“Thanks for always being my pillar” Mide Martins celebrates husband, Afeez Owo who paid her a surprises visit on set

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Nollywood actress Mide Martins, celebrates her husband, Afeez Owo after he visited her on set.

 

 

 

 

The Duo are one of Nollywood’s favorite celebrity who have managed to stay together despite challenges

 

 

 

 

Mide Martins has once more written a letter of gratitude to her spouse in which she expresses her appreciation for his role as a strong support system.

 

 

 

 

 

Mide Martins praised him for standing by her as she was being photographed for Ewamide, calling him her strength.

 

 

 

 

 

Thanking him for being her pillar, she wrote:

 

 

 

 

“My hubby my playmate. See who came to support during Ewamide shoot. Thanks for always my pillar”.

 

 

 

 

 

Mide Martins has referred to her spouse as her pillar on numerous occasions.

 

 

 

Despite waves of gossips on infidelity among the couple, they remain steadfast in love with each other.

 

 

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How To Be More Productive In life

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How To Be More Productive In life 

How to be more productive in life and your relationship/home should always be one of the things that run through the mind of everyone including the youth. 

No one can be responsible in life if they don’t first of all, say to themselves I want to be most productive or I want to learn how to be most productive in life.

Productivity does not just happen, it takes determination and sacrifice for someone to decide that he or she wants to be productive. 

Therefore, Productivity is a necessity in life if we want to be responsible in life, or if we want people to take us seriously.

Trying to be productive in life is very nice, and is the first step to take but then, before you become productive, there are some things you will need to put in place in other to stay productive.

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So in this article, I will be highlighting some things you will need to fix, and also things to avoid, etc so keep reading. 

Productive Things To Do 

1. Belief: You can’t succeed in anything that you don’t believe in. that’s to say that when you don’t believe in something or someone, you will place less value on it. 

And whatever is not valued, cannot be taken as important. so to be most productive, you need to start believing, believing in yourself, and in everything that you do.

Focus: You can’t achieve anything when you lose focus in life even when you believe. that’s why it is said, “faith without work is dead”. The same goes with focus. you cannot reach your goals if you don’t remain focused.

Pick a skill: If you are still young, it is either you start classes, or you pick a job or learn something. Starting classes here doesn’t mean that if you are not financial balance, it is a must to start schooling. 

No, picking a class is not a must it should be a school, you can choose to learn online, using YouTube videos, Google, etc. 

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There are free videos and courses online that you can learn from using your phone or PC.

You just have to decide on which one you want and then go for it.

4  Strike: If you want to be among the best in whatever you do, you have to strike to be better, to ensure that you are better than yesterday. Learn new things that are related to whatever you.

Habits To Avoid To Become Highly Productive

For you to become highly productive in life, there are certain things you must ensure that you drop that’s if only you want to be productive that some of those things are;

Your past: Yeah this is my point number one because no matter the points I will be listed here or another blog is listing, without letting go of the past, there can be no progress in life.

Your past can bring you down and also the power to lift you, but you can’t be up there if you are still holding on to the past.

The past does not allow people to see the great things that the future is having for them because they are busy holding on to the past.

Comparison: Comparing yourself with people will not allow you to know or to see what you also have. We all have one or more extraordinary things in us but we can’t discover it if we don’t, first of all, accept that we are special too.

READ ALSO: Things that will help you make 2021 your best year

And you can only start discovering it when you stop wishing to be someone else that you are not and start being the real you.

Bad Company: You are a nice person, you always wish to be better one day but yet you are walking with people who carry bad influence as friends.

This act most times make one become suspended whenever something bad takes place in the environment. 

So changing your circle of friends will help you to be highly productive along the line.

Drink less: I won’t say don’t drink but instead I will say “drink less”. drinking less will help you to still think straight instead of having someone to decide for you. 

A drink has a kind of alcohol that if you don’t avoid it on time or reduce it, will direct your path. So why give your life into the hands of alcohol influence.

5 Laziness: Productive people do not allow laziness to come in between their plans for the day, week, or year. Laziness tells you “Why not relax”? you can always do it tomorrow. 

Laziness tells you that you should not rush for anything, you should take things low. If you want to be productive, you just have to avoid letting laziness give you a guide in life.

