“If you want your husband to cook, pay 50% of the family expenses ” – Nairaland Founder, Seun Osewa

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Seun Osewa, the founder of Nairaland, has urged women who want their husbands to prepare meals to make sure they share household responsibilities equally with them.

 

In a tweet, Seun Osewa made this claim and wrote:

 

This Nairalander’s marriage is stuck between two paradigms. As a traditional husband, he pays most of the family expenses. He expects his wife to do her traditional duties like cooking, but she’s a working woman who makes 800k per month so she’s not motivated to do them

 

“My solution is restructuring. The woman must pay her fair share of family expenses since she’s working. Both spouses will contribute the same percentage of their income to the family account. With that, it will be easy for the man to accept cooking, etc as privileges, not rights.

 

“If he wants her to cook, he will have to do something to earn it. If he wants enthusiasm in the other room, he must generate it. He will no longer feel that because he has done his duty as a husband, she owes him these things. His extra money from ‘restructuring’ will be useful.”

 

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“It was only a skit” BBNaija Saga reveals truth behind his proposal to Nina

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BBNaija saga has gotten so many hearts broken as he speaks on epic proposal to his former BBNaija housemate, Nini Singh.

 

Saga in a radio interview disclosed that the viral proposal video with Nini was a skit that happened in December 2022.

 

Saga also revealed that they were short when they found the video making rounds in the internet.

 

Recall that when the video of Saga proposing to Nini appeared online a few weeks ago, there was hysterical celebration.

 

Fans of the couple right from Biggie’s house were happy when Nini said yes to her ex-housemate.

 

Many people have been disappointed as a result of Saga’s most recent admission of his relationship with Nini, as many are already planning extensively for the surprise nuptials.

 

Read also : Stop playing hard to get, its old school— BBNaija saga advised ladies.

“I still get movie roles despite turning down s3xual advances from producers” – Ruby Ojiakor

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Nigerian actress Ruby Ojiakor believes that only actresses who are thirsty for stardom in the film industry allow themselves to be used by shady producers to gratify their sexual urges.

According to Ruby, she still gets movie roles despite turning down sexual advances from producers.

The actress revealed this in a recent interview when she was asked about the problem of sexual harassment that exists in her field.

Ruby Ojiakor stated that it is only desperation for fame that makes some of her colleagues sleep with producers.

She noted that so long as one has talent, they won’t need to sleep with any producer for a movie role.

In her words:

“It is good when an actress is talented and knows what she is doing. Many of the girls that prefer to sleep with filmmakers are not that good at what they do. They are just desperate, want to become overnight stars. If one is not desperate and one keeps praying to God, one will get movie roles, even if one does not sleep with filmmakers. The filmmakers will not have any option in such a case because the person is good. It is important for actresses to always work on themselves. Once they do so, they will always get jobs. I still get calls despite turning down sexual advances from producers.”

Ruby Ojiakor revealed her unpleasant meeting with a sleazy producer who wanted to make out with her in exchange for a movie job.

She said:

” I remember when I was called for a job in Enugu and we shot it for two days. I was supposed to be the female lead character in the movie. The marketer that owned the job wanted to ‘get down’ with me. But, I told him I could not do such a thing. I thought that since I had started shooting some scenes in the movie, nothing could be done to me and he cannot cancel my scenes, which I shot with Ghanaian actor, Majid Michel, then.

I also felt Majid would not want to re-act the scenes he had done before. Those factors made me think that the producer’s decision to change me would be fruitless. But to my surprise, I was not called to continue my scenes. When I challenged the production manager, he said I should not be angry because someone else had been called to play the role. I was not given any reason for being removed from that project.

I asked if Majid agreed to re-shoot those scenes, and I was told he was paid extra money to do so. That was how I lost a movie role because I refused to sleep with the owner of the movie. The scenes I had already shot were wiped out from that movie. That was a painful experience, but I have moved on.”

Asked to proffer solutions to this vice which has eaten deep into the Nigerian movie industry, the Enugu State born actress made more shocking revelations.

“I don’t think anything can be done to stop sexual advances from filmmakers. Some people have tried to report them, but it has not yielded any positive result. When an actress reports an offender, she is practically setting herself up for a fall. The offenders know themselves, and if one person reports any of them, they would gang up against that actress in the industry, and she would not be getting movie roles.

