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17 of what to say to a girl

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Knowing what to say to a girl

What to say to a girl at times is like a war to most guys.

Some of us are in love while some of us have people we admire.

But at times, it seen we don’t love nor value them because we don’t know the words to use, where and when to use them.

We think that we are not romantic and with that, most of us sit down and watch romantic movies just to learn how to be romantic.

That’s not bad but for how long?

You don’t need a thousand words before you can sweep her off her feet.

All you need is just the perfect words to do the magic for you.

Example of what you can say to a girl are:

why you should use romantic words

I’m not perfect but you are the only woman that makes my life feel perfect.

I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.

A smile of a man is love and strength, and you are my love and my strength.

No matter how far you are, you are still going to be in my heart.

Those who think that true love doesn’t exit, they haven’t seen us together. We are record breakers.

You make my life colorful.

True love is when the heart feels quicker than the mind thinks.

I will always be there for you, anytime, anywhere.

Have I ever told you how beautiful you look today?

I love you more as each moment passes us by.

All I ever wanted was someone like you. And thank God I found you.

My love for you is like water, falling countless.

Can I ask you for something? Can I love again in our next life because I can’t get enough of you.

My life is complete because I have you in it.

You are one of the achievement in my life I will forever be proud that I made.

I will give up the world just to have u because without you, life is incomplete.

If loving you was a crime, I wouldn’t mind being send to jail.

Just to prove how much I love you.

what to say to a girl….. with this few lines, it can get you started.

3 NEGATIVE EFFECT OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

sex before marriage

premarital sex is a sexual activity carried out between two individual who are not married nor planning to marry. it is called sex before marriage.

Few days ago, I decided to write an article on this topic sex before marriage but something stuck me to set it as a questionnaire which I did.

I started interviewing people both single, dating and married couple.

And the questions were “DO YOU SUPPORT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE YES OR NO? AND WHY?

Now this what I got from my audience as responds;

Anonymous 1 said “No, I don’t support sex before marriage. It’s because

1.Morally: it is wrong because the bible is against it.

2.Socially: it leads to wrong relationship, some thinks that sex is love especially girls.

While for most guys, sex is like a fun that’s why a guy can travel

far just for sex and men are polygamous in nature. While a girl is

easily emotionally attached.

Some do think that it is a way of knowing if your partner will

satisfy you in the future in bed but No, keeping yourself for each

other is better because no one will complain of one another, when

they both are learner learning together in marriage.

In terms of settling down- sex leads to confusion, they don’t know

who to choose why? It’s because,” A” doesn’t have what B has

but “A” is cute and tall but can’t treat ladies like” C” does, now

confusion sets in.

Many girl’s thinks’ that by satisfying a guy sexually will help them

to keep the man and with that, it makes them loose.

Sex carries spirits. The more sex you have with different guys determines how many spirits are following you. Cause is not guarantee that the very first man you sleep with is going to be your husband. Sex

also leads to extra marital affairs.

Real Reasons for sex before marriage

ANONYMOUS 2 said I will just tell you raw, “YES” I do support sex before marriage.

In terms of performance: sex before marriage helps you to know the ability of each other and apart from that, it helps you to know your stand example, you can’t be a man that can only last for ten (10) minutes in bed then you went ahead and end up marrying a lady that can last an hour and if not an hour, she is not even closer to satisfaction. And in this kind of case, what will you if you were against sex before marriage?

You won’t have a peaceful home and even if you try to fix the home by maybe deciding to involve a counselor, and she is asked what the problem was, she will say that you are not man enough. And why is she saying so? It’s because you can’t satisfy her on bed and it is not her fault neither is it yours but it is because you people are not compatible in bed.

In terms of wanting: they are many guys that loves kissing that is “they prefer kissing to sex while there are also many girls that prefer sex and touching to kissing. And now a days, there is how you will raise the question asking someone between sex and kissing which one do you prefer, and you end up looking like a pervert which you are not. So in this situation of our modern world, it is only during this emotional moment with her that you will know what she likes most cause that time, is when you will know the monster in any human being no matter how holy they may be.

IS SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE A SIN?