Productive Health

Productive health is all about being happy in life. good health is a result of taking good care of yourself on both the inner and outer path. 

Productive health is generated by the peace that you have within yourself.

You can’t have a productive life if you don’t do productive things. 

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10 signs you’re falling in love with someone

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Do you know that most people do fall in love with someone while they are still just friends without even knowing? It is their fault that they don’t know? Of course is not, the only issue is that signs you’re falling in love was just hanging around but they never read it.

falling in love is something that we can’t control. most times, it just happens with this, sometimes, we just can’t explain.

Read Also: Signs he wants you in his future

Note this: Falling in love is not a bad thing, perhaps, it is a beautiful thing, but who you are falling for, is what matters the most. so when you falling for someone, ensure that it’s the person your heart says you should love.

But before we look at the signs you’re falling in love, let’s, first of all, look at what falling in love means.

Falling in love: This is the process whereby someone starts developing emotional feelings for someone either knowingly or unknowingly to the person.

Now we know what it means, let’s see the signs you’re falling in love;

You smile at the person regularly: One thing you can hide from your friends or colleague is when you develop feelings for someone. No matter how you want to hide it and pretend that you are not falling for the person, you can’t hide it from others.

And one of the things that expose you to your friends is your smile. When you are falling in love with someone, you will see yourself smiling at the person anytime you have eye contact with each other.

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Love has a kind of wind that blows to you that you can’t resist.

You defend the person at all times: Have you ever stood up against your friends just for a lady or a man before? then you are in love/crushing on the person.

Someone who is in love with you or who is secretly crushing on you will not be able to sit and watch someone or people bullying you without rising for you.

The person fills your thought: When you are falling for someone, there is a possibility that you will not be able to think straight all because you keep hearing his voice on your ear, whenever you want to close your eye, you keep seeing her or him.

Stop asking yourself what is going on with you, because you are falling in love with the person.

You enjoy his chats/calls: Sometimes ago, you two used to chat for maybe 20 minutes only, but now, you can chat with the person even from morning to night, you are not tired nor feel like chatting with someone else. That’s love.

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5 Low Appetite: Have you felt like being with someone on the phone, or face to face is better than getting into the kitchen to get something to eat? Is not laziness, is the love magic that is working.

You are in love with the person in a way that you don’t want to miss any chance of having a chat with him or her. so you can skip food just to be with the person.

6 Joy Overflow: Love brings peace, joy, and happiness into everyone’s life. having someone that loves you just as you love them, is something that even money cannot give you that.

7 Your Heartbeats faster: People’s hearts do not beat fast by just seeing or talking with someone except they are in shock. but when you feel your heart beating as if it going to fall off, just know that you are medically okay.

It is just your heart desiring for something so serious.

8 You become motivated: one of the signs you’re falling in love is that when this takes place in your heart, you will see yourself being ready to put any idea into action without wasting time.

You just feel like a big responsibility has been added to you that you have to ensure that you become productive.

READ ALSO: Productive things to do

9 Seeing him becomes your priority: It is said “where your heart is, that’s where your treasure is”. You can’t say you love someone if they are not also your priority, that’s which you just can’t stay a day without seeing him or her and then still feel comfortable.

10 He has a big space in your heart: You can’t give someone a bigger space in your life just like that except you are in falling in love with the person.

No matter how much you love your friends, they can never fill all the space in your heart. but when one person among your friends, start occupying those space more than other friends of yours, you start seeing yourself feeling even more comfortable with just his or her company,

then it is one of the signs you’re falling in love with that your friend.

So if you ever had any of those feelings, just know that you are feeling in love with someone.

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Reasons why dating your best friend is great

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 dating your best friend is great

Dating your best friend is one of the best and great ideas someone who wants to be happy can take but this does not mean that if you are not dating your best friend, you will not be happy. Dating your bestie has a lot of advantages when compared to dating a total stranger who you are trying to get to know. That is why, in this article, we are going to discuss a few important reasons this kind of partner is great.

When you are dating someone, it means that you are there for a purpose and not just a one-night stand and no matter what the purpose is, you want to be happy in the process of fulfilling does purpose.

