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1 of Christopher’s love story

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

LOVE STORY WRITING

This is my love story

Hello, my name is Christopher from Aguata of Anambra state but my mother is from Delta from which she was married from.

Delta state, have good women just like my mother, Therefore with that insight, the relationship between me and Delta state people became so tight.

So with that, I always told myself that I was going to marry from there due to my mother’s life style towards my father. They both loved and respected their union.

One day, it was weekend, I woke up from sleep and it was like a special day for me, I was so happy and having a beautiful lyrics “IF” by Davido, a Nigeria singer in my mind and if one should ask me why that smiling face.

Seriously I couldn’t have said reasonable answer till when I stepped out as usual to meet my friends whom I don’t normally have chance to visit or see because of the nature of work.

As I was on my way my eyes turned as if its turned on its own to the left side, behold what my eye saw, a beautiful damsel standing by waiting for her friends to come as well before they take off and by her actions and statements you can tell.

Wow!!! I couldn’t stand it anymore, I had to approach her with immediate action and as a young looking responsible and handsome guy (smiles) I gained her attention and from there we became friends.

One blissful day, I called her on phone and we planned on a date. As we later met at Genesis restaurant, we had Lunch together and summarized it with a gist.

As days went by, my feelings for her started growing and the love, falling like a river and I began to think over these sudden feelings for her.

It is true that she is beautiful and every man’s desire but I think I don’t have to rush this,

but this thing kept ringing in my mind and each time she come across my mind, I will find myself smiling and happiness was unmeasurable just like the faithful day I saw her.

So I decided to reveal this to my very good friend called Seun, a Yoruba guy. Seun is a psychologist by profession.

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He told me that if I was very excited without knowing why I was excited one morning as I said, and that same day I met her and accepted becoming my friend that means she was not only the source of my happiness but whom nature has designed for me as my woman to be.

He over convinced me with this saying or adage that

“when your own comes you will know”,

he told me that my eye saw my own and decided to show me.

He ended with words of encouragement but I was still asking myself several questions meaning I was not too sure

For the fact I assured myself that I will marry from Delta state and I became excess confused as the friendship continues.

This lady started showing more care day by day but was afraid to tell her how I felt for her as well.

A faithful day, I decided to give a trial and called her out for a Lunch and there, I asked her to be my woman and promised to love her without condition.

And behold she was confused seeing me as an Igbo man proposing to her an Akwa Ibom lady and she asked being in state of dilemma “why do you prefer me amongst other beautiful ladies in Your own land?

I laughed and told her that nature should answer that one! and she smiled and accepted.

The relationship was moving smoothly and enjoyable and truly she was a good woman that every good man would love to and because she grew up in a family that has fear of God and discipline.

She became so different from every other lady have ever met. There was something in her that kept drawing me to her even in this stage of confusion I just can’t help myself than to keep thinking about us what we shared was special.

This courtship was a year plus (+) when I decided to perform her rites and take her to the alter when my mother insisted that nothing will make me marry from that state and if I should, then I have to kill her first.

Behold the whole members of the family was in support of this. but what will I do. My mother may kill herself.

One day my mother whom I so much love and always obey her commands and try to fulfill her wished called me for a private conversation.

To my greatest surprise she tried to convinced me and trust mothers, they can even cry to make you pity them and have their wishes fulfilled.

I became so confused and more daily. I don’t know how to meet my girlfriend and tell her we can’t marry anymore.

I so much love her and I can’t withstand her cries because it touches me so badly.

She is the woman of my choice and for months I have been with her, we never had nor even a frown face for each other except we are playing.

My mother from the other side has gotten a beautiful woman from Delta, a place I always wish to marry from before I met my girl from Akwa Ibom.

The truth is that, I have never disobeyed my mother because she sacrifices a lot for me to be who I am today but now my happiness and fulfillment is found in a particular family in Akwa Ibom.

this is my love story, but currently, I am in state of dilemma, does this still make me a baby at my age? please I need your advice now like mad!

If you were in this situation that I am right now, what will you do? help a brother with advice that can change his love story please. thanks for reading.

