantic and with that, most of us sit down and watch romantic movies just to learn how to be romantic.

 

That’s not bad but for how long?

 

You don’t need a thousand words before you can sweep her off her feet.

 

All you need is just the perfect words to do the magic for you.

 

Example of what you can say to a girl are:

why you should use romantic words

  1. I’m not perfect but you are the only woman that makes my life feel perfect.

 

  1. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.

 

  1. A smile of a man is love and strength, and you are my love and my strength.

 

  1. No matter how far you are, you are still going to be in my heart.

 

  1. Those who think that true love doesn’t exit, they haven’t seen us together. We are record breakers.

 

  1. You make my life colorful.

 

  1. True love is when the heart feels quicker than the mind thinks.

 

  1. I will always be there for you, anytime, anywhere.

 

  1. Have I ever told you how beautiful you look today?

 

  1. I love you more as each moment passes us by.

 

  1. All I ever wanted was someone like you. And thank God I found you.

 

  1. My love for you is like water, falling countless.

 

  1. Can I ask you for something? Can I love again in our next life because I can’t get enough of you.

 

  1. My life is complete because I have you in it.

 

  1. You are one of the achievement in my life I will forever be proud that I made.

 

  1. I will give up the world just to have u because without you, life is incomplete.

 

  1. If loving you was a crime, I wouldn’t mind being send to jail.

 

Just to prove how much I love you.

what to say to a girl….. with this few lines, it can get you started.

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My Blood My Hater Episode 2

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my, hater
My Blood My Hater 2

 

Scene(iii)

INT: in school library

Rita is seen reading and also praying for her friends. Enter Paul, straight to where Rita was.

PAUL: Hello.

RITA: (carries her head up and panics seeing him stand by her) Hey, senior Paul what are you doing here?

PAUL: Do not be afraid, I’m not here to ignite trouble with you again. Rather, I am here to say am very sorry, I didn’t think twice before portraying such behavior. Am very sorry.

RITA: (calms down)

Senior it’s okay. I have forgiven you besides I wasn’t the one you offended anyway.

PAUL: Yea, I know. So where is she?

RITA: Her uncle came and took them home.

PAUL: (feeling sorry for Uforo) I hope everything is fine.

RITA: No ooo (she cries out). Her mother and father are gone. They are both dead, who will take care of them now? Who will be proud of her when she makes it?

To whom would she struggle to live for? Her sister ImOh just collapsed and fell down on the floor when their uncle told them about it.

Uforo just didn’t know what to do. Senior, she stood over there (points her finger towards the direction) not able to smile, laugh or cry.

She was dead inwardly, I called her she couldn’t reply. She once told me how her uncle went to her house in order to stop them from furthering their school…

I feel I bring nothing to her but bad luck, I could not do anything   to help, I feel like dying, senior, I feel like am the cause of her     problems. (cries more deeply)

PAUL: (hugs her) It’s okay… Stop talking, you won’t derive anything good from what you are saying… it will be fine, calm down okay?

RITA: (feels relaxed on his body) I pray so senior. She’s always happy. She loves her family so much mostly her mother.

She’s never ceased telling me about her and how she was going to be a blessing to her (tears roll down and soak Paul’s school shirt) her sister Imoh never stopped talking about her father. The two of them were al…..

PAUL: (cuts in) Enough. The more you think about her the more you keep crying. It’s okay. Come let me take you to your class.

RITA: Senior do you know she’s only fifteen years old.

PAUL: Yea I do. and she is very pretty and smart

RITA: You know what, at first, I used to envy her because all the boys In my class love her so much including our male teachers. She is a jewel in our class, very bright and intelligent. She ….

PAUL: (smiles at her) I know. I have seen her too. She is alluring dear. Let’s go to your class  now..

Light fade

 

ACT (3)

Scene(i)

INT: At Itoro’s compound

People are seen crying and lamenting, Itoro who is in black sits aside looking at three caskets before her. She can’t cry, she can’t talk, she just sits over a corner looking at the three caskets….

