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I tricked my wife into believing that am not cheating on her

May 6, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

“I tricked my wife into believing that am not cheating on her” —–relationshipnetwork.com.ng

I was thinking of a better way to convince my wife that be faithful to her.
Though I was not cheating on her she strongly believed that I have been cheating on her since last year.

She had the such belief the first day she came to my office and saw my female colleagues’ hindquarters – backside.

She faltered seeing such a load at the back of my female colleagues.

“You must resign from work” She nagged when I came back that day.

“Why?” I asked her but she couldn’t render her reasons.

previously, she requested that I should tell her the pin to my phone and I declined bluntly.

So yesterday, I cuddled her while we were seeing a movie titled “Half of a yellow sun”.

It was an old movie and I found it in my old box.

Pronto, a message popped up.

I took my phone, unlocked it directly to her face, and checked the message.

When I dropped my phone, I saw her face filled with joy. She smirked quietly. I did as if I didn’t notice and continued watching the movie.

A few minutes later, after I had finished taking my bath, I was still wearing my towel when she hugged me.

“What is it, honey?” I asked.

“You’re the best, I love you for everything” she returned.

“I love you, too”

“Who is Olaedo Nmachi” she queried me.

“Oh! one of my Facebook friends” I replied “how did you get to know her”

“Sorry, I logged into your Facebook account and I saw how she wooed you for you to be her man and sleep with her but you rejected,” she said.

“Awww. you saw those messages?” I asked.

“Yes, darling! I now believe you fully” She returned.

I smooched and gave her a long, healing hug.

I laughed in my mind knowing fully well that I’m the Olaedo Nmachi, I opened another Facebook account with that name and wooed myself in other to prove to her that I wasn’t cheating.
I have to do this to prove my innocence.

Relationship advice for men

My wife never knew I could do this –but her reaction was amazing.

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When To Walk Away From A Sexless Marriage

May 6, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

It might seem unbelievable to think that some couples who are already married are not having sex with each other. However, such marriages exist, and they are called sexless marriages. Before looking at the appropriate time of when to walk away from a sexless marriage let us first look at the vivid meaning of a sexless marriage.

What a sexless marriage

A sexless marriage is a marital union in which little or no sexual activity occurs between the two partners. United States National Health and Social Life Survey in 1992 discovered that 2% of married couples reported no sexual intimacy in the past.

Causes of a sexless marriage

If you noticed that your marriage which was once happy and full of fun all of a sudden became sexless, the following might be some reasons why your marriage is now sexless

1. Misunderstandings :

miss understanding is one of the major reasons why most marriages become sexless. If a couple has any misunderstanding between them, it will be very difficult for them to have any intercourse together

2. Communication Issues :

Lack of communication is another reason why most marriages have become sexless if they are no adequate communication between couples then misunderstanding might come into the marriage which will cause the couple to lose interest in each other, and when couple loses interest in each other it becomes difficult for them to have any sexual relationship.

3. Marriage Issues :

marriage issue is another reason why most marriages have become sexless if a marriage is going through one crisis or the other both couples will have frowned at any sexual advances

Other causes of sexless marriage include

4. You’ve grown bored with each other

Misunderstandings

5. Hits The Self-Esteem In Marriage

6. Feelings of Isolation

7. Scattered Thoughts About Marriage

Check this The Importance of Sex In a Relationship

How Long sexless marriages can last?

A sexless marriage can last as long as you can imagine but for others who may not be tolerable, it may last for at least six months to one year.

Effects of a sexless marriage

some major effects of a sexless marriage are

1. Infidelity :

Infidelity is one of the most common and major effects of a sexless marriage, since children are being produced through sexual intercourse, then it became very difficult or impossible for a sexless marriage to produce children.