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FG, Labour finally Agree on N30,000 Minimum Wage Implementation

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

FG, Labour finally Agree on N30,000 Minimum Wage Implementation

In what appears to be a relief to both the government and

organized labour, both parties have come to an agreement at last

on the issue of the implementation of the new minimum wage, a

battle which has been raging for quite a while now.

The discussion for the new minimum wage began in the second

half of Buhari’s first tenure and spilled into his second term as the

implementation had been a bone of contention between the two

parties.

At the meeting on Thursday, the third of such this week, both

sides finally agreed on the percentage increase for grade levels

seven to 17.

The agreed terms are as follows:

COMES wage structure

Grade level seven= 23 percent, level 8=20 percent, level 9=19 percent, level 10 -14 = 16 percent, level 15-17=14 percent.

CONHES, CONRRISE, CONTISS, etc

Level 7= 22.2 percent

Level 8-14 = 16 percent

Level 15-17 = 10.5 percent

The meeting also increased the salaries of military and

paramilitary officers, but the percentages were kept confidential.

Announcing the agreement, the Minister of Labour for State,

Festus Keyamo made the announcement via his twitter account

saying, ‘After some delicate negotiations (with both Ministers as

conciliators) Government & Labour have finally reached an

agreement on the consequential adjustments of other wages

following the implementation of the enhanced minimum wage of

N30,000. We are now working on the communique’

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1 REASON WHY THE WORD LET’S BE FRIENDS IS IMPORTANT

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

AN INSIGHT ABOUT THE WORD LET’S BE FRIENDS

Many of us don’t like hearing the word let’s be friends because it irritates us we prefer it to be a Yes or a No.

“Let’s called a spade a spade” but one thing we do forget is that friendship is the most important reason we want to get into a relationship with a particular person at a particular time and that’s why it plays an important role

Before we talk more, what is friendship to us.

“FRIENDSHIP” has so many meanings, it means attachment, good-fellowship, familiarity, harmony, alliance, fondness etc etc.

We will further say “Friendship is the process whereby different individuals or animals comes together to associate.

[bctt tweet=”“Anyone we can’t make friends with, we can’t establish a good relationship with the person” No matter how hard we try, we will only end up pretending to love the person just to fulfill all righteousness.” username=”kizynora”]

Note that, in this kind of situation, Happiness and peace of mind is very far away.

Many people feel bad when they hear the word can we just be friends? let’s be friends etc. And with that,they give up on trying, if you ask them why? they will tell you that there is no need of being friends with someone they are in love with. But that’s very wrong. you liked her?

what about her? Does she like you but she doesn’t want to jump into the a relationship immediately, then she now decided to use this friendship period to get to know you a little bit. Love is a gradual process, it can get to anyone at any time most times, when you least expected.

A little story:

I have a friend, each time we decide to either hang out or see a movie, she will invite other of her friends alone.

Now one of this her friends who was in a serious relationship according to her, each time she comes around, her fiance will be calling every five to ten minutes to check on her. And each time that occur we will be making fun of them singing love songs for them, but instead of her to be smiling after the calls, she will start lamenting most time.

One day, I decided to ask her why her mood always changed each time the guy calls her. What she said marvels me

She said” why will a guy be calling me every five to ten minutes anytime I tell him I was going out with friends, is that not in security?

I now ask her what was wrong with that, perhaps is it not what ladies want, she say to me, ladies, not me, cause to me, I don’t like too much phone calls, I prefer text messages.

He calls too much and it makes him looks desperate and with that, I feel uncomfortable.

Immediately I heard that statement, I now decided to interview her.

My questions were as follows;

Do you love him? She said yes she does.
How long have you known him? She said three months.
And how long have you guys dated? She said three months
You dated him that same month you knew him? She said well, it was like a week or two later.

After the whole thing, I now discover that they didn’t create friendship first before they started their relationship. Which means they started their relationship in trial and error.

The man likes phone calls and checking on his fiancee but in the other hand, the fiancee is not okay with it. She is busy complaining all the time because she prefers text messages to phone calls. Now, that’s individual differences.

