This is Amazing, See lovely Reaction as man proposed to his girlfriend in front of his cows

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

A young man who proposed to his girlfriend has been trending online after social media users react to his Proposal location. According to his tweet post, he proposed to his girlfriend in front of his cows

The man identified as Thanda Mchunu posted his r0mantic photo after people were asked to share their proudest moments of 2022. As of the time of sharing this report, the Proposal photo has gained over 20.4k reactions

In the photo, Thanda was seen kneeling before his woman in a bushy environment. His woman blushed in return as she covered her face with her hands.

His cows watched and enjoy the r0mantic scene before them. As Social media users saw his photo, they described his method as the most unique way of proposing

See the tweet below:

Proudest moment of the year https://t.co/lMzERq8Ruu pic.twitter.com/OvUbWsHtAH

— Thanda Mchunu (@JamaKaSlwaneh) December 28, 2022

23.06.2022

She Said Yes.#YoungAndHappy #YoungAndFarming pic.twitter.com/MyqpmrNXKT

— Thanda Mchunu (@JamaKaSlwaneh) June 23, 2022

@Simply_Akho said: “This is by far the most beautiful proposal I’ve ever seen. Very unique. Congratulations you guys. May your marriage be blessed and may y’all be happy together forever.”

@M7DICKSON commented: “Great moment but kneeling is not for an african man. Our elders never knelt to propose. They embraced. We all know marriage is a marathon not a sprinter of few moments celebrants.”

@blvqJesus said: “Look at how the cows were standing there, waiting for the answer from the lady.”

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30 Relationship Advice For Men

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Relationship advice for men and relationship advice for women: For a healthy relationship

Relationship advice for men;

Taking your wife to the bed from the living room when she sleeps, will make her feel like a baby and loved. The fact remains that every woman wants to be treated and care for like a baby by their men, that’s one of the reasons women behave childishly most times.

You arguing with your wife and the next thing she does is by her putting her bags outside the house, that doesn’t mean she is fighting for a divorce, she is just looking for your attention, she just wants you to hold her, tell her softly” I am sorry Honey, you know I love you so much, my life will be incomplete without you so please stay”.

One thing you need to know is that that’s women for you and there is nothing you can do about it because is nature. As a man, you need to have an insight into what you are going into and how to live with them but that doesn’t mean that you will get to know all, but at least you will know how to read and interpret them when needs arise. With insight, it will be easy for you not to have a problem in your home.

Although there may still be some slit issues, which is normal, that’s because there is no perfect person except God and for the fact that you both are from a different background so imperfection is bound to take place.

My advice for you that wants to go into marriage, read books, articles about marriage, child care, the ups and downs of marriage, please don’t think that once you pay the dairy, that it. My brother is not, perhaps, that’s the starting point. So don’t just jump into it and expect that everything will be alright. Because that’s where your problems will start. Let me ask you, has your mother ever shouted at you, or nag almost on everything you do? How did you feel? what was your reaction?

You are your wife’s first son, no matter the age gap the fact remains.Is not every intentionally or mistakenly steps your wife takes which displeases you that you should react to, it might a play, if mistakenly, it might not be her fault, perhaps no one is above errors in life, so as a man, learn to tolerate and ignore somethings instead of shouting at her or raising a finger against her.
Relationship advice for men, any man quote my word, Any man that raises his hands against a woman, is less than a man right from that very moment. as simple as that.

Playing games like whot, spelling bee, hide and seek, pillow fight, singing competition, acting, cooking, etc is not a taboo. It helps in spicing the relationship up. To assist her at home with chores, in the kitchen either with onions, yam, boiling of water, plates, etc it won’t make you less than a man, and even though she teases you while doing this, my brother, inside her she is saying ” Thank God for giving him to me” “God I can’t thank you enough because I’m a very lucky woman on earth”.

Be romantic even if you are a pastor, you still need to be romantic with your wife at home not only in the bedroom.
If you don’t know how to be romantic, I will tell you a few. Tickle her at times from behind, blindfolds her when you have a surprise for her, have a romantic dinner with her, I’m not talking about normal dinner you have with her regularly, am talking about a special dinner, with a glass of fine wine, candle, flowers and cool blues.

Text her regularly, you may say I don’t have anything to write, you don’t need Wikipedia, or apps to use in composing, tell her how you feel about her with a three-letter word ” I LOVE YOU”. “I MISS YOU”. “I NEED YOU”. Kiss her always, give her an unexpected kiss.

Use eye contact to communicate with her even in front of people, or your friends. I mean romantic eye contact signs. Although most flirting guys know this particular relationship advice for men that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use it perhaps, you are trying to flirt with your wife. So, my brother, is your wife go ahead.

Always remind her how much you love her, how your life could have been without her in it. Tell her how beautiful she is. How she has made you a better man.

These are the few things for being romantic for relationship advice for men.

—– Relationship Advice for men, don’t wait until a woman opens up to you and tells you, that you are not romantic. and note this When a woman says you are not romantic, she isn’t talking about being romantic in the bedroom
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So learn to understand women’s language, it may not look simple and yes it is not simple but it is not impossible to get there. work on this relationship advice for men and she won’t say that you are not romantic.