It is just like a cartel. The best thing is to train oneself and be firm that even if others are doing it, one will not do it. That was what I did”.

“Keep winning sweetheart” Obi Cubana’s wife, Lush Eby writes him a sweet note on his birthday

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Nigerian business Magnate and Socialite Obinna Iyiegbu, also known as Obi Cubana is celebrating his 48th birthday today, and his wife, Lush Eby has penned a sweet lengthy note to celebrate him.

 

Lush Eby took to her official Instagram page to sing praises of her husband in both English and native language.

 

She Prayed for him and wished him well in all his endeavors as he celebrates his birthday.

 

Sharing some cute photos of him, Lush Eby wrote:

 

“Happy birthday to you my dearest husband, my bestie, my darling, my Shugah, my king, my boss, my ride and live, the father of my children, King of boys.

Happy birthday to the man of the people, the philanthropist of our time, the king maker, the trailblazer, the great leader, and the pace setter…

Happy birthday to the kindhearted, amazing, excellent, loving, ever-cheerful human…

I never cease to tell you that you are a gift to the world. You are one special being that people truly are yet to understand.

Today, my prayer for you is that you will live to fulfill your mandate upon the earth. You will excel in all you do. Your name will be written in history as someone who made a great impact on his generation.
With long life will God satisfy you and show you his great mercy.
You will be like a tree planted by the riverside that yields forth its fruit in due season and your leaves will never wither.
You will eat the fruit of the land and you will be called BLESSED.

May God continue to fill your cup with gladness and Joy. May favor surround you as with a shield and May God continue to shield you from all evil. With long life will God satisfy you and show you his great mearcies.
Great strength and vitality I pray as you continue to walk your path in destiny.

Long live DR OKPATAOZUEORA 1
Long live OKPOLE YANKEE NWOKE OMA 1
Long live OPI AGWU AGWU 1
Long live ASIWAJU 1 OF IGBO LAND
Long live NWACHINEMELU 1
Long live OJI UNO EME OGO 1 OF OBA KINGDOM

Keep winning Sweetheart ❤️
Happy birthday Shugah M! ❤️😍❤️

 

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Top Freaky Relationship Goals

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For any relationship to be healthy and balanced both couples are expected to do freaky things once a while to enjoy a better intimacy

 

  Meaning Of Freaky Relationship Goals :

freaky relationship goals are heartened aspirations and expectations that two people of the same nasty lifestyle and class set to achieve in their relationship

 

A freaky relationship is a relationship that is filled with savage, laughter, jocks, fun, and nasty play

 

It is a relationship where the only thing you can sense in the air is happiness, full vibes, and a bit nasty but meaningful actions

 

 1. Different between Of An Odd Couple Relationship And A Freaky Relationship

 

Odd Couple Relationship: an odd couple relationship is a kind of relationship where two people of a different class, lifestyle, behavior, and different likes and dislike come together in a relationship

 

Disadvantage Of A Odd Couple Relationship: 

° When different lifestyles keep clashing with each other couple might get tired of each other and decide to call a quiet

° An odd relationship may seem perfect at first not until one of the spouses gets tired of his/her other spouse and decide to cheat around with another person whose lifestyle is the same as his or hers

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Freaky Couple Relationship: a freaky relationship is a type of relationship in which different individuals with the same lifestyle go into a relationship with the primary aim of catching fun and vibes

Some say a freaky relationship is usually nasty and unserious but over the years freaky relationship tends to last longer than most odd relationships

 

 2.  Freaky Relationship Goals:

the following are some examples of freaky relationship goals

i. Playing pranks with your lover: playing pranks with your lover helps keep them anxious one of the best days to play pranks in a freaky relationship is on 1st April, and it is being termed “April fool”

Examples of freak pranks to playing with your lover ° telling your boyfriend who is not ready to have a child you pregnant

° telling your girlfriend or you have found another lover

° telling your girlfriend she is not good in bed just to pull her legs

SEE ALSO: 4 Interesting Reasons Why You Need to Build Friendship before Relationship

ii. Surprising your lover: surprises help to keep the relationship bound stronger in a freaky relationship always make it a habit to always surprise your lover not only on their birthday but on a regular basis

Examples of a surprise to give your girlfriend in a freaky relationship

° Buy her that cloth, makeup kit, or phone she’s craving to have on a day she does not expect

