10 SIGNS HE LOVES YOU MORE DEEPLY THAN YOU EVER KNOW

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 SIGNS HE LOVES YOU SO DEEPLY

He loves me so much, he checks up on me at all times, he is a nice guy, etc the question is, does he believe in you? How does he behave when you are with a male colleague? What about his friends?? When he believes in you, that’s a sign he loves you. What do I mean?

Love generates trust and trust generates belief and therefore belief brings forth understanding.

The best gift a man can give to you as his woman is to love you from his heart. Because when he does, insecurity and negativity give way for faithfulness and understanding to set in.

Quote me anywhere, “No home can stand a test of time if there is no belief and understanding.

One of the signs he loves you is that he believes in you and that  does not only have to do with romance kind of belief only but also

1. Your dreams.  A man who loves you and also wants you in his future will always have an interest in your dreams too and not just that, he will also try to generate a positive vibe to motivate you never to give up.

2.  He believes in your abilities:  A man who loves you will not try to use your weak point against you knowingly to him. Because he knows what you can do, what you can’t do, and what you will never do no matter what pressure it comes with. And that generates trust.

3.  He believes in the future: there are only a few men that can ask you about your plans for the future therefore if you happen to have such a man as a friend or fiance then hold him tight enough because it is also one of the many signs he loves you and cares not only about you of now, but then, you of tomorrow.

4.  He will be excited about your achievements: it is only a few men that feel this way when their women achieve something big.

Men always feel like since they are the head of the family, that they suppose to earn more than the wife nor anyone in the family, not the other way round.

But when it happens in the opposite direction of what they expected, then inferiority complex steps in and plays with their heads, and if care is not taken, they give in, then start using their own hands and jealousy to spoil their homes.

But a man who believes in you even when he’s jealous of you will comfortably invest his time to assist you on your project or profession Because He will always see your success as his success too.

When your wife succeeds, that’s you succeeding. Don’t let the mindset of ” If she earns more than me she won’t respect me again this and that. Because it will spoil your home for you.

They are still many ladies out there who still love and respect their husbands even when she knows very well that she contributes 60-70% of whatever the family needs.

Don’t use what Mr. Paul told you about his woman success behavior turn around and ruin your home. It is your home, your family, not Mr. Paul’s family.

So never compare your woman and you as a woman never compare your man to your friend’s husband or your EX. He is your ex because he wasn’t good enough to be in your present life so let him/her remain in the ex-world.

All home/women can’t be the same. Celebrate your woman’s accomplishment as well as she celebrates yours. You can’t harvest what you never investing no matter how she pretends one day she will be tired of it. So appreciate what you have don’t wait until you lose it.

5. A man who believes in you will not doubt your faithfulness: yea things happen which makes it hard for people to easily trust, but I want to ask ” why did you even marry her or him when you knew that you have a trust issue”?

Nothing hurts, like you trying all your possible best to be faithful to your partner yet he or she is still not helping matters due to trust issues.

A home without trust, do not function well, not because you don’t want it to work but because every effort you or your partner makes or puts seems like a waste of time, and effort and time are precious.

So value what you have and try not to scatter your home because you can’t trust someone.

It isn’t a must that you should trust your partner completely, but at least try because apart from saving your home, it will also help you in many ways like;

1. No high blood pressure

2. Peaceful siesta (a peaceful siesta is a nag that you take in the afternoon without thinking of how many ladies your man has touched or collected contacts from today.

3. Your kid’s health. one thing we ladies need to know is that the more you doubt your man and be fighting every day, hurts your kid’s health, emotion, spiritual life, Academy, social life, etc.  

Your kids should be one of your priorities when dealing with issues.

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6. He Gives You Attention: nothing interests us ladies like our men giving us attention even without asking.  Attention doesn’t mean him not doing anything in a day except sitting down at home to give a chat with you.

But attention in the area of him asking about your day, health, work, plans, your worries, your stupid jokes, your gossip even when he is not interested in your girls to talk.

7. He Gives You a breathing space:  there is a difference between insecurity and showing that you want someone.

You can still show that you want your partner without giving them the impression that you are feeling insecure.

If your man still lets you have some moment to yourself to sit with friends, communicate with other people even with the opposite sex without checking on you every minute to know if you are laughing with other guys.

It simply means that he believes you thereby trusting you that no matter who you chat with or sit with, you only belong to him and that he is not sharing you with any other man.

And that’s a sign he loves you.

8.  He Speaks For You:  anything or anyone that you believe in is worth protecting. So don’t be so blind that you don’t decode that he loves you even if he receives a slap or gets bullied because of you.

9. He smiles at you: so smile can be fake but when someone frequently smiles at you, you can always detect when he is showing affection.

There are so many other signs he loves you. But for now, know these first signs he loves you before the intimacy aspect which is coming very soon.

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6 REASONS YOU SHOULD MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND

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MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND


Having a peaceful and understanding marriage Is what everyone ever prays for but most times it likes those wishes are far from what they later got in their marriage. Does that mean that marriage is not a good thing? No, marriage is a good thing, the certainty is that it was originally ordained by God to mankind.


Many people encounter bad marriage with that they end up in divorce as if divorcing is the final solution or option they got.
You can still save your marriage by making your spouse your best friend.
What do I mean here, what I mean is that all it takes to save your marriage is for you to marry your best friend.

WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIEND:


1. IS YOUR SCHOOL MATE: Being your school mate in this aspect doesn’t mean you both must attend the same Nursery, high school, or college together.
In this aspect, it simply means someone you can learn things with, someone who knows that no one is perfect that life itself is a learning process, whereby he/she is ready to learn alongside you.
In the process of doing that, you two keep on growing together in knowledge.

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2.  YOUR BEST FRIEND IS YOUR PLAYMATE: There is no happy home without fun. I don’t mean fun only when you need something from your spouse, I mean leisure even when you are not demanding sex or money.


Ladies in the site, how will you feel if while cooking or making some cookies in the kitchen and your husband steps in pretending to be kissing you but end up running away from the kitchen with one of your cookies???
Men in the site, how will you feel if your wife steps into the living room while sitting with the guys and leave you with an unexpected kiss? Is lovely,, right?