Villager1

What really happened?

Villager2:

According to the brother, he told me that his brother was very sick that they sold practically all he had to make sure his brother recover but all was futile…

Villager3:

So, he went to school and broke the news to the girls and all of a sudden Imoh fell down and died.

Villager2:

(tears roll down)

God why?

How did this happen?

They were very nice to the extent that married people started emulating their lifestyle… He stopped going to school in order to help his immediate younger brother who disappointed him. Oh Mfoniso, you were such a nice man, where ever you are my God will bless you abundantly…

Villager2

Uforo! Uforo!

Villager4:

Leave her alone, she has been like that since yesterday… For three days now, she hasn’t eaten, crying day and night. She almost fainted when a doctor came and told us Yesterday that Imoh couldn’t make it.

(Uforo sits and recalls all she and her sis conversed about…)

FLASHBACK

In the hospital, Imoh is seen lying down on the bed crying, while Uforo sits beside her trying to console her.

Uforo: Imoh please stop crying please, you are making it very hard for me.

Imoh: What happened to me? my head is aching me…….

 

Uforo: That’s exactly why am trying hard to console you.

You fell down and broke your head.

Imoh: So am I dying?

If yes, please pray for me to go and stay with mom and dad. I don’t want to stay in this world without them.

Uforo: (tears roll down her cheeks) Imoh you are wicked. Do you want to leave me here all alone, Imoh please look at me, I don’t want you to go please?

Imoh: (she cries out)

Sister I don’t want to leave you either, I always want to be with you but right now am feeling terrible, please pray for me I don’t want to die but if I do….

Uforo: (holds her hand)

No, you will not die, Imoh you will live and make father and mother proud, you will not die. (tears gush down) Imoh please stop talking like this…. You are my twiny. what will then happen to me…….

Imoh: You live on to make us proud. You live on to be a blessing to us. (touches her) I love you so much, especially when you call me twiny, when you smile I see myself in you…

I love you so much, Uforo (she cries out uncontrollably) please do not quit school. God will help you to break forth on every side. ah! Ah! My head! My head! It hurts

Uforo: Doctor! (runs out) doctor! Please come and attend to my sister… Doctor ooo! (f/b over)

(after remembering tears roll down her cheeks)

Villager2: Uforo, how are you faring?

Uforo: Good day ma, As you can see, am doing fine…

Villager2: (brings out ten thousand naira note and hands it over to her)

take this dear, your mommy was such a nice woman to us all. she gave hope to the hopeless, helped us in time of need. sorry once again for your loss… I have got to go now….

UFORO:  Thank you so much Ma. I really appreciate.

Villager3: Oh, Uforo eyen ima mmi, (my love) I am so very sorry for your loss…

I don’t have much to offer but here, please do collect this token from me.

Uforo: (wipes her tears away with her palm) thank you so much, I appreciate.

 

 

Night fall:

Idara is seen cooking in the kitchen while her husband is conversing with Mfoniso’s best friend by name EJIKE 65, an igbo speaking person…

EJIKE: I just don’t know why I didn’t come back as at then.

I got back Yester night and I was so shocked when my wife told me about it…

ITORO:

(smiles devilishly)

My brother, it has not been easy at all with us. During the incident, we ran from one place to another seeking for where we could borrow money from but since things are very hard these days, no one ventured to borrow Us anything.

My brother, we had to sell all the lands and houses my brother had.

EJIKE: What? You mean, you sold everything Mfony had, why?

Oh my God, this is not good at all, but how could condition force you to sell all the seven lands your brother had and his three houses?

ITORO: (furiously) Who are you to question me?

How dare you come to my compound to rain abuses upon me, who are you to tell me what to do and what I shouldn’t do with my own brother’s property…

EJIKE: Sir please calm down. I am not here to battle words with you, neither am I here to make you feel bad.