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Relationship Advice for women;

As a woman, it is also your responsibility to be romantic also. Being shy shouldn’t come in between you and your husband, instead of being like a stick, learn to be romantic to keep your man.

The good things your husband do to make you happy, trying doing same for him don’t say doing that will show him your weakness because my dear, if you keep having that mindset that showing a man how much you love him too will give him a room to hurt you, I will say, you are wrong.

Note this, A man that wants to cheat on you will still cheat on you.

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Relationship Advice for women; If you are a social media type, learn to chat with your husband and not other men even while sitting right in front of him. Tell him how handsome he looks in his pictures, flirt with him. If you don’t know how, try and recall the first day and date you two had, then try to use the same method with him, ask him out on a date, etc.

Buy him flowers too, surprise him with gifts no matter how small it is. When eating, act like a baby let him feed you. 8 reasons why you should use romantic words

— Relationship advice for women; there is something behind a warm welcome with a smiling face to your husband instead of an angry face. Don’t let the conditions in the house to destroy the love you had with your husband. Because that situation may be solved but you might not be able to gain him back.

Welcome him with a nice fragrance, get a perfume, not Maggi or pepper fragrance. Learn to be near both in and out. welcome all times no matter what, not until he receives a salary or until he gets you a present.

— Relationship advice for women;

Be a supporter, an adviser to him, be there for him during his ups and downs, learn to encourage him not weigh him down, when friends turn their backs on him, don’t join the multitude, be a sister, a friend, a comforter, a lover, a mother, and his love.

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Give him that soft kiss telling him that everything will be okay. Go for romantic/intimacy books, use relationship article sites, be enlightened.

— Relationship advice for women; If you have a son by name Peter or a daughter by name Caro, don’t call him ” Papa Peter” or “Papa Caro”. learn to call him pet names, tease him, pet him, when he is sick, be there for him, don’t shout at him when he tries acting up, just learn to follow him up because that’s his turn and his moment.

— Relationship advice for women; Learn to respect and honor your husband no matter the age difference both inside and outside. Marriage is for people who are ready to sacrifice. and it takes to sacrifice for love to stand. It is not a bed of roses.

Pray always for your marriage, yourself, your home, your good wishers too, etc. Prayer is one of the keys for marriage to stand no matter the circumstance, it still stands its ground. so pray without ceasing.

Important relationship questions you need to answer

How prepared are you?
Are you ready to adjust to the changes that will occur?
Are you ready to operate as a team?
As a woman, your body will change, are you okay with that or will you blame the man?
as a man, will you say I don’t love her again, she has shared, she wasn’t like this when I got attracted to her?
Are you ready to fix your issues without running to your parents, siblings to step into your home just to handle a family crisis for you?

If you are a man, follow this relationship advice for men, and if a woman, follow this relationship advice for women.

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MY BLOOD MY HATER 5

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

MY BLOOD MY HATER 5

Youngman2: Sir, your son was caught raping a girl inside the

thickest part of the bush. After which, the lady stabbed him.

Idara: Since when did raping become a crime?

Itoro: Who did this?

Youngman2: Rita. She has been taken to the hospital.

Itoro: (to Uforo)

This is all your fault. haven’t your aunt and I warned you several

times to stay away from that Rita. Come here.

(Paul holds her back)

Paul: Am sorry but she is not coming. Why are you so wicked,

your son just committed a terrible crime

and all you could do right now is to cast the blame on Uforo. You

are heartless.

Itoro: (his eyes redden as he looks directly at Paul) You bastard,

how dare you interfere in my family’s

affair?

Idara: (to her husband) No, don’t talk to him that way. He is

part and parcel of this family unlike Uforo

who isn’t part of us.

(to Paul) my son please, mkponnam is your brother, Do not

choose a woman over your own blood.

Paul: You are extremely right, you may be my mother and him

my late brother like you just said but

you will never control my life. You don’t have any right over me.

(to Uforo) go in pack your things and follow me.

Itoro: Uforo, don’t even venture going into my house. Imbecile.

Uforo: Paul, let’s just go. (to Itoro and Idara) I am very sorry for

your loss.

Voice1 (laughs with) Hahahahahaha. It has just begun.

Itoro: (to his wife) Did you hear that thunderous voice?

Idara: No.

Voice2: Hahahahahaha.. Itoro! Itoro! Itoro!

It has just begun. I used to love you. Itoro ayeneka mmi (Itoro

my brother) what did I do to you?

Hahahahahaha I still can’t figure out what I did wrong to deserve

what you have done; you have taken

my houses, my lands and the worst of them, you keep

maltreating my daughter, you make her cry day

and night.

She goes out to sell even in the night when my houses are there.

Itoro you have bitten more than you

can chew. Hahahahahaha

Itoro: (runs in side with fear and trembling) Who is there?

Uforo: Uncle are you okay?