Anonymous 3 said “Nothing good comes out from premarital sex, which is sex before marriage except:

THE SIN OF IMPURITY: (1 Cor.6:19). Our body is the temple of God. The bible says that God does not live in a Temple made by human hands. (1kings 8:27). Our body has been redeemed(Eph.1:7), cleasen. so premarital sex ends up keeping it unkempt.
UNWANTED PREGNANCY…
frustration.
stagnation.
Untimely death.
rejection.
negative point of example to others.

Anonymous 4 said “ Many youth wants to run faster than their shadow and that is the reasons millions of them are suffering. Going into sex before marriage is a great sin before God. It attract dead sentence from God. It is a shame seeing youth of now a days spending their time and energy in sex and they can not be anything in life because they are curses upon themselves.

Now i ask, What is your own respond to this? feel free to drop your comment on the comment box, let others learn from your wisdom…

If you have a question, feel free to drop it too.

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10 IMPORTANT HIGH SCHOOL RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A relationship is something that most people including kids do not sit down to think about again before stepping out to go into one. and with this, they do end up in the wrong relationship and that’s why this high school relationship’s advice is very important.

As a high school student, we don’t say you should not try a relationship out but only do that or decide when you finish reading this article.

A relationship: is a process whereby two individuals are intimately and emotionally attracted to each other. although at times this can occur due to one thing or the other, for example

1 Physical appearance: yeah, physical appearance, more than 80% of the youth chose who they want to be in a relationship with due to what they see, it may be:

i. Ways of combining clothes to wear.

ii. The body shape

iii. The complexion

2 The ways he or she talks, they are people who are moved by the way we talk and laugh.

3 Manner of approach: It is only a responsible man or lady that goes for this one, but the truth is that this is the most important point to look out for when choosing a partner.

4 Academy Intelligent: If you are intelligent, it is likely for many people especially your colleague to try being your friends. etc

Don’t rush into a relationship just because all your friends are in a relationship then you now feel like a loser, from there you also try having one too.

Below is some high school relationships advice I need to share with you:

1 Don’t be desperate: Desperation is something you should never introduce into your relationship no matter how much you love and value the person.

In a relationship, desperation is one of the keys that develops a turn-off from your partner.

2 Be yourself: when you are not desperate nor show your friend that you are desperate, it will help you to be yourself. Being yourself in a relationship helps you to still have yourself respect even if the relationship did not work out as planned.

It is better to leave a relationship and still have your respect at school, between your friends, his or her friends, and also at home.

So be yourself by working on who you are, what you want to be, etc. work also on yourself in the way of understanding things, your reaction to things i.e your temper, your jealousy checked, etc.

3 Don’t be too emotionally attached: although it is not that easy not to be emotional with someone you are in a high school relationship with but don’t let the emotions control you.

emotion is something that if you don’t get checked on time, it will be the one to be deciding for you and it will end up affecting your schoolwork.

so if you are not sure that you are strong enough to control how you feel towards a guy or girl in school, then don’t try a high school relationship.

4 Go for friendship: when you are in a relationship with someone, don’t be too fast to get intimate, in the process of being together during high school, try building a friendship.

Yeah, friendship because that’s what will help you to decide if he or she is okay or if a breakup is better. when creating a friendship, you will get to know the compatibility between you both.

5 Go for someone you have something in common with, if you are intelligent and you then decided to date someone that is intelligent too or that is very serious in trying to be better as you, then such person is okay for you.

Don’t go into any high school relationship with someone whose interest is not in school.

6 Expectations: when you give your all into a relationship, don’t expect the same from the person. Loves happen naturally, most times it happens in a way we never expected.

so expecting the same thing you offer to your partner, you will only get hurt.

before going into a high school relationship with someone, just know that every relationship does not end in marriage.

A relationship is just a relationship, it doesn’t guarantee together forever. It is better to concentrate on your education and leave high school relationships until you are of age to understand what a relationship is all about.

7 Don’t be arrogant: dating the most popular guy in high school shouldn’t be the reason why people start disliking you at school or in your environment.

If you do, when you finally break up with this guy, you may not be able to re-stand the humiliation from colleagues at school.

so carry everyone along as before, especially your friends, don’t make them feel less of themselves just because you act as if you just won the lotto at high school.

8 Avoid clubbing: avoiding clubbing will help you to stay safe from a lot of things including abortion due to unwanted pregnancy, death due to security issues, etc.

All these things break shame to your family’s reputation and this is something that you may not be able to forgive yourself forever.

