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Knowing the qualities of who can marry you, is important but knowing who you are, is
the most important before going into marriage. Many people
complain about their partners because they didn’t think twice
before taking a step. You need to know who you are, your kind of
person before taking a steps of getting into agreement with
someone to start a family of your own together saying yes i will marry you is not hard but you got to be sure that you are with the right person.
The following are some things to consider before saying yes to marriage and before saying i will marry you;
Marry someone who knows how to say “I’m sorry ” and also mean it without pride getting in the way.
Marry someone who loves your soul not only your body.
Don’t be hot temper and also get marry to a hot temper person, or else one day your home will be turned into a battle field where everybody is trying to be a winner.
Don’t be warm and also marry someone warm.
Don’t be a committed worshiper and get marry to a club addict. (It is either you change him/her or he/she changes you, or divorce sets in).
Don’t be a block head and also get marry to a block head. Though at times is good but in 40% because no one will say am better than the other, but the remaining 60% is not, in terms of businesses proposal, finances, contracts etc. you maybe cheated on, but with your partners knowledge you can explore more. E.g. many of our billionaires today.
Don’t be a fashion freak and get marry to someone with no sense of dressing unless there is an agreement to work on it.( To avoid lack of interest in each other in the future).
Don’t marry someone who is always trying to be superior all the time.
Marry someone who knows that you have the right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and to disagree a right to air your opinions.
Don’t go for Mr. Perfect / Miss Perfect. Remember two imperfect people comes together to make their home perfect.
Marry someone who is fun to be with, someone who is not boring to be with, someone that understands what it means and takes to put a smile on someone’s face.
Marry a man who knows that at time, you might just be so tired to cook and for him taking you to eatery for dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo.
Don’t marry because you think the person will change later or that the person will not change later (conditional type of marriage).
Marry a friend not a lover, (N/B you can’t tell a lover everything including your secrets but you can always tell a good friend).
So be careful who to marry and make use of your courtship period to know who you are dealing with, to avoid making mistakes in the future that may land in a divorce.
Marriage is for enjoyment not for enduring, when you end up with the wrong person, for how long will you be enduring? Marriage is a life time contract not a relationship that you can walk out anytime you like.
There are a lot of men that do have issues when it comes to telling a woman they crush on that he loves you but even with that shyness and timidity, one thing they can not hide is the love signs that he loves you.
If you happen to chat and fall in love with many guys, it will help you to easily differentiate who is around you because they love you and who is around you just for friendship or because of what you can offer.
A man who is truly in love with you will not be able to avoid those signs that he loves you because he is expecting that one day you will realize how much he loves and care about you that one day you may also fall in love with him just as he is with you.
So if you have not been noticing that guy that is trying all he can in his power to make you happy just because he loves you, then you need to start by looking out.
And also when you are crushing on someone and you don’t know if he will accept you if you make a move can sometimes be so frustrating, but the worst thing is for you crushing on someone who is in love with you without you knowing just because you couldn’t read the signs
—-What are the signs that he loves you—-
1. He frequently checks upon you: For a man to be checking up on you on daily basis either physical checking up or on phone does not signify that he is jobless.
It takes only a man who loves you to be doing that, meaning that he is also trying to make you his priority even without you knowing it.
2. Your opinion matters: In many African countries, women don’t have the right to speak when a man is talking and makes them remain superior only in the kitchen. But it takes a man who is in love with you to come to you for your opinion on things that’s to him.
Sometimes he doesn’t come to seek your idea because he had nothing, but at times it is because that’s the one or the only means of sitting or coming very close to you.
Note: Most guys do pretend to concentrate when they come around but not all, at least not 65% of them can. So look out for some signs that he loves you;
i. He looks at your lips, how you speak.
ii. He swallows saliva so hard that at times you can even hear the sound of It.
iii. He smiles at you.
iv. Sometimes he looks lost or freeze when he sees you.
v. He stares at you from your head down to your feet (he checks you out), etc
3. He frequently compliments you: both on your looks and personality. Many men including the flirt compliment ladies but it is only a man who loves you and knows your worth that will compliment your personality.
Your personality speaks a lot about you, it’s your personality that determines how people will treat you.