Itoro: (slaps her) You this witch, get out of my house, I hate

you, get out!

(Uforo packs her things and follows Paul)

Idara: Ette, are you mad, why did you run inside all of a sudden

as if something was chasing you with a

cutlass. Are you okay at all. Come let’s go and bury your son

bef…..

Villager2: (rushes in screaming) Idara! Itoro! Ette o!

Your son, your son’s

Idara: Yes yes how about him. As he woken up?

Villager2: His body is gone. His body has disappeared into thin

air.

Itoro: What? (goes out)

Idara: (cries out loud) What have I done? What have I done?

Light fade

ACTv

Scene1

EXP: outside Paul’s workshop where he sells cooking utensils. He

is seen talking with Rita who sells fry

yam opposite his shop eating ibibio portage that was prepared by

Uforo…

Paul: Hmm, I have written jamb up to 6 times but it was of no

use. I even went as far as paying

hundred thousand naira for admission, my dear sister, for where,

they ate my money and told me to get lost.

Rita: (laughs at him). My dear, keep trying.

Paul: Keep trying what? I am done with that..

Rita: Hahahahahaha. Paul you are so crazy, I actually missed

you people.

Paul: So, you mean your husband sent you away simply

because you are pregnant.

Rita: Yes o!

He told me to leave his house, I went home, my parents drove

me away too.. Paul thank you very much

for giving me a room in your house to stay.

Paul: you too thanks for staying and for always cooking for Uforo

and I.

But I am still not happy with what your father and your husband

did.

for God sake, you got raped, You didn’t planned for it (he

hisses) that’s by the way, so, tell me how did

you kill mkponnam?

Rita: I didn’t kill him.

After rapping me, I was flagged and weakened. I couldn’t move

my body. suddenly I heard him shouting

‘leave me alone’. After which, I became oblivious of what was

happening. I didn’t kill him.

Paul: It is strange. (Itoro rushes in jubilating)

Uforo: Guess what Guess what.

Paul: You have gained admission into unilag.

Uforo: Yes! Yes! Yes! (cuddles the two of them) yes and I am

so happy. (to Rita) I want you to come lets go

home for a small party. Please please.

Paul: For una weak mind o.. Na only me una wan kill. I am

closing the shops right now.

Rita&Uforo: Why shan’t you.. (they exit)

At Paul’s dining table, Rita, Paul, Itoro (girl),MERCY 23,and Uforo

are seen eating afang soup and cassava together.

Mercy: Uforo you are very lucky. Can you imagine, little do you

know that you are upgrading. How did

you do it?

Rita: It has been God dear..Uforo has found favour in the sight of

God. Very soon she will give birth to

the second Jesus.( every one laughs).

Itoro: Uforo congratulations… I tag into your grace.

Paul: E don do. Uforo, Uforo. Ah ah

Abeg I am tired of hearing her name please. Look at you people

she has not yet become a celebrity and

you guys are already praising her… Enough joor.

Rita: Paul is a jealous guy o! Paul! you are just jealous.

(Paul goes out and stands in front of them, he calls out Rita)

Paul: Rita please come out. I also want to be celebrated.

(Rita goes out and stands by him with her protruding stomach.

Paul goes down on his knees and opens a

content that has a golden ring inside of it. He looks up at her) I

know you have gone through a lot, I don’t

care about how people view you. I want to make you my better

half, I want you to be my mother, my

sister, my first daughter and my best friend. I will love you with

all my heart, I promise to respect your

views, feelings, emotions, pains, happiness and your privacy. I

promise to lavish my money on you. Will

you marry me Rita?

Uforo: Oh my God, Rita, that’s so sweet.. So so sweet.

Rita: (tears go down from her eyes) Yes, yes I will marry

you… I will.

(she hugs him as everyone stands up and claps for them.)

Everyone: Congratulations.

8years later

INT: inside the shrine. Ekong is seen dancing around. Idara and Itoro enter looking very angry.

Itoro: Papa, you have fooled us. You have fooled us..

Idara: Daddy, how could you trick us. How could you papa, how?

Ekong: I don’t understand.

Idara: We came here eight years ago to see you papa in order

for you to eliminate Uforo

Itoro: Which you gave us the assurance that you would do it..

Papa this girl has made it, she is now a

medical doctor whom the obodo ibo people (white people) do not

want to release her back to Nigeria

because of how skillful she is in the medical field.

she is in abroad as we speak to you now, she has wedded a man

over there and now she is making plans

to come over here for her traditional marriage and guess what,

she is getting married to a bishop from

this very country but has been in London right from birth, by

name Nnoso Ikechuckwu. Papa, I don’t

want that marriage to stand.. We don’t want the marriage to

work.. Yesterday she sent two million naira

for us so as to look good and to also prepare ahead. I am ready

to give all of it to you, please papa I want you to kill her.

