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THINGS TO NOTE IN RELATIONSHIP.

March 8, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

1. When you keep calm as a lady, you drive him crazy, keeping him thinking that there is

some thing peculiar about you.

2. When he sends you abusive message, do

not reply back with abusive word, if you must

reply. Write “I’m sorry”. Or thank you.

3. No man likes to be talked back to. If you

must be a wife material, just shut up. When

he is calm, talk things over.

4. Don’t be arrogant, be humble .

5. Don’t be carried away by your beauty.. Have

you not seen beautiful ladies that are still

single till date? Your character keep him.

6. Do not compare him with your EX. there

are thousand of other ladies out there. Forget

about the past, old things have passed away.

7 . Don’t always be at the receiving end, buy

him some thing, no matter how little it is,

whether he has thousands of it, just buy it,

yours is unique.

8. Be industrious, men like ladies with

industrious mind.

9. Respect him and his family members.

10. Be a good cook, learn how to cook

something. Some ladies can only cook

noodle.

11. Value yourself, and he will value you.

12. Because he doesn’t have today does not

make him poor, look at what drives Him.

13. Look out, if he is a time waster or he is

for real.

14. Can he “fight” both physically and

spiritually for you?

15. Where is He? In God’s presence or on the

other side.

16. If he stammers, when he is introducing

you to friends and family member. Run!

17. What you can’t change in HiM, now that

you are dating, am sorry in marriage you

won’t be able to change it either, or you will

spend the rest of your life trying to change

him.

18. You are dating and he punches you at

every slightest misunderstanding.. Sorry,

when you marry him, your bed room will be a

“changing room” and your sitting-room a

“boxing ring”

19. Every little time, he threatens to break up

with you. You start crying, if you leave me i

will die”… who told you? A better person who

will value you is coming. Relax.

20. Above all. Ask yourself! What is GOD

saying about the Relationship? May God open

your eyes if you are already into

one, and if you are still searching May God

lead you through amen

LOVE YOU ALL!!!

6 signs of emotionally unavailable in a person you need to know

March 8, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

signs of emotionally unavailable in a person

It is one sweet thing for you to be in love with someone and the person in return is in love with you too. but it hurts when you are the only one in love with the person yet the person is completely emotionally unavailable with you.

For someone to be emotionally unavailable, it means that the person is not completely in love with someone. because someone can only be available for you if they are in love with you.

Someone who is emotionally unavailable in a relationship is someone who is not ready to share his or her feelings with you, and no matter how much you love the person, she can’t love you in return except she starts opening up to you.

after all these, how do you know nor detect when someone is emotionally unavailable with you:

The truth is that, there is always a sign and down here are few signs:

1 You are invisible: Someone who is in love with you will always notice you, your presence, your dressing, etc.

When you are invisible to someone, you cannot be appreciated no matter what you do for them or to please them, and you don’t have to blame them because it is not their fault.

The only thing is that they are not emotionally available for you. that’s their heart is far from you.

2 They don’t play as a team: relationship or marriage includes two persons, and that means that the two persons have to perform as a team if they really want to succeed.

But when your partner does not care about your own ideas or contribution to anything done in the house, it means that he or she is emotionally unavailable in that relationship.

READ ALSO: How to make him to commit

3 Full of excuses: You are tired of everything, day excuses over one thing or the other day by day. It is not their fault, they just don’t know how to open up and tell you things the way there are.

So to avoid breaking your heart, they decided to be using excuses to cover up just so you won’t suspect anything.

4 Distance: Being physically distant from your partner is different from being emotionally distant from him or her.

Although they are some persons that do not welcome long distance in a relationship but emotionally unavailable is different from sight unavailability.

Spicing up your home or relationship will help bring back the emotions that were once there, that’s if it is not long gone.

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5 Not Ready To Commit: Someone who is not emotionally available to you, will never commit to you even if you shower them with gifts except there is another motive behind it.

But note this, no matter what the motive might be, and they decided to use that to fake the commitment, just wait and see that it won’t last because the person will start cheating on you with someone that he or she is in love with.

What are the causes of emotionally unavailability

Most times this does not happen because we want it to happen, but it just happens.