We may not know the dos and the don’ts of a person unless we are closer to them through friendship.

when friendship is created first, we will get to know who we are dealing with, the persons likes and dislike. Despite the fact that you won’t know everything at that moment but gradually, you will know.” It is better to marry your friend than your lover” your friend knows your ups and downs.

And still stays around, there are things you can’t tell a lover why?Because he or she may run away.

therefore, don’t feel bad if a lady or a guy tells you let’s be friends… what you should worry about is after this, will there be a possibility of something developing between you two or will it just end with let’s be friends.

Well i will say that’s up to you, the things you do and the way you handle things will determine if she will stay or not.

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Funke Adesiyan emerged as political aide

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Funke Adesiyan emerged as political aide

Nollywood actress, Funke Adesiyan has emerged one of the political aides of Nigeria’s first lady, Aisha Buhari.

Yoruba actress, Funke Adesiyan has been announced as one of the recently appointed political aides to Nigeria’s first lady, Aisha Buhari. [Allnewsng]
The actress was appointed the Personal Assistant to the First Lady on Domestic and Social events alongside five other appointees.

On Wednesday, October 16, 2019, Adesiyan’s appointment was approved by President Muhammadu Buhari.

She is expected to resume duties immediately at the office of the First Lady, which became effective after the return of Aisha Buhari from London.

The ‘Obinrin Ale’ star joined active politics when she emerged as the southwest coordinator for Mallam Shekarau’s presidential campaign in 2011.

She was a member of the Peoples Democratic Party where she contested for a seat at the Oyo State House of Assembly until 2018 when she defected to the APC.

Adesiyan horned her acting skills under the tutelage of actor, director, and producer, Saidi Balogun. She also featured in his three cast film, ‘Eti Keta’.

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1 OUTSTANDING REASON WHY IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO START AGAIN

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO START OVER

(Never too late)

I kept thinking of what life was all about, what was in stock for

me, where I come from and where I was going.

I kept digging in and in still I had no answer, life was frustrating.

moving from place to places, visiting uncles, aunties, friends, I

visited neighbors.

They all turned their backs on me Life was unbearable. None

seems working positively for me. I don’t know why life seems to

treat me like this. kept wondering and asking myself

“Is this how nature really designed life for me, was I living the life

I was meant to live, why is my own different now?

Yes!!! I said now because I can remember when I had lived a

meaningful life, when I was cared for when I was somebody,

when my uncle do come around and ask of me, when my aunties

where my best friends.

What a life, so life really have episode as I heard. No doubt, this

episode is mine but I just hope will just summarize it and turn to

the next page of life.

Day to day I keep losing and dying slowly out of hunger. Life can

treat badly but I don’t blame myself for this episode I am into

now but death!!!!

Death, took away everything in a twinkle of an eye. Oh Parent!

Why should death visit you people now leaving only me on earth

to suffer.

Your brothers that used to get favor from you have abandoned

me; your sisters who only come when they needed your financial

aids have dumped me as a waste in the family.

I kept lamenting as days go by, I now took it as a daily job, but

One day, I asked myself “should I keep on thinking about this

miserable life and the wicked living in it?

No! I think everything happens for a reason and I know I have

my own destiny if I should pursue for it and stop lamenting and

asking for help from people who don’t care about me.

One day, I stood up with courage and stepped out in the society

(street), as I was walking i was telling myself “Its never too late.

I was asking God for one thing which

was “Reveal to me oh! God that I shall never depart from it”.

As this was going through my mind, behold a man who I don’t

even know his name nor his background called my name in full.

I was shocked and tensed but because of my condition I needed

help by all means and that prompted me to give him my attention

and he began to explain himself to me.

It happens that it was one of those my father helped to achieve

their goals. No doubt, mere looking at him, he was living very

okay and financially freedom and as he told me he is a

pharmacist.

Suddenly, I began to shed tears and he held me and asked me

why I was crying, I told him if my father would help you to be a

pharmacist you are today, how much more would he has planned

for my future?

never too late

This question got him confused and he asked me of my father,

and I told him that I didn’t just loose a father but my parent, I

lost them in a ghastly motor accident some months ago and

today, am without parent and my relatives have turned their

backs on me and I became useless, hopeless but thank God I am

not homeless.