The prime reason I questioned you that way is because he left three lands for his two daughters..

The last time he spoke with me, he sounded very horrible that I was forced to ask what was wrong which he aired it out and also told me should in case he didn’t make it I should sell two lands from the ones he gave his daughters and one house so as to make sure they complete their education.

ITORO: (laughs at him mockingly) So I should have allowed something bad to happen to my brother in the hospital?

Of what use is education when my brother was lying dead in the hospital, tell me of what use?

EJIKE:

Sir please, can you bring down your voice, I am certainly not here to fight you… My question now is, have you reserved some money for Uforo?

ITORO:

For what? Have you no ears that I used the money to bury her father, mother and sister.. (stands up angrily)

Young man, leave my compound, enough of your useless questions. Stand up and get out. You, idiot

(on hearing the commotion, Idara runs out from the kitchen to where they were)

IDARA: ebe ida (my husband) is everything okay? What’s the matter?

EJIKE: Nothing ma, I am leaving. (he exits)

ITORO: Can you imagine that idiot, coming to tell me to my face that I am the cause of my brother’s death.

IDARA: What? you don’t mean it, how dare him? Who does he think he is? Hmm, who?

(Uforo comes back from fetching water)

Uforo: Uncle where can I drop the bucket?

IDARA: Are you blind or what? Can’t you see your uncle is angry.

Why have you decided to remain like this, why?

UFORO: (furious but hides it)

Aunty don’t be irritated, I didn’t notice. where can I drop it, please.

IDARA: No no no no, I will not take fade from you, if this is the way you used to talk or relate with your mom, I will not take it from you.

UFORO: Aunty did I say anything wrong?

(A tall guy by name MKPONNAM 22 comes out from the kitchen)

MKPONNAM: (slaps Uforo and the water falls from her head) How dare you talk when my mom is talking?

Are you mad, is it because your foolish father sent you to school and as such, you think you should talk to people however you like? Is that it? I wonder where you will go now that your father is gone. nonsense

 

to be continued…..

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My Blood My hater Episode 1

by
my blood

My Blood My Hater 1

Ext : UNDER A BIG MANGO TREE IN FRONT OF A HUGE OBSOLETE BUILDING… DAY

A tall dark skinny man by name MFONISO 53, is seen sitting down with his brother by name ITORO 41 drinking and talking about their immediate families under a huge umbrella tree.

MFONISO: (laughs out loudly)

My dear brother, can you imagine, my wife called me last night and told me she wants to go back to school…

ITORO:

(laughs out mockingly)

Hmm. Is she out of her mind, when things are very hard. Does she have the money to see herself through school?

MFONISO:

My brother, there is money but I think she is too old for that. I was actually thinking of enrolling my daughters in one of the secondary schools here.

ITORO:

Ah, brother, but why?

Is Imo and Uforo not too young to go to secondary school?

Hmm, am sorry to ask you all of this but I think you must be making some mistakes… Brother look around, how many graduates in this community are as rich as Eben the fisherman.

Why not look for any small thing for them to do so as to generate money for the family. Besides of what use is a female child education. (he chuckles) After wasting or spending or whatever you want to call what you do with your money. (he keeps a plastic cup down) your hard earn money on her, at the end of the day she will pack her fortunes to her husband’s home and you will be here all alone.

MFONISO: My dear brother, you see this world, as a man thinks so is he.

My two lovely daughters are nothing like those graduates who went to school and came back without any evidence or proof to show.

I believe in my daughters and I know they will surely make me proud… (touches his brother) don’t worry, you can also do the same as well.

Send your son to school, you know very well that our parents prevented us from going to school simply because of those useless stories.

ITORO:

Okay, if you say so, I will definitely think about it and make sure I will do something about it. But still, I still do not approve your opinion of sending your two daughters to school.

MFONISO:

(Looks confused)

My brother how do you mean?

