Stories & Tips For Meaningful Connections

I’d Pick My Baby Over My Wife During Birth Complications – Man makes shocking revelation

April 18, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A debate has been triggered online by a guy named Chimaszn, who claims that in the event of birth problems, he would choose his child over his wife.

Chimaszn declared that if his wife’s life and the life of the child were both in danger during childbirth, he would chose to save the child.

This information was made public by Chimaszn in response to a comment made by a female Twitter user who suggested that the doctor save her in the event of birth problems rather than the baby.

According to Chimaszn, he would advise them to save both his wife and child; if it wasn’t possible, he would pick his child.

He wrote:

“I’d tell them to save both and if they can’t, then I have no choice than to go for the baby. can’t leave my blood to go that way.”

“That you’re beautiful doesn’t mean that you’re every man’s dream” Jane Mena dishes out relationship advice to women

April 18, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

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Popular Nigerian dancer Jane Mena has given advice to women who believe that a Man only cares about their beauty.

She underlined that physical attractiveness alone is not sufficient because some men value dating someone who will help them discover inner peace, even if that person is not physically attractive.

Jane Mena offered her advice on her Instagram page, emphasizing that not every man will find a woman attractive enough to make the perfect relationship.

In spite of outward appearances, she continued, men ultimately look for mates who can give them a sense of serenity and tranquility.

“That you’re beautiful doesn’t mean that you’re every man’s dream, some men prefer we the monkey that gives them peace of mind. Know this and rest.”

21 Questions For a New Relationship

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

21 questions for a new relationship before going into a relationship there are certain questions we are expected to ask our partners about their life and their previous relationships such questions are called pre-relationship questions, they are also certain questions we are meant to ask our partners while we are currently dating or the early stage of our relationship answer we get from them will enable us to know if we are ready to carry on with the relationship or not.

It is 97 percent confirmed that all newest relationship comes with a lot of fun vibes and enjoyment and this is typically called new relationship energy (NRE) at the stage while we enjoy all the wonderful experience that comes with a new relationship we should never forget to do certain important that will make the relationship last longer and some of these things are getting to know your partner properly and this can be done only if we ask them certain questions either directly or indirectly.

21 Questions For A New Relationship :

these are some of the necessary questions we need to ask our partner before going into a serious relationship with a theme.

1. Why did your last relationship end?

Asking your new partner the reason why his or her previous relationship crashed is one of the essential foundations to ensure that your new relationship won’t crash like his or her previous one because, after knowing why their previous relationship crashed will give you a guide to take positive steps to avoid those this which made their relationship to crash

2. Have you ever cheated on a past partner?

One of the major reasons you should ask this question in your new relationship is to know if your new partner is having a s*xual weakness and if you discover he is having a s*xual weakness is it left for you to decide if you really want to continue the relationship with a cheat or not

You can also check the 10 Questions to Fall In Love With Someone

3. How do you feel about the concept of marriage?

The reason for asking this question is to know your partner’s ideology on marriage weighers his ideology Marches with you or not

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4. What is the longest relationship you have had so far?

it is very important to ask this question because it helps you know how serious he is in the relationship if most of his relationships last for an only a short time it kind of passes a message to you that he or she is not that serious with the relationship

5. what are your religious beliefs?

By now you are expected to know the religious belief of the person you are currently in a relationship with if you are yet to know his or her relationship you are expected to ask your partner his religious beliefs to check if it goes well with your or not the answer you get from him or she will enable decide whether to continue the relationship or not

6. What scares you?

Knowing what scares your new partner is very important because it helps you to avoid such things that made them scared and also helps him or her to overcome his or her fear

7. Who are you closest to in your family?

You should always know who your partner is closed to in his or her family so that in times of trouble you can go to them for advice, and it also helps create a strong bond between you and your partner’s family

8. what are those things that made you happy?