It can be caused by fear, yeah, someone who has been hurt before by someone will be very careful to commit again to another person to avoid being hurt again.

And in the result of that, becomes unavailable.

A business mindset is another main reason why some career men and women do not like to commit because for them to commit, it means that they will have to drop somethings.

And that kind of change? they are not ready, with this, they ensure they don’t put their hearts into the relationship thereby causing them to be emotionally unavailable in someone they are with.

10 Important Things a man wants in a relationship

March 8, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

If you look from a far distance, it may seem like a lot of men do not have a choice when it comes to being in a relationship but that’s not it, there are things a man wants in a relationship that if there are not found in a particular lady, they just move along or sit and past time.

From the very first and second day of your relationship with the man, he has already started scoring you in terms of things a man wants in a relationship likewise the lady.

What a lady wants in a relationship is kind of slightly different from things a man wants in a relationship which means that as a lady, the things you want from your partner in the relationship, your partner also wants the same from you.

So to get what you want, you also need to give it out.

1 A strong woman: a woman who can withstand whatever life throw at them, they still stand their ground and do not change along with the situation.

2 A caring woman: as a woman, calling your partner first to ask him how his day is going, does not make you less than a woman.

Calling your man to check on him is a sign that you care about his welfare too in as much as he cares about you too.

So as a woman, you must know that caring is one of the things a man wants in a relationship and they are not above being cared for also.

3 A motherly heart: You don’t have to buy gifts for a man before you can show him that your heart is with him. therefore how can you do this?

You can show a man that your heart is with him by trying all your possible best to be at his side when he is down or depressed. when he feels like talking to someone, give him a listening ear, Talk to him by giving him some motherly advice.

Distance may be the issue in this aspect of your relationship, but the truth is that you don’t need to be very close with your man before you can show him your motherly side of life that’s if you have one.

But if you don’t have, you will need to work on that because among all the things a man wants in a relationship, they need a woman who can speak to them as a mother could speak to a grow-up son but still with respect.

5 A supportive woman: To be a supporter, you do not need to be financially okay before you can support your man. Since your man does support you when you need it, don’t wait for him to ask you for assistance before you can make a move.

Note: It is not all men that know how to keep their pride as a man and then ask a lady for support. so know your kind of man and be there for him when he needs you just as he is always there for you.

6 A good home manager: A good home manager is a woman who does not showcase her man’s weakness in public.

A good home manager is a woman who is ready to cover up her man’s nakedness both in the house and outside. she speaks the same voice as her man when they are with friends.

She is someone who doesn’t make friends know that her man

7 A faithful woman: What many men use in knowing a faithful woman is when they are broke or pretend to be broke. But that’s not true, a woman who is not mending to be faithful to you will not be even if you are broke or rich.

A faithful woman is a faithful woman no matter your condition or your current condition in life.

As a man, all you have to do is show her love, don’t ever hide from her how much you love her if you truly do, and then sit and see her being faithful to you.

So if you are a faithful woman in nature, don’t ever give your man the impression that if he goes broke that faithful will depart from the relationship.

8 A secured lady: insecurity only generates an inferiority complex, and when a lady is so insecure in her relationship with someone, trust can never be built, and the relationship is likely to scatter in a short time.

No woman ever feels secure in her relationship and still has the time to monitor her man’s movements day in, and day out except if she wants an unhealthy relationship.

9 A woman who can cook: Although not all men that go for women who can cook as long as they are rich, they can always afford a servant.

But still, one thing you need to know is that “any woman who can control a man’s stomach, can control his heart”.

If you don’t know how to cook, then learn it, because one day, you may need it to surprise your man and also use it in getting your man back to the house.

9 A romantic woman: one of the things men want in a relationship or marriage is a woman who knows what being romantic in a relationship can do for the relationship.

As a woman, your man is trying to make the relationship or home lively with all he can, and with all his moves, you still behave as if you are not seeing it.

That kind of relationship will not stand. Learn to reciprocate love when you are given one, at times, be the one to generate it.

To make the relationship work, you must agree to work with your partner to make things turn out the way you two want it, or else, you will lose it when he is finally tired of trying.