Before I could summarized my agony of life to him, he started

crying and pleaded me to stop and to my surprise he promised to

take care of my burdens because that was a promise he made to

my father back then.

You see, our good deeds
on earth may seem useless
but when God will turn it
useful is when you become
useless.

You see my father is now useless but is good deeds have made

his generation useful.

never too late

He took it to himself and sent me back to school where I

completed my secondary school and he helped me write a

scholarship exam which by the Grace of God I passed and was

taken care of by Sheveron oil company throughout my university

and was retained in the company after my graduation.

One day I visited his family (now a married man with kids) and I

made the same promise he made to my father to him and even if

as he is not poor , I will still contribute to his child welfare.

God used him to make a nobody like me a somebody. Today, I

am comfortable with life.

At times things happens in your life for you to know who your

friends are, those who are with you, for you and those who are

against you. Also for God to show himself manifest in your life.

Making something out of nothing.

Belief guarantees and established obedience.

“AND THEY ROSE EARLY IN THE
MORNING, AND WENT FORTH
INTO THE WILDERNESS OF
TEKOA:
AND AS THEY WENT FORTH,
JEHOSHAPHAT STOOD AND
SAID, HEAR ME, O JUDAH, AND
YE INHABITANTS OF
JERUSALEM; BELIEVE IN THE
LORD YOUR GOD, SO SHALL
YOU BE ESTABLISHED; BELIEVE
IN HIS PROPHETS, SO SHALL
YE PROSPER. 2 Chronicles
20:20”

What is your story? Do you believe that its never too late? what are you facing that you don’t know who to

tell? your story may not be like mine, it might even be worst or

not, but you are facing challenges which at times you feel

rejected and feel like it is late you shed tears in your closest,

Today I pray with you, that the God who still gives answers to

prayers will answer your secret and open prayers, he will provide

help where there is no help, and he will wipe away your tears.

Divine visitation is what I decrease over your life today he shall
make you the head but not the tail. for it is never too late in your life

In Jesus mighty name we pray Amen

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24 Extraordinary Fact about love everyone should know now

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Important fact about love

fact about love; One thing everyone should is that, Love is a beautiful thing in which it is in everyone’s desire to have or experience in life.

Love keeps no secret, and it is from the heart.

Being in a dating relationship with someone does not prove the fact that you love the person. that is why it is very important to have some ideas on fact about love.

In this article, I will be telling us what we need to know, and also how we can get our love checked.

So here are the few fact about love you should know;

1. Don’t ever rush into falling in love, for love never runs out. Even if they mock you because you are single, just tell them this:

“God is just busy writing the best love story that will sweep me off my feet!”

2. If you find yourself in love with someone else who does not love

you back, don’t kill yourself because you are okay and there is

nothing wrong with you.

3. Love is a beautiful thing, maybe the other person did not feel the

same way you did.

but never give up because there is always a reason for anything

that happens in life. Just keep pushing because love will be on the other side.

4. [bctt tweet=”Always remember that people rush for cheap things, so see yourself as an expensive being.” username=”kizynora”]

An expensive product in the market, boutique, always attract almost everyone, but it is only someone who is qualify not just with money, but with all qualification that do fit in.

5. You can’t force true love, it just happen even without your

knowledge.

6. Don’t be so desperate for love that you have to go for anyone

who approaches you for love.

— fact about love

7. Don’t make yourself a fool for love just because A is in love with

someone you now choose to be desperate even if its toxic.

8. Don’t be desperate that you have to sell your heart for Dangote’s

salt… because if you do, don’t ever blame anyone in the future

because you hold the key to your heart, your happiness not the

people around you.

9. Be yourself and find someone who truly loves you and values you.

not for what everyone wants you to be, but for who you truly are.

10. Always remember this, never measure the future from the way

you are feeling now. sorrows may endure for a night but Joy comes in the morning. so see everything as a process that you have to observe and go through in life before you can cross to your Canaan land.