Just as it is very important to know those things that make your partner sad or scared it is also very important to know those things that make your partner happy, knowing things that make your partner happy will help you to also do them to keep your relationship happy always

9. What is the wildest thing you have ever done before?

Knowing the wildest thing your partner has ever done will help you know the other side of your partner and help you know if you are ready to continue the relationship or not

10. How many children do you plan to have when you get married?

Basically, they are some people who love children, and they are some people who don’t love children knowing where your partner stand is very important as give you a tip about your partner his love for children, and knowing this will help you know if you are ready to continue the relationship or not, for example, Mary and Jude got married some years back and finally gave birth to 3 kids after 8 years of marriage Jude still wanted more kids, but Mary felt that 3 kids are enough then Jude started cheating on Mary, so he can get more children” this one of the reasons you need to know your partner stand about children to help avoid heartbreak in feature

11. Which business do you plan to do after retirement?

It is very important to know the financial capacity of your partner his or her thought toward business because is very dangerous to go into a full-time relationship with a complete waster, it is advised that you go into a full relationship with a composed and serious individual

12. What kind of job do they do?

It is very important to know the kind of job your partner is doing for a living it helps you decide if you are ready to go out with such person for example if a man does normal business which requires him to work from 8 o’clock to 9 5 o’clock and start to date a lady who is a banker that resume work from 7 o’clock to 8 o’clock it hm very truth that the man will feel abandoned in the relationship and might decide to cheat since he is not being given adequate time, so it is highly advised for you to go out with a person whose job Marches with yours

13. how many times would you love to have s*x in a week?

14. How did you lose your virginity?

15. What is the funniest reason you ever broke up with someone?

16. Would you choose to be hot or cold?

17. If you could have any skill without having to work for it, what would it be?

18. What motivates you?

19. What has been the worst year of your life

20. What has been the best year of your life

21. How do you like to be treated when you

ever fall sick?

Conclusion :

The reason why you should ask your partner some of these questions even tho they seem funny the reason is that it helps you know your partner very well knowing their likes and dislikes.

A relationship is not something anyone should just stand up for and then decide to go into one except you are only going to them, not for something serious. It is something that one needs to sit down and think of what and how he or she wants to build her life and when you get that, you can then look for someone who wants the same thing as you.

Compatibility matters a lot in a relationship which is one of the major reasons why these questions are necessary.

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Ooni of Ife proudly prays for his daughter as she celebrates her birthday

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

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Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, the Ooni of Ife has showered lots of prayers on her daughter Erelu Olajumoke Adenola on her birthday.

He shared a picture of his daughter on his official Instagram page, with a powerful prayer to mark her new age.

Ooni celebrated his daughter for the woman she has become.

Praying for her, he wrote:

“Today marks another day in the life of my very dependable, strong and loving daughter, the adorable Erelu Olajumoke Adenola Omo Oonirisa, my very own.

As you mark another day in your life, I celebrate the powerful woman you have become and all the magnificent versions of you that are emerging.

As your father, the Arole Oduduwa and the Ooni Orisha, and all our ancestors who sit on the throne of your forebears, I wish you a fruitful year.

Happy birthday Omo mi”.

Singer Flavour melts hearts as he shares emotional video of himself and his daughters celebrating his visually impaired son on his birthday

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

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Nigerian musician Flavour has melted a lot of hearts as he shared a video of his daughters visiting his adopted son who is visually impaired on his birthday.

Semah, who was born blind, is a Liberian who relied on the Christian Society of the Blind in Monrovia for assistance (CAB).

Flavour, on the other hand, discovered Semah in March 2017 and has been a vital part of his life since since he adopted him.

Flavour and his three girls decided to pay Semah a visit and give him a birthday treat today because it was his birthday.

Flavor documented his visit on his Instagram page and wrote:

“Happy Birthday Son , More Life and God’s Blessings”.

The video of Flavour holding and loving his adopted son has now gone viral, making many people cry.

Teeto olayeni wrote: Awwwwwwwwww this is so emotional to watch. It’s the fact that he said he will care for the boy to the very end and he us doing just that.

Mortelorlar wrote: God please just open this boy’s eyes to see how handsome he is! Such a cute boy. God bless Flavour and his kids .