4. He is always available when you need a shoulder to cry on: It takes someone who loves and cares for you so deeply to standby you when you are in distress.
When you get hurt by another guy, he is available to make you feel okay again, he just wants to see you happy.
5. He responds quickly to anything that has to do with you: He is not a servant or less than a man in the eyes of ladies, it is all because is you that he wants to please not other ladies.
So if he always makes himself available for you like your boy, don’t treat him as one because one day he might take the advice of his friends and let you be on your own. And that time may be too late for you to get him back.
6. He asks about your plans for the future: your dreams or vision is no man’s business except he loves you. It takes love for him to worry about his plans and also get concerned about yours as well.
7. He enjoys a long chat with you: A long chat can only exist between two people if only they enjoy each other’s company. And is not easy for a guy to chat with a lady for a long time if he doesn’t feel something for him.
Likewise, ladies, if a lady doesn’t like you, chatting with you even for ten minutes is hard for her. She feels like you are disturbing her, that she will take her time before even reading nor responding to your message after reading it.
So if you are a man, Note this; It takes a woman who admires or has a crush on you to give you full attention or 70% of her attention to you over a chat.
ii. She reciprocal on anything you ask her. Example (how her day went)
iii. She sends a smiling emoji along when you say something funny to her. That emoji is to notify you how and what she is doing with her face at that particular moment you write to her.
iv. By telling you where she is living not just by telling you the state or Local Government she stays but instead she tells you the exact street at times, address.
signs that he loves you continues;
8. He smiles at you at every eye contact: another way of telling someone that you admire them is by a smile. If someone does not feel anything about you or have you in mind, no matter how you stare at them or they stare at you, they won’t smile instead they will just look away immediately the eye contact is notified.
So it takes a man who has you in his thought to keep looking and be smiling not mind if you have observed his actions.
9. He gets jealous when seeing another man around you: It is not only ladies that can be jealous when it comes to love, men do too.
The only difference between a man’s jealousy and a woman own is that most men can act not to care, then pretend and overlook. But ladies don’t.
Our actions alone will you have a man that we are jealous of what just occur right there.
If you want to know a jealous man is this;
i. He is muddy during the conversation
ii. He may decide to excuse himself.
iii. He will be so attached to his phone just to be able to control his emotions as a man.
10. He fights beside you: when you are going through a hard time, when you feel like the world is about to swallow you when it looks like everyone has turned against you when you feel like your life has come to an end, he stood and held your hands saying “everything will be already” after saying that, he hangs around more often than the usual, he ensures that you don’t wear long or sad face.
He becomes your adviser, your big brother, your father, your mentor, your angel, your caretaker, etc. quality of a man
Please after all this, what else do you want him to do so that you will realize the signs that he loves you.
Men who do all this just for friendship, are few. The more you get attached to someone, the more you begin to like them.
So please help the innocent guy with his shyness of talking to a lady about his feelings by reciprocating the love, if you have a crush on him too.
You don’t have to go to him to tell him you love him too, but you can start by also showing signs that you care about him too, starting by asking him more about his plans, or anything concerning him.
learning from the signs that he loves you, you can also start doing things that will also shows him that you are having interest in him too.
A lot of things are happening today that even trust is very hard to get from someone that easily unless you prove yourself but in some cases, even if you try proving yourself there will still be doubt. That is why the question of who cheats most in a relationship always pops up.
The truth is that both men and women cheat but if you want to check from the nature aspect then you will realize that overall, men cheat most in a relationship.
Men are polygamous but that does not give them the title to become cheaters.
Before a man cheats on a lady there is always a reason and most times it is always caused by the woman in the picture and the second reason is from his nature.
But how does a woman who is in the picture contribute to the cheating?
When you are with a man, be it a relationship or marriage, one of the things you should learn is the kind of person your man is, what he likes and what he doesn’t like, the kind of friends he keeps company with, etc.
These few things are very important since it has a role to play between you two so why play with it.
Most times women use their mouths to push their men outside. When all you use to mouth to do or say to him is always negative or abusive, he will be tired and sometimes decides to sit out till the time he is ready to come back and sleep to avoid you.
In this period, if your man is vulnerable at this time, it is possible for another lady to take that advantage and care for his needs and before you know it, he will end up cheating on you.