What is the importance of dating your best friend?

1 Solid Understanding: Have you ever wondered why a lot of relationships don’t work today? It is because the couples have no mutual understanding and that is one fine thing about introducing friendship into your relationship before getting married.

You need understanding for your relationship to work and you cannot get this from a total stranger until they get to know you. That is why dating your best friend comes number one in this.

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Your best friend is someone that you understand and he or she understands your kind of person too because that is what makeup best friends. Understanding each other and then still choosing each other to hang around as best.

2 You can be yourself when your partner is around: Have you ever seen couples who act so obedient and perfect in the presence of their partner? If you haven’t, I have.

When I was in college, I had a friend although we are still friends now just that distance keeps us apart, whenever his girlfriend comes around maybe in the class or café, the guy will start dancing on his chair thinking of standing up or hiding or running, etc. and this thing happens for some period so one day, we decided to ask him why he likes acting that way when they girl comes around is he afraid of the girl? His response shocked me.

He said, “ Is not that I am scared of her, the only problem is that she always suspects me whenever I talk with any lady and threaten to break up”. It was funny but still, I didn’t know what that got to do with us because we have been 4 in our click since High school and that makes us his best buddies. (Two girls two guys).

I was curious so I asked again, to clarify things for us “what does that got to do when you are with us”?

He said the girl don’t even want to see him with ladies including us in fact, especially us. Wow. That was a blow. This is a guy that the four of us have been friends with since high school, since before they two started dating and you are not only stopping girls from coming closer but also his friends.

But I couldn’t blame the girl because she didn’t understand the kind of guy she was dating and I don’t think she knew how uncomfortable she was making the guy feel. With this, communication is hard.

SEE ALSO: 9 warning signs she doesn’t like you

The guy wasn’t himself because they lack mutual understanding and when it is lacking in the relationship, point 3 comes in.

3 Trust: The girl didn’t trust the guy and she was doing everything to ensure that she save her relationship not knowing that she is ruining it herself. Lack of trust birth forth insecurity.

Your best friend understands you, meaning you don’t need to fake just to please him and just to please her. This only happens because you know and you are confident that he or she trust you and know that you will not do anything funny to ruin the relationship, especially the friendship.

 4 The right expectation: As a lady, you can’t go and date a man that does not understand the importance of serving his partner breakfast on bed and be expecting him to show that gesture one day of course no, it won’t happen especially when he doesn’t know that you are one of those ladies that love that action.

But if you were to be dating your best friend, he will know what fantasies are and how to sweep you off your feet even when you are angry.

Some best friends understand their friends even more than their friends understand themselves. This is because when they were having fun and laughing their lungs out, their friends mentioned the things they wish to do with their partners when they find one so they jot that down in their brain for future use.

So your friend knows your expectation from them, your plans for the future and they also know the things you don’t like and don’t wish for.

Can a best friend be a soulmate?

It is not all best friends that are soulmates. Some best friends were just created to be friends and friends they shall remain. But if you are dating your best friend and you are enjoying it, then congrats to you because you have found your treasure.

Your soulmate is someone to which you feel connected without any motive but it just happens.

SEE ALSO: Signs you are with your soulmate

 

What is it like dating your best friend?

Wow hold on, let’s take it slow, haha. Dating your best friend can give you the best feeling ever because you will not feel insecure this is because you know who and what your partner is, you feel protected, not because he will join forces but it is because he will be very possessive and protective of you.

You will be able to develop self-confidence because you have someone that believes in you and your dreams. You will feel satisfied. Your friend knowing you even before you guys started dating is a big help to stop relationship anxiety.

That stress and adjustment that new couples do so that their partner will take them seriously will not apply to you because you know that your partner knows both in and out of you i.e is the good side and the bad side.

But also it can be something for ladies that enjoys playing hard-to-get game before dating a guy. And since you are dating your best friend, the space for hiding your feelings or hiding something from him is reduced to 20% haha don’t worry because the 80% is for the positive vibes of it.

I am telling you this from experience because my partner today, has been my best friend since college and we are still friends to date. SEE ALSO: Christopher’s love story

 

Which is best relationship or friendship?