One moses31 wrote: Big love..he dn grow beards now now.

Koko_barbs wrote: Things I love to see! humanity at its peak.

If Your Wife Cheats On You, Forgive And Pray For Her – Bukunmi Oluwasina

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Actress Bukunmi Oluwasina has advised men on what to do if their wives betray them.

She asked men to forgive and pray for their them when they cheat.

She specifically pleaded with men to gladly welcome their wives’ children since they are blessings if their wives’ adultery results in pregnancy.

She indicated that it would be improper to divorce one’s spouse for these reasons, advising men to function as the family’s moral leader, work to turn around their wives’ bad behavior, and maintain their homes.

Bukunmi said, “Do you want to leave your wife for the new guy? “, speaking to the spouses who could consider divorcing their wives due to their extramarital activities. No! Battle for your woman and for your house.

Bukunmi urged husbands to seek divine intervention in the “war room” and demanded forgiveness for cheating wives, claiming their partners might be under a spell or going through difficult times that the “head of the house” may be unaware of.

In her words:

“We’ve been advising the women, today let’s advise the men, Let’s say your girl slept with your best friend and you want to break up with her. No now, she’s your girl. What if she forgot he’s your best friend? “That’s how my gender people are, we forget things easily. Just forgive and move on. Love is forgiveness.

“Or your wife mistakenly slept with somebody outside and got pregnant, forgive her. “Every child is a blessing. Nobody is above mistake. Welcome the child, build your home. “Shebi it’s the head of the family they call you people? Ehn! You’re the one that will make your home work now.

“Okay, if you leave her now, do you know if the next person you would be with is going to sleep with your brother? “So, you need to act like the head of the family that they say you are.

“IF YOUR WIFE IS SLEEPING AROUND, PLEASE PRAY FOR HER. ENTER WAR ROOM. IT MIGHT BE SPIRITUAL. She might be going through a lot. What God cannot do does not exist. “MAKE E NO BE LIKE SAY NOBODY DEY ADVICE MEN”.

“Nothing Is Sweeter than Someone Snatching the Husband You Snatched”– Nkechi Blessing Shades Nuella Njubigbo

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Well known Nigerian actress Nkechi Blessing Sunday has presented one of the most lovely turns in marital affairs.

Nothing, according to her, is more satisfying than for a woman who has stolen someone else’s husband to have that same man taken from her by another woman.

The statement made by Nkechi Blessing appears to be directed at her coworker Nuella Njubigbo, whose ex-husband Tchidi Chikere just wed a third bride.

Tchidi, a movie director and filmmaker, announced his third marriage to Kenechukwu Ezeh on his Instagram page.

It was discovered that Judy Austin, Yul Edochie’s second wife, and his new wife are very good friends.

He first wedded the actress Sophia Williams before falling in love with Nuella, with whom he later wedded in 2014.

However, Tchidi and Nuella divorced in 2021, and he recently disclosed that he has remarried for the third time.

Nkechi Blessing stated on her Instagram profile that such a convoluted relationship web is really enjoyable and rewarding because the women in the middle have had the same dishes and meals as the first wife did.

Nkechi Blessing wrote;

“Nothing sweet pass make you collect person husband, make another person come collect am from you again. Ara Agbala snatcheee!!!”

5 Causes Of Emotional Damage

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Emotional Damage is a State of emotional suffering, it is a state when a person is mentally and psychologically down, its symptoms are depression and anger.

They are a lot of things which cause emotional damage some of those things are some happenings in our environment e.g. place of work church, market, etc. while others are some happenings in a marriage or relationship, it is most likely to say that the popular cause of emotional damage in our society is as a result of happenings in our marriage and relationship.

1. Causes Of Emotional Damage

Divorce/Break up :

Divorce and breakup happen to be a major factor that causes emotional damage. when a person gets an unexpected divorce or heartbreak his heart immediately gets weakened and his emotions get a damaged cause of the shock that comes with it.