9 Stay safe: It is a relationship so, continue living your life because even while dating, life goes on. there are so many ways to stay safe and one of them which is very important is “SOCIAL MEDIA” You are in a high school relationship, it should remain in high school, keep your relationship at the level of a high school kid.

Showcasing your relationship on social media is not a nice idea, so to stay safe, avoid displaying it on social media.

10 Be honest: if you start learning how to be honest with someone you are in a high school relationship with, it will help you in the future, to be honest with your spouse when you finally understand love.

DO HIGH SCHOOL RELATIONSHIPS LAST

High school relationships do not last because as the name implies, it is high school which means that the people involved are still kids to understand what they want at that certain age.

So when they finally grow up and now understand what love is all about, they will move on and never look back on their high school sweetheart anymore.

To answer your question, high school relationships do not last just as it doesn’t stand the test of time.

WHAT PERCENT OF HIGH SCHOOL RELATIONSHIPS LAST

More than 90% of high school relationships do not last either there even last more than a year or two.

Although is normal. Not every relationship should or will land in marriage.

High school relationships are just for fun while in high school, so it’s nothing serious.

Now if you are planning on starting a high school relationship with someone you have been crushing on, just make sure that it is with a person that will bring out a positive result in you.

Not someone that will create a negative impact on you.

I guess it was helpful. please leave a comment or a reaction thank you.

How to cheer up your girlfriend: 17 sweet ways

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

How to cheer up your girlfriend: 17 sweet ways

The word “girlfriend” is often associated with the idea of being happy, carefree, and having fun. If you are her boyfriend, then you should know that she needs your constant attention and love. if you didn’t know this, you need to read how to cheer up your girlfriend: 17 sweet ways

If she is unhappy for some reason, then you have to cheer her up. But first thing first, you need to find out what exactly has made her sad. She might not be able to articulate it herself so you need to ask questions and listen carefully to what she says. Once you have figured out the reason for her sadness, there are about 17 ways that can help make her feel better:

But if you are a lady and you are not sure of what your man feels for you, then you will need to read this 10 SIGNS HE LOVES YOU MORE DEEPLY THAN YOU EVER KNOW

Therefore, how do you cheer up your girlfriend?

For you to cheer up your girlfriend, it is important that you take these points into consideration;

1 Make a playlist of songs that remind her of good times with you

2 Plan a fun activity together

3 Give her a big hug

4 Give her a hug and tell her that everything will be alright.

5 Write her a poem or song just for her, it will make her feel special and loved.

6 Make breakfast in bed for your girlfriend, she will love this gesture of love from you!

7 Get the ingredients to make the food she loves most and surprise her with it!

8 Send her a funny meme or GIF.

9 Make her feel like a baby that day by taking care of a few things in the house if you can.

10 Share with her a short romantic story like (To celebrate and honor you, to tell you that I love you, for all the things we’ve shared and done together you are the best).

11 Write a love letter and put it in a jar for her to find later on.

12 Buy a flower and deliver it to her at work or school with a note that says “I’m sorry”.

13 Leave an anonymous good deed for her to find, like paying off someone’s parking meter or tipping the waitress at the restaurant she goes to every day after work, etc…

14 Write a letter to your girlfriend telling her how much she means to you and why you are so lucky to have found such an amazing person like this one in your life

15 Call your girlfriend, tell them how much they mean to you, and ask them if they would like anything from the store on your way home from work

16 Cook dinner for your girlfriend at their house or yours

17 Watch a movie together with popcorn

Ways to cheer up your girlfriend over text

1 Tell her you love her and that she is the best girlfriend in the world.

2 Send her a sweet text message.

3 Tell your girlfriend you love them one more time before going to sleep tonight!

4 Leave notes on her phone telling her how much you appreciate her for being in your life.

5 Plan a date night for the two.

6 Remind her of how much you miss her.

How to change the mood of a sad girl in chat

It is a common thing for people to feel sad or depressed at some point in their life. And it is also common for people to react to these feelings by lashing out at others.

The first thing you should do if someone you know is feeling sad is to listen. Listen without judgment, listen without trying to fix it, just listen. It can be hard sometimes, but it’s important because they are telling you something important about themselves and they need your support. If you don’t know how you can get attention from her so as to open up to you, then you need to read these 10 POSITIVE GREAT WAYS TO GET ATTENTION FROM HER this will help you.