° If she is a student you should pay her fees when she never expected it

 

iii. Visiting your lover regularly: visiting your lover regularly makes both of you get used to yourselves and create an avenue where you both can catch a lot of fun and play nasty

If you are still for a pointer for your relationship, you might want to check out BASIC RELATIONSHIP ETHICS FOR COUPLES

iv. Playing nasty games: a freaky relationship is usually filled with dirty and nasty stuff so you both should play nasty sometimes to enjoy each other

° Examples of nasty games to play in a freaky relationship :

a. Trust and dare: truth and dare is an amazing game to play in a freaky relationship add a lot of nasty challenges makes it more romantic and sweeter

° Examples of some options to add in a nasty truth and dare game  

– Daring your girlfriend to tweak hot for you

– Daring your girlfriend to bathe you 😋

– Daring your boyfriend to act like a girl

 

° Some truth questions to ask your lover in a nasty truth and dare game

– What her favorite sex style

– Asking your boyfriend how long does he last in bed

– What her worst sex experience

* Other examples of nasty games to play with your lovers are 

– sex dice

– mab lib

– fill in the blank

– mystery photo

– hide-and-seek

 

v. pampering your lover: pampering your Love is one of the essential ingredients that differentiate a freaky relationship from an odd-couple relationship, you should always learn to pamper your lover the same way a mother pampers her child

° Way to pamper your lover

– feed them while eating

– carry your girlfriend on your back and play around

– having a tight hug

 

vi. Behave childish with your lover :

behaving childishly is just to ensure that both of you ensure the best part of your relationship, playing like kids to caught more fun running around and cracking jokes an advantage of playing like a kid is that it keep long-lasting memories you share with your lover and such memories won’t let you want to quit your relationship unlike the odd couple relationship

° Some childish game to play with your lover

– Treasure hunt

– Rock, paper, scissors

– Cards

– Police and thief

– Children football

– Ludo games etc…

You might not know this but one of the best couples is those that see themselves as best friends before seeing themselves as lovers. that is why it is advisable to date your best friend because he or she knows you in and out. so make your lover your best friend before taking anything too serious.

vii. Taking your lover to picnics or summer holidays: picnics and summer holidays is other amazing ingredients in growing a successful relationship, taking your lover to another place other than your house is a great step in building a freaky relationship

° Ideal place to take your lover for picnics and summer holidays 

 

Nigeria – Okumu National Park, Edo State

Nigeria – Obudu Cattle Ranch, Calabar

Nigeria – Lekki Conservation Center

Nigeria – Ikogosi Warm Spring

London – Gape At The Big Ben Tower

Prague – Hub Of Baroque Buildings

Marrakech – Admire Bucolic Nature

Siem Reap – Famous For Night Markets

Playa Del Carmen – Most Beautiful Beach Town

You can also learn from other people in the same boat by joining our relationship space

Advantages of setting freaky relationship goals

° it makes your lover crazy in love with you and living you will seem like a tragedy to him or her

° it makes both of you know yourselves well through the quality time-shared together

° it makes your lover know more about you as a result of the interrogative truth and dares game you both play

° it helps creat lot of lovely memorable experience with you and your lover

 

note before going into a freaky relationship make sure the person you intend going out with is someone with a similar lifestyle as your and never let your self be overuse in the relationship always carry your Brian’s with you”  

“I’m way above you all” – Destiny Etiko slams those criticizing her sense of style

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Nollywood actress Destiny Etiko, has responded to the trolls who are always criticizing her sense of style.

 

It appears that Destiny Etiko has been the target of questionable remarks about her sense of style for long time.

 

She however finally chose to comment on the situation via her official Instagram account.

 

The actress took it very hot on the trolls, adviced them to always pay attention to their life rather than hers.

 

She declared that she is “far above” all of them, called them frustrated sisters that can’t feed themselves .

 

Destiny Etiko wrote:

 

If they invest the time they spent on my page in there miserable lives, just maybe God might have mercy on them and grow there finances 🤷‍♀️
👇
Am here living my best life and ofcos growing my account and some frustrated sisters that haven’t fed themselves well are always here with fake pages blessing me the more with their admirations😁🤪 e Dey pain them eeeh 🤣🤣 even wen some of them are on my block list but them go still dey spy On their ROLE MODEL 😅 u won’t go and search for a job Abi
DESTINY IS THE BP that u all haters will have.