ITORO:

Time will tell. Do not be confused… I think I have over-stayed my welcome. Say hello to your wife and children when they come back. Goodbye brother.

MFONISO:

(Smiles at Itoro)

Bye…. (to himself) look at him, he has been encompassed with negative thoughts, so pessimistic. I believe in my daughters, they have never failed me in anything before most especially my Imoh makara, eyen ima mmi.. God bless them for me.

Let me go in and look for what to do.

 

SCENE(ii) ACT (1)

INT: in the parlor, a woman by name IDARA 34, is seen sitting down on a big wooden chair, peeling some oranges. her husband Itoro comes in looking miserable…

IDARA:

Awo mmi (my person), why are you looking so pale, has your brother offended you again?…

ITORO:

Ima ima mmi (my love). My brother has not done anything wrong yet but he is on the go of doing something terrible. (sits down)

Ima, can you imagine my brother planning to send his daughters to secondary school. Having finished primary session, I didn’t say anything, now he wants to further them…

IDARA:

(looks shocked)

What?

Awo mmi are u telling me the truth. Hope you aren’t lying to me at all?

ITORO:

Awo ima mmi, afo se tan diie ikotom( my love why do you always talk like this). Am telling you precisely what my elder brother who actually prevented me from going to school told me to my face without the fear of God…

IDARA:

In this world people are wicked, very wicked. (goes closer to him)

Ima, don’t worry, have you forgotten who my father is?

I’ll show them that I am the only child to chief Ekong Ntien.. This is absolute wickedness. how can your own brother be this wicked?

He stopped your father from sending you to school not contented with that he also went and claimed the whole land you inherited from your father, ima, what is happening? have we not kept quiet enough? it is high time we showed them that we are not foolish.

ITORO:

Ima, you are right (holds her hands) ima you are right. We need to do something… His children have to go through what I went through in life. (looks at his wife) ima I am ready to fight this battle.

IDARA:

(smiles devilishly)

No one messes with us and go scot free… They shall suffer it.

Light fades

SCENE(iii) act (1)

INT: A kitchen door is seen open, and a tall, quiet pretty dark woman by name UYIA 30, comes out, calling out to her two daughters whom she sends on an errand.

UYIA: Uforo! Uforo! Uforo! Imoh!

MFONISO: Honey, why are you screaming their names like that by this time of the night?

UYIA: Ah daddy, am so sorry my voice must have woken you up. But your daughters are very….

MFONISO: (cuts in) Hardworking. Don’t be saying negative things about them. so how was market today?

UYIA: Daddy, today’s market was fabulous… I thank God so much for seeing us through.

MFONISO: God really answers prayer(smiles) ehmm, that reminds me my brother came here today.

UYIA : Wow! So, you eventually didn’t go to the farm today.

MFONISO: (smiles at her) What do you know. My lovely brother came and saw me today, is that why you are jealous?

UYIA: (smiles back at him)

Am not jealous of two brothers who do not know where they are headed. Hmm, daddy, I have been longing to ask you a question concerning what you told me about that your brother, Itoro.

Mfoniso: (nods his head) Yes, go ahead. I’m listening.

UYIA: Okay, can you remember vividly when you told me how your brother was dropped out from school.

MFONISO: Yes, I do. And so, what about that?

UYIA: my question is (she swallows her spittle) why was he dropped out, what did he really do?

MFONISO: (chuckles)

My dear, my father’s friend came to our home and deceived my father not to allow us go to school… Hence I had to start up fishing job which I never used to like in order to assist my brother through primary school.

UYIA: Are you serious? how did he end up as a poor farmer?

MFONISO: My dear do not make me laugh… My brother was never serious in academics… He went and got a lady pregnant which brought about strife between our home and the lady’s home. It was…

(IMOH 15 and UFORO 15 COME IN)

IMOH: papa! Papa!

MFONISO: My pressures, you girls are back, so how was your day?

UFORO:

Papa Good evening. (goes straight to the kitchen) mama, here you go, sorry we stayed longer than necessary.