And then start looking for another woman that will be ever ready to reciprocate it even more than he is showing.

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10 A real woman: A real woman is a woman who does not fake her personality just to get a man’s attention. A real woman is a woman who knows what it takes to keep a man.

She is a woman who knows that nagging and shouting are never a solution to a misunderstanding between her and her man.

She is a woman who knows that it takes more than physical beauty to keep a man.

Now you know a few things a man wants in a relationship, Who are you, and where do you belong?

Remember that whatever a man does in the relationship is indirectly one of the things a man wants in a relationship. that’s to say that he will not like to act the opposite of what he wants from you.

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How to Maintain a Relationship

March 8, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

How to Maintain a Relationship Long Distance

Being in love is sweet especially if you are with the right person but then even being with the right person does not guarantee that you will not have a breakdown in your relationship in the process when you don’t know how to maintain a relationship Long Distance.

That is why it is necessary for everyone who wants to be in love or who wants to find love while trying out a relationship with someone to know because it is only when you know how to maintain a relationship that you will be able to know if who you are with, is the right person or not.

But if you are confused if what you have been doing or if how you have been handling the relationship is great don’t worry because, in this article, we are going to discuss a few ways and things we can do to maintain our relationship that we value and don’t want to lose it. So keep reading because we all need this if we want to build a long term relationship

Before we start with the ways to maintain it, I must make some things clear. If you are in a relationship with someone who is close don’t say this article does not concern you because knowing how to maintain a relationship long distance can also be used to maintain a short distance relationship.

How to maintain a relationship long-distance and a short distance

Below here are the few ways you can maintain your relationship;

1 Never try to change your partner: I know you may disagree with me on this because your guy does not complain about the changes you are bringing upon him and I get it but let me explain it to you, change is good and everybody in one way or the other wants to change for someone who loves them and they love the person too.

But then when you are trying to change everything about him, it means transformation and that means you didn’t even love who he was you only accepted him because you knew you will change him to become who you want.

But let me ask you, after that what? A man wants a woman that will first love him and then touch some part of his life for a change but that does not mean that you should change him completely.

You have to learn to accept him for who he is and not who you want him to be. Try and touch things in his life but don’t try to change him completely because one day when he is tired of faking, it will be either he walks out on you or he starts cheating on you. Either of them.

With your love, your partner can choose to change on his own without waiting for you to point out his faults for him and that is how love works and not the other way round. Stop trying to change your partner. If he is not good for you, then don’t accept to be his partner as simple.

2 Value their dreams and visions: I know that their plans may not be the best way to handle some things but then before you try to control them, ensure that you first try and show them that you have an interest in whatever plan they have for life or whatsoever. Have an interest in what they have an interest in and never try to control them.

3 Communication: if you want a future for your relationship, never cut off communication. It is not everyone that enjoys phone calls but no one hates video calls, ensure that you learn how to do video calls with your partner.

Seeing her face and seeing your face helps generate something within the heart of your partner without you knowing. But if you want to know what is generated, check the eyes because the eyes can’t lie.

4 Take pictures: Physical attraction still works as one of the things that helps a relationship to stand. But how,

When you dress well, you end up making your partner focus his or her attention on you. Most times, you just have to learn how to dress to impress someone that you love so much in your life. Let someone be proud of you and your beauty.

There are a lot of other ways to maintain a long-distance relationship, but these are the top 4, and no matter what ways you choose, ensure that you don’t miss communication because communication and understanding are the keys.

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Here are 20 Simple Ways To Make A Girl Fall Deeply in Love With You

March 7, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

How to make a girl fall for you? If you’re interested in a girl, there are some ways to inspire her interest. It requires some time and effort but the process can be fun.

The challenge is not just to make her fall in love with you, but to ensure she continues to be with you even after the hormones calm down and reality sets in. How to make a woman fall in love with you? It is absolutely important to treat her right and you should also know what not to say or do. These pieces of advice will guide you in the right direction. The key to a successful relationship is to personalize the dating rules and etiquettes according to the situation to win a woman’s heart.