11. fact about love is that, in the game of love, patience is a must.

12. Love is a matter of time.

13. Love do not just happen, you have to work for it by first of all, know who you are and work on yourself, career etc while waiting for the right one.

14. God is love, so seek him first.

— fact about love

15. you can’t find love if you don’t love and appreciate yourself. you have to first of all, believe in yourself, love who you are and who you have become and who you are going to be.

16. Don’t look down on yourself and your abilities.

Note, no one was born empty, we were all born for a purpose, what matters, is how you handle your mission.

17. Believe in the impossibilities.

18. Don’t ever try to live on fantasy. having faith then believing in something is very different from living in fantasy world, so quit fantasy and get a real life.

19. Love is not do or die affair.

20. Love is not blind so open your eyes to see and deal with what needs to be deal with.

21. It is true that true love can give you happiness but that doesn’t mean that because you haven’t found true love yet, that you can’t still be happy.

22. Don’t kill yourself because of how long it gonna take.

23. falling in love is not bad but be careful who you are falling in love with. because falling in and falling out of love, are both an addiction.

24. I will say it again, don’t rush for love, true love just happens even while you least expected.

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February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

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MY DREAM MAN 1

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

MY DREAM MAN

Dream man. My name is Mrs. Clara, I am 33 years old, at 32 I was still a miss

yes I was a miss because I was never married nor lived with a

man before and not that I was a single mother either.

At the age of 32, I was still a virgin not that I wanted to stay till

that age that way but because my dream man was still in the

dream land. Now this is my story.

It all started when I was a kid , I used to see men maltreating

their wives and some cheating on their wives including my dad, I

was scared of men and with that, I was discourage to go into a

relationship with any guy, I only kept friends, and I never felt

lonely with that, I didn’t see any reason to go into a relationship

nor flirt with any guy because my friends where always there for

me even as my friends, where advising me to give it a try, I said

to it cause I was happy that way.

On one faithful day, I went for a seminar on single-dating-

marriage during the seminar, the speaker spoke on knowing your

dream man.

People were busy asking questions and answers were given to it.

When I got home from that day, I decided to give relationship a

try.

I met one guy on internet by name Daniel. Daniel was a tall

handsome fair guy, he was in his 20’s studying mechanical

Engineering.

I was 18years by then but wasn’t in school yet.

I and Daniel where just online friends, but he was an annoying

type, and him being annoying type was one of the reason I was

attracted to him, so I felt in love with him I wanted telling him

but there were questions going through my mind, one of them

was,” what if you tell him and he make fun of you? What if you

are not his type or you are not beautiful enough? With these

questions, I kept how I was feeling to myself; I started avoiding

him at times when he comes online to chat.

One day I was in a café then I saw Daniel walking into the café,

he didn’t notice me at first, but I recognized him cause I had

many of his photos on my phone, I decided to call him but i

couldn’t because I was shy from the number of people that where

present in that café with us, so I choose to concentrate on what I

was doing, few minute later, an image walked up to me and

called me by my name, when I turned to look who it was, behold

it was him, I was happy so I smile at him, then we had a chat for

about 30 minutes, so he later decided to drop me home since I

was done in the café, I was very happy inside me but I was afraid

of my parent seeing me with a guy, so I refused his offer from

there, we parted ways but before we did that, we exchanged

contacts and we promised to chat with each other at night which

we did.

Few months later, he asked me to be his girlfriend, which I didn’t

hesitate to say yes to him perhaps is what I’ve been longing for,

so we where together for a year.

During the period of our relationship, I told him let’s take things

slowing, which he agreed to it, he told me he was going to wait

till the right that I was ready. We were happy, (I guess)

But one day things started changing, he started posting difference

kinds of girl’s photos on his social media, when I asked him, he

told me that they were just friends nothing more.