When to walk away from a sexless marriage

They are no exact time when one can walk away from a sexless marriage you can stay as long as you can tolerate it but below are stages where you can consider leaving a sexless marriage

1. When your partner is not willing to work on the issues :

Problems (issues) in marriages and relationships can easily be solved when both couples identify the issue and are willing to solve them. If you have done all you can do and your partners still refuse to collaborate on improving your sexual life, then this might be the right time to leave a sexless marriage and find joy else were

Check this 3 NEGATIVE EFFECT OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

2. You both have different sexual preferences and drives :

When both of you have a sexual drive that is far from each other than it became difficult to stay in the marriage, for example, if you are the kind of person who has a high sexual drive, but your partner has a very low sexual drive and hate having sex then you can leave the relationship to avoid cheating on your partner

3. When the marriage lacks love :

Some marriages were doing well and full of fun but all of a sudden things turn upside down and one partner suddenly losses interest in the marriage maybe because they are no longer in love with their partner, in such situations it will be very difficult for the other partner to want to have any sexual intercourse with his/her Partner. If your marriage gets to this point the best thing to do is to simply walk away to avoid heartbreak.

How do you know when it’s time to leave a sexless marriage?

4. Your Sexless Marriage Has Led to Infidelity :

Since Rising kids is sometimes one of the major reasons why so many people get married, if your marriage gets to a point where lack of sex has caused the marriage to be infertile we think it is the right time for you to save yourself and leave the marriage.

Other signs are,

5. You Have Other Major Relationship Issues (Like Lack of Love)

6. When your partner becomes fund of Cheating

7. When your partner loves Shifting Priorities

8. Who your partner Constantly funds Criticism

Conclusion,

Walking away from a sexless marriage doesn’t mean you are coward it simply means you are saving yourself from any kind of stress and trauma a sexless marriage can cause you. And before walking away from a sexless

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(Big brother Naija reunion) — Reactions as Maria and Angel k!lled the show.

May 6, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

(Big brother Naija reunion) — Reactions as Maria and Angel killed the show.
The big brother Naija season 6 reunion was full of confrontation as Maria and angel clashed, though it was really hot and hash, it may be considered as what makes the reunion interesting.
Both housemates clashed during the reunion on Friday night.
An accusation was laid against Angel of kissing almost all the boys in the house by Maria.

On the media entertainment show, Angel was angry with what Maria said. She understood that Maria called her a slut.
But in reply, Maria said that she only gave her own opinion about Angel and that doesn’t mean it’s true.

Many things were unveiled including how Angel unfollowed Nini over the infamous longe conversation, Michael cleared the air on the events that landed to the tag that Angel was called.
This episode was amazing and we eagerly await the next episode of the BBN reunion (shine ya eye) saga.

It’s really obvious that the relationship in Bb Niger is something else.

My wife never knew I could do this –but her reaction was amazing.

May 6, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

My wife never knew I could do this –but her reaction was amazing.

I was thinking of how to surprise my wife today since it’s our last day at work and we have to go on a vacation.

So, in the morning of that day, I woke up bouncing off walls, and my wife had just finished preparing my favorite food which is our breakfast.

We ate the food fully and I didn’t stop complimenting my wife for her cooking skills.

At 7:30 am, we retired to our working places at greased lightning because there wasn’t much traffic on the road.

I dropped my wife at her place of work before going to mine.

While I was in the office, I was on my earpiece with Michael Jackson’s speechless booming in my ears.

I was on cloud nine because I couldn’t wait to spend this holiday with my adorable wife.

Shortly, an unknown number called me, insinuating that I should leave my wife for him and that this is the final warning.
And when I wanted to ask questions, He hung up.

I was in a black mood.
Luckily, The time to vacate from work reached and I left the office to my abode directly.

I threw my wife’s belongings outside the gate.
I couldn’t hear from my wife’s side.
“Come and take your properties to your father’s house, they are outside ” I disclosed the news to her on phone.
“what did I do?” She kept asking as I hung up.

She came back soon and saw her pieces of baggage outside.
She started knocking endlessly at the gate
I left the sitting room, went to the gate, and opened it.

“Go and freshen up baby,” I said “we traveling to where we shall spend this holiday”

“Ah! Honey!, you won’t kill me” she said and heated my chest.

I chuckled.
No one called me, it was just what I fabricated

I signaled my gateman whom I ordered to look after those pieces of baggage to come out from where he hid, He came out.

And my wife freshened up then We drove out.
And the light faded.

List Of Davido Baby Mama’s

May 6, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Popular Nigerian musician Davido is known for his clubbing lifestyle as a result of his club lifestyle and his love for women Davido has over 4 baby mamas so far and four kids

List Of Davido Baby Mama’s

1. Sophia Momodu :

Sophia Momodu is Davido’s first baby mama, Sophia Momodu is a social media influencer and model with over one million followers on her social media handles. Sophia and Davido had a brief affair in 2015 which leads to the birth of Davido’s first child. Aurora Imade Adeleke, Aurora Imade Adeleke is seven years old.