1. WORK ON YOURSELF & HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE
Just because you’re pursuing someone, you shouldn’t give up the things you love doing. Improve yourself and love the life you’re living because a relationship cannot fulfill all your desires. A very important first fact that you should bear in mind when you ask yourself how to make a girl fall for you.

Note: In the beginning, you would want to spend every waking hour with her, but you should learn the art of balancing. Women find confident, self-sufficient men very attractive – work on building it.

2. BE OPTIMISTIC
Girls don’t want to be with someone passive; always ranting about something, negativity becomes a hassle. Women feel it is acceptable to be emotional but it’s a deal-breaker when a guy cannot be optimistic.

Extra tip: Train yourself to be a man of positive thoughts and words and you will attract her.

3. KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING
To make a girl fall for you, you need to first start it right – approach her with an open attitude and with as much charm as you’ve got. Keep her engaged, be a little flirty, but don’t be too upfront. Make quality conversations and avoid small talk.

For example: Ask something unique related to her job or hobbies, and that will help you to keep the conversation low-key and let it evolve naturally.

4. RESPECT HER AS AN EQUAL
Well, you’re dating a modern woman – equality and respect should be the basis of your relationship and not power or control.

How to make a woman fall in love with you in practice: Speak to her courteously, recognize her potentials and she will begin to like you. Treat her well – ask her opinion on things that matter, appreciate your differences, and be mindful of your body language.

5. BE HER FRIEND AND MAKE IT FUN
It’s important to build that connection – when you take time to know her you have the advantage of knowing what not to do around her. Your relationship will get stronger when she can confide in you as she would with her best friend.

For instance: Find common interests and do things together. Have that sense of humor – she’ll love to be around you when you can ease awkward social situations, make her feel less stressed, and make her giggle.

6. BE ANYTHING BUT CLINGY
How to make a girl fall for you- the most important thing to avoid is insecurity. Attention-seeking, jealous, and too-curious guys are a huge turn-off.

Give her a fair space and she’ll pay you attention on her own grounds.

7. TAKE IT SLOW – THINGS WILL FALL IN PLACE
Don’t be that guy who’s forcing her to be your girlfriend. Being overly keen about her life, texting her too much, stalking her on social media, or buying her too many expensive gifts are acts that result in pressure.

Important: Slow it down for a better chance of long-term success – don’t rush the relationship.

8. DON’T MAKE YOURSELF TOO AVAILABLE
If she feels you’re always available, she is likely to take you for granted. Playing hard-to-get is desirable as long as you know to play.

Give her a chance to plan a date. Know how to make a woman fall in love with you by creating some space. The biggest benefit is it enhances the attraction.

9. BE CHIVALROUS
Chivalry is a virtue which you should consider as a fundamental dating advice for men along your dating journey. Learn how to make a girl fall for you by being courteous. Don’t just date her, attract her with your communication style.

For examples: Letting her order first at a restaurant, helping her with the door or her coat, or standing up for any woman – chivalrous acts are never out of fashion.

10. GIVE HER ALL YOUR ATTENTION
Be ready to give all of your attention this is a direct way to convince her to love you. Talk her through her problems and whenever possible offer help. Be consistent, considerate, and supportive.

Note: Paying attention is the most valuable thing you can give her. The outcome – she’ll feel special and will enjoy being with you. So, always remember to give genuine compliments.

11. BE WELL-GROOMED
Put effort into your physical appearance to make a woman fall in love with you. Nothing is more attractive than a man who looks clean, fresh and well-dressed.

For instance: Look presentable. Keep your nails trimmed, shave or keep your facial hair neat and always smell good. A body odor or a bad breath is the biggest turn-off for women.

12. STAY CONNECTED
Been on a few dates and still questioning how to make a girl fall for you? Share your feelings and ask her about them too. Even when you’re away from her, be in constant touch so she feels secure in your affection.

Important: Don’t ghost her and rather text her, call her, and plan romantic dates continously.

13. ACCEPT HER THE WAY SHE IS
The key to winning her heart is to accept her for who she is – without judging her or hoping she would change. If you’re expecting unconditional love, demonstrate you can be a supportive partner.