IMOH : Papa, mama bought us so many edible things today… We over fed ourselves.

MFONISO: (pretending to be surprised) Are you serious?

So your mommy bought you people plenty of eatable things without keeping my own for me……. (looks up to the cloud) oh lord are you seeing how wicked this world is.

UFORO:(cuts in) Papa, am sorry to interrupt your conversation with Imoh, I hope you don’t mind.

MFONISO: (looks at her wordlessly)

Mfon amama, do you know why you are like this, because you aren’t a straightforward kind. My dear go straight to the point and stop all of this grammar.

UFORO: (smiles and looks at her sister shyly)

Papa am here to tell you that your food is….

MFONISO:

Ready right?

UFORO:

Yes, papa… Sorry I didn’t go straight to the point papa

MFONISO:

(holds her)

It’s okay dear. (to Imoh) would you like joining me?

UFORO:

(shakes her head)

No papa, our food is in the kitchen. Don’t worry about us papa ours is readied already.

MFONISO:

Okay sweethearts. Let me go in and eat cause am super hungry. (exits)

IMOH:

Uforo you know that you aren’t okay. Papa spoke directly to me not you, but why did you answer on my behalf when I wasn’t absent?

UFORO:

(laughs at her)

I knew you would go with him(chuckle) you know how stupid you can always be for Africa.

IMOH:

(furious at her)

Uforo I don’t like it when you are always making me feel like I don’t know anything and that I am really stupid.(pretends to be extremely angry) I dislike it so much, so please.

UFORO :

Imoh look, why are you like this. I was just kidding and you took it serious. For once why can’t you take joke and stop exhibiting your talent that has never changed the conditions of the family. Let’s go and eat am famished already.

IMOH:

Uforo am serious, very serious. Do not always make me feel that way, I hate it.

UFORO:

Okay, I take back everything I said, Imoh daddy sorry, are we good now

IMOH:

Yes. Let’s go and eat joor before I cast you. (they exit)

 

ACT (2)

 

scene (i)

INT: inside

INT: inside an unkempt hut, an old tall and athletic man is seen talking to some clay-made gods. He’s chanting and laughing with them. His name is Ekong 79. Idara and her husband Itoro come in.

EKONG :

(smiles at them)

Finally, you people have come back to your normal senses. I knew it that’s why I didn’t rush into doing what I might live to regret.

IDARA :

Ette, could you please at least usher us in and stop relating to us stories about how we ran away.

EKONG:

Oh am sorry. (to Itoro) young man, pull off your sandals before you come into the hut. (they enter)

Sit down, so adiaha (first daughter) what has brought you two stubborn goats back?

ITORO : Papa, we are sorry, we left just like that.. I never knew your gods was very great until Yester night when my wife, your daughter testified to me what it has been doing﹑so my wife and I have chosen to worship your god with you.

EKONG :

(laughs and chants)

My son, you have done a good job. this is the best thing to do…

IDARA :

Ette(father), do you still remember what I told you concerning my husband’s brother?

EKONG:

Yes,  adiaha Ette (nods his head)

Do you people want him dead?

ITORO:

(all of a sudden)

No no.. He is still my brother

IDARA:

(to her husband)

Ima, calm down, killing your brother is the only solution to our problem.

He has stood between us and our destination for a very long time, it is time we eliminated him from this planet earth. By now at your age, people should be coming to you for help not your brother. My dear we have lost all the chances to them, lets stand up and face it.

ITORO:

okay, let’s start with the wife.

IDARA:

No, we should start with your brother, your brother is the head of the family, so for us to destroy the home we should start with him…

EKONG:

I have heard you all and I will do precisely what you want me to do.

 

Light fade

 

Scene (ii)

ExT: School compound

Imoh and Uforo are seen reading their books at the school’s canteen. When their best friend RITA 14, walks in and buys them snacks. While they were eating, the son of Eben PAUL 17; comes in with his friends to catch fun.