Photos Of Sophia momodu

2. Amanda :

Amanda is Davido’s second baby mama, Amanda was born in 1993 Amanda she did her schooling outside Nigeria and is now fully based in Atlanta. Amanda gave birth to Davido’s second child Hailey Adeleke, Hailey Adeleke, is now five years old.

Photos of Amanda

3. Chioma Rowland :

Screenshot 20220603 190342 — Chef Chioma Davido Baby Mama

Chioma Rowland is a Nigerian young lady born May 1, 1995, in Owerri, Chioma is a proud indigene of Imo State. Chioma is the third baby mama of Davido and the mother of Davido’s first David Ifanyi Adeleke

Photos of Chioma

4. Larissa Yasmin :

Larissa Yasmin is a professional makeup artist and model born in Angola but she is presently based in London. Larissa is the last and latest baby mama of Davido she gave birth to Davido 4th child whose name is Dawson meaning David’s son

Name Of Davido Baby Mama’s And Their Children

. Sophia Momodu Is the mother of Aurora Imade Adeleke

. Amanda is the mother of Hailey Adeleke

. Chioma Rowland Is the mother of David Ifanyi Adeleke

. Larissa Yasmin Is the mother of Dawson Adeleke

FAQ

How many baby mama does Davido have

David has 4 baby mamas

What are the names of Davido’s baby mama

The name of Davido baby mama is,

Sophia Momodu

Amanda

Chioma Rowland

Larissa Yasmin

What are the names of Davido kids

The name of Davido kids are

Aurora Imade Adeleke

Hailey Adeleke

David Ifanyi Adeleke

Dawson Adeleke

Conclusion

Take note Davido has only 4 kids that two girls and two boys

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List Of Top Cross Dressers In Nigeria

May 5, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Cross Dressers are people who wear clothing that is typical for the opposite s*x. being a cross-dresser doesn’t end only with wearing clothing from the other gender it also extends to the way you behave in today’s article we will be highlighting the names of the top crossdresser in Nigeria.

List Of Top Cross Dressers In Nigeria

1. Bob risky :

Bob risky is a popular Nigerian cross Dresser and transgender whose real name is okuneye Idris Olanrewaju born on 31st August 1991 Bob risky hail from Ogun State Nigeria he also attends Alma meter university Lagos.

Bob risky stated that he went into cross-dressing because the country was hard and he could not go into any illegal deeds to make money that was why he oops to cross-dressing.

Photos Of Bob Risky

2. James brown :

Popular Nigeria cross dresser James brown real name is James Obialor James Brown was born on 21st February 1999 and hails from the southeast region of Nigeria but spent most of his life in Lagos getto mushin

James Brown went into the cross dressing to get fame for himself

Photos Of James Brown

3. Tobi the creator :

Tobi the creator is a popular cross dresser and makeup artist who has claimed not to be a cross dresser. Tobi the creator is a social media influencer, makeup artist, and an entrepreneur

Tobi the creator went into the cross-dressing to improve his makeup business

Photos Of Tobi The Creator

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How to be a perfect girlfriend

May 6, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

I want to know how to be a perfect girlfriend to him, I want to make sure that I am always there for him, and that I am always doing what he wants me to do. What are some things that he would like?

It is difficult to define the perfect girlfriend. It is not a simple question to answer and it’s not just about looks and personality. It is about a lot of different things that all add up to the perfect girlfriend. The perfect girlfriend should be someone who is kind, caring, supportive, understanding, loving, funny, and someone who you can trust with your secrets.

How to be a perfect girlfriend

A perfect girlfriend is one who is supportive and understanding. She does not nag her man about his mistakes or about his past at all times. She does not point out all the things that he has done wrong in the past but instead focuses on what she can do for him now.

The perfect girlfriend is not just a myth. The perfect girlfriend is someone who knows what they want and is willing to work for it. She knows that relationships are not easy, but she never gives up on the relationship.

It’s important to be able, to be honest with your partner and not get mad when they make mistakes. It’s important to have the same goals and values as your partner so that you can both work on them together. It’s also important that you’re happy with yourself before you can be happy in a relationship.