Bear in mind: If you focus on her flaws, you’re attacking her self-worth. Don’t criticize her thoughts and don’t try to change her.

14. BEFRIEND HER FRIENDS
Her friends and family can have a big influence on a possible relationship. You should find some ways to get her best friend to become your ally.

For instance: Show inclusiveness by inviting her best friends for lunch, asking their help to pick a birthday gift, and just building rapport with them.

15. SHOW HER OFF
How to make a girl fall for you? Be proud to have her. Girls love it when you show them off to the world and get territorial. They find it extremely romantic.

Note: Make that move only when you’re sure she’s into you. If she is okay with PDA – kiss her, carry her and show her off. Introduce her to your friends. It signals that you’re serious about the relationship.

16. CREATE INTIMATE MOMENTS
Cultivate physical and emotional intimacy over time. Express thoughts, desires, and vulnerabilities.

For example: Plan a romantic date or a holiday. Unexpected PDA, giving her a massage, or something as subtle as kissing her forehead – it can make your bond tighter.

17. MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL OFTEN
Girls love surprises – but you need not go overboard and buy something expensive. When you want to practice this strategy on how to make a girl fall for you, consider that little acts of love and kindness can come a long way.

For instance: Buy her flowers, cook for her, or send her sweet texts. You can run some errands for her or surprise her with her favorite food when you know she has had a rough day.

18. BE LOYAL
You need to show you’re faithful. Be honest and show emotional support. Make her your priority.

Important: Loyalty is also about recognizing her value and choosing to love her every day. If you two had an argument, try to resolve it. Don’t easily give up on her.

19. MAKE HER FEEL SECURE
Your girl should feel loved and cared for. Be a good listener. She should feel comfortable sharing her secrets and insecurities with you. And, never take her for granted.

Tip: Make her feel she can always count on you. When she is feeling low or wants to share something, be present.

20. EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS AND NURTURE THE LOVE
To foster a deep relationship, it is essential to share goals and dreams. Share new experiences together.

Important: If you have hurt her feelings, make sure to own up to your mistakes. Take responsibility – a key to make a girl fall for you and stay in love. Talk to her about the future; let her know you’re serious about her.

Questions for a New Relationship

March 1, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Questions For a New Relationship

Going into a new relationship can be so overwhelming, making us feel as if we are in cloud 9, and most times when this happens, it destroys our senses of reasoning making us not understand the importance of the 21 questions for a new relationship that everyone in a relationship should play with his or her partner once in a while.

Lack of this common understanding, increases the rate of breakups in the world today why? Because these important questions were not put into consideration at the foundational level when building the relationship. you can also check out successful relationship tips that will help you.

So in this article, we will be talking about those 21 questions for a new relationship that every one of us needs to know and also practice it with our partners or when we have one that’s for those that are single by the time of reading this article.

So without wasting much of our time, let’s dive into it and I hope at the end of this article, we will be able to turn our relationships around in the right direction.

Questions For a New Relationship

There are a lot of questions out there, but here, we are going to speak on just a few important ones that we are sure will help me and you so keep reading.

Note that the importance of these questions is to help you understand your partner and to know if you both are on the same page.

1 What is your life plan?

2 What is your favorite dish?

3 Are you looking for commitment or just fun?

4 What is your ideal kind of man/woman?

5 Do you ever think of getting married?

6 What can make you angry?

7 What is that thing you have done and you are still regretting till today?

8 What is your greatest fear?

9 Do you love kids?

10 Are you a career person?

11 Who is your role model?

12 Do you have a favorite song, if yes which of them, and if not, why?

13 Do you love what you do?

14 Who is your favorite among your parents, your mom or your Dad?

15 What do you love most about me?

16 Can you tell me about your life?

17 Who is that one person you could never joke with within your life?

18 If you were to be allowed to travel to any place of your choice, where would you like to go?

19 What are your hobbies?

20 What can someone you love do that can make you easily jealous?

21 What exactly is your plan for us?

There are a lot of questions you can ask your partner both the flirting questions and professional questions, etc. but these are the top 21 questions for a new relationship that has an assurance of helping people in a new relationship to get to know their partners.