If he is the kind of man that follows their true nature, then he will not even need any reason to cheat on you because he can not stay with one lady all through his life not possible.
Why do we lie in a relationship?
Lying in a relationship is one of the ways to avoid fights in relationships but then, it is not the best option to use to solve the issue at home or with your partner.
Lies have the power to destroy everything that you have worked for over many years. But sometimes, it is the option to use in a desperate time to save your relationship or home.
You should fix the issue in your relationship now and be free tomorrow than lying now and then by tomorrow when everything comes to light you lose your relationship.
Lies can only save your relationship temporarily but at the end of the day, it can use just a few seconds to scatter that which you value dearly.
What words do liars use?
In a relationship men and women use many words, words that they know that it sounds real and that you will believe without a doubt and some of those words are;
1 Don’t you trust?
2 You have to believe me
3 You know I cannot lie to you
4 You know that I love you to the moon and stars.
5 The fact is
6 I love you more than my life, etc.
A lot of people that cheat uses these words making it hard to differentiate their lies and the truth from whatever they say. These kinds of words they believe that the seed of doubt that was in you is gone or if not completely gone that it reduces.
#CAN A WOMAN CHEAT AND STILL BE IN LOVE?
Sometimes cheating on someone does not mean that they don’t love who they are with. Some cheating comes because there is something they are looking for that cannot be found with their partners so with that, the only way to get it is by cheating on their partner with someone else that they believe he or she has what they are looking for for for at that moment.
In things like this, they act before they think and that is cheating on their partners before thinking of what lies to tell later.
So yes, a woman or a man can cheat and still be in love.
Lying is an act it is something that we rehearse before we deliver, it is something that we are careful and plan for. But no matter how someone rehearses and comes to lie in a relationship, there must always be a sign. All you have to do is to look and observe instead of stressing yourself out.
But then what are the signs you are being lied to?
1 He repeats the question: Someone who is lying to you or trying to lie to you will be repeating your question before answering. This is not because he didn’t hear nor understand the question, it is because he is planning and thinking of what to answer.
2 His actions: look at his environment, look in the same direction as him, look at what he is doing with his hands and his eyes, etc. Then you will know if he is lying or not.
There are people that when they lie they will be sweating while some will be doing one or two using their hands. You just have to discover what your partner is doing that is unusual.
3 They become Talkative: Have you seen someone that you know that does not talk much but one day something happen and he started giving you a long note without you asking them for such an explanation?
If you have, then you understand and know how a liar looks like. Someone who lies to you will tell you stories including things that you didn’t even ask him.
This is them giving you a lot of information without even asking for or reacting.
There are a lot of signs to use and know when someone is lying to you
You just have to observe and then you will discover which one is your partner’s way.
A young Nigerian man has reportedly called off his wedding just a month before the big day after discovering that his fiancée went to visit her Ex boyfriend.
According to research, the wedding was scheduled to hold in December but after her husband-to-be find out about her recent activities, he decided to suspend the wedding and dump her.
This incident was shared by a tweeter user. According to the Twitter user who shared the story, the lady stated that her visit to her ex was just a friendly one. the post reads;
”My Friends wedding that was supposed to take place by december was called off today,
her Fiancé discovered she visited her ex boyfriend after their engagement,she said it was just a friendly visitation.”
see social media user’s reaction to the post
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fact about love; One thing everyone should is that, Love is a beautiful thing in which it is in everyone’s desire to have or experience in life.
Love keeps no secret, and it is from the heart.
Being in a dating relationship with someone does not prove the fact that you love the person. that is why it is very important to have some ideas on fact about love.
In this article, I will be telling us what we need to know, and also how we can get our love checked.
So here are the few fact about love you should know;
1. Don’t ever rush into falling in love, for love never runs out. Even if they mock you because you are single, just tell them this:
“God is just busy writing the best love story that will sweep me off my feet!”
2. If you find yourself in love with someone else who does not love
you back, don’t kill yourself because you are okay and there is
nothing wrong with you.
3. Love is a beautiful thing, maybe the other person did not feel the
same way you did.
but never give up because there is always a reason for anything
that happens in life. Just keep pushing because love will be on the other side.