Now, watch out for such marriages because that’s a happy home and that only occurs because they understand each other, they know what each other are capable of, the likes and dislikes. They know their limit. This occurs when you marry your best friend.


3. IS YOUR TWINS: Did I say marry your sister or your brother?? No ooooo lol twin here means to marry someone who looks like you, thinks like you, someone you are compatible with.
It may be in your way of life, character-wise, etc. Someone who wants what you want,  someone who is not the opposite of your very self but instead he/she is your carbon copy.


4. IS YOUR SECRET KEEPER: Having someone you can share your secrets with and not getting scared that you will hear it from a third party aside from the two of you, is a good thing and you can only share that with your best friend, not your lover.


5. IS ALWAYS HONEST WITH YOU: If you do things and everyone claps hands for you always and no one questions you or rebuke you when you are wrong then it means you are with the wrong people, which will not help you to grow.


Your best friend is someone who will treat your fuck up and still take you back no matter what crazy thing you did.


6. YOUR OUTING MATE: If you have someone around you yet you don’t feel comfortable or energetic, it simply means that you are with the wrong person, so you need to figure it out before it’s too late.


Whosoever you are with should be like a duplicate of you. This means you both needs to think alike sometimes. 

7. HE IS YOUR PRAYER PARTNER: That’s nothing that interest one in marriage when it comes to spiritual matters like marrying a man or woman who prays the same prayer point with you instead of praying the opposite.


I can go on and on telling you who your best friend is or who your best friends are but I will not do that, I will stop here for now and therefore walk you through more things about best friend.

Qualities Of A Best Friend


1. Honesty
2. Understanding
3. Supportive
4. Accommodating

After listing a few of these,  now the question is why should you marry your best friend?
1. Your best friend will always be honest with you
2. He/she will not be learning how to understand you because it was already established.
3. Communication will not be hard to establish either.


4.  After communication and understanding, you need a fun and lively home, that’s where accommodation comes into play.
If you are a fun kind of person, you will also have a best friend that is living like you, and that will help in making your marriage fun.


5.  He or she knows your likes and dislikes.
6. He/she knows your flaws but still hangs around like a best friend to support you even when there is reason to give up but no, I can’t leave my best friend because he needs me now more than ever.


Note this, that’s the best quality of a good best friend. So don’t joke with this kind of people.

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WHY FRIENDSHIP SHOULD COME BEFORE RELATIONSHIP

4 Interesting Reason Why You Need to Build Friendship before Relationship

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FRIENDSHIP AND RELATIONSHIP

 

Friendship and relationship are two different things. The things that are not working during mutual attachment can not work during a relationship. that is why it is necessary to start any relationship with anyone with friendship then taking it to the next level.

Most times when I tell friends and family that I value friendship most times more than intimate, there is a question I usually receive that is;

Does friendship matter before the relationship? Can’t I get into a relationship first before becoming the person’s friend?

Well, you can still start a relationship before friendship. the fact is that most of them do end in tears because you will go and see the kind of lifestyle you never expected and that occurs because you knew nothing about him and his ways of life. 

But note this, a man or a lady who isn’t qualified to be your friend can’t be your wife or your husband. The enemy you know is better than the friend you don’t know. 

Friendship has a lot and a huge role to play in your relationship. 

 

Now let’s see the advantages 

CLOSE FRIENDSHIP VS RELATIONSHIP

WHY YOU NEED TO BUILD FRIENDSHIP BEFORE RELATIONSHIP

• Friendship brings freedom: there are something’s you can’t do with your lover or in the presence of someone you call your lover, but you can say it or do it in front of your best friend. 

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• Secrets Shared: You can’t hide everything from your friend, but you can hide almost if not everything from your lover.

• You will get to know the real person. The atmosphere for fakeness is less than in a relationship.

• You will know his likes. One of the things that are just necessary for a relationship is “compatibility” No matter what you do nor try if you and your partner are not compatible, then there is no forever hope for the relationship nor marriage.

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THEREFORE WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU CAN BE COMPATIBLE WITH

  1. Daily activities; If he is a 23hours working kind of man and one hour for you and the family, if you are the opposite, which means you don’t like such busy guys, but you prefer a man that spends most of his time doing things with his family then you are not compatible.

2. The way he/she treats family: it is very easy for one to fake to be very caring and loving during a relationship, but hard to fake during friendship and marriage. that’s why you will easily hear people saying “he was not like this when I married him”, “If I knew you were this wicked, I couldn’t have married you, woman” etc.

Now in things like this, if you want to find out, you will discover that most of them just started from a date to a relationship, then marriage.

More than half (1/2%) percent of women, that are in a relationship today, can do the undo just to keep their man, and no matter how you fake the relationship/marriage, it won’t last.

Note: “When you use fakeness to keep a relationship, you will use fakeness to maintain it”. Apst. Jordan Akada.

IS FROM FRIENDSHIP INTO RELATIONSHIP IMPORTANT

Yes, from friendship into relationship is very important as it is going to help you and your partner to grow together in love, understanding, and unity.

It will also help you both to understand that being a grown up does not mean that you are above fun in the home like example pillow fighting,playing of cards, games etc.

many of these can only occur if there is friendship between you two in the relationship.

DO THE BEST RELATIONSHIPS START AS FRIENDSHIPS

From my research, I will say yes to this, and what is your own view? Love is not always constant, it can always fate away, and if no understanding, the relationship dies. Now understanding Can only occur if friendship was already on the ground. 

Friendship keeps your relationship/marriage lively. Lively in this aspect means fun and entertaining. So if you want to have a good and happy relationship, start with friends so that you can deal with and sort out what is necessary before you step into the relationship.

WHO IS MORE IMPORTANT FRIENDS OR LOVER

Lovers can always come and go but friendship stands a taste of time. 

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HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRONGER

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  1. Share things.
  2. Share quality time doing what you two like best.
  3. Go on a date at least once every month. It helps to bring back memories.
  4. Cook together.
  5. Be who you are.
  6. Listen
  7. Ask for a suggestion from your partner.
  8. Give room for conversation.
  9. Learn to forgive for no one is above mistakes.
  10. Work as a team.
  11. Be honest etc.
  12. Have funs

friendship and relationship is very important in marriage.