I didn’t believe him but I gave up asking so that he won’t feel

somehow, but still he didn’t stopped, same that week, a girl

posted a picture and tag him, in that photo, it was him and the

girl making out, I was lost, I didn’t know what to think any more

until his friends started writing negative comments on the picture

and he replied to one by saying “man must be a man”

I never understood that statement not until I got into college, I

was hurt, deeply I was heartbroken I started recalling the reasons

why I was alone till I met Daniel, but I didn’t conclude

immediately, cause we were still together, I waited to see if he

was going to change because of my feelings, but hell no, he didn’t

care about how I felt so he decided not to change, so the love I

had for him started diminishing gradually.

When I entered school, I saw difference kinds of guys even those

that where even worse than Daniel. So I decided to buy a diary.

In my diary, I started writing about the qualities I needed in a

man (my dream kind of man).

I studied a four years course in college, and at the end of my four

years in college, I never had a boyfriend not because no guy

came to me, but because I didn’t see my Mr. perfect kind of

dream man among all that came my way. But I never lose hope, I

was still believing that one day I will come in contact with him.

I was 23 years when I graduated from college, as a first class

material, I went for service and came back yet, no dream man

found.

I wasn’t myself anymore because I was 24 years I was suppose

to have a man in my life, but no, I didn’t. I was retained in my

college to work there as a lecturer.

In my period of working as a lecturer, I still had guys coming my

way but they were not still match to my criteria kind of man.

Eight years later, I was invited to a motivational program, I didn’t

want to go because it was a program like this that was putting me

in the situation I was. But after few days, I happened to step on

the hand bill which was given to me, so I decided to attend, it

was a 3-day program, but I said to myself “even if is just once”. I

didn’t attend the first day the program started but I attended the

second day.

When I reached there, the topic was “WHO ARE YOU”? when I

heard the topic I already concluded that it was going about

entrepreneurship how to established yourself etc.

so I wasn’t interested, as a lecturer, I was doing well, my earning

was okay for me. All I needed was a family of my own. So I stood

up I was about walking out, when I heard the

speaker saying

“HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF BEING A BETTER YOU”?

When I heard that, I sat back to listen to her point. Truly,

everything she said was about me, I was busy writing down the

kind of man I wanted, what I like and dislike in a guy etc but I

never for once think of being a better me by using the list of my

want in my dream man on my own self. I gave chance to my past

to control my mode of thinking. I never thought of starting with

myself until that day.

When I got home, I had to reopen my life chapters and checked

page by pages. I started working on myself, my behavior with

men, my character, my life style, I stopped believing that all men

where the same, I started being the real me.

One year later, I met Doctor Kelvin when I went for my normal

check up to know the developments on my body. Doctor Kelvin

was a well respected man, he was cute not too tall but at least,

he was taller than me. At 33, I was now desperate, but instead of

ending up with anyone that came my way at that time of

desperation, end up with my dream man. Doctor Kelvin was just

my doctor and a friend, someone I could share my story with, but

what I never knew was that, my dream man was always in front

of me but as my doctor friend, all I needed was to work on myself

and be myself.

From that day I started working on myself, my life style, my

sense of reasoning, I met my Mr. perfect and now I discover that

it wasn’t a dream man I needed but a real man. Today, I am

happily married.

LESSON:

BE WHO YOU ARE, THE REAL YOU.

WORK ON YOURSELF, YOUR CHARACTER, YOUR SENSE OF

REASONING.

DON’T EXPECT TO HAVE WHAT YOU CAN’T OFFER.

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15 QUALITIES OF WHO CAN MARRY YOU

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

How is the person who wants to marry you

Knowing the qualities of who can marry you, is important but knowing who you are, is

the most important before going into marriage. Many people

complain about their partners because they didn’t think twice

before taking a step. You need to know who you are, your kind of

person before taking a steps of getting into agreement with

someone to start a family of your own together saying yes i will marry you is not hard but you got to be sure that you are with the right person.