What keeps a man in a relationship?

There are many factors that can lead to a man staying in a relationship. But the most common reasons are the following:

-The man is afraid of being alone

-He has to deal with his partner’s mood swings and sees it as an opportunity for growth

-The man has low self-esteem and is not confident enough to find another partner

-It has been found that men are more likely to stay in a relationship if they feel like they have a say in decision making.

-Men are more likely to stay in a relationship if their partner is understanding of their needs and desires.

Who is a best girlfriend?

There are many qualities that make a woman the best girlfriend. Some of them are:

-She is supportive: When we talk about a lady being supportive to her man does not mean that we are telling you to give him money because if you don’t have the money you might be wondering how you can support him when you yourself, do not have money for your needs.

When we say support your man, it can take many forms for example; you can choose to support your boyfriend by being his inspiration or motivational speaker that fuels his dreams.

most times we wish to become this and that but we procrastinate not because we don’t want to do it now but because we lack motivation. and that is where you as a girlfriend can come in.

support him mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc.

-She listens to you: Learn to be a listener because if you are not a listener, then you will not know where to start to support him. neither will you know where you are needed in his life the most?

-She is caring and understanding: It is only communication and understanding that can help a relationship to work. so no matter the percentage of love, if there is no understanding, it is not going to stand the test of time.

-She does not nag: this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t correct him when he is wrong. correct him and also compliment him. he is not perfect so don’t try turning him into one.

How can I impress my bf?

The first impression is the most important one. If you want to impress your boyfriend, you need to be aware of his needs and interests. You should also know what he likes and what he doesn’t like.

If you want to impress him with your cooking skills, make sure that you cook something that he likes. If he’s into sports, buy tickets for a game or a match and surprise him with it.

Jim iyke speak’s against rumor’s of him converting to Muslim

May 5, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

The Nigerian superstar has noticed the breaking celebrity news of him converting to Islam which is currently one of the latest celebrity and entertainment gist online.

He speaks against the rumor of him converting to Islam which is currently shaking the celebrity world.

Thursday, June 2, 2022, through his Instagram page he made it known to people that the photos were detached from the recent movie he made in Ghana by a blogger.

The Nigerian Nollywood actor and a longtime celebrity went ahead to say that he respects all religion and have no intention of converting his faith now.

He considered it as a serious issue, though he made it known that he can orchestrate anything.
That call’s to mind a fight between him and Nollywood actor Uche maduagwu in 2021 which shakes the celebrity world and turned to be one of the top trending and entertainment celebrity news then.

He later reveals that he had no qualms and bear’s no grudge against uche maduagu. It was all planned, scripted, and posted to promote his movie then.

Though he called it an aimless rumor, he also warms that certain lines should not be crossed.

List Of Celebrities Who Married Women Bigger Than Them

May 5, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Some Celebrities were born small in size and after fame, they found love and got married some married women who were bigger than them in size while some got married to women they are bigger than but in today article we are listings some Celebrities who married women bigger than them

1. Grand P :

Grand P is a popular singer, actor, social media personality, and politician born in Guinea. Grand P is one of the most celebrated music icons in Guinea. Grand P is engaged to Eudoxie Yao

Grand P And His Partner

Grand P is full engaged to Eudoxie Yao who is a popular plus-size model, and they have been engaged for some time now

Photo Of Grand P With Eudox Yao

2. Chinedu Ikedieze ;

Chinedu Ikedieze popularly known as Aki is a well-known Nigerian actor, entrepreneur, and serial investor.

Born on 12 December 1977 entrepreneur and serial investor. He is best known for playing alongside Osita Iheme in the majority of his movies.

Chinedu Ikedieze And His partner

Chinedu Ikedieze is married to Nneoma Ikedieze, both of them have been married since 2011

Photo of Chinedu Ikedieze And Nneoma Ikedieze

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3. Teju Babyface :

Teju babyface’s real name is Gbadewonuola Olateju Oyelakin he is a Nigerian standup comedian, talk show host, producer, and writer.