Now i ask, friendship and relationship, which one do you prefer to exist first?

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THE WORLD TURNS AROUND

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THE WORLD TURNS AROUND

One thing that people do not know nor remember is that the world does not stay in one place but instead the world turns around.
Just as the world turns around, so is life. The person you see today may not be the same when you see him/her the next day.
The things you have and value so much today, was once someone’s fairly used.

Many people do silly things today because of inferiority complexion, but that’s how life suppose to be, turn by turn. But instead of waiting for our time, we now move further to achieve it sharply no matter the cost.

WHY DOES THIS ACT OCCUR?

1.Inferiority Complex: This most times take place when we see our junior colleague or our mate using things that we can’t afford due to our financial limitation, then we start feel less of ourselves and questioning our capacity.

2. No Peace: Once inferiority complex sets in, you are likely to have no peace of mind and without peace, you will be driven by jealousy and ideas both good and evil ides.

3. Comparison: As human, wanting to feel among is in our nature and it turns around to become a lifestyle of many if not more than half of human. When comparison set in, you will try to do anything to stand your ground and prove a point.

4. Circle Of Friends: The friends we keep most times determine where we are going in life. There is what we called influence, your friends can influence you to do what you yourself will never in your life time sit down and plan to do for your life.
But with friends, you can possibly do it before even thinking twice.
“So it is either you change your friend or your friend will change you. Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are.” Apst. Jordan Akada

  • Let me tell you a little story about friend.
    At college, I met a guy, this guy was a computer science student, according to his colleagues, he was damm good in what he does pertaining to his education. But after second year in the university his third year he changed both dressing and hair style etc.

Then I discover that he was making friends with people who were nothing like him academically, he tried his best to convert them into good student but instead, they turned around and converted him.

What do I mean here:
What I mean is that, they hardly attend lectures, but always available during exams and submission of assignment. They were non student, he tried his best according to him but instead, they turned around and converted him.

One day I met him around my lodge, we exchange pleasantries then I asked him his sudden change but he told me that he is trying to get into them so that he can change them and be bringing them to classes. All I told him was “be Careful”.

Few months later, he totally changed, no more lectures, he comes to exam hall late, his CGP came down from 4. 57 to 3.02.
Now that brilliant guy changed.

Your friends have a lot of role to play in your life that’s why you need to choose them wisely.
“Choose your friends don’t let your friends choose you” Mama Emem Jordan .
don’t let your current life or status brings you down, you are heading somewhere.

The power is on the inside of you. make use of it don’t let anyone run your life for you. hard times only comes to strengthen us and also to awaken us to sit up and review our lives…. but don’t allow lost to take over you…. just be patience and believe that the world turns around and one day, it will to your favor.

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MUST MARRY ME

Conviction is a firmly held belief, it is the state of being convinced. conviction can make you achieved anything you want if you really want it. conviction makes relationship to work.
I had a strong conviction that I will spent all the hours of my marriage days in a arm of a tall, gentle , caring, soft tone and energetic guy.

This believes didn’t waste time in forcing me to connect my emotion to it when I first meet Mike. God, the master designer, has equipped in me a fundamental instinct that always draws me to my desire in life. This sense of potential being realized is more fulfilling than any paycheck.

I was so into him and with my desperation for marriage gives me the feeling of fitting in, like a piece in a puzzle, to form a happy home and that should begin like right now, I let go my feminine decorum and i said to him, will you marry me? with my confidence that he was deep into me too, i felt accepted already, the smile that plastered allover my face showed i was happy.

But he said, Babe see I know you love me and i love you too but, immediately i heard the but”, i already knew what respond i was expecting, i quickly told him not to worry about money that I have 17,000 dollars from my late father’s foreign trust fund, at lease we can start with that. I was stain with a compulsory fever when he said but the problem is that am not ready for something so serious not to talk of marriage. Oh my God, i wasn’t really expecting this particular respond.

So, for eight(8) good years of relationship, he wasn’t still ready for a serious relationship? then what were we even doing? are you kidding me? Did i just waste eight years of my life with a man i thought i was seeing a future with. Hell no, I have to set things right, It is either you tell me when you will be ready to marry me or i walk out for good. I quickly lost the satisfaction of my innate gifts of conviction that always serve as a decision making contribution to my world.

Marry me or you let me go

Now, you may be wondering what happen and how the hell did i get myself mixed up in this…. well i will tell you.
It all started some years back at high school, i was loved by almost all and with that, my level and pride was beyond my control. Still 80% of students didn’t mind my pride they all wanted being my friends.

But one thing they didn’t know was that, i didn’t like making friends with people who rush me instead with people who open up to me and also with people who don’t care about my present in class or at the field.
But there was this guy i couldn’t get off my mind. His name was Mike.

Mike, was a transfer student, tall, huge and cute. Because of his physical look, he was also loved by many.
One day, while at the laboratory, Mike walked up to me, and said Hi,
I didn’t respond, because i wasn’t moved… Pause… Do you really think i didn’t respond and i wasn’t moved?
lol.. of course i responded, that was my chance and i couldn’t let it pass me by. but with my high self esteemed, i was able to compose myself so has not to embarrass myself.

We exchange contact, next usernames before you know it we became good friends…
We are perfect right? I am popular and loved by many and likewise him… Well i thought so too, Mike was just a person to me but also the place were I discover the direction of the steaming engine of my heart but i was wrong.
Through out our high school and college, we were together, we were like a couple already, our relationship was no more a secret.

Marry me or you let me go

After college, I started working in one of the IT company in Singapore, he started his own modeling company, i wasn’t against it at first but in the process of being famous, associating with many celebrities, he completely changed.

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I didn’t know the man i was living with anymore, every communication we had, always result in a fight, i no more had his attention anymore because he was always with his phone even while at the dinning unlike before.
When i complained to him about his sudden changes since he became famous, he was really mad, he thought i wasn’t happy for his success but i was… all i wanted was his attention, affection and love. Or was that too much to asked.

Then i realized i wasn’t married, that my happiness was in my hands. So i started going out with friends, colleague at work, i engaged myself in many things just to be myself.
One day, I got home around 11:30pm, i was tired because of the drink and fun i had with my friends after work, when i got home, he was right there at the sitting room waiting for my arrival.