4. [bctt tweet=”Always remember that people rush for cheap things, so see yourself as an expensive being.” username=”kizynora”]
An expensive product in the market, boutique, always attract almost everyone, but it is only someone who is qualify not just with money, but with all qualification that do fit in.
5. You can’t force true love, it just happen even without your
knowledge.
6. Don’t be so desperate for love that you have to go for anyone
who approaches you for love.
— fact about love
7. Don’t make yourself a fool for love just because A is in love with
someone you now choose to be desperate even if its toxic.
8. Don’t be desperate that you have to sell your heart for Dangote’s
salt… because if you do, don’t ever blame anyone in the future
because you hold the key to your heart, your happiness not the
people around you.
9. Be yourself and find someone who truly loves you and values you.
not for what everyone wants you to be, but for who you truly are.
10. Always remember this, never measure the future from the way
you are feeling now. sorrows may endure for a night but Joy comes in the morning. so see everything as a process that you have to observe and go through in life before you can cross to your Canaan land.
11. fact about love is that, in the game of love, patience is a must.
12. Love is a matter of time.
13. Love do not just happen, you have to work for it by first of all, know who you are and work on yourself, career etc while waiting for the right one.
14. God is love, so seek him first.
— fact about love
15. you can’t find love if you don’t love and appreciate yourself. you have to first of all, believe in yourself, love who you are and who you have become and who you are going to be.
16. Don’t look down on yourself and your abilities.
Note, no one was born empty, we were all born for a purpose, what matters, is how you handle your mission.
17. Believe in the impossibilities.
18. Don’t ever try to live on fantasy. having faith then believing in something is very different from living in fantasy world, so quit fantasy and get a real life.
19. Love is not do or die affair.
20. Love is not blind so open your eyes to see and deal with what needs to be deal with.
21. It is true that true love can give you happiness but that doesn’t mean that because you haven’t found true love yet, that you can’t still be happy.
22. Don’t kill yourself because of how long it gonna take.
23. falling in love is not bad but be careful who you are falling in love with. because falling in and falling out of love, are both an addiction.
24. I will say it again, don’t rush for love, true love just happens even while you least expected.
What Does Relationship really mean: People have different meanings and different understandings of relationships based on their views. However, a relationship generally, is a process where two people come together to connect and communicate with each other, to share their rights, and responsibilities.
An intimate relationship includes love, intimacy, commitment, companionship, Understanding, closeness, etc.
2. Tips for a successful relationship
The following tips below may be able to help you improve your relationship. (Tips for a successful relationship)
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• Communication: In a relationship, a connection is a gate but communication is the key to that gate. You need the key (communication) to have access to the gate (connection).
waiting for your partner to try to guess what is going on with you is like waiting for rainfall in a dry season.
• Meekness: Many people are just so temperamental to the extent of putting their relationship at risk. If you have anything to say, do it with coordination, think before you act not act before you think.
• Attention– Giving each other attention, a listening ear is one of the ways to bridge the gap not busy defending ourselves, trying to make our point valid at all times instead of creating room for other opinions to count.
Create an awareness that shows that you gave him/her your attention before you make your point. Using a minute to think before you respond may be of good help.
• Speak positively: the manner and approach in which you speak about your partner and your relationship has the power to sustain and the power to scatter your relationship. So speak wisely if you value your relationship.
• Learn to say I’m sorry: most people in their nature find it very difficult to use the word I’m sorry not because they are cocky but because they don’t know the value of the word.
If your attempt to set something right turns out the opposite of what you expected, try fixing it immediately don’t wait until it’s out of your control.
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• Togetherness: make your relationship a priority and make time for each other. Togetherness helps in generating a stronger bond between you and your partner and it helps to straighten the mind and also set it in the right direction.
• Appreciation: It is said “you don’t know what you have until you lose it” so appreciate your partner at all times, his/her effort should not be ignored nor go to waste. Show that you are proud to have them in your life.
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• Make plans: Nothing wipes a woman off her feet like involving her in your plans be it plans for the future or a day plan. It shows her where she belongs in your heart even without her confronting you to know her place in your life.
Set goals for your relationship and plan for your future together. This shows that you are taking your spouse and your relationship seriously.
• Be supportive: criticism is the gateway to failure. Being supportive doesn’t not only shows you care, it also shows that you wish them well.