Ekong: You have spoken well…Hahahahahaha.. Ekakang abasi

isong Ekakang! Afo cop se mmo eyem di

nnam dekeda nam nno mmo (incarnation)

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MY BLOOD MY HATER 6

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Episode 6 of My Blood MY Hater

Voice2: Hahahahahaha Enough is enough

(Mfoniso appears in white with blood all over his body. Aside

from the native doctor, no one else can see him but they are able

to hear the voice) (my blood my hater)…

Mfoniso: (to the native doc)

Enough is enough. You have succeeded in killing practically my

entire family and now you want to kill my only daughter that has put laughter in my mouth, she is our pride and joy.

Ekong: Who are you? (Idara and Itoro are seen behind Ekong’s

back )

Mfoniso: I am he that you murdered. And now I am here to take

you with me

(he stretch forth his hands towards him) come! Come! come with

me! Come! come.

Ekong: You cannot do me anything I am Ekong the servant of

the gods. Hahahahahaha.

Mfoniso: You have done enough. (he slaps him and Ekong falls

down and suddenly becomes an epileptic) Hahahahahaha.

Idara: Papa! Papa! papa! Dad please stand up, papa please do

not do this to us, if you go we are all dead.

Itoro: C’mon let’s go. What actually struck him down will

definitely strike us if we remain here for a long time.

Idara: (she cries out aloud) Papa mmi is dying o My father is

dying.

Itoro: Okay, stay there and mourn your father. When you are

done, meet, me at home (he runs away as she follows up).

Mfoniso: Hahahahahaha, Hahahahahaha.. My brother, your days

are numbered.

–my blood my hater continued…

( Two weeks later, on the day of the marriage, every one gathers

in Mfoniso compound

rejoicing and celebrating. Uforo and her husband NNOSO 36,

drive in with their new limousine. two cars

behind them and in front of them. In these cars are soldiers.

People are very happy to see Uforo, she looks very beautiful.

She and her husband alight. Everybody starts praising them. Paul

and Rita drive in all the way from Abuja in their brown jeep. …

Everything is going smoothly and fine. At the end of

the marriage. As Uforo was about entering the car with her

spouse, she hears her aunty and uncle shouting, she rushes to

them.)

Itoro: Mfoniso my brother please forgive me, I’ll confess, please

I will confess

Villager1: What is this…. Oh Jehovah. Itoro what did you do to

your brother.

Uforo: Uncle, what are you articulating.

Itoro: Uforo, please forgive me I will confess, Mfoniso you

please calm down, I’ll talk. I want to

confess, my wife and I killed my brother and his wife, we didn’t

kill his daughter.

She fell from the stairs and died.

I killed my brother because he was so gallant, though he didn’t go

to school but he was highly favored.

I lied to my wife that my brother didn’t love me, that he was the

reason I was dropped out from school

in order for her to hate them. No, my brother is innocent, he was

not a philanderer like me. He

planned his life very well and did excellent, my brother had really

excelled in all aspects of life, hence I

envied him.

I didn’t sell any of his land I actually used it for planting so that

there will always be food in the house.

I became the landlord to my brother’s tenants, maltreating his

daughter. (to Uforo) please forgive me.. Please please

(Idara after listening to her husband, becomes mad

instantly. She starts running up and down crying

and laughing at the same time)

Villager2: Oh My God, what is this world turning into. Brother

killed brother simply because of wealth.

We all know how nice your own brother was to you, even when

my husband warned him to stay away from you,

he got upset and told my husband to shut up. Your brother would

bring all kinds of food items to your

house so that there will always be food in your house.

Villager1: Oh Itoro, I know God will not forgive you, see how your

wickedness has destroyed your generation.

Villager3: Speaking of the daughter, Imoh. yes, you killed her.

Supposing you didn’t do anything to her

parents, could she have fallen down and broke her head, no, it

wouldn’t have happened.(spits on the ground) wicked world.

Itoro you are so wicked, no wonder my spirit never clinched each

time you passed by my house.

Villager4: (tears run down her cheeks, as she looks at him)

Itoro look at you, your own brother who disobeyed his father just

to make sure you go to school.

Your brother toiled morning and night to make sure you would be

the pride and the joy of the home.. Itoro, who did this to you?

Villager2: Your brother owned four houses if am not mistaken,

he was so furious with his spirit when he discovered you were still

living with your father and gave one of his house to you. The

biggest of them all.

Oh Abasi ukan fien (God forbid). how could you without the fear

of God, bit the finger that fed you, how Itoro?

Villager1: You people have become the nuisance to this

community. oh, I just don’t know whom to trust again.

A brother who loved you so much and was readied to kill for

you..nooooo, how I wish he was my own

brother. (laughs) I will foolishly followed him..

(Itoro and EBEN 69 who are now married to each other. They

push some people aside so as to go

through the multitude)

Itoro:Itoro:

My people forgive me. I was so stupid. I did all of that because

you people had always visited my brother

for help.

And I was left with nothing but an evil thought, he built

houses for old men and women I was left with no other choice.

I am so sorry.

Villager 4: Mumu, will your sorry bring him back, (hisses, and

turns to Uforo) my dear daughter God has really stood with you.