Why are you back by this time of the night and who is the guy that dropped you? I was boiling inside, but i kept mute when i realized that he was getting jealous. I smile and then went straight to bed.
Around 7am in the morning, someone tried waking me up, when i finally woke up, guess who it was? Mike right beside the side of my bed with a cup of coffee for me…. could you believe that?

Good morning Sunshine, he said, Oh my God, was i dreaming, i had to close my eyes and opened truly it wasn’t a dream. i was surprise but i said Good morning. I quickly realized that the most fulfilled, confident people live their lives in the very midst of it, just as I was waking up to see myself inside another dream.

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He started apologizing for his cold behavior towards me for the past months, of course i was waiting for this day, but i knew that i had no right in his life yet, that’s when the idea came in.
Right there, I witness the restoration of my conviction, but how could I define this second phase of it? Am sure convictions are the products of what we have and what we want to have. They are the inner vehicles driving us from where we are to where we want to go.

I turned around and said to him, then let’s get married, he said eh…. i could hear his heart beat but i didn’t mind, i was now desperate to have full right in his life, with all my friends getting married and my family and friends asking me to leave him and get married, well, i was still deeply into him and i wasn’t ready to give up on what we shared so i pressed forward…but when should I let such a creative and resourceful spirit in the image of man slip away from my hand, what will I tell my conviction at the end?

Marry me or you let me go

Will you marry me? i said to him again this time in a well understanding and arranged matter. But he turned me down, because he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship yet, which means since high school and even eight years after college, a good job and good life, we weren’t still serious.
i was so angry with the respond that i had to move out from his life, thanks to my friends, they never allow me to be by myself since i left Mike, i was so heart broken.

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But the advise i got from Prof. Wilcox, a family psychologist kept me going, “Don’t waste your life on someone who don’t value nor deserve it. It is your happiness not theirs”, allow yourself to feel feelings, but don’t become your feelings. Find a support system exercise, cut off from what sucked, don’t judge the length of your healing process, take care of yourself. When i remember this, i said to myself, Am living well, am beautiful, intelligent, smart etc then what and why am i wasting my tears on a man.

Five months later, i went to south Africa on a business trip with my boss, we were to open a new branch there, during our stay flight section on air, i meant this guy Usanele, a tall, gentle, melody tune and muscular guy seating right next to me, smiling at me, he seems to be interested in the NEWYOLK TIMES magazine I was reading but of course I know men with their tricks. Love is a

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feeling that expresses itself in action. What we really feeling is reflected in what we do.

Usan. and i became friends, suddenly I noticed a soft breeze in my head, I quickly close my eyes to pick up what it was, behold it was my conviction again telling me yes yes yes this is the man. A year later, we got married. two years later, Mike came back looking so important, destiny fulfilled yet leaving the confines of his conventional cave and entering the space where his heart longs to reside and that place was me.

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I almost fainted seeing Mike on his knees asking to marry me but it was too late, I have already witness that once we embrace the conviction of identity, we understand why we were shaped and designed. We realize why we are rejected in other places and accepted in new places. Mike am sorry, its too late ,perhaps, i was happily married with a baby boy.

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13 POSITIVE QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE MARRIAGE TO AVOID DIVORCE

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 Questions To Ask Before Marriage

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There are things every single should know and questions to ask before marriage which is very important before getting or even thinking of getting married.

But first of all, before we start talking about the things every single should know, let’s talk about marriage. Are you with me?

 

Okay let’s continue,what is marriage?  Marriage is a constitution between two people from different background coming together in holy matrimony.

Marriage as a venue, is where learning isn’t really welcome but a place where you put all that you learnt into action to make things work around your home.

So before thinking of marriage, first ask yourself, what have I accomplished on my own? What am I going into my new home with, am I going in empty handed?

Note this, 80% of every spouse who goes into his/her matrimony home empty, hardly have respect nor a voice.

Am I wrong? Now I ask again, what have you accomplished.? Thinking of marriage is not wrong, but first of all, try working on who you are. before talking on questions to ask before marriage, let’s first of all look into;

THINGS EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW; (questions to ask before marriage)

 

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Relationship with God

  1. Your Relationship with God:

    your number one priority as a single individual is your relationship with God. Am I saying that when you are married that you don’t pray? No, what am saying is that, the way you fellowship with God now is different from the way you fellowship with Him when you are married with kids.

This is a time to allow God into every part of your life not only the part you want Him to see, to break you, rebuild you and mold you to how He wants you to    become.

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what women are like.

  1. Study how a woman behaves: To my brothers, if you don’t know what to do or what it means when a woman is quiet or how to handle a woman when she is low or high, then you are not ready for marriage. Mark my words. Use your mother, sisters or girlfriend as an example in your case study.

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plans

  1. Plan Towards the future: How is your relationship with children? What do you think makes them happy? You got to know all that before even thinking of getting married.

It is terrible for you to stay alive and your child wishes you were dead. Or wishes he or she was born to another woman/ man like you. As a woman, it is not a taboo if you try putting things down with your pen and work towards achieving that vision. it helps build respect and self worth.

 

  1. Domestic Insight: Being a slay Queen will not solve this one My sister, have domestic skills before even thinking of becoming a married woman.

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Did I say you should become a chef? No, but you need to learn how to first of all, keep yourself clean, your home, that includes kitchen, bedroom, sitting room, bath/toilet, the surrounding etc..

It is either you are in or you are out. And the worst part is that you will not only lose your home to a strange woman from outside but an insider which maybe your house help.

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Self improvement

  1. Improve yourself: Don’t be a boring fellow, try and make your life interesting in a way that pleases God, that people who comes around you would want to stay not coming in and stepping out.

 

While waiting for marriage, learn new things, it can be a skill, trade etc, engage yourself in activities, Church activities, seminars, read books that will help you in self-improvement etc don’t expect marriage from every single man that tries coming close to you, because you will scare them away and that’s desperation.

 

You just have to wait upon the Lord before you rush and miss what God had planned for you.