You can try asking them what’s wrong and see if they want to talk about it with you. If they don’t want to talk about it then that’s okay too! Sometimes people just need time alone with their thoughts and that’s fine!

Most time we start a chat with people without knowing what they are going through and with that, we judge their tone based on how the person is responding to our chat.

This is normal but it is not when you observe that the girl you are chatting with is not flowing with your chat and you keep pressing on in the same direction for long.

Sometimes, all you have to do is to change the direction of your chat to something that does not sound like an interrogation.

Therefore if you want to know how to change the mood of a sad girl in chat then check below.

There are many ways to change the mood of a sad girl in the chat.

1 One way is to show her some funny pictures or videos that will make her laugh.

2 Another way is to ask her about what has happened in the past that made her feel bad.

3 You have to try and find out why she is feeling so down and see if there is anything you can say or do that will cheer her up.

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I wanted to Marry her, Young Man who put girlfriend on N120k monthly allowance broke into tears after discovering she’s cheating with a family friend

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A young Ghanaian man has taken to his social media handle to narrate how he discovered that his serious girlfriend is cheating on him with a family friend.

The young man stated that he checked her phone and saw chats between them proving that they are sleeping with each other.

The guy explained that based on the chats he read, his girlfriend made the family friend believe that they are no longer in a relationship.

On seeing this, the young man cried out about it because he’s been dating her for four years and even put her on monthly allowance worth over Ghc 2,700 (N120k) to complement her for leaving her job which salary was Ghc400 (N18k)

The man felt heartbroken and betrayed by her actions, but he noted that he will not break up with her. According to the boyfriend, he intends to play along and keep acting like he does not know what is happening, then when the time is right, expose her to her family. In his words he stated;

“Just went through my woman phone and it’s fun and sad at the same time. The lady will be asking what should I do for you to trust me again but sleeping with a family friend behind.

Fear women, I have screenshots all the chat between him and the guy and sent it to myself, Will play along till am ready to marry then will show it to the parent. Apparently she told the guy we are no more and she doesn’t want the family to also know

Four good years of dating Taking you from nowhere and making you someone now you cheat on me… we will see who cry’s last. Chaley she gave me infection last year and I suspected she was sleeping with someone else but she told me it’s only me and it’s normal… Had to spend a lot to treat it here.

To be with them don’t be attracted or have emotions chale…then try Dey search good one cus if u show am evidence she still do deny den hide am..buh I no sure say that be the only thing hmm. I thank God I didn’t feel very bad like I use to like I will be crying by now

Bro I go eat saaa then later marry someone else when I’m ready. I always advice and talk to her like my sister that guys can’t be trusted so she should be careful. We had small arguments last year September and that’s when they started and till date she’s still sleeping with him… what pains me most is she does s** video calls with him and the guy get natin than me too.

Bro I take am go police oo, she pass out this year.. her income was 400 when I met her and now you are taking 2,700 and you start you misbehave. Bro when ever I tell her I suspect her sleeping around she will tell me it a lie and why don’t I trust her and bla bla meanwhile you Dey sleep around true.”

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10 POSITIVE GREAT WAYS TO GET ATTENTION FROM HER

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Few steps to help you get attention from her

Get attention: When we approach someone either one on one, on a phone call, or social media, there is only one thing they do first,

And that is looking at you from your head to your feet before responding yes? Hi.

Then the next one is on phone call, when you call and you talk like a man not a boy they will then ask

you, are you on any social media?

Now that’s the question.

She is not asking because she wants to add you up, No, instead, she is asking because she wants to go

through your profile.

Now, that’s where these 10 tips come in to help you get more insight on how to get attention that you need.

To get attention from her, follow these steps:

Don’t start a conversation with the word XUP, hwfa, hey etc if you are not familiar with the

person. Start with at least Hi, Hello, Hello dear, Hello there etc.

When she responds, don’t now use xup, sup, hwfa in the conversation until you know the kind of lady she is.

Instead, continue with “how are you today? How was your day? Etc.

But if you want to flirt with her a little and make her smile even when you don’t know if she did

smile, but I tell you, she did smile. You go with “how is your beautiful self-doing?