Where the people of this community couldn’t reach, our God has

taken you there and bring you back. (to Itoro) oya, kill this one

now. (hisses)

Nnoso: (to his wife)

My dear, you just need to forgive him and let him go. He

deserves more than this. I still just can’t grab

it, your own blood brother. Hmm it is a thing of shame.

Uforo: Uncle, how could you (she cries) after all my father did for

you. No no no this is not right at all…

Uncle you left school not minding how much pain papa went

through day and night just to make sure

you become. (she chuckles) And when papa discovered you had

left, he got mad not because he hated

you, no, he was mad at you because you thoroughly disappointed

Him.

It didn’t just end there, he made sure that you and your wife

didn’t lack anything. Papa gave you a shop

where you could sell tricycles and what happened after he must

have bought all what you needed (she

wipes her tears with an handkerchief) you sold out the shop with

all the tricycles in it in a very low

amount. (looks at him) uncle did my papa abandon you?

Villager 2: Itoro, answer her. It is certainly a thing of shame. If

your brother did not allow you to benefit

from his wealth, you could have lamented to the hearing of

everyone in this small community how

devilish your brother was.. Oh (she spits on the ground and folds

her arms)

Itoro: (tears roll down his cheeks)

My people, I know I have done so many wicked things in this my

life (catarrh drips out from his nostril as

he uses his hands to wipe it off) I have done the, the unusual.

Please my people could you all find a place

in heart to forgive me. I am so sorry.

Villager4: I gave out my heart to my husband Yesterday and

unfortunately he is not here, so right now I

can’t forgive you, besides we aren’t related, not in the least.

Uforo: (tears gush out from her eyes as she speaks to him in a

very tender voice)

Uncle, after everything my father did for you. (not knowing what

to say) Hmm, I have forgiven you.

Nnoso: Dear, God will take control. As long as he has confessed

everything is fine you are saved.

Paul: Common, Uforo chill up. Everything is fine.

Rita.: (embraces her very tight) Yes, sweetheart.

Put on a smile on your face, you look good when you do that.

Paul: And if I were you I would always put that on, no matter

what is happening with me. (Uforo smiles as her husband wipes

her tears with his hands and cuddles her to the car)

Rita: (covers her face with her hands as she falls into Paul’s

arms)

Awwwnn! That was really so sweet. (to Paul) did you see that?

Paul: Yes, I did. (he embraces her warmly)

Itoro: Ufo my daughter I am sorry…

Villager2:

Hmm, Uforo and her family are on their way going back to

whence they have come.

Itoro: My friend please do not leave me here alone. (half part of

his body decays as maggot’s struggle to

come out from his body)

Villager2: Impossible.

(the Villagers disperse to their different destinations as Itoro

screams and dies.

12years later.

Uforo and her husband set up a huge university and an estate in

her community, she also establishes an

industrial estate and a big hospital for her people.

She and her husband live happily in London with their three

fabulous children (DAVID 10, MFONISO 8 and

IMOH 5(Her little princess))

While Paul and Rita live in Abuja with their six children happily.

THE END.

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9 SIMPLE WAYS HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY

How to make your husband happy or sad, at times determines how he will treat you.

A saying;

“A woman who controls a man’s stomach has the power to control his heart.”

Yes, that’s right, but what about now that most men can cook even more than some ladies?

That’s why we have compile this to share with you.

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PRAYER: Be a prayerful woman. Learn to pray for yourself, your husband, your kids etc.

When you are prayerful, you will know the things to be praying for, when to pray for it and how to pray for it.

“prayer moves mountains”.

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SUPPORTIVE: most men likes’ women who have an insight. You can use your insight to coach

and support your husband for the well-being of the family.

But don’t try to have the final say at all times just because you support him. signs he wants you in his future

SUBMISSION: Be submissive to your man but don’t be a dump woman.

Know when to speak and when not to speak.

Don’t try to disrespect him especially in front of his friends even when you know that he is wrong.

You can correct him later when his friends are gone.

— how to make your husband happy

A HOME MANAGER: be a good home manager, stand in for him when you know his capability is

reduced at that particular season.

If no food stuff in the house, adjust the way you use them and how you spend. Tips for a successful relationship

LEARN TO COVER HIS WEAKNESS: if he can’t perform in a particular area in his life learn to help

him that’s why you are his help mate.

If you can’t help him, don’t sell him out to public or your friends because by hurting his ego, you

will end up scattering your home.

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BE A FRIEND NOT ONLY A LOVER: there are some men who cannot share their secrets with their

wives not because they don’t love them, but because they are not sure if their secret will be safe

with them or if they will lose their happy home because of the secret.

So they decide to keep it to themselves or share it with only their friends.

So learn to be a friend that he can rely on at any time knowing that their secret will not be leak outside.

ORIGINAL: be original not fake. Don’t fake what you are not and don’t fake to be happy while

you are not because he is not a spirit to read your mind.

So open up to him when it is necessary, to save you the stress of being miserable. opening up is how you can make your man happy so don’t be so secretive.