PAUL:

(To one of his friends)

Ettebom, why you go talk that kind thing, my papa wealth no be my own so na im make me wan study hard, I wan make my papa dey proud of me guy, you don’t get?(to the lady in charge of the restaurant), madam good afternoon..

Madam:

Afternoon, Eben enye, nkpo abadie ? (Son in-law how things?)

Paul:  Ma, am fine. Please ma I need five plates of pepper soup rice, five bottles of Guinee’s malt and five sachets of water.. Thanks ma.

FRIEND 1:

Paul the Paul. You can enjoy for the world o

FRIEND 2:

I tell you, if no be for Paul I no sabi who 4 recognize people like us for this school.

PAUL:

Guys lets please stop speculating on that headline. Tomorrow we are writing English test. Donald, have you read?

(DONALD 17, is busy looking at Rita and her friends when STEVE 18 calls him)

STEVE:  Donald! Donald! Donald!

(all the guys laugh)

DONALD:

Sorry, I was.

PAUL:

You were obviously looking at some j s s1 girls. Guy how is it doing you? Look, because of you I received a slap from a cheap worthless bitch last term, no no I don’t want that to repeat itself again.

DONALD:

Paul will you please drop all this shit, we are human beings not sticks, we have feelings.

That your mother left your father when you were very young doesn’t mean you should hate every other girl. Common try falling in love and let go off this reading of books all the time…

PAUL:

I am disappointed in you. (to other guys) see what I told you about… This guy is obsessed with women. Am leaving.

MADAM:

Ebe , aren’t you eating again?

PAUL:

No ma, but please do serve them.

UFORO:

Lemme meet the lady in charge of the canteen (as she stands up to meet the woman, she bombs into Paul and her drink spills all over his shirt) oh am sorry, so sorry.

PAUL:

(extremely furious at her for not watching)

Are you mad?

are you insane, haven’t your parents taught you how to turn around when eating, I can see you lack some home training.

IMOH:

Senior, she just told you she is very sorry. (tears roll down her cheeks) why did you abuse her like that, it’s an accident and anyone could do it..

PAUL:

(moved closer to Imoh )

what do you mean by that, do you think am stupid, I didn’t see how she stood up from her seat and hastened towards me without watching? Please spare me that.

UFORO:

Who do you think you are as to insult me simply because my drink accidentally spilled on your shirt. You are so arrogant and self-centered. (she goes down and cries incessantly)

RITA

Senior, you of all people. why you so differ from your father, why are you so arrogant… I am disappointed in you, is this how you will make your father proud of you.

DONALD:

girl, enough

do you know whom you are speaking to in that manner?

RITA:

I careless about whom am talking to. The person we all used to admire has turned out to be the one who has just showed us how crazy he can always be and has likewise justified the saying ‘never judge a book by its cover.

I used to think he was the best not knowing he’s the worst (tears drip down) she is my friend (to Paul) a girl who is also struggling to make her parents proud just like you. (she cries out to her friends)

STEVE:

Paul, why are you so quiet?

Why aren’t you saying anything?

Say something paul! Say something.

DONALD:

He is not happy at all, so let him be

PAUL

What class is that girl whose drink spilled on me by mistake?

FRIEND 1:

Are you just realizing that?

PAUL:

I need to apologize to them (to his friends) I need to tell them how sorry I am (to Donald) am sorry friend, you were right about me, am so naughty, arrogant and selfish (tears drips down) how could I have done such a naughty thing without a second thought, how?

FRIEND 2

Don’t cast the blame on yourself friend, you are a nice friend, and so caring.

PAUL:

No Man, am not… You heard those girls right?

(to himself) I just messed up their sweet day. (to his friends) I screwed up.