There are a lot of things you can do in a friendship that you cannot do in a relationship because you are scared if you take that action that your relationship may break. But with friendship, they are room for mutual understanding.

For your relationship to work, there are a lot of demands you will have to put in place and some are, adjusting in others to fit into your partner’s life. You may even have to change your identity to who you are not just to please them but with friendship, you don’t have to do all that.

Friends choose you for who you are or for what you carry and not because of who they want you to be. They don’t try instilling the part in which you don’t have except they know that you have it but cannot discover it, then they will help you discover it on your own.

Now that we have seen a little difference between the 2, which is the best relationship or friendship? I hope you choose correctly.

 

“I dedicate this certificate of return to you my dear wife” mercy Johnson’s husband, prince Okojie dedicates his certificate of return to her, praises her for her unending support

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Actress Mercy Johnson’s husband, Prince Odi Okojie, has lavished praise on her for her assistance with his campaign.

 

 

Mercy was hailed by her husband for being the epitome of a devoted wife, which contributed to his success.

 

 

 

Prince Odi Okojie is the the newly elected representative for Esan South/North East in the Edo State House of Representatives.

 

 

 

He observed how their powerful unity had let them soar, not because of our perfections, but rather because God had fixed His eyes on them for all time.

 

 

Sharing a picture of them together, he wrote : “MY BEAUTIFUL DARLING WIFE.

 

 

“Words will fail me if I have to describe you and what you mean to me over and over again. When I count my blessings, your place on my list is NUMBER ONE, nothing or no one can ever change that.

 

 

“Our formidable union have continued to soar not because of our perfections. Are we even perfect? It is largely because God got His eyes on us permanently fixed. You are the best thing that ever happened to me and everyone can see it Clearly.

 

 

“Queen of my Life, may I seize this once more to adore you immensely for your fervent role in this humongous call to serve my people, out people. For the invaluable support you keep rendering, for the timeless backing you huge me for the unending prayers, love, care and everything deserving of a man in my place, I say thank you my darling wife. Obulu!! Obulu!! Obulu!!!

 

 

“You have endeared yourself as a truly blessed ‘Obhiaha’ of a reputable standards to my Esan Heritage, you have demonstrated what a true supportive wife should be and this has landed us many successes and by the special Grace of God Almighty we will journey together hand in hand to the end in our continued quest for our humanitarian and philanthropic outreaches in mind service to humanity.

 

 

“Before I drop off, I want you to know that my love and appreciation to you for all your effort to this victory for our Constituency is immeasurable and may God in His infinite Love and Mercy, continue to shine His light of glory on you, for in me is the reflection of that grace, abundance, splendour, and grandeur your bare.

 

 

For this and many more, I am dedicating this certificate of Return to you my dear wife. Your quintessential role in the entire process leading up to this win earns it for you”.

 

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THINGS TO NOTE IN RELATIONSHIP.

1. When you keep calm as a lady, you drive him crazy, keeping him thinking that there is

some thing peculiar about you.

 

2. When he sends you abusive message, do

not reply back with abusive word, if you must

reply. Write “I’m sorry”. Or thank you.

 

3. No man likes to be talked back to. If you

must be a wife material, just shut up. When

he is calm, talk things over.

 

4. Don’t be arrogant, be humble .

 

5. Don’t be carried away by your beauty.. Have

you not seen beautiful ladies that are still

single till date? Your character keep him.

6. Do not compare him with your EX. there

are thousand of other ladies out there. Forget

about the past, old things have passed away.

 

7 . Don’t always be at the receiving end, buy

him some thing, no matter how little it is,

whether he has thousands of it, just buy it,

yours is unique.

 

8. Be industrious, men like ladies with

industrious mind.

 

9. Respect him and his family members.

 

10. Be a good cook, learn how to cook

something. Some ladies can only cook

noodle.

11. Value yourself, and he will value you.

 

12. Because he doesn’t have today does not

make him poor, look at what drives Him.

 

13. Look out, if he is a time waster or he is

for real.

 

14. Can he “fight” both physically and

spiritually for you?

 

15. Where is He? In God’s presence or on the

other side.

 

16. If he stammers, when he is introducing

you to friends and family member. Run!