—how to make your husband happy

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YOUR DRESSING: learn to dress to his taste.

Example; you used to wear jeans trousers when he met you and decided to marry you and after

marrying you, you start using wrappers in morning, afternoon and night. Are you his granny?

Dress to his taste each and every day dress in the house to seduce your man to make him fall

more and more in love with you every day. Keep yourself attractive just for him he is your man

not your roommate.

SCURRILOUS: don’t be an abusive woman.

No responsible man loves a woman who is abusive, gross, scandalous, low obscene, foul mouthed etc.

Count your words don’t think you can just do free styling with any word that enters into your

Mouth especially when you are angry and your home still remains the same.

Words have the power to build and the power to destroy a home so choose wisely.

the power to make your husband happy is always with you, so it is either you try and make him stay at home or he stays out just to have a peace of mind.

make your husband miss you even while at work or when he travel.

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7 INSIGHT ON COURTSHIP MEANING

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

The important courtship meaning

Courtship meaning

Many people do think that courtship is only a media for

fornication(sin) but I will not disagree with that

but I will still say a little No to that. Courtship is not only a media

for fornication, it is also a media where two adults come together

to understand each other and know what they need to know

before getting marry.

Courtship is like a school.

Many divorce homes these days are related to the absent of courtship,

some will say it was love at first sight so

I couldn’t wait than to make her my own, my parent said it was a

good family to marry from, our parents

were friends, she is smart and intelligent, she was the most

beautiful in college, he was the most

handsome in college, he has muscles, our church was against it etc.

Was that the only reason we end up in marriage?

What if some years later things start changing, she is no more

that beautiful as at in college? What if he

stopped working out to keep himself really physically fit anymore?

What if your parents later have issues and misunderstanding set

in and they break their friendship?

What will be the outcome of all these questions?

Don’t marry someone with condition attached to it, because one

day, when that condition that made

you to love nor accept to be the person’s partner disappeared,

then marriage will end up becoming a battle field or a grave yard

in which everywhere is silent and if care is not taken, it will open

ways to divorce. from courtship meaning, we can now talk on;

— REASONS WHY COURTSHIP IS IMPORTANT BEFORE

MARRIAGE

YOU WILL GET TO KNOW THE PERSON A LITTLE BIT

You will know if he/she is a human at day and something
else at night.

You will get to know the kind of food he/she likes and the one which he dislikes.

You will get to know his sleeping position.

You will get to know if he snug at night if you can deal with.

Is he a bully

Is he a hot temper?

How he reacts to issues that arises.

YOU WILL GET TO KNOW HIS FRIENDS

Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.

Are his/her friend’s responsible kind of people

Can you deal with his friends around?

Are they compatible

Will you be able to be free with them i.e. (will you take them as your own friends too)

WHAT HE DOES

His job

What he/she does for fun

What he uses his time to do

How serious he is with what he does.

THE FAMILY HE/SHE IS FROM

The kind of blood that flows in him

His behavior with the family (the way he treats his family can also determine the way he

treats you.)

His background/ past

The way his family treats and take people

The religious

ROMANTIC

Remember that someone being romantic doesn’t only have to do with the bedroom.

You can have fun with someone without having sex with the person. Example of romantic

moments are:

Cooking together

Pillow fight

Working out together not only at night

Chatting with each other even while sitting together.

Texting him/her reminding him how handsome he is and how beautiful she is and how you

are privilege to have him/her as your fiancée

— THINKS TO LOOK FOR:

The way he/she behaves when he is with you

His speech (the way he/she talks matters a lot. In fact, the

way people look at you is also

determine by the words that comes out from your mouth when

you speak) so mind

your words.

His sense of humor

DRESSING CODE

Can you deal with his sense of dressing?

Does he know color combination?

Does he/she dress to your taste

Is he a suit type or a casual dressing type?

Does he know what kind of shoes to use when he dresses to an important occasion.

SENSE OF REASONING

Does he/she reason things the way you do.

Do argument sets in in every discussion you are trying to initiate

Does he reason with his head or with his hands?

Is he a grow up or still a kid?

How serious is he/she when you talk about your relationship?

NOTE all these are part of the things you watch out while in courtship not until when you

are married.

Once you are married, you both belong to each other but in courtship, you can deal with

what needs to be deal with in and on time.

If there is no regret during courtship, there will be regret in marriage, all you have to do

is to keep your home both physically and spiritually fit.

—- THINGS NOT ADVISABLE TO DO IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY

Don’t get married to someone you don’t love just because all your friends are married.

Don’t marry someone because of his/her wallet.

Don’t marry someone due to depression

Don’t marry someone just because you think that’s the only solution to insults

Don’t marry someone just because you worship in the same ministry

Don’t marry someone just for family reputation.

Don’t marry someone just because mummy says so.

Don’t marry someone just for political pursuit.

Don’t marry because of what you see because in months or years later, you will start seeing

what you didn’t see back then.

Don’t marry because dad made a promise to his/her family when you were born that you are destined for each other. It is only God that writes destiny.