• Prayers: Prayer is the key to everything, you can’t do it on your own so you need God to step in for you.
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• Arguments: accept that arguments will come, but the way you handle it when it occurs matters. Contempt is the strongest predictor of divorce, which is an action whereby your partner feels ‘put down by you, whether it is by the tone of your voice or whatsoever.
In arguments, whatever we say can bring a home together and harm the relationship which most times results in divorce.
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• Learn to compromise: compromising in a relationship shouldn’t come as a surprise to you at any time especially if it has to do with your family and is with a positive vibe.
In a relationship two imperfect people adjusting to fit into each other’s life then compromises are needed to make it work.
—– tips for a successful relationship
• Be sexually Active: being sexually active to your partner is a sign that you want them too, be passionate, affectionate in your way of doing things (a random warm hugging and a short passionate kiss is something)
It’s true that individually, we all have different sex drives and to sustain a happy sex life and a healthy home, it requires negotiation and agreement.
A physical disconnection between two partners is a red light that indicates danger in the relationship.
How to keep your relationship strong and healthy:
Having a successful relationship is one thing and maintaining it is another thing, and for you to maintain it, you got to put in all that you got.
You can maintain it by trying to be aware of whatever is happening around your partner in and out and also within your relationship.
Never assume to know everything because as we grow every day, we realize things that we never knew, then amendment takes place. Likewise, people changing.
Stay curious, it is really important to stay up to date about your partner and your relationship. Friendship is the basic key for staying up to date.
So create good friendships in your relationship as possible as you can.
Signs Of A Dying Relationship:
Every relationship has the power to survive and the power not to, is left for the couple to play their part well.
Lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of togetherness, lack of intimacy, lack of respect and submission, Always at the neck of each other 24/7 (No agreement) Lack of appreciation, Doubt, etc.
How to solve your relationship problems:
Before you can solve any problem in life, you will have to, first of all, identify what the problem is.
After identifying the problem, if you don’t know the way forward especially if is that complicated that you can’t sort it out with your partner because of one thing or the other, seeking help from a counselor can be a good step to problem-solving.
Putting your knees down in prayers can be your starting point. Remember, communication is the key tips for a successful relationship.
Therefore, if you are ready for a serious relationship, then what tips for a successful relationship are you using? If none then you have to follow these tips for a successful relationship.
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Ways to spend your Valentine’s day even without money
valentine’s day is a great day to express how much you love someone you are with. although you can still express your love on other days, valentine’s day makes it special.
When we say expressing how much you love someone does not mean that you must have sexual intercourse with someone on that faithful day or that you should empty your account balance just to express how much you love a person.
That is why in this article, I have gone ahead and compile how you can enjoy your valentine’s day with or without money.
Do you know what valentine’s day means? well, I never had an insight on this valentine’s day meaning that almost everyone is always crazy about really meant nor why people take it so personally. but then I decided to do some research, and this is what I realized;
That valentine’s day is not only the day that two priests named Valentine were killed, it is also a day when couples celebrate their love in different and special ways.
Although valentine’s day is not only for couples to celebrate love, it is also a day where we celebrate everyone we love including our parents, children, and friends.
But before we go into how to spend your valentine’s day, note this; If you have money and you want to spend it, do it but that still doesn’t prove that you love the person or that the person involve loves you either.
To celebrate your valentine’s day, you have to, first of all, know some of these necessary things about your partner:
His or her favorite color.
Your partners favorite TV shows
Your partner’s favorite food or spot.
Your partner likes and dislikes.
Your partner kind of person.
Your partner may be someone that do not like outing, but that doesn’t mean that he or she wouldn’t want to celebrate valentine’s day with you. All you have to do is figure out what she likes doing at home and try and engage it on that day together To spice up your relationship.
It may be a movie, TV show, love novels, games, etc.
HOW TO CELEBRATE YOUR VALENTINE’S DAY WITHOUT MONEY Before reading this, know that it depends on the kind of person you are together in a relationship
A nice and understanding lady that loves and cares about you so much will understand when you have money and when you don’t have it and when it is a must for you to save for a future purpose.