17. What you can’t change in HiM, now that

you are dating, am sorry in marriage you

won’t be able to change it either, or you will

spend the rest of your life trying to change

him.

 

18. You are dating and he punches you at

every slightest misunderstanding.. Sorry,

when you marry him, your bed room will be a

“changing room” and your sitting-room a

“boxing ring”

 

19. Every little time, he threatens to break up

with you. You start crying, if you leave me i

will die”… who told you? A better person who

will value you is coming. Relax.

 

20. Above all. Ask yourself! What is GOD

saying about the Relationship? May God open

your eyes if you are already into

one, and if you are still searching May God

lead you through amen

LOVE YOU ALL!!!

6 signs of emotionally unavailable in a person you need to know

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signs of emotionally unavailable in a person

It is one sweet thing for you to be in love with someone and the person in return is in love with you too. but it hurts when you are the only one in love with the person yet the person is completely emotionally unavailable with you.

For someone to be emotionally unavailable, it means that the person is not completely in love with someone. because someone can only be available for you if they are in love with you.

Someone who is emotionally unavailable in a relationship is someone who is not ready to share his or her feelings with you, and no matter how much you love the person, she can’t love you in return except she starts opening up to you.

after all these, how do you know nor detect when someone is emotionally unavailable with you:

The truth is that, there is always a sign and down here are few signs:

1 You are invisible: Someone who is in love with you will always notice you, your presence, your dressing, etc.

When you are invisible to someone, you cannot be appreciated no matter what you do for them or to please them, and you don’t have to blame them because it is not their fault.

The only thing is that they are not emotionally available for you. that’s their heart is far from you.

2 They don’t play as a team: relationship or marriage includes two persons, and that means that the two persons have to perform as a team if they really want to succeed.

But when your partner does not care about your own ideas or contribution to anything done in the house, it means that he or she is emotionally unavailable in that relationship.

READ ALSO: How to make him to commit

3 Full of excuses: You are tired of everything, day excuses over one thing or the other day by day. It is not their fault, they just don’t know how to open up and tell you things the way there are.

So to avoid breaking your heart, they decided to be using excuses to cover up just so you won’t suspect anything.

4 Distance: Being physically distant from your partner is different from being emotionally distant from him or her.

Although they are some persons that do not welcome long distance in a relationship but emotionally unavailable is different from sight unavailability.

Spicing up your home or relationship will help bring back the emotions that were once there, that’s if it is not long gone.

How do you spice it up? You can check it out here

5 Not Ready To Commit: Someone who is not emotionally available to you, will never commit to you even if you shower them with gifts except there is another motive behind it.

But note this, no matter what the motive might be, and they decided to use that to fake the commitment, just wait and see that it won’t last because the person will start cheating on you with someone that he or she is in love with.

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What are the causes of emotionally unavailability

Most times this does not happen because we want it to happen, but it just happens.

It can be caused by fear, yeah, someone who has been hurt before by someone will be very careful to commit again to another person to avoid being hurt again.

And in the result of that, becomes unavailable.

A business mindset is another main reason why some career men and women do not like to commit because for them to commit, it means that they will have to drop somethings.

And that kind of change? they are not ready, with this, they ensure they don’t put their hearts into the relationship thereby causing them to be emotionally unavailable in someone they are with.

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10 Important Things a man wants in a relationship

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If you look from a far distance, it may seem like a lot of men do not have a choice when it comes to being in a relationship but that’s not it, there are things a man wants in a relationship that if there are not found in a particular lady, they just move along or sit and past time.

 

From the very first and second day of your relationship with the man, he has already started scoring you in terms of things a man wants in a relationship likewise the lady.

 

What a lady wants in a relationship is kind of slightly different from things a man wants in a relationship which means that as a lady, the things you want from your partner in the relationship, your partner also wants the same from you. 

So to get what you want, you also need to give it out.

 

1 A strong woman: a woman who can withstand whatever life throw at them, they still stand their ground and do not change along with the situation.

 

2 A caring woman: as a woman, calling your partner first to ask him how his day is going, does not make you less than a woman.

 

Calling your man to check on him is a sign that you care about his welfare too in as much as he cares about you too. 