Is it right to ask these questions?

Are you feeling like you are crossing your boundaries to your partner’s privacy? If you ask me, I will tell you, if your partner truly loves you and he or she is sure that what he feels for you is love, they will be very grateful that you pick interest in getting to know them.

This shows them that you are ready to work for the relationship also that is why you want to get to know him or her well.

They are some partners that will always expect this from who they are with but because you don’t ask them, they don’t please it up. They may look normal but to them, they feel like you are still contemplating the position you want them to fill in your life.

So asking your partner these questions are not wrong because you want to get to know the man or woman you are bringing into your life to become a part of you. You can check out these relationship rules that will help you build your relationship.

How do I know if he is the right one for me?

When you ask your partner about themselves, never take your eyes off them because once you ask a question that hits them, they will react even for a second and I don’t think you want to miss that.

Study them and their responses to your questions and if they have the qualities you are looking for in a man or a woman, then you can decide either to continue the relationship in a committed way or take it just for fun, or just give up on the idea of establishing something serious.

You can also know the right person through your interest in things, anyone that is right for you will have the lifestyle you want and will also have a few if not all, the same qualities and interest in things like yours.

There must always be something that drags you to the person in a way that you can hardly explain if asked why you love the person. Just pay attention to your partner during these questions time because it will help you make the right decision.

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6 Outstanding Answers to is dating a relationship You need to know

March 1, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Is Dating a Relationship

Are you confuse about where your dating or your relationship is taking you to and you are like is dating a relationship?

To answer that question is dating a relationship, I will start by saying that you can be dating someone for a month or even a year yet you guys are not in a relationship. So No dating is not a relationship.

1 Dating someone is just like trying to see if the person has what it takes to win your heart. Most dating are not already real that’s why most times, you will see people faking it just to bypass pressure from their parents or friends.

2 Dating doesn’t really have to do with a deep connection between two persons, it can just be for fun where a woman or man is still very free to tell someone that he or she is single and not committed.

3 Is dating a relationship; Relationship has to do with deep connection and commitment between two people. You cannot be in a relationship with someone if you are not really in love with that person.

But you can actually be dating someone without having to connect nor love the person deeply.

4 Let’s just say, dating is the first stage in a relationship. Yeah, there are people who prefer to date first before they can now take it to another level of relationship that’s if only things work out between both of them.

5 In dating, communication is not a must, but if you are planning on taking it to a relationship level then it is necessary because when communication is involved in your dating, it sends a signal to the other person that you are developing feelings for her or him.

6 Relationship has to do with compatibility, yeah, it is only during dating that you will know if the person you want to have a relationship with has what you are looking for in your boyfriend/girlfriend material list.

Read More: Signs that he is in love with you

How Long does dating take before relationship

Okay, since we have answered is dating a relationship, from there, we can boldly say that the time frame your dating takes before you start a relationship with the person is up to you.

If you are developing feelings for the person and you are certain that he or she has the principles you are looking for, then you can start a relationship with the person.

It doesn’t have to be six months or a year, some people do start it on the next day of their date while some start some months later.

So you can start yours once you are sure.

How do you know if you are dating or in a relationship

As I said before, a relationship has to do with the connection between two persons, so if you are with someone, yet you are not connected, no communication except when he or she is in need, then that is not a relationship, it is a dating.

So is dating a relationship? No it is not.

Do you still have any questions on this or anything relating to a relationship? Let’s reason it together. Problem changed is half solved.

3 Reasons you should get over the one that got away now

March 1, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

You should get over the one that got away

He is the one that got away, he or she broke up with me, he is the reason my life is like this now, etc So what? Does that mean that you are unimportant? Of course not.

The one that got away only got away because he or she does not know what you carry, he doesn’t know how special you are. Is the person’s loss, and not yours. so cheer up and live on with your precious life.

Yeah, life is precious that’s why you don’t have to waste on the one that got away because he or she did not deserve you or deserve to be with you.

Instead of wasting your life, and your time over someone that did not appreciate you, why not look at the brighter side that is coming your way.