These are some valentine’s day gift ideas;
Sightseeing: a lot of people like exploring, while some likes nature, if you know which one your partner likes, it will save you the stress of thinking about how to please her on this faithful day.
Cinema: well to see a movie, you got to have a ticket but it doesn’t cost much, with $10 you can take her out to a movie.
If you are a giving type, she will understand that at this moment, that there is no money, and to avoid you giving her excuses, you now decided to take her out to see a movie.
She will be so attached to you on this day because of this simple act. if you doubt me, look at her face if you see a smile on her face knowing that you have made her day which makes it better than being in her room all by herself.
If you are a stingy type, sorry because she won’t buy the idea that you have no money at that moment. So be transparent in dealing with your relationship.
Be together: I’ve seen a lot of people posting on social media how they broke up with their partner just because they had no money to make their valentine’s day great. but that’s not it. Spending time with someone that you love is what makes your valentine’s day great not by what you spend or what you can offer.
As a lady or man in a relationship, the greatest gift someone can give to you is his or her attention, not just to you but also to the future of the relationship although it is not every relationship that has to result in marriage, it is all relationship that opens your understanding to what commitment is all about.
So be together with your partner, your discussion should be love, don’t use the word “I” instead use the word “WE” while talking. It will show him or her how much you value and care for the relationship to continue.
Take a lot of selfies together: Yeah selfie, nothing makes a girl smiling the next day after Val day than remembering all the good moment she had with her guy. and selfies happens to be one of the tools that come into play.
It doesn’t have to be a serious picture, it can be a funny face picture that when he or she looks at it, she will not only smile but she will also laugh at the way you acted like a baby.
Do a lot of stuff together: Do you know that cooking together in the kitchen, takes bath together, using the same color of clothes, etc on this faithful day speaks a lot about where your relationship is going? Or am I the only one that knew this? I guess not.
You may be asking, What if I can’t cook since I am a man? The truth is that you are not there to cook actually, you are they to keep her company and to help reduce the stress but making her laugh while cooking.
Stress can make you cook for 3 hours but with happiness, you can finish a work of 3 hours under 2 hours because you will not even feel it or a need to relax small before you continue.
Go to the beach: Ladies like the beach, it helps us relax. so take her to the beach, have fun, laugh, play, etc and finally, give her a massage if you can.
Text her: I know you do text her or don’t, but on this day, make it special, don’t use the regular valentine’s text message books to copy a message for her. Make it special by using your own words.
write what your heart tells you, allow your feelings and emotions to lead you in this process because you can’t do it along using your head, you need your emotions on this assignment.
We ladies do know when someone sends us a text from a book and when it is from the heart. so which means that no matter how long and sweet the one from the book is, it will not have the same effect on a person the same way those short texts from the heart will have.
Watch some valentine’s day movies together: Yeah there are a lot of movies out there that are acted base on valentine.
If you don’t know how to go about finding the valentine’s day movies, then move on to any love movies that you know it has what it takes to make the room colorful while watching with her.
Some valentine’s day movies that are already available since the ’90s are;
Always be my maybe
the big sick
Crazy Rich Asian
The romance
Bride and prejudice
True romance
Breathless
Before sunrise
La la land
Romeo and Juliet
Some other movies you can watch on valentine’s day is Hallmark movies. Almost all their storyline is always about love. how someone finds love, how love changed someone, how to find love, how to make your love work, how to express and celebrate love, etc, and a lot more.
All you have to do is find the one that works for you, and keep it.
Go to the studio: you can take some photos in the house if you don’t have enough cash to visit the studio for some valentine’s day pictures but If you do have, take her to the studio, get some shots and remember that valentine’s day only comes ones in a year.
So leave something that when she looks at it, she will smile and say to someone, “wow we were so cute here, can you believe these photos were taken on valentine’s day the year before last” how time flies.
If you think that you can do this point, then do valentine’s day pictures have to be perfect?
Valentine’s day pictures:
The truth is that it doesn’t have to be a perfect set of pictures, it can even be one of the craziest pictures you two have ever taken before or for a long time.
This is a question everyone likes asking, well you can’t blame them when they say how can he or she cheat on you if he loves you. This is because of the impression they see. Now to answer that question”do cheaters really love you” keep reading.