👇
For the last time
U can’t stop me
I am blessed from the heavens
Una no get option
No one says a word and it comes to pass if not the one my God almighty has ordained 👂
BE MY GUEST ❤️✌️
I am waaaaay above you all 🕊”

 

Read also : “I have acted with Mercy Johnson and Destiny Etiko, but wasn’t paid by producers” Actress Boma Dokubo

BASIC RELATIONSHIP ETHICS FOR COUPLES

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Just exactly as it is required of an architect to follow some specific guidelines to draw out the plan of how the structure of a building should look, exactly the same way it is required of couples or lovers in a relationship to follow some particular precepts towards strengthening the pillars of their relationship. which is why we would be discussing the basics relationship ethics for a stronger and healthy relationship.

A relationship just doesn’t become a bed of roses overnight, likewise the same way your fantasy won’t be becoming a reality anytime soon should you choose to put little or no effort at all into such a relationship.

Setting up a few relationship principles might not seem to be quite rewarding in the short run, but in the long run, it would turn out to be a decision you would live to never regret. And to achieve this feat, all that’s just required of the couple is a little bit of commitment.

BASIC RELATIONSHIP ETHICS/RULES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD FOLLOW

Well for all those already entangled in a relationship or those planning to sometime in the nearest future, in no particular order here are the basic relationship ethics to follow after to enjoy the benefits of a stronger and healthy relationship.

 

1. BE GENUINE
Couples generally tend to pattern their lifestyle and personality to suit the taste of the partner they happen to be in a relationship with which shouldn’t be so.

The uniqueness of character matters a lot in a relationship and you shouldn’t be obliged to impress anyone you find yourself in a relationship with.

 

It is a safer bet for you in a relationship to be real with your partner so that they can always learn to admire and fall in love with such personality of yours rather than imposing something fake on them which might come back to haunt you in the long run.

2. RESPECT SHOULD BE MADE RECIPROCAL
According to the same respect for your partner just exactly the way you desire is key and is considered the very foundation of every strong relationship.

Partners in a relationship are obliged to respect and have respect for one another in terms of characters, calling one another names, invading each other privacy when it comes to calls and texts as well as every other thing one way or the other correlated.

3. BEING HONEST IS PIVOTAL
If your sincere intention for your partner is to build a stronger and healthy relationship on trust, then no atom of the traits of honesty should be found missing in your union or companion.

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Make it your daily routine of sharing your thoughts and voicing your opinions on matters that might be a potential threat to stopping you from having a stronger and healthy relationship. cause by so doing you both could earn each other’s trust in that relationship.

4. SEX SHOULDN’T BE A NECESSITY, BUT RATHER COMPULSORY
Truth be told, you weren’t both joined in holy matrimony to run a priesthood, so there’s little or no reason at all for you to choose to abstain from sex in your companionship without any genuine reason.

Undoubtedly, bringing intimacy into your relationship or union helps spice things up in that very relationship as it strengthens that bond between couples when they get to make out making it the perfect romance story.

S*x for no reason shouldn’t be somewhere you have to get a planned schedule for, rather allow it to come naturally so as to get to enjoy such an intimate moment.

SEE ALSO: 11 Tools that can spice up intimacy in your relationship

5. DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION
Building a solid connection with your life partner shouldn’t be something that seldomly happens, rather it is required of you to make it your daily routine and the only means of getting that achieved is through communication.

When you develop the habit of communicating with your partner on a daily basis, it gives him/her that sense of belief of you being his/her number one priority as you are always checking on her.

The key to this is understanding each other better.

6. BE FULL OF APPRECIATION AND APPRAISAL ALWAYS
We human beings generally tend to feel the need to be shown gratitude for every good deed of ours; certainly, your partner actually happens to be human as well and likewise does require such a gesture of yours to be shown towards them as well.

Be full of appreciation and appraisal to every good deed of your partner done regardless of how small and little You might consider it to be, cause when you get to acknowledge them for the works done or feat achieved in time past, they would be inspired to do more in the future.

It would always be a win-win situation for you to show appreciation cause if you chose to do otherwise, your partner might just lack the needed motivation to render such help or services.

7. CRITICIZE WITH CARE AND AFFECTION
Honestly, you would be planting deceit within yourself if you still have that sick belief that disagreements aren’t bound to happen or surface.