Don’t force someone to marry you. Even if he/she loves you. (love doesn’t keep marriage but understanding does)

Don’t marry a bulling.

NOTE THIS (courtship meaning) Marriage is to be enjoy and not to be endured Don’t

endure while you are dying within you, just because you don’t

want your marriage to scatter or your friends/ people to

gossip about it, you now decide to endure it.

Marriage is not all about endurance perhaps for how long will you

continue to endure nor keep up the act that your marriage is okay.

It is until it kills you? If you have made this mistake and

maybe it I hunting you now, seek for a counselor, if you can convince your partner to join you, then you do.

Pour out your heart let him/her get to know your pains and the

trauma he/she have put you through.

Then if change occur good, but if after everything no change.

Then I will say “FOLLOW YOUR HEART” Be wise.

marrying the wrong person is not one of the mistake you should

plan to make in life.

4 Interesting Reason Why You Need to Build Friendship before Relationship

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

FRIENDSHIP AND RELATIONSHIP

Friendship and relationship are two different things. The things that are not working during mutual attachment can not work during a relationship. that is why it is necessary to start any relationship with anyone with friendship then taking it to the next level.

Most times when I tell friends and family that I value friendship most times more than intimate, there is a question I usually receive that is;

Does friendship matter before the relationship? Can’t I get into a relationship first before becoming the person’s friend?

Well, you can still start a relationship before friendship. the fact is that most of them do end in tears because you will go and see the kind of lifestyle you never expected and that occurs because you knew nothing about him and his ways of life.

But note this, a man or a lady who isn’t qualified to be your friend can’t be your wife or your husband. The enemy you know is better than the friend you don’t know.

Friendship has a lot and a huge role to play in your relationship.

Now let’s see the advantages

CLOSE FRIENDSHIP VS RELATIONSHIP

WHY YOU NEED TO BUILD FRIENDSHIP BEFORE RELATIONSHIP

• Friendship brings freedom: there are something’s you can’t do with your lover or in the presence of someone you call your lover, but you can say it or do it in front of your best friend.

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• Secrets Shared: You can’t hide everything from your friend, but you can hide almost if not everything from your lover.

• You will get to know the real person. The atmosphere for fakeness is less than in a relationship.

• You will know his likes. One of the things that are just necessary for a relationship is “compatibility” No matter what you do nor try if you and your partner are not compatible, then there is no forever hope for the relationship nor marriage.

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THEREFORE WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU CAN BE COMPATIBLE WITH

Daily activities; If he is a 23hours working kind of man and one hour for you and the family, if you are the opposite, which means you don’t like such busy guys, but you prefer a man that spends most of his time doing things with his family then you are not compatible.

2. The way he/she treats family: it is very easy for one to fake to be very caring and loving during a relationship, but hard to fake during friendship and marriage. that’s why you will easily hear people saying “he was not like this when I married him”, “If I knew you were this wicked, I couldn’t have married you, woman” etc.

Now in things like this, if you want to find out, you will discover that most of them just started from a date to a relationship, then marriage.

More than half (1/2%) percent of women, that are in a relationship today, can do the undo just to keep their man, and no matter how you fake the relationship/marriage, it won’t last.

Note: “When you use fakeness to keep a relationship, you will use fakeness to maintain it”. Apst. Jordan Akada.

IS FROM FRIENDSHIP INTO RELATIONSHIP IMPORTANT

Yes, from friendship into relationship is very important as it is going to help you and your partner to grow together in love, understanding, and unity.

It will also help you both to understand that being a grown up does not mean that you are above fun in the home like example pillow fighting,playing of cards, games etc.

many of these can only occur if there is friendship between you two in the relationship.

DO THE BEST RELATIONSHIPS START AS FRIENDSHIPS

From my research, I will say yes to this, and what is your own view? Love is not always constant, it can always fate away, and if no understanding, the relationship dies. Now understanding Can only occur if friendship was already on the ground.

Friendship keeps your relationship/marriage lively. Lively in this aspect means fun and entertaining. So if you want to have a good and happy relationship, start with friends so that you can deal with and sort out what is necessary before you step into the relationship.

WHO IS MORE IMPORTANT FRIENDS OR LOVER

Lovers can always come and go but friendship stands a taste of time.

HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRONGER

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Share things.
Share quality time doing what you two like best.
Go on a date at least once every month. It helps to bring back memories.
Cook together.
Be who you are.
Listen
Ask for a suggestion from your partner.
Give room for conversation.
Learn to forgive for no one is above mistakes.
Work as a team.
Be honest etc.
Have funs

friendship and relationship is very important in marriage.

Now i ask, friendship and relationship, which one do you prefer to exist first?

I endured lies, cheating and more from Nollywood Actor Alex Ekubo, Fancy Acholonu finally reveals why she called off her engament with Alex Ekubo

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Fancy Acholonu, the estranged fiance of Nollywood Actor actor Alex Ekubo has continued to speak through more light on their failed engagement.