When one door closes, another one opens. The same goes with a relationship, you can’t force someone to love you, no matter what you do for them, they will only stay as long as you continue doing it for them but once you stop doing those things, they back out.

You don’t have to blame them, they have discover that they are not good or perfect for you, therefore they now decided to step out, and leave your life instead of staying to waste it. Then why not cheer up and celebrate instead of lamenting?

The one that got away only went away so that the one for you will step in, and make your life colorful. The truth is that, the one for you will not come in as long as the one that got away is still in your life.

Do you still want to know why you should let the one that got away to go? Okay, if your answer is yes, then let’s continue.

1 Open doors: As long as you are still holding on to someone or something that is not yours again, you indirectly close doors to your new opportunities , and from meeting someone new.

Let me ask, Why do you want to close your doors when the one that got away as completely got away and he or she has moved on yet you lock yourself in?

The truth is that you will get old and start being an object of pity by friends, family members, neighbors, colleagues, etc. Don’t let someone come and ask you how you are holding up.

Although it is better another person asks you this than for the same man or woman to come and ask you “how are you doing”? This question is not just a how are you doing question.

It is a question to know if you have moved on or if you are still feeling frustrated. Then why do you want to give him or her that room to do such confirmation. It is worth it? ask yourself that question.

2 You Deserve better: Do you know how special you are? I guess you don’t so let me remind you. You were created with a beautiful future, a future to do great and mighty things, then why do you want to throw that away just because of the one that got away.

What is yours will always be yours but what is yours, can’t be yours no matter what.

3 Failure: Most people do think that once their relationship breaks up that they are failures, well, is not cool to have a broken relationship but it is very bad to have a broken marriage.

So if I want to ask you this question, what will you say “A broken relationship or a broken home”? Yeah, you have tried all your best to make the relationship work but yet he or she decided to still be the one that got away, do you have to destroy yourself all because of that?

To have a broken relationship does not mean that you are a failure, just take it as a step to being a stronger person before you get married.

Why do I say you should take it as a step? It is because marriage is not for the weaklings, you have to be strong to be able to run your home. If not, you will break down.

So don’t waste your time on someone who does not even care if you exist anymore. You are wonderfully and Fearfully made, Don’t let anyone bring you down.

Enjoy!!!

6 positive ways on how to get him to commit now

March 1, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

How to get him to commit

commitment is everything in a relationship that is seeing the future and also in keeping a home together, as a lady, love your partner so much that you are ready for commitment but how to get him to commit is the problem now.

You have tried your best doing everything you can just for him to speak up that he wants to commit to but yet, nothing, perhaps he does as if he is not noticing it. But that may be right, he is not noticing it because all you are doing is a sign to him that you are doing it for a purpose just to get something in return.

Doing this, only leaves the wrong impression, sometimes it makes it looks like you are desperate. The truth is that you can’t blame him for thinking that way because you are doing the wrong things at the wrong time.

What do I mean by doing the wrong thing at the wrong time? What I mean here is that you can’t actually do anything to make a man if he doesn’t want to commit and that’s the real truth.

So now that how to get him to commit is very important to you, I will just keep this article short and simple so that you will be able to get all the gist. It’s cool, right? I know.

Before you think of how to get him to commit just know that there is nothing special you can do to get him to commit if he is not ready to commit or if he doesn’t want to be committed to you.

But there are a few things you can do for yourself that will help, so stop thinking of how to get him to commit.

1 Love yourself: You can’t love someone if you can’t love yourself. It is called self-love. Loving yourself has a lot of roles to play not just in your life but also in your relationship and some of them are;

i. when you love yourself, you will know what the body needs and what it doesn’t need. that means you will ensure that you stay out from what is not pleasing the body including in your relationship that’s because you know what your relationship needs.

2 Learn how to cook: That aroma from your kitchen is better than the restaurant’s food. I don’t need to explain this further I’m sure as a lady, you understand.

3 Your dressing: Okay it is obvious that I like emphasizing this very point on almost all my advice to the ladies because it matters a lot. Your dressing may not be the only thing that keeps a man but your dressing has the power to channel all his attention to you.