MADAM:

Paul it’s okay, I believe you can make it up to her by doing what your spirit tells you to do…

Go to her and tell her to her face you’re sorry. I believe she will definitely forgive you, I know Uforo, she comes here all the time to read and to eat, actually she is not always like that, she shouted at you out of frustration and pains. I heard that her father was taken to the hospital and that his condition is critical and her mom is dying…

DONALD:

Ehyaah!

I feel like telling them sorry too.

PAUL:

(to the lady) what did you say her name was again?

MADAM:

Uforo.. Uforo MFONISO Isong

 

PAUL:

Guys am coming, please go back and eat, I got this one…

STEVE:

Are you sure it is okay?

I mean is it okay with you to go see them alone?

PAUL:

Yea… I committed it. It is my cross to carry. Thanks friends. (exits)

 

To be continued…………

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How I fell In love With My Facebook Friend 1

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facebook friend

      How I Fell In Love With My Facebook Friend

My name is Sandra I fell in love with my Facebook friend.

It all started eight (8) years ago when I was still a young girl, I really knew nothing about love,

I always believed that love was a game between a man and a

woman which at the end will have only one winner either the

girl or the guy. What I mean here is that, I didn’t believe in the word love.

I use to doubt it because I never fell in love nor have  I ever had

a strong feelings for any guy before in my life. 

If I like you today, tomorrow anything you do will just pissed me up before you know it, I break up. 

Six years ago I came across a guy by name Emman.

 Emman was a tall fair gentleman who was a student of Nekede

back then while me I was just graduating from high school.

 We met online and we became friends just friends nothing

attached to it, perhaps, I didn’t like him,  we always ended up

having misunderstanding anything we chat because to him, he

doesn’t want to lose in an argument likewise me.So with that, we

were distanced till 2014

When I had admission into Computer training school. He came

around the neighborhood and decided to call me so that we could

meet. 

Since he didn’t invite me to his house, I agreed to meet him

because it was an open place and it was in the day time, so I

wasn’t afraid to meet with him.

 When we met, I discovered that he was more handsome than in

pictures, his sense of dressing was perfect, at least he knew how

to combine clothes but still, I wasn’t moved because I didn’t

believe in love.

Since then I’ve been keeping him in a friend zone maybe I was

afraid to love.

My facebook friend

 In 2016, I decided to try, I gave him a chance to see if i can be

in love but before I could know what happened the feelings was

gone, I tried to force myself to be romantic even on phone, but it

didn’t work out. so I broke up with him that same day without his

notice. 

Then 2017 during his birthday, he invited me over but I turned

him down because I couldn’t appear in public then with a guy

because of the respect I had for my mother.

Perhaps, I couldn’t even tell my mother where I wanted to go,

but he ended up being angry, he refused to call me anymore, nor

chat with me, but  I notice that anytime I post, he will go to my

post and liked it.

Though I didn’t mind because there was no feeling available, I felt

nothing because his presence nor absence was meaningless to

me. 

But in 2018 after I posted something and he dropped an annoying

comment on it.

 I got angry and warn him never to comment anything negative

on my post, then he apologized.

Few days later, things started changing, I started having him in

my thought, then I decided to ask him why he was like that, and

he told me that I refused coming to his birthday nor even showed

that I care, so we talked and settle it.

my facebook friend;

From there we started chatting again, and he tried to tell me how

much he still loved me after six years, I thought about it for the

first time, and started clearing my negative thought about love.

 I stopped faking to love someone which I don’t, then I fell in

love.

But today I answer calls and smile, which I think I’M IN LOVE

THIS TIME FOR REAL.  And am in love with the same guy that

loved me six years ago.  That’s my story with my facebook friend.

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Davido welcomes baby boy with Chioma(2nd Davido)

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davido

Davido welcomes a baby boy

A Nigeria popular singer David Adedeji known has Davido in an early hours of today welcome a baby boy with Chioma.

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He made the announcement of the baby’s arrival earlier today.

And just moments ago, the singer posted a photo of himself with the baby and announced the baby’s name as David Adedeji Adeleke Jr., naming the baby after himself.