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Don’t use grammars that you can’t spell correctly. We all know when a typical error occurs and

when someone makes mistake and no one is above mistake nor perfect but don’t make 70% of

your spellings to be wrongly spelled.

Work on yourself. Physical appearance matters.

Don’t mind the saying that physical appearance doesn’t matter in a relationship because it does.

“No one will be okay with someone who talk in native shirt on a trouser”

Change your ways of thinking.

Example;

They are people who like going to social media to post anything that troubles them. They

market their problems, misunderstanding they had with someone, the conflict they encounter

they market all their private life on social media.

You need to know that it is social media, not your diary because other people are seeing it.

It is only a kid not a mature person that does that.

Try creating a friendship with her first by getting to know her, more and more every day gradually

before you proceed.

N/B when you guys become good friends, she will be free with you likewise you.

Don’t start a conversation 24/7 once she comes online because it will look like you were waiting

for her to log in and that is desperation and trust me, you will end up looking desperate.

Give her a chance at least once to be the one to initiate a conversation with you. Maybe an

Hi to you before you jump in and take over.

Give her a chance to miss you a little that is when she will discover herself, how she feels in your

absent from there knowing where to place you in her life.

Be true to her. No matter how terrible it is.

A woman who is for you will fight with you if only you are fighting it. She is ready to fight alongside with you.

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9 warning signs she doesn’t like you

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

signs she doesn't like you, she doesn't want a relationship with you

IMPORTANT SIGNS SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU

If you see the signs she doesn’t like you, or she doesn’t want a relationship with you. then you need to change your game and sit up. As simple as A, B, and C. Everyone can’t wear the same size of shoes nor clothes that’s where the individual difference comes in.

In a relationship, we all know what we want before we go into it.

A relationship is not something you should go into blind, nor neither go in blind expecting changes from the person.

N/B you can change the cover of a book or a page but you can’t change a whole book except you are ready to get a new book completely just like a human there will always be a part of us that can’t be changed, no matter how someone tries.

If she doesn’t like you, that shouldn’t make you feel bad or less of yourself, it simply means, she is not your type and she doesn’t like you as you are into her. How to show someone you really like them part 1

When this happens, never judge her, because you can’t fit in, in her shoes to know how heavy or tide it is. Just take it that she wasn’t for you or that she doesn’t like you.

WARNING SIGNS THAT SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU ARE LISTED AND EXPLAINED BELOW AS FOLLOWS:

Visions and Dreams.
Dressing pattern/ Physical Appearance
Relationship with your People
Circle of Friends
Emotional unavailable
Your presence irritates her
Avoid quarrel
She never accepts fault
Nothing ever pleases her

VISIONS AND DREAMS: The vision you have today about your life may be the opposite of what she has or want. Or she doesn’t even have plans yet. Therefore if your vision is different from hers, there is a possibility of her not to like you because she won’t pick interest nor see sense in what you do.

RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PEOPLE: Look out for this sign very important. The way you carry yourself and the way you relate with people will determine how people will see nor take you.

Watch out for her behavior with the people around her and watch out for her behavior when she is around you, get to know a little of her from people that know her, or children from her environment. Compare and contrast, then ask yourself, after hearing all these, can I still make my move? Or should I hold my peace and stay away from her?

Whatever the response is, then you take it. But note” don’t try to go and carry a woman who fights with her family almost every day, with her neighbors regularly, curses children frequently for friendship if you know that you can’t take it, or if you know that you don’t like such life. Is very simple that she won’t like you for long.

She may be ready to change but it won’t happen immediately, it will take time and God’s intervention for her to depart from such life. But if you can’t take it. Then the handwriting is boldly written and is clear that she is not your class and since you are not her class, she won’t like you and she doesn’t want a relationship with you. So don’t force it.

CIRCLE OF FRIENDS: Show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are. The company you keep determines how people address you.

You can decide to join a bad company because you think you can change them, but that’s not how the people see it.

All they see is that, you are their friends and if anything happens, you will also be suspected. Why?

Because you are addressed like the friends you keep. So choose your friends wisely. It is either you are in, or you are out, don’t try playing a CIA, stand in a distance to change whoever you want to change. Not until you join them.

So watch out for her circle of friends from there, ask yourself the same question “can I fit in? how will I be addressed by people when I start keeping company with her? And remember, your friend’s friends are your friends too.