Death Of Love Once :

The death of a loved one is another major factor that causes emotional damage, this is a result of the sudden shock you experience on hearing the news. Another thing that prolongs emotional damage is when you think of the nice times you have shared with each the, when you remember the promise he or she made to you or when the dead person is your close friend or your spouse this will temporally prolong emotional damage

Debt :

Debt is another cause of emotional damage when one is in debt, he or she becomes emotional down especially when the agreed payment date is by the Conner, frequent reminders of dept an individual is expected to pay causes that person to be scared which is the foundation of emotional damage for example “Benita is a student of bright international School, and she is owing to a school fee debt of $120 and the school exams are in three days time and all students are expected to pay their fees before they can be allowed to write their exams at this point whenever Benita remember she needs to pay her school fees and the consequences attached if she fails to pay her fees she will at that point become emotional damaged”

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Serious illness/sickness :

When someone is suffering from a serious illness like HIV, gonoria, or syphilis frequent reminders of such illness and the effect on the body will cause the person to be emotionally damaged for example ” Mrs favor is a single mother living a happy life with her only son, but Mrs favor was diagnosed of leukemia and the doctor told her that she has only 5 years to live whenever Mrs favor remember her leukemia illness and the doctor report she becomes mentally distorted and emotionally damaged

Barrenness Or Childlessness in Marriage :

When a couple gets married for several years without children it places a kind of tension on the couple as a result of stigma that might arise from the environment and other family members, when such a couple remembers their state of Childlessness they become emotional damage and mentally distorted for example John and Mary have been dating for some time and they both decided to get married eventually they finally got married after five years of being married they are yet to have a child or children and several people start mocking them at that point both John and Mary will become emotionally distorted/damaged

2. Symptoms Of Emotional Damage

Confusion: when one becomes emotional distorted he or she becomes confused and absent-minded an emotional disturb person tends to be confused and forgetful in whatever they are doing

Anger: Another symptom Of Emotional Damage is that the person will become unnecessary provoked and any little thing angers him or her

Depression: An emotional distorted person is usually depressed feels utterly dispirited or dejected

Withdrawing from friends and family: an emotional damage person love to be alone and always try to withdraw him or herself from friends, family, and the society

Headaches: as a result of serious depression and anger an emotional damage person is prone to Head ach and fever

3. Signs Your Friend Might Be Struggling Emotionally

some of these are some signs for you to know that your friend is emotional struggling

when he or she becomes unnecessarily annoyed with any little thing

When he or she becomes moody always

When he or she takes several actions without minding the aftermath of such action

when he or she no longer does those things that give him joy

Conclusion :

When ever you see someone who is going through a lot emotionally try your possible best to draw close to them and comfort them in there emotional pain with this you might save a life cause many people who where emotional damage committed suicide because they had no one to talk to or any shoulder to lay on.

If you are going through this emotional trauma, feel free to join our relationship space.

“I love you madly” Tinsel Actors, Iyke Okey & Florence Okechukwu Celebrate 10th Wedding Anniversary

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Nollywood stars Iyke Okey and Florence Okechukwu gushes over each other as they celebrate their wedding anniversary.

Today, April 17, they are commemorating their tenth wedding anniversary.

Iyke posted a video collage of their relationship’s development on his Instagram feed.

“It’s 10 years baby!!! No be God!! My Soulmate, My PFL, my Heart, with God by our side, we will continue to ‘Mar’ ‘Age’ with Love.

I love you, truly madly deeply.”

“No regrets” Nigerian Lady Celebrates 10 Years Of Removing Her Womb

April 17, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A Nigerian Lady by name Eve Onyedikachukwu ,has made a shocking revelation that caused a stir online

The lady disclosed that she removed her womb 10 years ago, she stated how she is so proud of herself for taking such bold step.

Taking to her social media acct, Onyedikachukwu Eve wrote :

Today made it 10yrs I took the decision to remove my wômb. So far no regrets. There’s no point bringing in a ch!ld into this world when you know you’re incapable of taking care of him/her.
Congratulations to me”