 

So as a woman, you must know that caring is one of the things a man wants in a relationship and they are not above being cared for also.

 

3 A motherly heart: You don’t have to buy gifts for a man before you can show him that your heart is with him. therefore how can you do this?

 

You can show a man that your heart is with him by trying all your possible best to be at his side when he is down or depressed. when he feels like talking to someone, give him a listening ear, Talk to him by giving him some motherly advice.

 

Distance may be the issue in this aspect of your relationship, but the truth is that you don’t need to be very close with your man before you can show him your motherly side of life that’s if you have one.

 

But if you don’t have, you will need to work on that because among all the things a man wants in a relationship, they need a woman who can speak to them as a mother could speak to a grow-up son but still with respect.

 

A supportive woman: To be a supporter, you do not need to be financially okay before you can support your man. Since your man does support you when you need it, don’t wait for him to ask you for assistance before you can make a move.

 

Note: It is not all men that know how to keep their pride as a man and then ask a lady for support. so know your kind of man and be there for him when he needs you just as he is always there for you.

 

A good home manager: A good home manager is a woman who does not showcase her man’s weakness in public.

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A good home manager is a woman who is ready to cover up her man’s nakedness both in the house and outside. she speaks the same voice as her man when they are with friends.

She is someone who doesn’t make friends know that her man

 

A faithful woman: What many men use in knowing a faithful woman is when they are broke or pretend to be broke. But that’s not true, a woman who is not mending to be faithful to you will not be even if you are broke or rich. 

 

A faithful woman is a faithful woman no matter your condition or your current condition in life.

As a man, all you have to do is show her love, don’t ever hide from her how much you love her if you truly do, and then sit and see her being faithful to you.

 

So if you are a faithful woman in nature, don’t ever give your man the impression that if he goes broke that faithful will depart from the relationship.

8 A secured lady: insecurity only generates an inferiority complex, and when a lady is so insecure in her relationship with someone, trust can never be built, and the relationship is likely to scatter in a short time.

 

No woman ever feels secure in her relationship and still has the time to monitor her man’s movements day in, and day out except if she wants an unhealthy relationship.

 

9 A woman who can cook: Although not all men that go for women who can cook as long as they are rich, they can always afford a servant. 

But still, one thing you need to know is that “any woman who can control a man’s stomach, can control his heart”.

 

If you don’t know how to cook, then learn it, because one day, you may need it to surprise your man and also use it in getting your man back to the house.

Things a man wants in a relationship

 

9 A romantic woman: one of the things men want in a relationship or marriage is a woman who knows what being romantic in a relationship can do for the relationship.

 

As a woman, your man is trying to make the relationship or home lively with all he can, and with all his moves, you still behave as if you are not seeing it.  

That kind of relationship will not stand. Learn to reciprocate love when you are given one, at times, be the one to generate it.

 

To make the relationship work, you must agree to work with your partner to make things turn out the way you two want it, or else, you will lose it when he is finally tired of trying.

And then start looking for another woman that will be ever ready to reciprocate it even more than he is showing.

Learn how to spice up your relationship

 

10 A real woman: A real woman is a woman who does not fake her personality just to get a man’s attention. A real woman is a woman who knows what it takes to keep a man.

 

She is a woman who knows that nagging and shouting are never a solution to a misunderstanding between her and her man.

She is a woman who knows that it takes more than physical beauty to keep a man.

Now you know a few things a man wants in a relationship, Who are you, and where do you belong?

 

Remember that whatever a man does in the relationship is indirectly one of the things a man wants in a relationship. that’s to say that he will not like to act the opposite of what he wants from you.

Thank you for coming. please rate the article if it was helpful. Thank you.

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How to Maintain a Relationship

How to Maintain a Relationship Long Distance

How to Maintain a Relationship Long Distance

Being in love is sweet especially if you are with the right person but then even being with the right person does not guarantee that you will not have a breakdown in your relationship in the process when you don’t know how to maintain a relationship Long Distance.

That is why it is necessary for everyone who wants to be in love or who wants to find love while trying out a relationship with someone to know because it is only when you know how to maintain a relationship that you will be able to know if who you are with, is the right person or not.