 

Let your physical appearance speak a clear language to people concerning you. i.e. don’t be 23, 24, 25 etc. but your appearance is speaking 32, 34, 35 etc. 30 Relationship advice for men and 20 relationship advice for women

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Value

 

  1. Value comes before treasure: if you don’t learn to value what you have, you can’t treasure it. Perhaps, your heart lies where your treasure is.

Value yourself, your family, your friends etc. don’t live I don’t care kind of life because it won’t help you in the quest of getting marry.

 

  1. Study life: Life is full of so many things, you cannot discover these things if you don’t study and have some experience in life.

 

How will you train a kid or rebuke a kid if you have no experience about life itself? So you have to prepare yourself for what you want to become.

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Communication

 

  1. How to communicate: It is said “communication is the key”. And you can only learn how to communicate and interact with people while you are still young, single. Learn how to listen, talk without making sounds and also understand reactions.

 

Learning how to communicate when you marry may not help your marriage.

You want to know why?  You are your spouse partner in dealing with people. as a wife or a husband, if you did not learn reactions without words, you may not understand when your husband needs your backup in a discussion with friends or when he or she needs your help in stopping a communication on subject she has no interest on or she is bored with.

 

Also, it is just like applying for a secretary job before even knowing what is involved in being a secretary.

 

  1. Learn how to tolerate people: when you are married as a woman or a man, you will see different kinds of people with different kind of drama, from different background.

 

Some will be coming to run your home for you, some will be coming to spoil it for you, some will stay as commentators, spectators etc watching.  If you never learn how to tolerate or handle such people while you were alone or while you were preparing for marriage, my dear, you won’t be able to deal with it now.

 

  1. Have a biological knowledge of sex: when I say biological knowledge of sex, I mean have an insight what sexual satisfaction is all about and why it is necessary in marriage. You can learn that by reading books, a marriage counselor, or a medical practitioner. 3 VIEWS ABOUT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

 

  1. Learn how to do multitasking: As a girl or lady, learn how to wash dishes while putting food on fire, learn how to sweep the floor while boiling water, etc. when you learn how to do these things, you will be able to handle your kids especially in the morning while preparing them for school.

 

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  1. Have a pre-medical knowledge: having a pre-medical knowledge is a good start in raising a family. Is not every headache, pains, stomach egg etc. that you should make a big deal out of it.

 

With a pre-medical knowledge, you will know some few first aid treatment to give to your kids or husband when temperature is high and when to use a paracetamol.

 

  1. Domestic security: It has to do with your dealing in the house especially at night, in your kitchen etc. be alert, put things in places it should be, before you go to bed, lock your doors, light out, kitchen running tap off, electrical sockets off etc.

Doing these few things while at your mother’s house, your own house etc. can help you to be domestic alert even when you get married.

 

  1. Improve your vocabulary: Some ladies can be so abusive, and they need to work on that before even thinking of getting married to a responsible man. Using words like why are you behaving so foolish, are you that stupid etc. is like a slap to a man’s face.

 

  1. learn about people’s culture: learning about other’s people culture I better than planning to adopt to it when you are married into it. Learning it now before saying yes I do, is the right stage to know if you can fit in, or you can’t.

 

 

  1. Learn to adopt, adjust and give respect to other people’s hobby: How do you react when your brother’s are watching football in the living room while you had a program you needed to watch by that same time? And vice versa, this will help you on how to handle such, when you are married.

 

  1. Learn to respect people’s privacy: respecting people’s privacy will help you in sustaining your life time on earth. There are things you will see in people’s phone that if not taken care of, it can result in heart attack. Learn to knock before entering someone’s house, room etc.

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QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE MARRIAGE

In marriage, love is not always enough, marriage has to do with commitment and compromises etc. that’s where questions to ask before marriage comes in.

  1. How is your relationship with God and people around you?
  2. why do i want to marry?
  3. Do you want to have kids?
  4. How many kids do you want to have?
  5.  Can i adjust or fit into this man/woman’s kind of life?
  6. Am i taking the right step?
  7. Is God behind this marriage?
  8. Am i rushing?
  9.  When i start having kids, my body will change, am i ready for this change?
  10. If conflict arises as a man/woman, will i be able to handle it without involving my mum?
  11. what qualities does he/she has that makes me want to marry this person?
  12. What is his background like both spiritually and other wise.?
  13. Can i maintain this relationship I’m starting both with the family?

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30 Relationship Advice For Men

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 Relationship advice for men and relationship advice for women: For a healthy relationship

 

advice for menRelationship advice for men;

Taking your wife to the bed from the living room when she sleeps, will make her feel like a baby and loved. The fact remains that every woman wants to be treated and care for like a baby by their men, that’s one of the reasons women behave childishly most times.

You arguing with your wife and the next thing she does is by her putting her bags outside the house, that doesn’t mean she is fighting for a divorce, she is just looking for your attention, she just wants you to hold her, tell her softly” I am sorry Honey, you know I love you so much, my life will be incomplete without you so please stay”.

One thing you need to know is that that’s women for you and there is nothing you can do about it because is nature. As a man, you need to have an insight into what you are going into and how to live with them but that doesn’t mean that you will get to know all, but at least you will know how to read and interpret them when needs arise. With insight, it will be easy for you not to have a problem in your home.

Although there may still be some slit issues, which is normal, that’s because there is no perfect person except God and for the fact that you both are from a different background so imperfection is bound to take place.

My advice for you that wants to go into marriage, read books, articles about marriage, child care, the ups and downs of marriage, please don’t think that once you pay the dairy, that it. My brother is not, perhaps, that’s the starting point. So don’t just jump into it and expect that everything will be alright. Because that’s where your problems will start. Let me ask you, has your mother ever shouted at you, or nag almost on everything you do? How did you feel? what was your reaction?

You are your wife’s first son, no matter the age gap the fact remains.Is not every intentionally or mistakenly steps your wife takes which displeases you that you should react to, it might a play, if mistakenly, it might not be her fault, perhaps no one is above errors in life, so as a man, learn to tolerate and ignore somethings instead of shouting at her or raising a finger against her.
Relationship advice for men, any man quote my word, Any man that raises his hands against a woman, is less than a man right from that very moment. as simple as that.