He wrote:

OMOBA TI DE!!! DAVID ADEDEJI ADELEKE Jr I !! D PRINCE IS HERE!!!! 20 – 10 – 2019 !!! Love you my STRONG WIFE!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!

OMOBA TI DE!!! DAVID ADEDEJI ADELEKE Jr I !! D PRINCE IS HERE!!!! 20 – 10 – 2019 !!! Love you my STRONG WIFE!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!

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The two (2) negative effect why talking with your hands is a necessity

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talking with your hands

why you should adapt to talking with your hands

Talking with your hands should be in our heart thereby making it to becoming a part of us before we start planting of hopes in people’s heart.

Talking with your hands in this aspect means, talking then putting it into action. We are in a generation where we talk more than we can do.

Why should we start talking with our hands 8 GUIDE FOR THE YEAR 2020

  • PROMISES: promise is like unseen arrival, promise gives hope and once we make it, we have given hope and relief to someone.

Promise we say is an affirmation of intent, large and small which mark a wide number of interpersonal activities from marriage to specific behavior toward another person to the completion of tasks at home or at work. This requires us to declare a conscious aims.

At times we talk more than we can do, we make promises, some which are bigger than us and some which are not even necessary to make.

To the extent that people don’t know when we mean the word we say, we walk around telling people how we will render help to them, we make them believe us, they start praising us and praying for us, and we gladly say amen to it with a smile on our faces.

Few weeks, few months, a year no respond from you, they don’t know what to think any longer, their faith chatters, all hopes gone, they don’t know what to believe anymore, they start doubting anything called promises, they miss their destiny helpers, because they couldn’t believe anyone anymore and with that they expect nothing good from the person, except empty promises as usual. NEVER TOO LATE

Why? It is because they are used to people lying to them and making empty promises without fulfilling them and with this kind of encounter, they miss out in their appointed time unknown to them.

Is it in marriages? We promise to love our partner for life, I will never leave you for anyone else. 11 Tools that can spice up intimacy in your relationship

I will get the work done. Now, these above are our conscious objectives but people have so many out-of-knowing thoughts or feelings, we may not know of our unconscious outcome about a stated commitment.

we are happy walking around still doing more promise and fail and killing people’s destiny indirectly because of false hope which causes delay in destiny, backwardness, no going forward no going backward.

Most times we make promises without having an avenue on how to fulfill those promises. We make promise to get rid of something or someone at a particular point in time.

We also make promises to get what we want. Have we ever thought about these promises we do make without fulfilling them, either make us or mar us in the public?

Mr. Rueben Amano who is a socialist once told me “if only we know the covenant we make in the name of promises, we will find it difficult to make one”. 80% of families isolate every day because of unfulfilling promises and about 60% of relationship (courtship) breaks out of bad promises.

Most times we make promises without minding the hope we have given to someone. No matter how little the promise is, it is pertinent we fulfill it.

A lot of young ladies endanger their lives because of promise words the heard from one guy like that who promised them that he was different from the rest.

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Worst part of it is that many ladies knows well that this word are just words which 70% of men who uses it, are not serious with the statement but still, they will still allow a man to take advantage of them through this words by promising  them heaven and earth. Just to have what they want.

The question I do ask is “why do we take promises for granted? 24 Fact about love everyone should know

  • DREAMS: A dream in this aspect is like a business plan, which something we put it down in a book for processing without even knowing how long it’s going to take to achieve it in real life.

Dreams are dreams and they remain in the dream world until we make it manifest.

At times when having this dreams, we walk around telling people like our friends, families etc. what we are planning on doing without actually doing it.

One month, two months, six months, a year plus we are still walking around without taking any step. We talk without during it. We don’t have to walk around telling people our dreams/visions all we have to do is to start from somewhere “no matter how the beginning is small”, the later shall be greater.

When we have this kind of understanding and mind set, anything is possible and the move we take is what announce us not the talking.

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