But if you are confused if what you have been doing or if how you have been handling the relationship is great don’t worry because, in this article, we are going to discuss a few ways and things we can do to maintain our relationship that we value and don’t want to lose it. So keep reading because we all need this if we want to build a long term relationship

Before we start with the ways to maintain it, I must make some things clear. If you are in a relationship with someone who is close don’t say this article does not concern you because knowing how to maintain a relationship long distance can also be used to maintain a short distance relationship.

How to maintain a relationship long-distance and a short distance

Below here are the few ways you can maintain your relationship;

1 Never try to change your partner: I know you may disagree with me on this because your guy does not complain about the changes you are bringing upon him and I get it but let me explain it to you, change is good and everybody in one way or the other wants to change for someone who loves them and they love the person too.

right person does not guarantee that you will not have a breakdown in your relationship in the process when you don’t know how to maintain a relationship Long Distance

But then when you are trying to change everything about him, it means transformation and that means you didn’t even love who he was you only accepted him because you knew you will change him to become who you want.

But let me ask you, after that what? A man wants a woman that will first love him and then touch some part of his life for a change but that does not mean that you should change him completely.

You have to learn to accept him for who he is and not who you want him to be. Try and touch things in his life but don’t try to change him completely because one day when he is tired of faking, it will be either he walks out on you or he starts cheating on you. Either of them.

With your love, your partner can choose to change on his own without waiting for you to point out his faults for him and that is how love works and not the other way round. Stop trying to change your partner. If he is not good for you, then don’t accept to be his partner as simple.

2 Value their dreams and visions: I know that their plans may not be the best way to handle some things but then before you try to control them, ensure that you first try and show them that you have an interest in whatever plan they have for life or whatsoever. Have an interest in what they have an interest in and never try to control them.

3 Communication: if you want a future for your relationship, never cut off communication. It is not everyone that enjoys phone calls but no one hates video calls, ensure that you learn how to do video calls with your partner.

Seeing her face and seeing your face helps generate something within the heart of your partner without you knowing. But if you want to know what is generated, check the eyes because the eyes can’t lie.

4 Take pictures: Physical attraction still works as one of the things that helps a relationship to stand. But how,

When you dress well, you end up making your partner focus his or her attention on you. Most times, you just have to learn how to dress to impress someone that you love so much in your life. Let someone be proud of you and your beauty.

There are a lot of other ways to maintain a long-distance relationship, but these are the top 4, and no matter what ways you choose, ensure that you don’t miss communication because communication and understanding are the keys.

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5 Outstanding things about Tyler Perry you should know

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What do you know about Tyler Perry?

Tyler Perry who is popularly known as Medea as a character name is a producer, film-maker, screenwriter, actor, comedian, etc.

He was born on September 13, 1969, and in 2021, he has officially begun a billionaire.

Tyler Perry is not just a celebrity who is busy making money from his acting, instead, he is a role model to many setting a good example to both the blacks and whites.

He is a public figure with which any woman will not have an issue if their child says they want to believe him.

2 Tyler Perry movies

The 51 years old Tyler Perry has produced a lot of movies since he got into the industry. His movies are inspirational, which includes comedy, etc.

Some of Tyler Perry movies are has follows,

1 Tyler Perry’s house of Payne

2 The Oval

3 The haves and the have nots

4 Tyler Perry’s Young Dylan, etc

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3 Who is Tyler Perry’s son

Tyler Perry has a son by name Aman Tyler Perry who is only 5 years old.

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4 Is Tyler Perry married

As of recent, the celebrity just broke up with his girlfriend which they have been together for a long time.

5 He is a giver:

Nothing counts when you make your money and become a billionaire when you don’t know how to touch someone’s life. Medea is not just an actor but a preacher and a giver.

he has touched many lives in many different forms both financially, and otherwise. He is God-sent.

6 History of Medea

It is true that most times people do things according to how life treats them. Tyler Perry has a rough childhood but he was pushed by life itself to ensure that he succeeds and give his children a better life than he never had.

Tyler Perry popularly known as Medea is the first black man to own a studio outside of Georgia.

He has been in a relationship for a long time with his girlfriend by name Gelila Bekele. which means that right now, the 51 years old producer is single.

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