If after trying your best to change her and she is still as she was, my dear, she doesn’t want a relationship with you and she doesn’t like you.

EMOTIONAL UNAVAILABLE: Being in a relationship with someone emotionally unavailable can be so hard that if you don’t control yourself, you can do something stupid.

Once she stops reciprocating your feelings, your love messages are ignored, a kiss doesn’t occur unless you take her by surprise, even with that, she goes mad and angry at you for doing such thing and for having a childish behavior.

It can be a matter of stress or her mind is occupied with something outside the relationship. it can be a sign she doesn’t like you anymore and she doesn’t want a relationship with you anymore.

So she has to act that way so that you will start complaining about her to use that against you as a nagging man who acts like a woman. 6 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE GETTING DUMPED

still, on warning signs, she doesn’t like you

YOUR PRESENCE IRRITATES HER: She gets mad at you for everything you do nor say, her mood chances mere seeing you coming, she avoids eye contact, she chats and laughs with others more than she does with you at home nor in public. you start feeling like a liability inside of you, it means she doesn’t like you.

AVOID QUARREL: Most times, quarrels do not come to weaken us but to strengthen us. It is normal for a quarrel to involve in a relationship, friendship, siblings, etc. A relationship with the absence of a quarrel caused by misunderstanding won’t last, quote me right.

If she starts avoiding quarrels because she doesn’t want to sit down with you to talk things out, then she doesn’t like you and she doesn’t want a relationship with you. so with this, she knows very well that the relationship is going nowhere, so what’s there to talk about with you.

SHE NEVER ACCEPTS HER FAULT: She is Ms. Right, every other person is wrong, only she is always right. You are always at fault, if the relationship isn’t working, it’s all your fault, if the tax wasn’t paid, is all your fault. Her family visits without your knowledge and you call her to have a chat just to know why she didn’t inform you first, she starts nagging, shouting at you, and even starts calling you names.

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NOTHING EVER PLEASES HER: You buy her Samsung she said No I needed Techno, You cook dinner for her, No, I want to eat out, you try helping her with her laundry alongside with yours, here she comes ” Who told you to touch not to talk of washing my dresses, are you trying to use me for selfish desires, pretender like you. Give me my clothes.

These are some signs she doesn’t like you

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she is worried if you don’t call.
She looks out for you.
She speaks about your future not because she is seeing her in it but because she wants you to have a great future.
She smiles even when your joke is not fun.
She is open-minded.
She makes your friends and siblings her friend.
She gets you gifts even without an occasion.
She blushes when you look at her while talking.
she is shy when you make eye contact.
She enjoys talking with you.
She easily gets mad at you when you misbehave…

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10 Guarantee Signs you will never get married

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Signs you will never get married

The life that we live most times do determine what signs we see in our lives be it a sign you will get married or signs you will never get married which means that our lifestyle has a lot of role to play in our daily lives.

Although is God that has the final say in our lives but the truth still be told, “the way we run our lives most times determine if what God has ordained for us will come to us speedily or there will be a delay.

Yeah, delay. What God say about us cannot return to him void but it can be delay due to how we react or value it.

And some of the things that are posing as signs you will never get married especially if there is no change involved in the process are;

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1 Arrogant: Arrogance is the greatest enemy among other enemies of marriage. No man or woman will just walk to the alter with an arrogant partner knowing very well the kind of person the spouse is.

Marriage is to be enjoy but not to be completely endured, though in marriage, you will to learn to compromise in other for your home to run in a way it suppose to.

But when arrogant is the cause of the compromise, that’s not it because one day, you will be fed up especially when there is no positive change at all.

So if you don’t want to see signs you will never get married reflecting in your life, then work on yourself in and on time before you chase every suitor that comes your way away from you.

2 No room for a third party: If you don’t get close to people or allow people to get close to you, then how will you find or chose a man or woman who has the qualities you are looking for in marriage?

You will not know the real people around you if you don’t allow people to come closer to you. This will only tell them that they are not welcome at all in your life. And truly, some of them will back off and is only a little percent will keep waiting for a change of mind.

3 Measurement: Yeah, I want to marry a man that is like dad in physical appearance, I need a man that will be showering me with gifts, I need a lady that is like my mum, etc.