The American-based model has finally revealed why she called off their engagement. While responding to Fab jewels appeal for her to keep their issues private, in reaction, Fancy claimed that Alex was trying to ruin her and her reputation, because she left him.

She further highlighted some of the things she endured with Alex, from his cheating to his lies and lots more. But for him to make her constantly apologize to him is wrong. In her words she wrote;

“No I won’t. Alex has succeeded in trying to ruin me and my reputation just because I left him. Grace you slightly know me I’m calm quiet dance, play work, and mind my business. I endured everything a Nigerian women typically does from her man which is lies and all the cheating etc.

But to make me apologize constantly publicly. It is WRONG! I never revealed why I left. I never bashed him. I only said sorry for making a statement. I am someone’s child, someone’s future wife. I need to speak up for myself. Don’t tell me to stop. Silence is why many people are depressed. Alex needs to stop is manipulation! His ego and wanting me to say sorry all the time is a problem NOT me! Everytime I’ve made its a statement is because of HIM! Don’t tell me to stop. Tell him”.

See proof

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• “He forced me to make the apology and I fell for it” Fancy Acholonu clears the air on her public apology to Alex Ekubo

• I can’t Marry him now, young lady reveals why she rejected her baby daddy’s marriage proposal after dating for 8 years

WHEN LOVE HAPPENS 1

February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

WHEN LOVE HAPPENS chapter 1

when love happens is one of my original play.

There lived three friends Mike, Moses and Miracle (M3).

Mike was tall, chocolate skin and muscular, Moses was cute but

short, Miracle was fair, tall and slim.

These three have been friends since childhood that everybody

who knew them started calling them M3.

M3 were so closed that they never wanted to separate from one

another even their parent never tried to separate them.

M3 have been together until university level.

In the university, Mike studied computer science, Moses

marketing while Miracle studied Law.

At the end of their study year, Mike was able to obtain a master

degree scholarship to study in India best Institution of

Technologies.

Miracle was called to bar immediately he completed his education

and Moses went into digital marketing businesses.

Few years later, Mike was through with his Masters and decided

to come back to the country.

Even when his parent asked him to stay over there and start a life

maybe go for doctoring, he said No.

On reaching the country, he now decided to bring up a business

idea during his sit out with his friends. Which they all agreed to it.

A month later, Mike being good in his field, decided to build a site

with the niche m3gist and later shared

responsibilities between his friends.

Moses was in charge of the marketing, advertisement, promotions

etc.

Miracle was in charge of the latest trending in national and

international news and Mike was in charge of the maintenance

and also programming tutor.

A year later, their m3gist website started gaining popularity they

then went further and rented a building to use as a company.

With this, they started helping people running local businesses in

their city by registering their businesses, products with m3gist for

advert.

Mike, Moses, Miracle founders of m3gist marketing group of

companies was recognized all over the world.

Mike being the brain behind m3gist, tall and handsome guy, he

could get any lady he decides with that, he believed that there is

nothing like love without money.

His friends tired talking him out of his flirting life style but it was

in vain.

One day they were having lunch in a restaurant when a lady

walked up to their table and said “Hello handsome” when they

looked up Mike discover that she was referring to him so he

looked at his friends and later turned around and smile at the

lady and said, “Hello beautiful”.

Am Sandra she said and I’m Mike. So, Mr. Mike do you mind we

speaking on phone?

Then handed over her card to Mike before Mike could respond.

Then he said sure who with his right senses wouldn’t call a

beautiful damsel like you. They both smile and held hands for a

minute then left.

(Immediately she left)

Mike discovered that his friends were starring at him with surprising eyes, he then laughed and said what?

Am I the one that went for that one or she came to me? Guys see

that’s life, when you are tall, cute and rich, love is very simple to get.

Miracle: (to mike) you better be careful because being cute and

rich does not prevent disease when it comes knocking.

(they all laughed and started eating their launch)

Miracle was really disturbed by his friend’s life style he then

decided to discuss it with Moses so that they can make a plan on

how to make him stop.

(That evening, they went to Mike’s apartment while chatting and

watching India love movies, an idea came into Moses head and he

spoke out)

Mike, have you ever stick with one lady up to a month before?

Moses asked.

On hearing the question, Mike laughed, Of course not… why

should I be wasting my time

while there are other ladies out there waiting for their own share

of this (he touched his body).

Miracle and Moses decided to use his statement to their own

advantage knowing very well that Mike doesn’t like losing to

anyone when it comes to challenges.

So they said Mike if you date a particular lady for at least two

months, we will give you 10% of our share of the company.

But he laughed then stir at them and said you are kidding? Then

he discovered that they were not smiling so he said, you guys are

not kidding?

We are serious but it’s okay, we already knew you can’t do it.

(he was mute for some minutes)

He said, but two months is too much now….

Miracle: So do you agree or you are backing out?

Mike: No I agree, perhaps 10% from you both will go a long way.

But I got to choose the lady I want. Do you guys agree with me?

Miracle and Moses: (both agreed) you are the boss.

CHAPTER TWO OF WHEN LOVE HAPPENS

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