The following are some things to consider before saying yes to marriage and before saying i will marry you;

Marry someone who knows how to say “I’m sorry ” and also mean it without pride getting in the way.
Marry someone who loves your soul not only your body.
Don’t be hot temper and also get marry to a hot temper person, or else one day your home will be turned into a battle field where everybody is trying to be a winner.
Don’t be warm and also marry someone warm.
Don’t be a committed worshiper and get marry to a club addict. (It is either you change him/her or he/she changes you, or divorce sets in).
Don’t be a block head and also get marry to a block head. Though at times is good but in 40% because no one will say am better than the other, but the remaining 60% is not, in terms of businesses proposal, finances, contracts etc. you maybe cheated on, but with your partners knowledge you can explore more. E.g. many of our billionaires today.
Don’t be a fashion freak and get marry to someone with no sense of dressing unless there is an agreement to work on it.( To avoid lack of interest in each other in the future).
Don’t marry someone who is always trying to be superior all the time.
Marry someone who knows that you have the right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and to disagree a right to air your opinions.
Don’t go for Mr. Perfect / Miss Perfect. Remember two imperfect people comes together to make their home perfect.
Marry a man who knows that hitting a woman is a crime against humanity. 6 life partner qualities everyone should have
Marry someone who is fun to be with, someone who is not boring to be with, someone that understands what it means and takes to put a smile on someone’s face.
Marry a man who knows that at time, you might just be so tired to cook and for him taking you to eatery for dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo.
Don’t marry because you think the person will change later or that the person will not change later (conditional type of marriage).
Marry a friend not a lover, (N/B you can’t tell a lover everything including your secrets but you can always tell a good friend).

So be careful who to marry and make use of your courtship period to know who you are dealing with, to avoid making mistakes in the future that may land in a divorce.
Marriage is for enjoyment not for enduring, when you end up with the wrong person, for how long will you be enduring? Marriage is a life time contract not a relationship that you can walk out anytime you like.

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HOW TO MAKE TRAFFIC ON YOUTUBE USING FACEBOOK

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

HOW TO GENERATE TRAFFIC ON YOUTUBE

Traffic on youtube

Do you own a YouTube channel or are you planning to own one someday, sometime? If yes then this few point might help you to be a successful you Tuber.

First of all let me ask you a question,

• How is you channel going?

• Are you still moving from one platform to another looking for

SUB FOR SUB?

• For how long do you intend to do that before you qualify for

monetization or membership?

Moving from one platform to another looking for sub for sub will not help because many of those subs you get from people are not permanent with that, your channel can’t go forward nor move faster at all.

I had a chat with one of my colleague who runs a YouTube channel, he started his channel since 2013 but only started earning around 2016 ending.

During our conversation, I asked him how he did it, that was when he gave me this steps which am going to share with you guys now.

The following are the steps GUIDE THROUGH THE YEAR 2020

• CHANNEL NAME: This is the most important of all before starting a channel. Your channel name should be due to what your channel will be all about and what your viewers will be expecting from watching your videos. Don’t use a name that will not interest people to view your videos.

• VIDEO QUALITY: The quality of your videos will determine how many viewers will come back and view your new videos or subscribe to the channel. So post a better quality of video on your channel.

• FACEBOOK PAGE: This is a platform where you can also create to gain more views from Facebook to your YouTube channel. When you run an ads on your Facebook page, Facebook now help you in reaching more people to view your channel. I will advice you to use facebook ads and facebook page manager.

• AUTHORIZES VIDEO: Before starting also ensures that your videos will not be against the rule and regulations of YouTube. Watch out for copyright videos or music you use on your channel.

• REGULAR UPDATE: updating your channel regularly will show the public how serious you are. Don’t make your subscribers to feel bored on the channel which will result on unsubscribing from it. With that, you will start losing viewers.

STEPS ON HOW TO CREATE A YOUTUBE CHANNEL

If you already have a Gmail account just follow this steps to create your channel if not create an email account with Google (Gmail), then process with this steps.

1. Sign into YouTube and click on the user Icon at the top right hand

2. Click on account YouTube settings.

3. Click on create a new channel

4. Use a business name or other name

5. Add your brand name and click create.

Then you are good to go.

HOW TO EDIT A CHANNEL NAME

1. Click on account Icon

2. My channel

3. Right corner of the channel page click settings

4. On the right tap Edit

5. Enter the name you want to use

6. Then press ok.