The truth is that, you will wait forever because God created all with different gifts and wisdom, which means the way your mum handle things at home may not be the same way your woman does.

But that doesn’t mean that she is not unique in her our small ways but the issue is that she is not like your mum.

If you keep having such mindset, you will wait and get old because those signs you will never get married is already working big time in you.

4 Pride: I am working and earning well, I pay my bills, take care of my shelter, what will a man do for me? That’s pride. As a woman, no matter how rich and well you are doing, you still need a man in your life.

No matter what you might have experience in life in the past, so not determine your future.

I’m tall, handsome, and well educated why should I tell a lady please or I’m sorry? My brother, matter your achievement in life, there must be someone in your life that her happiness matters a lot to you too if not you will end up marrying a woman who will not genuinely love you for you.

But will marry you because of those qualities you listed. So drop pride and work things out with your lady.

5 Abusive: It is not only when a man beats up a woman that makes it abusive, you can still abuse someone with the words from our mouths, manner of approach, the way we handle certain issues, the way we related, etc.

So one of the signs you will never get married is being an abusive fellow. No responsible man will want to end up with a woman who doesn’t have control over her mouth.

You don’t have to be a college graduate before you can control what comes out of your mouth, all you have to do is learn to minimize how you talk or respond to conversation between people, it will help.

6. Scared to try: Everyone can’t be the same, which means that everyone can not be like your Ex, so you not giving it a try again just because of the last experience, will only keep you lonely and single.

There is no harm in trying things out again, but this turn, don’t expect anything from the relationship, just allow it to take its time to develop to another stage.

Most times we get hurt because what we expected of our partner did not work out thereby making it look like we are just wasting our time on relationships.

But the truth is that, you have to keep trying until you finally meet up the right one for you. Love is a beautiful thing so give it a try.

7 grouchy : keeping grouch will only cause you to keep losing the important people love brings to your side.

Love is all about forgiveness and understanding, but if you are a type that even after someone said oh I’m sorry please

8 Lack of trust: Trust is very important in a relationship. if you are a person that was once hurt by someone you loved, that is where these trust issues do set in from.

But the truth is that is not everyone that comes into your life that will hurt. so you only got hurt in other to meet with the right man or lady.

But if you don’t even try fixing that, I’m afraid to tell you that it is one of the greatest signs you will never get married now or anytime soon until you change the mindset that everyone will hurt you.

9 Freedom is all that matters to you: You like your privacy, you don’t want anyone to stress you out all in the name of relationship or marriage.

10 You don’t believe in marriage: You can’t succeed on something you don’t believe in. so to avoid signs you will never get married, you need to first of all start believing marriages.

Forget what you saw on the other person’s home and believe that your will be perfect.

11 Stinginess: A man who doesn’t want to spend on anyone even on his family, will be having difficulty to marry.

12 Not ready for commitment: Commitment is the key to marriage. If you are not ready to be committed to your partner and children, then don’t get married because the home will be an unhappy one indeed.

13 Not your priority: Some people are married to their jobs, but the truth is that after work, when you return home, the vacuum will be felt. so give room for another priority apart from job.

14 You don’t like children: No woman will follow you to that road and then comes back and sit and be looking at your face instead of her children.

You can’t have what you don’t like, to avoid that, you now decided not to get married.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, just drop all these signs you will never get married and fix yourself for marriage.

There is a man or woman waiting for someone as cool as you out there, please don’t keep him or her waiting take that bold step today.

What Does A Man Want In A Relationship

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

What Does A Man Want In A Relationship

As a woman who is expecting a perfect man as a life partner or who is trying to change her partner to who she wants. You need to ask yourself what does a man want in a relationship. Or has it never crossed your mind that men are human also and that means they have needs too? Men are not sticks, they have feelings and emotions don’t be deceive when they act strong. There are things men want but don’t ask for it not because they don’t know how to ask but because they don’t want to be tagged “Too demanding”.

Every man has things they want is just that they are few of them that can open up and ask their partner for it. Although your partner did not ask for anything does not mean that you shouldn’t read the signs or give meaning to all the signs he is giving you.

A man may not ask for anything to avoid looking soft or being ridiculed and as a good partner who you are, that is where you need to work with your brain. No matter how a man wants to hide what he wants, his body language will always give him up.