But in spite of this, that shouldn’t provide you with the opportunity to shout and bark at your partner at every slight instance. But rather ensure in the aftermath of your correction, love, and affection should follow suit.

SEE ALSO: Stop Trying To Change Your Partner

Cause the truth still remains if your partner doesn’t get to know the reasons behind your criticism, you might end up doing her a whole lot of harm than good causing her emotional trauma in the process.

CONCLUSION
Those aforementioned are the very basics for every relationship to stand firm wither the storm that might try to blow it off and prevent it from having a happy ending

Even with that, there are still some other principles required of you to apply for that support and work alongside the tips we earlier gave.

They are;
~Taking Time to celebrate one another on each other’s respective special days such as occasions such as Birthday ceremonies, Anniversaries, and every form of celebration one can think of.

~Creating a space in your heart for forgiving the trespasses of your partner as well as learning the act of forgetting such trespasses as well in the aftermath of such forgiveness.

If you are a woman, you might want to see these 10 Important Things a man wants in a relationship

~Since there’s only one person who could be perfect which is the one and only true God, you shouldn’t be expecting any form of perfection from your partner but rather adapting to any such imperfections from him or her.

~Do not develop the habit of making a promise and not having them fulfilled as it might make your partner less reliable to you in the relationship.

 

With regards to this, here are some other don’ts that shouldn’t come anywhere closer to your relationship with your partner
~Placing your present relationship in comparison with that of your past relationships, do not bring the experience of your past relationships into the equations at all.

~Never work towards perfectness rather work towards adapting to any form of imperfections, cause you can never be perfect

~Settle any difference between you and your partners before bidding her with a good night kiss, don’t go to bed with displeasure in mind.

Follow these guidelines and be all smiles all the days of your relationship or companionship with your partner.

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Man rejected by women because of his height finally finds love, Weds the woman of his dreams (photos)

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The Cameroonian teacher by name Derick kwoyela,who discovered love after being rejected by women for years because of his height has gotten married.

 

Kwoyela, a 39-year-old teacher from Cameroon, married Kahboh Patience, his sweetheart.

 

Bali Nyonga hosted a traditional and civil wedding on Friday, April 7. On Saturday, April 8, 2023, a church wedding was celebrated in Bamenda, North West Region.

 

After making their engagement public a few weeks ago, the couple stirred some controversy on social media.

 

Before falling in love with Patience, Derick Kwoyela claimed he had to battle societal preconceptions.

 

See photos from his wedding:

 

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Actress Biola Adebayo Welcomes Baby Boy After Three Failed Surrogate And IVF

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After three unsuccessful surrogate attempts, Nigerian actress Biola Adebayo and her husband Oluwaseyi Akinrinde have given birth to a boy.

On Tuesday, April 11, 2023, the movie star announced this in a post on her Instagram page.

The actress shared a photo of the baby’s limb and revealed they tried three different surrogates unsuccessfully over the course of two years.

They are thankful for the outstanding testimony that God has blessed them with a son through a surrogate mother.

In order to inspire couples who are trying to conceive, Biola also committed to share her testimony.

Biola Adebayo wrote:

“After one failed IVF. One canceled surrogate circle. Three failed surrogate attempts in two years, God has finally blessed my husband and I with a great son through our surrogate mom.

“Through it all, God has been so good to us and we’re grateful for this great testimony. Thank you, Abba Father.

God bless our doctors, God bless our surrogate mom.

“It’s a new dawn! Welcome to the world Baby “TA”

“Watch out for my “SURROGATE JOURNEY” I’ll be glad to share my story to encourage all the TTC parents out there.”

 

Read also: Stay away from premarital s3x Actress Yetunde Bakare dishes out strong relationship advice

“If your girlfriend cannot clear a bill of 500k, run” BBNaija Tochi

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Reality TV star Tochi, has told men what to do if their girlfriend can’t clear a bill of 500k.

The reality Star adviced men to leave their woman immediately if she can’t pay a N500,000 bill when their card is declined.

 

Tochi stated this on his official Instagram page.

 

He wrote:

 

“If your babe cannot chest a bill of 500k when your card declines, my guy remove your shoe, hold it in your hand and 100”.

 

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Read also : BBNaija Star, Khloe emotional as she makes Forbes under 30 list