He introduced a new genre of talking to the Nigerian TV space with The Teju Babyface Show in the year 2010 He is also known by many in Nigeria as The King of Talk

Teju Babyface And His Partner

Teju babyface is married to Banjoko-Oyelakin they have been married for a long time now they both run the Teju babyface Tv Show who is a popular plus-size model, and they have been engaged for some time now

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Casual Dating Vs Serious Dating

May 5, 2024February 23, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Casual Dating Vs Serious Dating, Basically a relationship is usually a term in two basic stages which are the casual stage and the serious stage. The casual stage starts from the moment you both agree to become friends at this stage you enjoy each other company and love to be around each other, but you both are not even sure if you are dating or not. While in the serious dating stage you both are very much into each other, and in some cases, you might be even engaged to each other

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It is very good for you to know the difference between casual dating and serious dating but it is very much important that the particular stage in your relationship is currently standing. In this article, we will be explaining the difference between casual and serious dating and some of the signs to identify the present stage of your relationship.

What Is Casual Dating

Casual dating is a type of relationship between two individuals who are mutually connected, there go on dates, and spend a lot of time together but lack commitment and possibly a lack of interest in establishing a serious, meaningful relationship.

Is Casual Dating Considered Dating?

After knowing the meaning of casual dating I know some of you will be wondering if casual dating can be considered “Dating” if that is your thought we want you to know that casual dating is 50% consider dating since it involves mutual feelings of individuals from a different gender.

How Long Does Casual Dating Last?

Normally casual dating is supposed to last for a month or two because by now both of you already know each other very well and have fully considered the point of whether to enter into a serious relationship or not. However they are no specific time a casual dating is expected to last, the relationship can remain Casual forever, until when both individual decide to go into a serious relationship.

What Is Serious Dating

Serious dating unlike casual dating is a relationship that involves two persons who are committed to each other, they have feelings for each other and also love each other and because of this, they don’t see anyone else, And they both hope that one day they will take their relationship to the next level (marriage).

Note that a casual dating or serious dating is the same thing as a casual or serious relationship

What Defines A Serious Relationship As Serious?

One of the major things that define a serious relationship as serious is commitment, being committed to your relationship is what makes it serious and commitment is one of the key factors that differentiate a Casual relationship from a Serious relationship.

Signs To Determine If Your Relationship Is casual or serious?

We know that sometimes you might be confused about the current state of your relationship especially if you no longer understand the present behavior of your partner below are some signs to help you understand if your relationship is casual dating or serious dating.

Signs Of Casual Dating

1. Lack Of Commitment :

This is one of the major signs of casual dating, in casual dating, they usually a lack of commitment from one side because both parents don’t take the relationship seriously.

2. They refer to each other as friends:

In casual dating, both partners a don’t know where stand in the relationship time they referred to their self as partners both most of the time they referred to their self as friends

3. They don’t include each other in their social media posts :

In a casual relationship, they hardly mention each other’s names on their various social media handle because they don’t know their relationship stands and they prefer to keep it personal.

4. They don’t remember important details about you :

Normally if someone is in love with you he or she will always try to remember certain important information about you such as your birthday date, your day of graduation date, etc

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Signs Of Serious Dating

1. Lot Of Commitment :

One of the major signs of serious dating is commitment, unlike casual dating, where they are lack of commitment in a serious relationship commitment is always present.

2. You Spend Significant Time Together :

One of the very first signs of a serious relationship is that both partners will also love to spend time with each other, unlike casual dating where both partners might not see themselves frequently.

3. Partners embrace each other’s family members as their own :

Serious dating partners, don’t only associate with each other they also associate with each other family members.

Other Signs Of Seriously Dating

4. Partners plan for the future together

5. Partners share their passwords and pins with each other

6. Partners put each other opinions in mind before making decisions

Casual Dating Vs Serious Dating

a. Casual Dating lack commitment

. Serious Dating involves a lot of commitment

b. Parents and families are not always involved in a Casual Dating

. Parents and families are fully involved in a Serious Dating

c. Partners in Casual Dating hardly make feature plans together

. Partners in Serious Dating make feature plans together

Conclusion

In the aspect of casual vs serious relationship, a serious relationship will always win because a serious relationship is focused on building a long term relationship that might lead to marriage but the main focus of casual dating is just to enjoy some fun for that moment so if you are in any casual relationship pick up the boldness and tell your partner how much you love him /her and tell him/her that you now want a serious relationship.

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