As a woman, you must understand your man’s body language and if you know nothing about it, then start reading on the internet about body language because you will need it to use and understand things men want but don’t ask for it.

Therefore, after all, being said, what does a man want in a relationship that most times they don’t open up?

1 To be loved: There is no place that is written that it is only a woman that needs love so with that, love your partner as you expect him to love you in return.

For a man to love you wholeheartedly, you need to show him that you value him and that you are ready to stand by him and make this relationship work no matter what it takes.

2 Respect: Have you ever been with your partner before and a male colleague of yours walks up to you guys and then tries taking away your attention and your man starts making some silent comments or uncomfortable movements in his sit? This is not done because he doesn’t trust you but it is because he is feeling that the man is trying to divide your attention from him and that is not cool.

So if you are a lady and you allow the colleague to succeed without acknowledging your man, you are indirectly disrespecting him and also disvalue him and his time.

You may be wondering then what do I do if such occur? Well, it is normal that things like this will always happen, it is left for you to be well prepared ahead of time. don’t feel bad if such an attitude occurs because it can only be a man who loves you that will do this. but then, how do you know that he loves you if he is not saying it out loud? to get an answer to this check 10 SIGNS HE LOVES YOU MORE DEEPLY THAN YOU EVER KNOW

Introduce your man to the male colleague using a sweet name and not “this is my friend”. Introduce him as if he means a lot to you and you are proud to be with him. This will help boost his ego up. At least you are proud of him in the presence of your male colleagues and that means those guys have no chance.

3 Accommodation: Accommodation does not only mean shelter. For you to have a peaceful relationship, means you are accommodating. There are ladies that if a man comes closer, they can tear the men apart with this, and the men will run from them.

Do you think that men don’t have what to talk about that it is only ladies that do talk or gossip with friends? Of course not. men do too. The only reason it looks like they are secretive to their ladies is that they don’t see themselves as best friends but partners. So to be accommodating, you have to be his best friend.

Don’t expect your man to be at home with you almost all the time if you are not ready to be his best friend. Because one day, he will be tired of staying.

4 Supporter: When a man wants a supporter, it does not only have to be financial support. As a lady, you can support your man by advising him, doing research for him if he is disturbed by something relating to work or himself.

Support your man by being his motivational and inspirational speaker. This will show him that you believe in him and will make him try to do better than yesterday just to be a better man for you. this is an act of an ideal man every woman that needs love want.

5 Acceptance: one wrong move you can ever make and it will be hard for your partner to forgive easily is comparing him to your ex or your high school crush.

Every man wants a woman who will accept them just as they accept her too. No one is perfect and the earlier you remember this, the better. Make him feel like he is a man.

6 Compliment: this is one mistake many ladies make. Your partner will get you good stuff and you use them and they will still hang around to compliment it and they will smile and say “thank you, babe”. Okay now that you are done with yours, have you also turned around and looked at his dressing or haircut for that day and compliment him on how good-looking he is?

Even men need that appreciation and compliment that they render to you. You may not compliment them at the same time they compliment you if they are not also dressed or nothing much. But if you two are going out, most times don’t wait for him to make the first move on the compliment. You can just start.

Appreciate your partner at all times, this is a sign that you are noticing them or the changes they are secretly applying to themselves just to get your attention.

7 Have fun: you don’t have to be too serious at all times. In life, you need fun and laughter to live longer. When you are 24/7 serious, it will only take patience for your partner to still hang around.

Men like women that are fun and social and who can make jokes and laugh with them. Feel free around your man and create that friendship and trust bond.

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You must leave my house see hilarious moment as man send his fiance packing after wasting his N50k to cook this soup

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A young man has taken to his social media handle to rante bitterly as his girlfriend prepared a watery soup for him after giving her a huge amount of money to make good food.

In the video that is now trending Online, the young man stated that the lady has wasted his money for making him such a watery soup meanwhile his girlfriend who was at his behind also got angry at the man for taking the video of the soup online.

After complaining bitterly about the soup, the young man asked her to pack her property and leave his house as he exclaimed that she is not a good wife material.

This hilarious video of the whole scene was shared by Instablog9ja while sharing the video, they added it with a caption which they wrote,

Man rants after his girlfriend prepared a watery soup for him

As the video was shared online, social media user’s took to there comments section to share their reactions to the video

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