But does this mean that you should walk naked? No please, you can dress decent and no man including your man can keep his eyes off you. It is called “sight attraction” getting attracted to what you see.

4 Be romantic: Okay this is another one, Romantic. this point will not only help you on how to get him to commit but it will help you on how to keep him committed.

When your man is trying all he can just to be romantic so that you will not see him as a boring partner, you also need to do the same.

You can start by watching romantic movies, reading love stories online, reading relationship blogs, and participating in a relationship forum where you can ask questions and answer questions based on relationships.

This will help you to start thinking in a different direction, which will help your relationship. Perhaps no man wants a boring woman as a wife.

how to get him to commit is to avoid being boring.

5 Love his family: some ladies can be so funny. Do you think that there is a man with his right senses, who love and values his family that will allow or be committed to a woman who disrespects his family, especially his mom?

Well, I don’t think. When a woman loves her man’s family, you will know, and when she is faking it, you can also tell.

6 Be real: Stop trying to do things just because you want to please your man, more than half percent of men love strong women. Strong women in the area of not claiming to be who she is not just to fit in.

It is better for a man to know the real you from the start because this will help him to determine if he will want to commit to you or not.

So the power of how to get him to commit is right in your hands, use it wisely and I tell you, you will get him to commit in no time.

Just be yourself.

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10 Outstanding Signs you’re ready to get married

March 1, 2024February 22, 2024 by Joy Ekpouko

Signs you’re ready to get married

Marriage is a beautiful thing that almost everyone wants to experience it even at a young age, all they think about is marriage. The truth is that before you get married, there will always be some signs you’re ready to get married in you.

Marriage is for mature people, the maturity in this aspect does not mean age difference it means maturity in your understanding, communication, and how you handle issues, etc.

But still, that does mean that a young fellow should get married just because you think like a mature person.

Note these ladies, there is no lady that is up to the level for marriage that she will not get a sign. signs you’re ready to get married. These come in different ways and some of them are some changes in the body system, the maturity of the mind.

Maturity of the mind has to do with the way of reasoning and manner of approach.

So now, what are the signs you’re ready to get married

1 Understanding: I still use this point because understanding is the number weapon if you want to have a peaceful home even a peaceful relationship.

“Your level of understanding determines how far, and how long your marriage will work”. How?

A woman who understands his husband including his work will not always be after explanation. Knowing that the man too is imperfect.

2 Age: By age, you should know where you suppose to be that means with age, one should know when her age is telling her that she Is due for marriage.

3 Provision: When you are not financial, okay that’s you can’t provide for yourself, you are still under your parents and also running to them for everything, is not signs you’re ready to get married is a sign that you are ready to step up and work hard.

4 Decision making: every decision we take in life matters a lot because the decision we take today has the capability to destroy our destiny and also has the power to build our destiny. So the ability to decide positively is one of the signs you’re ready to get married.

5 When you are with your true love: When you are just dating, you will know and when you are deeply in love, you will still know. So if you happen to meet your true love, don’t let her go. Because true love hardly comes by.

6 You want to have a home, not a wedding: Wedding is not everything has it does not signify a happy home. A wedding is just a day celebration but the main thing is what happens after the wedding.

7 You don’t feel single: don’t get married to someone just because all your friends are married, you now said: “what am I waiting for”?

Marry when you know that you are not still searching for love while in this relationship. when that feeling is strong, that you don’t start looking for another, it’s one of the signs you’re ready to get married.

8 Inner Peace: When you are ready to get married, you have a kind of inner peace with your partner that even you, cannot explain how, and, why.

This can only happen when you are with the right person. and when this kind comes into your life, and you are financially okay, then you are ready.

A man or woman who gives you peace, deserve to be deeply love, and not joke with.

9 You are okay with yourself: Nothing destroys a lady, like an inferiority complex. when a woman or a man is not okay with what he or she has, and still wants to try her neighbor’s own, it means she is not ready to get married.

10 You are a hustler: well, if you don’t know or learn how to hustle on your own, how will you be able to provide for yourself, and your family.

You don’t expect everything from your parents. so if you don’t depend on your parents for assistance, then you are ready to get married.

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