Playing games like whot, spelling bee, hide and seek, pillow fight, singing competition, acting, cooking, etc is not a taboo. It helps in spicing the relationship up. To assist her at home with chores, in the kitchen either with onions, yam, boiling of water, plates, etc it won’t make you less than a man, and even though she teases you while doing this, my brother, inside her she is saying ” Thank God for giving him to me” “God I can’t thank you enough because I’m a very lucky woman on earth”.

Be romantic even if you are a pastor, you still need to be romantic with your wife at home not only in the bedroom.
If you don’t know how to be romantic, I will tell you a few. Tickle her at times from behind, blindfolds her when you have a surprise for her, have a romantic dinner with her, I’m not talking about normal dinner you have with her regularly, am talking about a special dinner, with a glass of fine wine, candle, flowers and cool blues.

Text her regularly, you may say I don’t have anything to write, you don’t need Wikipedia, or apps to use in composing, tell her how you feel about her with a three-letter word ” I LOVE YOU”. “I MISS YOU”. “I NEED YOU”. Kiss her always, give her an unexpected kiss.

Use eye contact to communicate with her even in front of people, or your friends. I mean romantic eye contact signs. Although most flirting guys know this particular relationship advice for men that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use it perhaps, you are trying to flirt with your wife. So, my brother, is your wife go ahead.

Always remind her how much you love her, how your life could have been without her in it. Tell her how beautiful she is. How she has made you a better man.

These are the few things for being romantic for relationship advice for men.

—– Relationship Advice for men, don’t wait until a woman opens up to you and tells you, that you are not romantic. and note this When a woman says you are not romantic, she isn’t talking about being romantic in the bedroom
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So learn to understand women’s language, it may not look simple and yes it is not simple but it is not impossible to get there. work on this relationship advice for men and she won’t say that you are not romantic.

 

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advice for women

 

  • Relationship Advice for women;

As a woman, it is also your responsibility to be romantic also. Being shy shouldn’t come in between you and your husband, instead of being like a stick, learn to be romantic to keep your man.

The good things your husband do to make you happy, trying doing same for him don’t say doing that will show him your weakness because my dear, if you keep having that mindset that showing a man how much you love him too will give him a room to hurt you, I will say, you are wrong.

Note this, A man that wants to cheat on you will still cheat on you.

 

 

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Relationship Advice for women; If you are a social media type, learn to chat with your husband and not other men even while sitting right in front of him. Tell him how handsome he looks in his pictures, flirt with him. If you don’t know how, try and recall the first day and date you two had, then try to use the same method with him, ask him out on a date, etc.

Buy him flowers too, surprise him with gifts no matter how small it is. When eating, act like a baby let him feed you. 8 reasons why you should use romantic words

— Relationship advice for women; there is something behind a warm welcome with a smiling face to your husband instead of an angry face. Don’t let the conditions in the house to destroy the love you had with your husband. Because that situation may be solved but you might not be able to gain him back.

Welcome him with a nice fragrance, get a perfume, not Maggi or pepper fragrance. Learn to be near both in and out. welcome all times no matter what, not until he receives a salary or until he gets you a present.

— Relationship advice for women;

Be a supporter, an adviser to him, be there for him during his ups and downs, learn to encourage him not weigh him down, when friends turn their backs on him, don’t join the multitude, be a sister, a friend, a comforter, a lover, a mother, and his love.

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Give him that soft kiss telling him that everything will be okay. Go for romantic/intimacy books, use relationship article sites, be enlightened.

— Relationship advice for women; If you have a son by name Peter or a daughter by name Caro, don’t call him ” Papa Peter” or “Papa Caro”. learn to call him pet names, tease him, pet him, when he is sick, be there for him, don’t shout at him when he tries acting up, just learn to follow him up because that’s his turn and his moment.

 

— Relationship advice for women; Learn to respect and honor your husband no matter the age difference both inside and outside. Marriage is for people who are ready to sacrifice. and it takes to sacrifice for love to stand. It is not a bed of roses.

Pray always for your marriage, yourself, your home, your good wishers too, etc. Prayer is one of the keys for marriage to stand no matter the circumstance, it still stands its ground. so pray without ceasing.

Important relationship questions you need to answer

  1. How prepared are you?
  2. Are you ready to adjust to the changes that will occur?
  3. Are you ready to operate as a team?
  4.  As a woman, your body will change, are you okay with that or will you blame the man?
  5.  as a man, will you say I don’t love her again, she has shared, she wasn’t like this when I got attracted to her?
  6. Are you ready to fix your issues without running to your parents, siblings to step into your home just to handle a family crisis for you?

 

If you are a man, follow this relationship advice for men, and if a woman, follow this relationship advice for women.

 

 

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IMPORTANT SIGNS SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU

 

If you see the signs she doesn’t like you, or she doesn’t want a relationship with you. then you need to change your game and sit up. As simple as A, B, and C. Everyone can’t wear the same size of shoes nor clothes that’s where the individual difference comes in.

In a relationship, we all know what we want before we go into it.

 A relationship is not something you should go into blind, nor neither go in blind expecting changes from the person.

N/B you can change the cover of a book or a page but you can’t change a whole book except you are ready to get a new book completely just like a human there will always be a part of us that can’t be changed, no matter how someone tries.

If she doesn’t like you, that shouldn’t make you feel bad or less of yourself, it simply means, she is not your type and she doesn’t like you as you are into her. How to show someone you really like them part 1

When this happens, never judge her, because you can’t fit in, in her shoes to know how heavy or tide it is. Just take it that she wasn’t for you or that she doesn’t like you.

 

  • WARNING SIGNS THAT SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU ARE LISTED AND EXPLAINED BELOW AS FOLLOWS:

 

  • Visions and Dreams.
  • Dressing pattern/ Physical Appearance
  • Relationship with your People
  • Circle of Friends
  • Emotional unavailable
  • Your presence irritates her
  • Avoid quarrel
  • She never accepts fault
  • Nothing ever pleases her

 

  • VISIONS AND DREAMS: The vision you have today about your life may be the opposite of what she has or want. Or she doesn’t even have plans yet. Therefore if your vision is different from hers, there is a possibility of her not to like you because she won’t pick interest nor see sense in what you do.