For someone to be a cheater doesn’t mean that they are allergic to love most times it is just that they are lost in that area making it very easy for them to get attracted and moved to any lady outside who they are with if they don’t have self-control.
So without self-control, it is well easy for someone who has promised you heaven and Earth and even introduced you to his family to still cheat on you.
So yes, cheats do love all they need is self-control.
Note this, if you research to check why these people cheat most times, you will discover that
1 They are not ready to be committed to anyone just yet.
Cheating destroys the trust which was built in your relationship. That is why it is very important you just avoid it if you still value your relationship.
No matter how much you love someone and the person later cheats on you, then you forgave him or her, it will be hard to forget and trust the person completely again.
This doesn’t mean that you don’t love the person again, of course, you do but not compared to before unless you see a bigger positive change in the person. If not, you will always doubt the person and question his movements and feelings towards you.
So Yes, you can still love a person after cheating on you gradually.
#Do cheaters always cheat again?
There is a saying that goes this way [bctt tweet=””once a cheater is always a cheat”” username=”kizynora”]. So it depends on the level of cheat… Hahahaha
What I am trying to say here is that most cheaters don’t cheat again if they are ready for a commitment with you.
A cheater who is in love with u like 75% will not want to hurt you again knowing very well that you might leave him, so what’s the need of doing that again.
But a cheater who is not ready for commitment and faithfulness, will not care much about you leaving him or not because of cheating. Perhaps some continue doing it knowing well very that the lady in the picture is head over Hill for them. That’s to say, she can’t leave him even if she sees him with another lady.
This happens when you let a man know your soft spot without you knowing his.
So it is not all cheaters that always cheat again, you just have to give him or her another chance to see if it will repeat itself. That is the only time you will know your value in your partner’s life.
#CAN CHEATING MAKE A RELATIONSHIP STRONG?
If you ask me, I will tell you that sometimes it depends on who is the cheater in the relationship. Now let me explain this.
Most men cannot stand a second looking at a lady that cheats on them… Yes, they believe that you have no excuse to cheat on them and that makes you the biggest sinner.
And they are some ladies who love their men that forgiveness is very easy for them as long as he comes back to them.
When it comes to cheating, women forgive and take back their men the most this is not because they are desperate but because they love them and they don’t just give up that easily just because of one mistake which anyone can make. This is them having a soft heart and reasoning with four sights.
So if a man cheats and then comes back home and changed completely it strengthens the relationship and makes the bond stronger. But if it is a lady in the picture more than a half percent of such homes will be destroyed instead of getting stronger.
So 40% of homes if it is a lady that cheats get stronger while 60% fails and when compared with men, 70% of homes gets stronger while 30% fails.
Note that women have soft hearts compared to men.
DO CHEATERS FEEL REGRET?
Before he comes to you to ask for your forgiveness even when you didn’t know about it, simply means that he is sorry and he regrets what he did.
He regrets ever taking your love for him for granted.
And most times, if he doesn’t tell you about the deep he did because he is scared that you may decide to leave him if you were to know about it he will just be acting strange which if you love him closely you will easily detect that all is not right with him.
So yes, a lot of cheaters do regret ever cheating on the love of their lives.
DO CHEATERS EVER CHANGE?
For a cheater to change, there must be someone that brings him or her back to his senses reminding him that he is getting mature and not getting younger. which means it’s time to start a commitment to one person.
So yes, cheaters do change except he doesn’t want to change.
If you think that you still love your partner and that you can give him or her a second chance, please do. Success your relationship.
A Tweet post which is currently going Viral online has featured the moment as a Ghanaian man complained bitterly about how expensive relationships ar me with Nigerian ladies.
According to him, dating is getting harder these days, especially with 9ja girls the Twitter user identified as Breggle Acha Derrick, stated that dating Nigerian women have become almost the same thing as raising an orphan. in his words he noted
“Dating is now complicated cos you don’t know maybe the person need help or love. I hear say dating a Nigerian woman nowadays is like taking care of an orphan 😂.
Once you tell naija woman that you love them , you are already in trouble o. Their house rent will expire immediately”
See his post
Dating is now complicated cos you don’t know maybe the person need help or love. I hear say dating a Nigerian woman nowadays is like taking care of an orphan 😂