 

  • RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PEOPLE: Look out for this sign very important. The way you carry yourself and the way you relate with people will determine how people will see nor take you.

 

Watch out for her behavior with the people around her and watch out for her behavior when she is around you, get to know a little of her from people that know her, or children from her environment. Compare and contrast, then ask yourself, after hearing all these, can I still make my move? Or should I hold my peace and stay away from her?

 

Whatever the response is, then you take it. But note” don’t try to go and carry a woman who fights with her family almost every day, with her neighbors regularly, curses children frequently for friendship if you know that you can’t take it, or if you know that you don’t like such life. Is very simple that she won’t like you for long.

 

She may be ready to change but it won’t happen immediately, it will take time and God’s intervention for her to depart from such life. But if you can’t take it. Then the handwriting is boldly written and is clear that she is not your class and since you are not her class, she won’t like you and she doesn’t want a relationship with you. So don’t force it.

 

  • CIRCLE OF FRIENDS: Show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are. The company you keep determines how people address you.

You can decide to join a bad company because you think you can change them, but that’s not how the people see it.

 

All they see is that, you are their friends and if anything happens, you will also be suspected. Why?

Because you are addressed like the friends you keep. So choose your friends wisely. It is either you are in, or you are out, don’t try playing a CIA, stand in a distance to change whoever you want to change. Not until you join them.

 

So watch out for her circle of friends from there, ask yourself the same question “can I fit in? how will I be addressed by people when I start keeping company with her? And remember, your friend’s friends are your friends too.

If after trying your best to change her and she is still as she was, my dear, she doesn’t want a relationship with you and she doesn’t like you.

 

EMOTIONAL UNAVAILABLE: Being in a relationship with someone emotionally unavailable can be so hard that if you don’t control yourself, you can do something stupid.

Once she stops reciprocating your feelings, your love messages are ignored, a kiss doesn’t occur unless you take her by surprise, even with that, she goes mad and angry at you for doing such thing and for having a childish behavior.

It can be a matter of stress or her mind is occupied with something outside the relationship. it can be a sign she doesn’t like you anymore and she doesn’t want a relationship with you anymore.

So she has to act that way so that you will start complaining about her to use that against you as a nagging man who acts like a woman. 6 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE GETTING DUMPED

 

still, on warning signs, she doesn’t like you

  • YOUR PRESENCE IRRITATES HER: She gets mad at you for everything you do nor say, her mood chances mere seeing you coming, she avoids eye contact, she chats and laughs with others more than she does with you at home nor in public. you start feeling like a liability inside of you, it means she doesn’t like you.

 

  • AVOID QUARREL: Most times, quarrels do not come to weaken us but to strengthen us. It is normal for a quarrel to involve in a relationship, friendship, siblings, etc. A relationship with the absence of a quarrel caused by misunderstanding won’t last, quote me right.

If she starts avoiding quarrels because she doesn’t want to sit down with you to talk things out, then she doesn’t like you and she doesn’t want a relationship with you. so with this, she knows very well that the relationship is going nowhere, so what’s there to talk about with you.

  • SHE NEVER ACCEPTS HER FAULT: She is Ms. Right, every other person is wrong, only she is always right. You are always at fault, if the relationship isn’t working, it’s all your fault, if the tax wasn’t paid, is all your fault. Her family visits without your knowledge and you call her to have a chat just to know why she didn’t inform you first, she starts nagging, shouting at you, and even starts calling you names.

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  • NOTHING EVER PLEASES HER: You buy her Samsung she said No I needed Techno, You cook dinner for her, No, I want to eat out, you try helping her with her laundry alongside with yours, here she comes ” Who told you to touch not to talk of washing my dresses, are you trying to use me for selfish desires, pretender like you. Give me my clothes.

These are some signs she doesn’t like you

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  1. she is worried if you don’t call.
  2. She looks out for you.
  3. She speaks about your future not because she is seeing her in it but because she wants you to have a great future.
  4. She smiles even when your joke is not fun.
  5. She is open-minded.
  6. She makes your friends and siblings her friend.
  7. She gets you gifts even without an occasion.
  8. She blushes when you look at her while talking.
  9. she is shy when you make eye contact.
  10. She enjoys talking with you.
  11. She easily gets mad at you when you misbehave…

 

 

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The Rejected boy felix gallardo chapter 1

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The story of a boy felix gallardo

Once upon a time in a faraway village, they lived a boy of about 17years by name Felix Gallardo.

Felix was hardworking, tall and handsome, his mother died immediately after his

birth and he lived with his father. Mr. Gallardo was an asthmatic patient but the problem was that, he never told anyone including Felix.

So one day Felix left the house to the farm by the time he returned, he saw his father lying lifeless in the hut and he shouted and called for help.

Due to the mysterious dead, his father’s relatives decided to consult the gods of the land and in the process the boy was held responsible for the death of his parent.

Few days later after the burial of his father, he was isolated, life became hard for

him, kids, friends, uncles, aunties everybody spit on him mere sighting him.

He became an object of mockery and a topic in the mouth of everybody in the village.

He was later sent out from school. Weeks later, he saw he was dying of hunger so he decided to leave the village to anywhere the spirit will lead.

 

His journey took him to another kingdom called umoba village. In umoba village, Felix slept in an uncompleted building every morning he will wake up and move to the market to hustle, luckily to him, he started doing small minor job like carrying

goods for the people on his head just to make a living.

One faithful day, he went to the stream to take his bath after returning from the

market, he met some guys and kids around his age chatting, they were talking

about wheel barrow business like his own, so as he heard the topic, he went

closer to them so they accepted him into the team but the rule was that, they will

borrow him a wheel then he will be paying #500 every week until he completed

the payment which he accepted.

Felix started using the wheel to hustle more, at times he will carry goods from

people store to supply to the customers, Felix started making it little by little, he started saving money few months later, he rented a one room to lay his head, he was happy because when there is life, there is hope.

One day as Felix was returning to the market from where he went to supply goods, he saw a woman standing closer to a car, so he greeting her and passed, but when he passed he observed that something wasn’t right then he decided to

turn back to where the woman was standing and asked her what the problem was and why she was standing alone in that kind of lonely road which was dangerous for a lady like her.

The woman told him that her car broke down on her way back from the market, since Felix had no idea on cars, he decided to assist the woman with her goods to a nearby street where she can find a cap that will take her home.

The woman was so grateful that she decided to offer him money but he rejected it and told her not to worry, from there, the woman now said okay since you don’t want the money at least let me know your name and he said my name is Felix Gallardo ma and the woman said Felix Gallardo? okay thank you Mr. Felix Gallardo I really appreciate then he departed.

One year later Felix was 18years, he was planning on going back to school to finish his SSCE so he went to the market trying to negotiate with his customers that he will be coming in the afternoon and evening since he was starting school.

some agreed but some, where not okay with it, some said he was going to slow

their business, with the responds he got from many of them got him confused

and depressed but he all wanted was to go back to school so he left.

On his way out from one of his customer’s shop, he mistakenly hit a woman immediately he notices that, he went straight on his kneel to apologized to the woman but the guards threaten to beat him up but the woman stopped them.

And said to him,” stand up my son”, immediately he stood up, the woman recognized him and said to him” you are the boy that helped me that day that my car broke down

along the market road.” He said yes ma, good morning ma, the woman smile and

asked him how he was doing? He answered and said he was fine so the woman

invited him to her daughter’s birthday Felix accepted the invitation and later in

the evening, Felix decided to put on his very best cloth and shoes and left for the

party by reaching the venue he was surprise to see that the birthday venue was in

a palace so he was shy because he never entered such a place before. Five

minutes later, he decided to walk in, by the time he reach there, he was given a

seat at the back because his dressing already showed that he was a commoner.

When the guard who went to the market with the woman saw him, he decided to

inform the madam about his present. When the woman was informed, she was

happy that he came.

Few minutes later she came out to welcome her guests and Felix was one of her

guest that she welcomed. And later took Felix into the inner house and introduce

him to the king saying “Honey this is Felix….. felix gallardo the young man who assisted me that

day my car broke down” Felix was surprise to discover that the woman was a

queen, so he kneel and greeted the king and the king was pleased to see him.

The king decided to meet with him and have a word when the party was over.

Immediately the princess came in and said mother, father, how do I look? Then

the father responded my baby, you look like a princess and she responded

immediately and say to the father, that’s because I am a princess. (they all

laughed together). She was 15years old, dark, tall and beautiful. So Felix greeted

her and she greeted back in return then the king introduced them. Then the

princess smile at him and said Hi Felix am princess Nora, thanks for assisting my

mum the day she needed assistance I really appreciate. And Felix replied

and said you are welcome my princess. (they both smile at each other and parted ways)

 

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3 NEGATIVE EFFECT OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

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premarital sex is a sexual activity carried out between two individual who are not married nor planning to marry. it is called sex before marriage.

Few days ago, I decided to write an article on this topic sex before marriage but something stuck me to set it as a questionnaire which I did.

I started interviewing people both single, dating and married couple.

And the questions were “DO YOU SUPPORT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE YES OR NO? AND WHY?

Now this what I got from my audience as responds;

Anonymous 1 said “No, I don’t support sex before marriage. It’s because

1.Morally: it is wrong because the bible is against it.

2.Socially: it leads to wrong relationship, some thinks that sex is love especially girls.

While for most guys, sex is like a fun that’s why a guy can travel

far just for sex and men are polygamous in nature. While a girl is

easily emotionally attached.

Some do think that it is a way of knowing if your partner will

satisfy you in the future in bed but No, keeping yourself for each

other is better because no one will complain of one another, when

they both are learner learning together in marriage.

In terms of settling down- sex leads to confusion, they don’t know

who to choose why? It’s because,” A” doesn’t have what B has

but “A” is cute and tall but can’t treat ladies like” C” does, now

confusion sets in.

Many girl’s thinks’ that by satisfying a guy sexually will help them

to keep the man and with that, it makes them loose.

 

Sex carries spirits. The more sex you have with different guys determines how many spirits are following you. Cause is not guarantee that the very first man you sleep with is going to be your husband. Sex

also leads to extra marital affairs.

Real Reasons for sex before marriage

ANONYMOUS 2 said I will just tell you raw, “YES” I do support sex before marriage.

 

  • In terms of performance: sex before marriage helps you to know the ability of each other and apart from that, it helps you to know your stand example, you can’t be a man that can only last for ten (10) minutes in bed then you went ahead and end up marrying a lady that can last an hour and if not an hour, she is not even closer to satisfaction. And in this kind of case, what will you if you were against sex before marriage?

You won’t have a peaceful home and even if you try to fix the home by maybe deciding to involve a counselor, and she is asked what the problem was, she will say that you are not man enough. And why is she saying so? It’s because you can’t satisfy her on bed and it is not her fault neither is it yours but it is because you people are not compatible in bed.

 

  • In terms of wanting: they are many guys that loves kissing that is “they prefer kissing to sex while there are also many girls that prefer sex and touching to kissing. And now a days, there is how you will raise the question asking someone between sex and kissing which one do you prefer, and you end up looking like a pervert which you are not. So in this situation of our modern world, it is only during this emotional moment with her that you will know what she likes most cause that time, is when you will know the monster in any human being no matter how holy they may be.

 IS SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE A SIN?

 Anonymous 3 said “Nothing good comes out from premarital sex, which is sex before marriage except:

  1. THE SIN OF IMPURITY: (1 Cor.6:19). Our body is the temple of God. The bible says that God does not live in a Temple made by human hands. (1kings 8:27). Our body has been redeemed(Eph.1:7), cleasen. so premarital sex ends up keeping it unkempt.
  2.  UNWANTED PREGNANCY…
  3. frustration.
  4. stagnation.
  5. Untimely death.
  6. rejection.
  7. negative point of example to others.

Anonymous 4 said “ Many youth wants to run faster than their shadow and that is the reasons millions of them are suffering. Going into sex before marriage is a great sin before God. It attract dead sentence from God. It is a shame seeing youth of now a days spending their time and energy in sex and they can not be anything in life because they are curses upon themselves.

Now i ask, What is your own respond to this? feel free to drop your comment on the comment box, let others learn from your wisdom…

If you have a question, feel free to drop it too.

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